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‘Air Traffic Controller Parenting’ Could Help Build Teen Resilience
We’re all pretty familiar with the term ‘helicopter parent’, defined as someone who’s closely involved in their child’s life but in an over-controlling way.
According to Verywell Family, there are some positives to helicopter parenting – you’re more likely to know where your kids are and how they’re doing at school, meaning if they start to struggle, you can offer support.
But studies have found that over-controlling parenting can impact children’s development – and not in a good way. Dr Jenna Vyas-Lee, clinical psychologist and co-founder of mental health clinic Kove, is also a firm believer that this parenting style is fuelling problems with children’s resilience.
She previously told HuffPost UK: “It’s about building up a tolerance for the things being hard or difficult – if you never fall, or if every time someone catches you, where is the resilience building?”
Resilience – or the ability to cope when something difficult or bad has happened – is one of those things that we know is important for our kids to learn and build on throughout their lifetimes.
With one in five young people (aged 8-25 years old) in England thought to have a mental health disorder, and a health service that’s struggling to cope with demand, a lot of talk has shifted to boosting children’s resilience as a solution.
While it’s not exactly some magical cure, experts believe that encouraging better resilience in children and young people would help equip those with low-level mental health problems with improved coping skills.
Offering an alternative to helicopter parenting, public educator and health coach Dorian Johnson recently recommended ‘air traffic controller parenting’ as a way to help build resilience in children and teens. But what does that even mean?
What is ‘air traffic controller parenting’?
Johnson described this parenting style as being involved, aware and protective when it matters, “but you don’t grab the controls”.
Writing for Parents.com, he said: “Teens don’t need you to fly the plane. They need you nearby when conditions shift so you can help them correct their course.”
With this in mind, he said being an ‘air traffic controller parent’ involves:
- Trust. This might look like giving teens more freedom as they prove to you they can handle it.
- Observation. Being informed and observant, but without constant, direct supervision.
- Warning signs. Knowing the behaviour changes to look out for that might signal they’re struggling and you need to “check in with the pilot”.
- Emotional safety. Being open and honest in your communication, and letting them know they can come to you when they have a problem and you will support them, without judgment.
- Regulation. Staying regulated so they can co-regulate when things get tricky.
What does a counsellor think of this approach?
Counselling Directory member Bella Hird is a fan. “I think this is an excellent metaphor for parenting (or indeed, working with) teens,” she told HuffPost UK.
“For me, trust is one of the most important gifts we can give a teen because in showing that we trust them, we are teaching them to trust themselves.”
The counsellor explained that in her sessions, she is often met with adult clients who lack the ability to trust their capacity to cope, “because they have grown up with an anxious parent who has caused them to second guess themselves”.
“I love the idea that we are trusting the pilot, that we are here to support them to navigate by sharing what we know and observing if there is a need for support, rather than taking the controls and impacting their self-worth,” she said.
“The metaphor also works well because it assumes the teen to be the pilot (or the expert) in their journey (they get to decide the direction of travel, speed etc) and the parent takes the role of a resource to be drawn upon as and when needed.
“The emotional safety and the awareness of co-regulation is so important because if a teen learns that seeking help is a positive experience they will continue to do so in life whenever there is a need for it.”
Other ways to build resilience in children and teens
If you’re interested in helping your teenager build resilience, psychologist Dr Lisa Damour shared three tips with Unicef on how to do just that:
1. Encourage problem solving. This means resist the urge to jump in and fix everything when things hit the fan. Dr Damour recommends guiding them, instead, by asking questions like “what do you think you could try?” or “what have you done before?”
2. Teach them how to cope with disappointment. This can mean helping them to acknowledge disappointment instead of ignoring it. “Teach them to express their feelings. Reflect on what they can learn from the experience and then focus on what’s next,” suggested the psychologist.
3. Protect the building blocks of resilience. Lastly, Dr Damour pointed to all the important life habits we depend on to stay healthy – eating well, getting enough sleep, keeping active and nurturing relationships, all of which “make it possible for teens to bounce back from setbacks”.
Help and support:
- Mind, open Monday to Friday, 9am-6pm on 0300 123 3393.
- Samaritans offers a listening service which is open 24 hours a day, on 116 123 (UK and ROI – this number is FREE to call and will not appear on your phone bill).
- CALM (the Campaign Against Living Miserably) offer a helpline open 5pm-midnight, 365 days a year, on 0800 58 58 58, and a webchat service.
- The Mix is a free support service for people under 25. Call 0808 808 4994 or email help@themix.org.uk
- Rethink Mental Illness offers practical help through its advice line which can be reached on 0808 801 0525 (Monday to Friday 10am-4pm). More info can be found on rethink.org.
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Jason Bateman Faces Backlash Over Charli XCX Interview Questions
Jason Bateman is facing criticism over his line of questioning during a recent interview with Charli XCX.
The Ozark actor co-hosts the podcast SmartLess with Sean Hayes and Will Arnett, where each week a member of the team will introduce a surprise celebrity guest to the other two co-presenters, who they then proceed to interview.
During the latest episode of the Golden Globe-nominated interview series, the celebrity guest was Charli XCX, and as the hour-long conversation progressed, the Grammy winner, who is an only child, was asked if that’s something she’d want for her own future children.
“I actually don’t really want to have kids,” the 360 singer responded. “So…”
She was then pressed on why, to which she admitted her stance “could change” in the future, with Sean Hayes interjecting: “Oh, that’s none of my business.”
Charli continued: “It’s like – I love the fantasy of having a child. Like, naming it… sounds so fun. But that is exactly a sign for me as to why I should not have one. The fact that that feels like the coolest part about it, maybe I’m not ready, you know what I mean?”
Jason then told her: “You know, all that could change… I’m sort of backing into giving myself a half-assed compliment here, but my wife did not want to have kids, so the story goes, so she tells it.
“And she said once we started going out, and she met [me], she was like, ‘OK I think I could have a kid with this guy’. So you might find somebody…”
“Well, I’m married,” Charli then pointed out, having tied the knot with fellow musician George Daniel in 2025.
Charli then added that she “knew” where Jason was going with his line of questioning and was “looking forward” to pointing out that she’s now married, to which he quipped: “Maybe with your next husband you’re going to want kids.”
Since the episode began airing, many have been voicing their disappointment with Jason for raising such a personal and sensitive topic in a public setting, as well as for telling Charli she could change her mind after her statement about probably not wanting children…
HuffPost UK has contacted Jason Bateman’s team for comment.
Charli previously sang about her complex feelings about potentially having children in the future on the song I Think About It All The Time, featured on her Grammy-winning album Brat.
She previously said during a 2024 interview with Rolling Stone: “Am I less of a woman if I don’t have a kid? Will I feel like I’ve missed out on my purpose in life? I know we’re not supposed to say that, but it’s this biological and social programming.
“There’s a lot of pressure on women to not talk about that stuff super openly, especially not in pop music or in music generally; we’re supposed to be sexy and free and fun and wild.”
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Newslinks for Wednesday 4th February 2026
Mandelson facing full criminal investigation as Kemi piles on political pressure
“Scotland Yard began a full criminal investigation into Peter Mandelson on Tuesday. The move followed more damning revelations about the ex-Labour grandee’s relationship with paedophile Jeffrey Epstein. While he was a Cabinet minister, the former spin doctor repeatedly tipped off the tycoon about market-sensitive government plans, emails suggest. On Tuesday, the Government and ex-prime minister Gordon Brown got in touch with the Metropolitan Police, leaving the peer facing an unprecedented probe. It came as the Daily Mail uncovered further sensational details about Lord Mandelson’s dealings with Epstein, with whom he remained close even after the financier had been jailed for child sex offences. One bombshell email seemingly showed the pair discussing confidential negotiations over a £10billion Ministry of Defence contract while Lord Mandelson was business secretary in Gordon Brown’s government. In another exchange, on the day Epstein was released from prison, the pair appeared to joke about celebrating with ‘two strippers’ – with Lord Mandelson branding his paedophile friend a ‘naughty boy’ for making the suggestion. Lord Mandelson has previously suggested his status as a gay man meant he was ‘kept separate from what (Epstein) was doing in the sexual side of his life’. Among the three million pages of so-called Epstein Files released by the US Department of Justice are bank statements that suggest Lord Mandelson and his husband, Reinaldo Avila da Silva, received payments from Epstein totalling tens of thousands of pounds.” – Daily Mail
- Tories to force Starmer to publish Mandelson vetting advice using arcane Commons rule – Daily Express
- Tories seek disclosure of vetting process for Mandelson’s ambassador role – The Guardian
- Starmer to release Mandelson files – Daily Telegraph
- Starmer faces scrutiny over Mandelson’s appointment as police investigate alleged leaks to Epstein – BBC News
- Epstein paid Mandelson’s husband $4k a month – Daily Telegraph
- ‘Bye bye, smelly’: How Mandelson and Epstein seemingly ‘plotted against Gordon Brown during his final months in office’ – Daily Mail
- Gordon Brown lashes out against Starmer as his 30-year grudge against Mandelson boils over – Daily Express
Comment:
- A personal tragedy but a jaw-dropping scandal – Daniel Finkelstein, The Times
- When I met Peter Mandelson, I knew straight away he was rotten – Allison Pearson, Daily Telegraph
- Mandelson scandal shortens odds on Starmer following him out the door – Peter Walker, The Guardian
- Labour owes debt to giant of politics in modern era – Matthew Parris, The Times
- Mandelson may have indelibly tarred Labour as the party of sleaze – Tom Harris, Daily Telegraph
- Westminster could talk of little else… this scandal has left our political class quite numb – Quentin Letts, Daily Mail
Reform drops promise to scrap two-child benefit cap … but Braverman and Jenrick vote to scrap it
“Nigel Farage has dropped his support for abolishing the two-child benefit cap, instead calling for it to be retained to fund support for pubs. The Reform UK leader said he wanted to bring down the “exploding, ballooning welfare budget” and stop many families from claiming benefits for more than two children. The comments put the party at odds with Labour: Rachel Reeves promised in last year’s budget to abolish the cap. Farage said the estimated £3 billion saving from retaining the cap could be used to pay for tax cuts, including reducing VAT by half from 20 per cent for the hospitality sector and a beer duty cut of 10 per cent… Farage said that the two-child benefit cap would be abolished only for households where both parents were British and in full-time work. Reform estimates that covers only about 3,700 of the roughly 500,000 households with more than two children who are likely to benefit from Labour’s reforms, which takes effect in April. Reform sources said that Farage had been consistent in arguing the cap should benefit British citizens. Last May, he said that “lifting the two-child cap is the right thing to do” in part because “we believe for lower-paid workers this actually makes having children just a little bit easier for them”. Reform has gradually been shedding some of its most costly policies, including pledges made at the last general election, in an effort to convince voters and traders its plans are economically credible.” – The Times
- Reform blunder as Suella Braverman and Robert Jenrick vote with Labour on benefits – Daily Express
- Braverman and Jenrick ‘accidentally’ vote for two child cap to be removed in blunder – LBC News
- Nigel Farage pledges tax cuts for pubs funded by reinstating the two-child benefit cap – The Sun
- Labour’s push to lift the two-child benefits cap ‘will hand £25,000 windfalls’ to thousands of Britain’s biggest jobless families – Daily Mail
Comment:
- Our pubs are in peril thanks to reckless policies… here’s my five point plan to help save the great British boozer – Nigel Farage, The Sun
Tories promise to change employment law after bus driver sacked for punching robber
“The Tories have pledged to introduce a new “Good Samaritan” law to protect employees who use reasonable force to protect customers. The party said it would introduce the measures to prevent a repeat of the sacking of bus driver Mark Hehir, 62, after he chased down a thief who robbed a female passenger. Kieran Mullan, a shadow justice minister, said employment law needed to be rewritten to ensure employees who acted within their rights to use “reasonable force” to prevent crime should not be sacked. “The criminal law is clear on our right to use reasonable force to prevent crime and help the victims of crime. This case is not a one-off,” said Mr Mullan. “It is clear we need to ensure the right balance in employment law for employers and employees. Mark has put an amazing spotlight on this issue and we are going to act.” Kemi Badenoch, the Tory leader, who met Mr Hehir on Tuesday, said: “Nobody should ever lose their job for doing the right thing. We obviously don’t want to strangle businesses with more regulations. But heroes like Mark deserve our full support, because crime and disorder are in no one’s interest. So we will be working out solutions to support both employers and employees on the front lines.”” – Daily Telegraph
- Passenger whose necklace was stolen on London bus says ‘hero’ driver ‘didn’t deserve’ sacking – ITV News
- ‘Bus driver who punched thief made me feel safe’ – BBC News
- Victim of theft on bus feels ‘so guilty’ over hero driver’s sacking – The Times
News in brief:
- Kemi Badenoch has a chance to rebuild the Tories – Loic Fremond, UnHerd
- Britain’s shameful tolerance for terrorism – Jonathan Sacerdoti, The Spectator
- Stop preaching about politics – Marcus Walker, The Critic
- No, England’s countryside is not too white – Andrew Tettenborn, CapX
- Peter Mandelson will haunt Labour – George Eaton, The New Statesman
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Trump Scolds CNN’s Kaitlan Collins For Not Smiling
Trump lobbed the cliched insult at CNN White House correspondent Kaitlan Collins after she pressed him on the latest release of Jeffrey Epstein files, noting that his allies Elon Musk and Commerce Secretary Howard Lutnick appeared in the documents.
Trump brushed off her first questions, but the mention of Musk and Lutnick appeared to set him off.
“You are the worst reporter. No wonder CNN has no ratings because of people like you,” Trump said.
“You know, she’s a young woman,” he said to others in the room before turning his attention back to Collins.

“I don’t think I’ve ever seen you smile,” he scolded her. “I’ve known you for 10 years. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a smile on your face. You know why you’re not smiling? Because you know you’re not telling the truth.”
CNN “should be ashamed of you,” he added.
A network spokesperson praised Collins’ work following the exchange with Trump:
“Kaitlan Collins is an exceptional journalist, reporting every day from the White House and the field with real depth and tenacity. She skillfully brings that reporting to the anchor chair and CNN platforms every day, which audiences around the world know they can trust.”
The incident wasn’t the first time Trump took aim at Collins. In December, she became the subject of one of his Truth Social rants after she asked him about the rising cost estimates of his $400 million White House ballroom project.
“Caitlin Collin’s of Fake News CNN, always Stupid and Nasty, asked me why the new Ballroom was costing more money than originally thought one year ago,” Trump wrote, misspelling her name.
And when taking a question from Collins last year, Trump referred to her as a “very low-rated anchor.”
Trump’s spats with Collins go back even further. During his first term in 2018, the White House barred her from attending an open press event shortly after she peppered him with questions about his former attorney, Michael Cohen, and Russian President Vladimir Putin.
Collins said that White House press staff told her that her questions were “inappropriate.” Then-White House press secretary Sarah Huckabee Sanders issued a statement that said Collins was barred from the event because she shouted and refused to leave the Oval Office.
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Trump’s Ex-Ukraine Envoy: Putin Is ‘Afraid And Not Winning’
Vladimir Putin is “not winning” in Ukraine despite Donald Trump’s claims to the contrary, according to a former US envoy.
General Keith Kellogg, the US president’s Ukraine envoy up until last month, told BBC Radio 4′s Today programme that the Russian leader is “afraid” right now.
His comments come as Putin continues to bombard Ukraine’s energy infrastructure despite committing to a weeklong ceasefire with Trump just days ago.
Thousands of buildings in Kyiv are completely without power even as temperatures plummet to -20C.
Kellogg told the BBC: “What Putin is trying to do, he’s trying to break the will of Ukrainians.
“My experience from being in Kyiv, from being in Kharkiv, that’s not going to work.”
He added: “If they can get through the winter, if they can get through the next, four, five, six weeks at most, then I think the advantage starts to swing to the Ukrainians.
“Russia is not strong. Russia is not winning this fight.”
Kellogg continued: “I think Putin is working from a disadvantage. He’s afraid, even though he talks big.
“He doesn’t have the combat power.”
Putin’s forces have endured more than a million casualties since he sent his troops to invade Ukraine in February 2022 and gaining land at a historically slow rate.
Peace talks are also set to resume between the US, Ukraine and Russia today in Abu Dhabi, even as Putin continues to initiate strikes on his European neighbour.
Still, Kellogg refused to describe the talks as “farcical”, telling Radio 4: “I think the fact is you’re talking and you’re keeping a dialogue open is important.
“The one who is holding up the peace process is not Zelenskyy, it’s not the Ukrainians. The one who is holding up the peace process is Putin and Russia.”
Trump has often blamed Kyiv for the delays in the negotiations despite plenty of evidence suggesting it is Moscow dragging its heels.
Kellogg also struck a tone of optimism about the strength of Europe.
He said: “I think Europe, writ large, is much stronger than they think they are. Let’s choose England: nuclear power. Use France: nuclear power.
“They’ve got forces on the ground, they’re building their force structure today. As time goes along, together Nato is a lot stronger than Russia.
“It comes down to raw power and I think you have to play from that perspective. Depending on the United States for the last 75 years has in fact weakened the alliance, not made it stronger.”
He also claimed the US military power means Americans can “go anywhere and do anything we want to do”, as demonstrated with its strikes on Venezuela last month.
“Our assets, combine them with the allies – and a lot of the allies have bought American equipment – just shows how powerful the Americans and the allies are,” the ex-envoy said.
Touching on concerns that Ukraine will have to give up more sovereign land in the name of peace, Kellogg insisted the loss of territory would only be “in the near-term”.
“When land is given up, hopefully it is given back,” he said. “In the long-term, as long as you end this conflict, have a reset, allow Ukraine to build up what it wants to build up – 800,000 troops, the largest military in Europe.”
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Labour Backbench Anger Forces No 10 To Release Mandelson Documents
Keir Starmer is to publish key documents about Peter Mandelson’s appointment as the UK’s ambassador to Washington in a bid to avoid a massive Labour backbench rebellion.
Tory leader Kemi Badenoch has tabled a motion which, if passed by the Commons, would force the government to release the behind-the-scenes communications prior to Mandelson landing the plum role.
The move comes after police launched a criminal investigation into allegations the former Labour business secretary passed market-sensitive information to his friend, the convicted paedophile Jeffrey Epstein, about the government’s response to the 2008 financial crash.
Downing Street has previously refused to publish the communications between senior government figures which led to Mandelson landing the plum diplomatic role a year ago.
He was sacked just seven months later after it emerged he had maintained contact with Epstein even after his conviction for soliciting a child for prostitution.
Labour MPs had made it clear to party bosses that they were prepared to vote for Badenoch’s motion, raising the prospect of an embarrassing defeat for the government.
A senior Labour source told HuffPost UK: “We can’t whip our MPs to oppose this. There’s no chance they’ll protect him.”
Backbencher Clive Efford told the BBC: “Every Labour MP will be absolutely distraught at what he has done to our party and feel really let down, and they all understand that warts and all this has got to be put out in the open.”
Richard Burgon MP told Sky News: “How on earth did [Mandelson] end up being appointed by the prime minister to the key role of ambassador to the United States of America? It’s quite incredible.”
He added: “We cannot have a situation where the government is dragged kicking and screaming to do the right thing.
“What’s really important is that we know exactly what happened which resulted in Mandelson being appointed US ambassador, so that means a paper trail.
“It also means knowing who pushed for it, who warned against it and who tried to overcome those warnings.”
Starmer has published his own motion pledging to release the documents, apart from those relating to national security or that could harm relations with other countries.
Health secretary Wes Streeting said: “The prime minister’s going for maximum transparency here.
“He’s obviously drawing a line that people would understand and agree with, which is not releasing information where it might compromise our national security or where there might be information that might undermine international relations with other countries.
“Apart from those exceptions, the prime minister is going for real transparency here.”
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Brooklyn Peltz Beckham’s Father-In-Law Reacts To Family Drama
Brooklyn Peltz Beckham’s father-in-law has spoken out about the public drama his family has found themselves at the centre of in recent weeks.
For the last few months, speculation has been mounting that Brooklyn is no longer on speaking terms with his parents, Sir David and Victoria Beckham, finally breaking his silence in a series of now-infamous Instagram posts last month.
In these posts, the Beckhams’ eldest son accused his parents of “performative” and “controlling” behaviour throughout his life, while also claiming they have “endlessly” tried to “ruin” his relationship with his wife, Nicola Peltz Beckham, to whom he’s been married since 2022.
On Tuesday, Nicola’s father, the billionaire Nelson Peltz, appeared at a WSJ Invest Live event, where People reported that he was asked “negotiating high-stakes situations, particularly playing out in public view” in light of the drama surrounding his daughter and her husband.
“Has my family been in the press lately? I haven’t noticed that at all,” the 83-year-old quipped.
“My advice is to stay the hell out of the press. How much good did that do?” the entrepreneur and investor continued. “My daughter and the Beckhams are a whole other story. That’s not for coverage here today.
“But I’ll tell you my daughter’s great, my son-in-law, Brooklyn, is great, and I look forward to them having a long, happy marriage together.”

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Since Brooklyn’s posts, his famous parents have remained tight-lipped on the much-publicised family fall-out, and their representatives have not responded to HuffPost UK’s requests for comment.
However, during an interview in the immediate aftermath, Sir David did make some well-timed comments about the “mistakes” that can be made on social media, particularly by younger people.
“Children are allowed to make mistakes. That’s how they learn,” he said. “That’s what I try to teach my kids. But you know, you have to sometimes let them make those mistakes as well.”
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Those demanding the Conservatives address their recent past could do with doing the same themselves
“The Reform Party is nothing but a hotchpotch, a mess, a corpse infested by waifs, strays, weirdos, charlatans and crooks, offering the whole political spectrum from the seriously deranged to the criminally insane”
It’s a spicy line to start with, but before Reformers blow a gasket and accuse me of libel there is something they should know. This line was written by satirist Mark Taverner, in his novel “In the Red” who died in 2007, eleven years before Reform UK were founded – as the Brexit Party – and was actually written in 1989.
In 1989 Nigel Farage was still three years from the founding of UKIP. He was then a commodities broker and metals trader and even he’d admit, probably with a grin, they were a gaggle who had their fair share of ‘charlatans and crooks’. But the quote cannot have meant his current political vehicle, first in the polls, and positioning itself for Government.
Besides, outwardly Farage is Teflon-coated to accusations his outfits are full of misfits.
His reaction in 2004 to the accusation from the then Tory leader, Lord Howard, that UKIP was filled with “cranks and political gadflies” was to have a tie made, adorned with both the tool and the insect, for members of a dining club of the same name, in Brussels!
He is, and always has been very good company socially, whatever you think of his politics. As is Lord Howard for that matter.
Attending one of these events at Nigel’s invitation twenty years ago was how I first met him. He wasn’t leader at the time, but chatting it became clear he would be. However the only ambition he’d admit to was his “own show on LBC, that would be brilliant. Did it before and loved it’” You can hear him saying it.
His ambition now is still to ‘lead Britain’s conversation’ – not from LBC’s studios but 10 Downing Street.
Many of Reform’s outriders have nearly as long an association with Farage. Reform UK may be a new insurgent party but many of its passengers and drivers – those not pushed under the bus for ‘disloyalty’ – are old hands in the insurgency business. Some of them demand the Conservatives don’t just recognise past failings, but crawl in ‘shame’. Arron Banks and newbie Zia Yusuf, a Tory until Aug 2024, like the language of snivelling abasement as the Tory price for sharing the same air!
Imagery aside I’ve said before, they and Tory defector Robert Jenrick make a challenge to the Tories that should not be airily dismissed but addressed. This site has seen Tories argue the same in order to avoid the risk of looking like they don’t need to.
It is bizarre to criticise the Tory Government as ‘a total failure’ whilst simultaneously welcoming some of its players into your ranks but there is still a feeling that – even if changing under Kemi Badenoch – the Conservatives haven’t changed enough or fully accepted why the electorate rejected them in 2024?
Suella Braverman says: “The truth is no Tory Party Leader has ever wanted to stop the boats or cut migration”.
Now despite the fact that measures brought in November 2023 by the Conservative government she’d just been removed from, have significantly cut migration – and if only someone like her had been in a position to do that, as, say, Tory Home Secretary – her defence is, the same as Robert Jenrick’s as Tory Immigration Minister; that they tried but Rishi Sunak wouldn’t let them.
It’s hard to utterly dismiss that, when the Conservative leader, who has put the entire party ‘under new management’ says similar; that she argued in Cabinet for certain courses of action but that she wasn’t ‘in charge then’ when challenged with why she didn’t do these things in Government.
Now in opposition, Badenoch and her shadow Cabinet argue they’re relentlessly focussed on the future. There’s a sound logic to that as people are crying out for vision. But having acknowledged the mistakes of the past, they’d have to accept it hasn’t landed as well as they’d have hoped. The argument about blame still continues on ConservativeHome, even this week.
Those who demand repentance have as many different things they want it for as people doing the demanding, but if the ‘new’ Conservative party has a shrewd idea of what the old party got wrong, then maybe it needs to say so more clearly. You own the future if you can leave the past comfortably behind, not burying it and hoping people forget. Kemi is improving her standing with the public but the brand still has a long way to go.
Reform also have a past. Much shorter but nonetheless instructive.
Farage said, early on, that he knew Reform would “come under more scrutiny than probably any other party ever has”. He wanted to make this sound unfair or conspiratorial but it’s neither, nor true. They are getting exactly the same scrutiny, which they deserve as serious contenders to govern.
They jettisoned their 2024 manifesto within a year, because they recognised it was economically illiterate. They supported the scrapping of the two child benefit cap – for months backing billions of spending on top of an already ballooning welfare budget – only to U-turn on it yesterday and supporting the ‘disastrous Tories’ who’d brought it in and wanted to keep it.
Reform councils, like many others, are putting up council tax having said locally they’d cut taxes, despite denials at the top. In an emulation of Trump’s America, they instigated DOGE into local authorities. Predictably, Cllr Paul Chamberlain, one of their cabinet members in charge of such cuts at Kent County Council, told the FT:
“We made some assumptions that we would come in here and find some of the craziness that [Musk’s] Doge found in America … and that was wrong, we didn’t find any of that.”
In Warwickshire the nineteen year old leading Reform on the council – age not in itself the weakness some make out – has admitted “I had to learn very quickly” before complaining about the ‘blockages’ officials had put in his way. Doge-meister Yusuf has yet to visit Warwickshire. These are less ‘failings’ and more a wakeup call that promising the moon often hits hurdles higher than bravado and slogans can overcome in delivery. Reform’s solution to national problems they claim they, uniquely, can solve, too often involve just bravado and slogans.
On Monday Farage launched a telling social media attack on Charlotte Cadden, Conservative Candidate in the Gorton and Denton by-election. A police officer for 30 years who wants “a proper inquiry on grooming gangs” and “to get rid of carbon taxes“, both policies he agrees with, instead highlighted a fun run she did 15 years ago, as somehow a symbol of the entire Conservative now. But don’t anyone ask him about things he did fifty years ago.
Conservatives are not going to quit – in Gorton or anywhere else – to help a party that insists it wants to destroy them, but the tragedy of trading blows over the past of both parties is that it distracts from directing ire and fire at the party in charge of the present.
The past, is Labour’s well of sour motivation. Deepest dipper is the Education Secretary whose entire ethos is to attack everyone, including her own party’s legacy on education, to settle scores from when she was a school girl in an A-line skirt.
The soul raison d’etre for the now farcical Chagos deal – that no amount of phantom billions ‘won’ in China will pay for – is to apologise, to the wrong people, for the ‘colonial’ past. Labour demand an apology for the mini-budget, an issue Badenoch has addressed more than once, and soemthing Farage supported, but Peter Mandelson’s past is apparently a closed book. Saw nothing, heard nothing, did nothing is not going to save Starmer and Morgan McSweeny was never going to bite the hand that fed, and is now punching him and his boss in the teeth.
L P Hartley once wrote “the past is a foreign country; they do things differently there”. Everyone in this now crowded political landscape is trying to express the same, but it might be an idea for all to visit it occasionally and say ‘you know what? We got that wrong’.
That goes for all politicians not just the ones you want it to.
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Robert Jenrick And Suella Braverman Accidentally Vote To Scrap Child Benefit Cap
Reform UK MPs Suella Braverman and Robert Jenrick voted to scrap the two-child benefit cap – even though their party is now in favour of keeping it.
The bungling pair accidentally walked into the wrong voting lobbies in the House of Commons on Tuesday night.
The five other Reform MPs who took part voted against scrapping it, in keeping with what is now their party’s policy.
One Labour MP said the mix-up showed they “couldn’t run a bath, let alone a country”.
Reform UK sources initially tried to claim that it was a “genuine mistake” by Braverman and Jenrick – who both defected from the Tories last month – and that their votes had not been registered.
However, official Commons records show that the pair did vote along with Labour, the Lib Dems, the SNP, DUP and Plaid Cymru to scrap the cap.
The motion to end the cap, which was introduced by the last Tory government in an attempt to slash the welfare bill, was passed by 458 votes to 104.
One Labour MP told HuffPost UK: “Reform’s attempt to spin this by saying neither MP registered a vote is just nonsense.”
Others took to social media to mock Jenrick and Braverman.
When the government announced last year that it was scrapping the two-child cap, Reform leader Nigel Farage said it was “the right thing to do”.
“We believe for lower-paid workers this actually makes having children just a little bit easier for them,” he said.
However, Farage now says the cap should only be lifted for households where both parents are British and in full-time work.
On Tuesday, he said Reform would use the money saved to fund support for pubs.
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Clark Vasey: Competence won’t win back Reform voters but a Conservative agenda focused on working people will
Clark Vasey is co-founder and Executive Director of Blue Collar Conservatism.
This is part 1 of 2 articles on Re-Introducing Blue Collar Conservatism.
As political activists, we naturally like political campaigns framed as a battle of ideas with a clear mission to transform things for the better. It’s why, despite the increasing passage of time, we still look to transformative Conservatives like Margaret Thatcher and Ronald Reagan. They defeated the left both at the ballot box and, most importantly, they defeated the left in office.
However, most elections do not look like that. Instead, they hinge on persuading voters that one side will be more competent than the other. David Cameron’s pitch accepted much of Tony Blair’s ‘modern Britain’; we would just do it better. Theresa May was ‘strong and stable’ until voters concluded she wasn’t and almost let in Jeremy Corbyn. Even ‘Get Brexit Done’ was about replacing a political class unwilling to get it done with one that would.
This mindset shaped candidate selection too. How often have we heard that Joe or Jane Bloggs has a background in business, the military, or whatever, ‘they will make a great MP’? This led to a tendency towards managerialism.
By the end of our time in office, too many of our entrenched problems stemmed from Blair-era reforms we left untouched or shamefully expanded.
Today, we face a Labour Government of astonishing incompetence. Its unimaginative socialism offers only higher taxes and more intervention, each compounding the last problem it created.
Kemi and her team are in another league when it comes to capability. However, we must resist the temptation to make the ‘competence’ of one group of people over another our central pitch. It will not work.
The end of the two-party system has changed the rules. Labour’s failures no longer send voters back in our direction. Labour’s collapse in the polls shows people understand how utterly useless they are, but less than two years ago many drew a similar conclusion about us. Reform’s supporters share our diagnosis of Labour; they are just not looking to us as the alternative.
We rightly point out how much worse things are since we left office. But the state of Britain in 2024 was not a winning formula. Talking about getting back to what we were beginning to achieve in government will fall far short, especially when you consider the voters we need to convince.
Labour and the left are our enemy, but if we are serious about winning, we must attract significant votes from Reform. There are too many of these voters for us to write off and there is no fantasy centrist coalition to replace them with.
More than a decade ago, Esther McVey and I founded Blue Collar Conservatism because we believed working-class voters had been taken for granted by Labour. We recognised that they shared our values and stood to benefit most from a genuinely conservative agenda. At the time, the leadership was still more interested in chasing metropolitan liberals, but we predicted that these voters would shift right.
2019 ought to have been a historic moment of realignment. Instead, many of these voters ended up feeling just as let down by us. The rightward realignment has continued but now largely sits with Reform.
Labour understands that working people are no longer part of its base. Its coalition is now a fraying mix of metropolitan left-wingers and state dependents. Labour’s approach to Reform has little to do with winning back lost Reform voters and everything to do with attracting the votes of Liberal Democrats and Greens. Keir Starmer’s increasingly unrestrained Europhilia will not appeal to Labour’s Brexit voting former heartlands but might convince enough Liberal Democrats to help block Reform.
Reform polling in the low 30s is uniquely blockable and they know it. Reform has squeezed Labour to its metropolitan core and there is no more juice in that direction. To build a base that can withstand tactical voting, Reform needs to take support from us in significant numbers. Recent developments have made that abundantly clear.
Our challenge is the inverse, but with greater numbers: persuading Reform voters to trust us.
We will not do this by attacking them. We will do it by presenting a better, clearer alternative. We once talked about ‘love-bombing’ Liberal Democrats (I know, I hate that phrase too), but a similar mindset is required here. We must show Reform voters that we understand their frustrations and yes, their scepticism of us. We must convince them that we will do what we say we will do, and that never again will we take right-wing votes to pursue left-wing outcomes.
We all have family and friends who have gone over to Reform. Many of those who have been involved in Blue Collar Conservatism are now prominent Reform figures. Their values are fundamentally the same as ours. They want what we want: a country that works.
We just need to convince them that we are the best vehicle to deliver an agenda that works for ordinary working Brits.
Blue Collar Conservatism exists to do exactly that: to reshape Britain into a country that works for working people by delivering a programme of national renewal built on a relentless focus on jobs and opportunity, and ensuring Britain’s place in the world by maximising the potential of its people.
In Part Two, I will set out what this means in practice.
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