If you had told me in 2020 that Alex Cooper was interviewing Vice President Kamala Harris on Call Her Daddy, I would have looked at you like you had two heads. But we’re living in a brave new world, and from my perspective, there’s no one I would rather hear talking about the future of women’s reproductive rights in the U.S. for 45 minutes than the pioneer of the gluck gluck 3000. This Sunday, Alex Cooper hosted 2024 presidential candidate Kamala Harris on Call Her Daddy to discuss the upcoming election, and it’s sent the Daddy Gang into a tizzy.
While some are criticizing Alex Cooper, who rarely covers politics on her sex-and-dating-focused podcast, for having Harris on her show, the interview yielded some pretty important takeaways. From revealing how Vice President Harris views the complex issue of women’s reproductive health to showing exactly why women’s media is always political, here are five takeaways from Alex Cooper’s interview with Kamala Harris.
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1. Women’s reproductive rights are a crucial issue in the 2024 election.
At this point in election season, you’ve probably seen a lot of interviews with both candidates circulating on social media. However, it’s rare for an interviewer to focus on one single issue for their entire allotted time with a candidate. On Call Her Daddy, Alex Cooper broke that mold. Instead of asking Vice President Harris about her economic plans, her foreign policy positions, or her stance on climate change, Cooper centered her entire podcast episode on women’s reproductive health and autonomy. Aside from a brief conversation with Harris about her childhood, Cooper used Call Her Daddy as a platform for digging deep into Harris’s plans for protecting American women during her potential presidency.
Since Roe V. Wade was overturned in 2022 as a result of Donald Trump’s Supreme Court appointments, the gender gap has been widening. According to the New York Times, while race and class are still bigger factors in elections, gender is becoming an increasingly important indicator of how any given citizen will vote—which means that issues related to gender are more important than ever. By using her 45 minutes with the Vice President to solely discuss women’s autonomy, Cooper qualitatively showed what the numbers have indicated: reproductive rights are the most important issue in the 2024 election.
2. Kamala Harris understands that reproductive rights are not just about abortion.
When most news outlets discuss women’s reproductive rights in America, there is a huge focus on abortion. In particular, since Roe V. Wade was overturned, much of the discourse surrounding women’s reproductive health has been about whether or not a woman has access to abortion in her state. However, as women, we know that abortion, while important, is not the full story. For instance, Cooper asked Harris about her time as a prosecutor with a focus on sexual assault cases. When Cooper pointed out that one in three women has experienced some kind of sexual abuse in their lifetime, Harris responded, “Alex, thank you for talking about it, because part of the issue is that people don’t talk about it. And the more that we let anything exist in the shadows, the more likely it is that people are suffering silently.”
“Anyone who is shocked, confused, or upset that Alex Cooper hosted a presidential candidate who cares deeply about women’s reproductive rights on Call Her Daddy has not been listening closely enough.”
Throughout her interview on Call Her Daddy, Harris discussed issues of sexual assault, domestic violence, IVF and fertility treatment access, breast cancer screenings and pap smears, access to contraception, and chosen family. All of these issues fit under the umbrella of women’s reproductive rights—abortion is just one slice of the pie. On Call Her Daddy, Harris proved that she knows that women need the right to choose in more ways than one.
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3. Kamala Harris knows that female economic empowerment is a part of women’s health.
Years ago, calling yourself “socially liberal but fiscally conservative” was a popular refrain. But in today’s super-divided political system, that won’t fly—and Kamala Harris knows it. These days, doing as much as possible to economically empower historically oppressed communities (including women) is essential to politics. In her interview on Call Her Daddy, Harris said, “One of the ways that we know we can uplift women to have choices is uplift the ability of women to have economic health and well-being.” Regardless of your religious beliefs or previous stances on women’s reproductive rights, you know this is true. The more financially empowered we are as women, the greater autonomy we have. Having a presidential candidate who recognizes that is incredibly refreshing.
4. Having a female presidential candidate is a huge deal—just not the way it was eight years ago.
Throughout her campaign, Kamala Harris has notably not played any identity “cards.” She has de-emphasized her identity as a woman of color in order to put greater emphasis on the identity of her opponent as a wealthy, white, male felon. This is in stark contrast to the first woman to receive a nomination for President of the United States, Hillary Clinton, eight years ago in 2016. Where Clinton wore suffragette white and talked of “breaking glass ceilings,” Harris has largely avoided topics related to her identity in interviews. In fact, in spite of the focus on women’s rights, she hardly discussed her own identity as a woman on Call Her Daddy.
Appearing on Call Her Daddy, a podcast that targets women with a listener base that is primarily female, is likely the biggest “gender card” Harris will play throughout her entire campaign. It shows just how much times have changed: Although it’s exciting to have another woman running for president, that’s not the only thing that’s exciting about Kamala Harris’s candidacy.
5. Just because Alex Cooper doesn’t usually cover politics doesn’t mean Call Her Daddy is apolitical.
Since posting her interview with Harris on Sunday, Alex Cooper has received massive backlash from fans and listeners who perceived Call Her Daddy as an apolitical podcast. However, just because Call Her Daddy is not about politics does not mean it is without political leanings. The messages that Alex Cooper has been sharing on Call Her Daddy for years—that women deserve to be sexually satisfied, that the modern dating scene is disempowering to women, and that women have the right to take control of their own narratives in the media—are inherently political messages.
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Women’s media, especially women’s media that covers sex and relationships, is always inherently political. Cooper has been empowering her listeners to take control of their own sex lives for years, and there’s no reason why she would, or should, stop at the level of politics. Anyone who is shocked, confused, or upset that Alex Cooper hosted a presidential candidate who cares deeply about women’s reproductive rights on Call Her Daddy has not been listening closely enough.
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Every year, like clockwork, as the leaves begin to change colors, black leather booties return from their place in storage. It’s as if the Sanderson Sisters themselves cast an eternal spell on women everywhere: “On the first day of fall, when the temps are juuuuuust right, a black boot will summon us by the end of the night.” While it might be controversial, I believe it’s time to break the enchantment. This fall is signaling for us to take a break from our ole’ black leather boots and step into something a bit more 2024 coded: a suede pair, that is.
Although I think that no fall wardrobe is complete without a pair of black boots, there is such a thing as too much of a good thing. Our black booties will always have a spot in our hearts—at this point, many of us have been in a relationship with ours for the better half of a decade—but frankly, this season’s suede pairs feel like a well-deserved upgrade.
Ready for a swap? From knee-high boots to Western-inspired pairs that will be a seamless swap for your go-to black booties, here are this season’s must-have suede boots.
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Suede Knee-High Boots
I think everyone, and I mean everyone, could benefit from owning a pair of knee-high boots. A quality pair of knee-highs extends the shelf life of some of my favorite summer staples: bermuda shorts, mini skirts—the list goes on. Knee-high boots have been my fall hero piece for years, helping me to create my most-complimented looks to date. My favorite way to style them at the moment? With a silky mini skirt, a textured crewneck sweater, and a delicious suede coat.
Please, I’m begging you: proceed with caution here. Not all ankle boots were created equal. One wrong step (literally), and you’re at risk for a repeat of 2012. One dead giveaway? Apologies in advance: noticeable side elastics. (I know, I said I was sorry). Instead, you’ll want to opt for a pair with a zipper closure, preferably with a kitten heel rather than a block heel. When worn with denim or trousers, the slimmer profile will help to create a more sophisticated, elongated silhouette.
Slouchy Suede Boots
This month, as fashion’s global it-girls gathered for Paris Fashion Week (sadly, no Emily Cooper sightings), it became apparent that slouchy boots had returned from their years-long hiatus. Prevailing among them? Varying shades of brown suede, as seen on industry insiders styled with tailored midi skirts and oversized blazers.
Suede Cowboy Boots
These days, it seems like everything’s coming up Western—or at the very least, Western-adjacent. From bell-bottoms to fringe jackets, the Cowboy Carter effect is alive and well for fall 2024. While you could go the traditional cowboy boot route, there are also more subtle options, like the scalloped pair pictured above.
How to Take Care of Suede
In the past, we may have considered suede’s required level of care a deterrent; however, today’s assortment of suede protectants make caring for the sensitive material easier than ever. In order to protect against the elements, before breaking out your suede boots, treat them with a suede protectant spray. You can also use a suede brush to treat the wear and tear that inevitably comes with footwear.
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The Best Suede Boots of Fall 2024
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Tinsley Crisp, Fashion & Beauty Staff Writer
Tinsley Crisp is a Fashion & Beauty Staff Writer at The Everygirl and specializes in reporting on the season’s latest trends and hottest products. As a New York City-based stylist, she’s committed to injecting joy into the art of getting dressed and delivering attainable yet aspirational content to our readers.
On the list of design influencers whose style I desperately aspire to emulate, Studio McGee is pretty high up there. Their designs are always timeless, vintage-inspired, a little bit moody, and perfectly cozy, and that’s exactly how I want my home to feel, especially around the holidays. Whenever Studio McGee comes out with a new collection at Target, I always head to my local store and pick out at least a couple of items to bring home with me. But when their holiday decor collection comes out, I simply cannot stop myself from filling up a whole cart.
I love that the Target Studio McGee collection always features a good mix of classic pieces and fun trending styles, and this year’s holiday decor is no exception. In addition to cozy finds like faux fur blankets and plaid pillows that you’ll use for years to come, you’ll also find trendy designs like velvet bows, scalloped edges, and rattan accents mixed in. The whole collection is beautifully curated, but keep scrolling to find some of our favorite items from the new Studio McGee collection at Target. Fall has only just begun, but these cozy holiday decor finds are worth stocking up on now.
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Studio McGee has come out with a couple of iterations of these velvet ornaments over the years, and they always sell out before I can grab myself a set. But this year, there’s no way I’m letting these slip past because they just so happen to perfectly match my living room color scheme. They’re just the thing I need for my cozy, vintage-inspired Christmas tree this year.
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Jessica Friedhoff, Senior Lifestyle Editor
Jessica Friedhoff is the Senior Lifestyle Editor at The Everygirl, where she oversees the Home & Living category of the site. She writes and edits stories across a broad range of topics including decorating, food, entertaining, travel, and more. With a pulse on the latest trends, she uses her eye for detail and design to create timely, inspiring content for our readers.
According to Mother Nature, fall officially began on September 22. Not to burst her bubble, but we all know there’s only one true indicator of the season’s arrival: the moment Trader Joe’s stocks their shelves with pumpkin, maple, and apple-flavored everything. From then on, it’s goodbye summer, and hello fall. But as much as I love celebrating the return of Trader Joe’s fall items, let me tell you: not all pumpkin is created equal.
It can be difficult to parse through the vast sea of seasonal products and find what’s actually worth tossing in your cart. So, this year, I took on the challenge for you. I taste-tested 15 different Trader Joe’s fall snacks and ranked them from worst to best. Whether you need a last-minute appetizer for a party or want to find your next favorite sweet treat, here’s how they all stacked up.
Sadly, something has to take last place, and in this ranking, it was these pumpkin samosas. While I appreciated the distinct pumpkin taste, it still didn’t quite hit the mark. The combination of flavors just didn’t work for me. If they were set out as an appetizer at a friend’s house, I wouldn’t turn them down—but I wouldn’t repurchase them. Some of my fellow testers took it one step further and said they wouldn’t touch them at all.
These chocolate mousse cakes are absolutely adorable, but the taste didn’t live up to the presentation. I found them overly sweet and wished for more contrast between the cake and mousse layers. Plus, they were messier to eat than I expected, which kind of went against the convenience of the small individual cakes. That said, I’d still consider buying them again just for how cute they’d look on a dessert platter.
Joe-Joe’s are a Trader Joe’s staple, so of course, there’s a seasonal pumpkin version. I love their winter peppermint Joe-Joe’s and was excited to try these, but they unfortunately fell flat. The pumpkin flavor was weak, and an artificial sweetness completely overpowered the cookie. I’d stick to the classic Joe-Joe’s and skip this one.
Hot take: I’ll always pick a blondie over a brownie. Since I’m biased toward blondies, I had high expectations for these pumpkin blondies and thought they would definitely be at the very top of the ranking. However, the texture really wasn’t that of a blondie or brownie at all. It was so moist that it was far closer to a slice of cake, which was a tad misleading, given the name. While they weren’t bad, they didn’t live up to their name and were outshined by other Trader Joe’s fall baked goods.
The Trader Joe’s butternut squash mac and cheese is a beloved fall favorite. I’m talking, “if you see it, grab three because it sells out all the time” level of fan-favorite. So, I was thrilled to see a breaded, bite-sized version, but, unfortunately, the flavor didn’t quite translate. The squash wasn’t as prominent as I’d hoped, and the breading overwhelmed the mac and cheese instead of enhancing it. I’d eat them again, but they wouldn’t be my first choice for an appetizer.
These tiny pumpkin spice cookies are reminiscent of those nostalgic circus animal cookies from my childhood and were a solid treat. The pumpkin flavor was stronger than in other pumpkin products, and my taste-testers and I all agreed they were the superior pumpkin cookie compared to the Joe-Joe’s. I wouldn’t rank them as my all-time favorite, but I’d get them again.
I’ll be honest: When I grabbed these pumpkin chips, I 100% expected them to be in the absolute last place. The description seemed to be an odd mix of salty and sweet that I didn’t think would complement each other, but they were surprisingly good. The cinnamon and nutmeg added a nice fall touch without turning them into a dessert chip. They’re not overly flavorful but have just enough fall flair to feel special.
I’m not the biggest fan of kettle corn, but this maple version won me over. The sweet and salty balance was fantastic, and I loved the strong maple flavor. If it had just been me trying the items, it would have ended up higher, but some members of my taste-testing group didn’t love how intense the maple was.
You can’t have a fall lineup without a pumpkin loaf. The flavor of this one was great, with a balanced sweetness and spiciness, but it was drier than I’d like, especially when trying it right after the pumpkin blondies. However, it’s still worth a try this season and would be great with a cup of coffee in the morning.
This mini sheet cake was the star of the pumpkin desserts. It was the “just right” after the loaf was too dry and the blondies were too moist. Plus, it tasted as if you made it from scratch. It’s a perfect grab-and-go item for any get-together—just pop it on a tray, and it can pass as homemade.
This salsa was a wild card. With ingredients like apple and pumpkin, I wasn’t sure what to expect. Would it taste like pumpkin spice? Or some sort of apple cider? Thankfully, while it does include apple and pumpkin, it’s more like a slightly sweet and spicy version of a traditional salsa than a bizarre fall concoction. Pair it with the Trader Joe’s pumpkin chips or the fall leaf-shaped tortilla chips for a festive spread.
TBH, I didn’t expect these pumpkin cranberry crisps to leave much of an impression (I mean, let’s be real, a cracker seems kind of boring), but I was pleasantly surprised by how much everyone liked them. The cranberry’s subtle sweetness and the pumpkin’s spiced touch make them a perfect addition to a fall charcuterie board. I recommend pairing them with sharper cheese to balance the sweetness.
Speaking of cheese boards, this caramelized onion goat cheese is a must-have for yours this season. The sweet caramelized onion pairs beautifully with the tangy goat cheese. We tried it with the pumpkin cranberry crisps, and since both are sweeter, it wasn’t the best pairing—but you could serve both on the same cheese board and pair them with saltier options for a more balanced spread.
These pretzels were unassuming but ended up being a huge hit. The pumpkin spice blends perfectly with the salty pretzel, and the mini size somehow makes them even better. They’re dangerously snackable, and I could easily finish a bag in one sitting—and probably will.
If you love the caramelized onion and feta pastry bites from Trader Joe’s, these squash bites—found in the freezer aisle—will be your new fall favorite. They require minimal effort and have a perfect nutty, sweet flavor that screams fall. They also get bonus points for a fantastic presentation. I’ll be stocking up on these as long as they’re on the shelves, and they might just be my new go-to girl dinner.
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Lauren Blue, Lifestyle Staff Writer
As a Lifestyle Staff Writer for The Everygirl, Lauren ideates and writes content for every facet of our readers’ lives. Her articles span the topics of home decor, delicious recipes, hobbies, travel itineraries—and everything in between. When she isn’t testing the latest TikTok trend, she can be found scouring Instagram for beautiful homes to feature on the site.
There’s no escaping the rise of Sabrina Carpenter. She currently has six songs on the Billboard Hot 100, her TikToks have gone viral, and her catchy music repeats on the radio daily. Sabrina’s quirky personality and witty humor have not only won the hearts of her listeners (T-swift included) but also landed her a very girly-coded arena tour for her most recent album, Short n’ Sweet. Her music is super versatile—it can have you tearing up on your commute or dancing in your room with a hairbrush. Although most of her songs are centered around relationships, her musical versatility means there’s an SC song that will resonate with any of the zodiac signs.
Sabrina has catchy attention-grabbing pop hits for the spunky Leos, songs destined to make the sad girl playlist of any Cancer, and spicy tunes that will catch the ear of all Scorpios. Whether you’re a self-proclaimed Carpenter or simply curious what the hype is all about, here’s the Sabrina Carpenter song you should listen to based on your zodiac sign.
Aries
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To know an Aries is to know that they can’t back down from a challenge. Sabrina Carpenter’s song Taste is just that—an unapologetic challenge. Sabrina challenges her ex’s new relationship with his past fling. The lyric “You’ll just have to taste me when he’s kissing you” is her friendly reminder that she’s been there and done that. Unashamedly calling out an ex’s lover? Now that’s true hot-headed Aries behavior. Plus, this song is the first on Short n’ Sweet, so it’s perfect for the first sign in the zodiac.
Taurus
Stubborn Taurus has little patience for unpredictability, which makes Please, Please, Please their perfect anthem. This song explores the familiar feeling of a developing suspicion that your new fling has hidden red flags. I imagine a Taurus subtly playing this song as a not-so-gentle reminder to their new partner, emphasizing the, “I beg you don’t embarrass me motherfucker.” As an earth sign, Tauruses like when things go according to plan, and Please, Please, Please is all about what Sabrina Carpenter will do if her relationship doesn’t go according to plan.
Gemini
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This song (along with the entire Short n’ Sweet album) encapsulates the idea that Sabrina is just a girl like the rest of us—and sometimes when she falls for someone, she falls hard. Like a Gemini’s playful and free-spirited personality, this song is full of unfiltered cheeky lyrics, giggling-and-kicking-your-feet moments, and the butterflies that come with falling in love. Geminis love a good laugh and thrive in relationships that are genuinely fun—and out of all of Sabrina Carpenter’s songs, Nonsense is definitely one of the silliest. Plus, it’s a fact that any Gemini would kill the witty Nonsense outro.
Cancer
Cancers wear their hearts on their sleeves—they’re not afraid to love and love hard, even if they’re looking past some major red or beige flags. Lie to Girls is all about how Sabrina Carpenter, just like many girls, lies to herself in order to cling to a relationship or person in her life. In other words: Sometimes, girls are delulu. Sabrina reveals that men lying to girls is pointless because girls will just lie to themselves first (personally, I felt called out by that one). Let this song serve as a reminder to all Cancers to double-check their feelings for a potential partner who might be emotionally unavailable.
Leo
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Espresso was undeniably the song of the summer in 2024, and Leo signs love nothing more than finishing in first place. Leos are the literal definition of that “me espresso.” They demand the attention of the room and bring a certain air of confidence with them that leaves a lasting impression. This Sabrina Carpenter single is a total earworm—just like you can’t get a Leo off your mind after you meet them, you can’t get Espresso out of your head. It’s a silly, danceable bop that has total fire sign energy.
Virgo
Virgos are the hustlers of the zodiac—their hard-working mindset makes them very practical in their day-to-day lives and relationships. But sometimes, practicality can shatter a Virgo’s hopes for letting go of expectations and falling in love. Slim Pickins is all about Sabrina Carpenter’s frustration with a dating landscape full of people who just don’t live up to her standards. The first line alone, “Guess I’ll end this life alone,” emulates the all-or-nothing, perfectionist mindset of a Virgo. After all, they don’t need anyone anyway—they’re pretty well off being their independent earth sign selves.
Libra
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Libras love to have deep and intellectual conversations, exactly like the heartthrob that Sabrina Carpenter sings about in this catchy tune. Dumb & Poetic is all about falling for a guy whose personality is artsy, thoughtful, and super calculated. Sabrina’s love interest was smart but not too smart, read self-help books to seem woke, and picked the perfect poetry lines to recite in conversation. Although this intellectual façade might draw a Libra in at first, they’re also good at exposing a fake, just like Sabrina Carpenter does on this track.
Scorpio
The rumors are true—Scorpios are one of the kinkiest zodiac signs. For a Scorpio, life’s too short for boring sex, and this song encapsulates that same motto. Sabrina Carpenter is no stranger to openly expressing her horniness in her music. To many of her fans, most of whom are probably Scorpios, that outright sexuality is super empowering. After all, Sabrina Carpenter acknowledges what no one else will admit: Sure, romantic chemistry is important, but it’s equally important to have good Bed Chem, too.
Sagittarius
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If anyone is having a post-breakup glow-up like the one that Sabrina Carpenter sings about in this song, it’s a Sagittarius. A Sagittarius is fiercely independent, so Sue Me is their perfect anthem. This song literally says, “So sue me for looking so pretty tonight.” In other words, Sabrina Carpenter is using this tune to let her ex know that she knows what he lost and that he’s going to regret letting her go. It’s exactly the kind of energy that a Sagittarius who knows her worth constantly radiates.
Capricorn
As a Capricorn, I can attest to the fact that Caps love a good set of rules—they just make everything better. As much as I don’t want to admit it, I love some good rules and boundaries in relationships as well. In Good Graces, Sabrina Carpenter warns her lover what will happen if he doesn’t act according to her rules. In the nicest way possible, she sings, “Boy it’s not that complicated, you should stay in my good graces.” It’s simultaneously a warning and a song about guidelines, which gives total Cap vibes.
Aquarius
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Did I mention that Sabrina Carpenter’s songs get a little freaky? This song is both quirky and kinky, which go hand in hand with the weird, fun, outgoing personality of an Aquarius. Like Bed Chem, Juno is about sex that’s so good, it almost convinces Sabrina that she wants to be locked down with a mini Sabrina. I’ll admit, I audibly gasped and cackled when I first heard this song—and as one of the signs that are most in touch with their sexuality, Aquarians are sure to get a kick out of it, too.
Pisces
When Pisces signs are down in the dumps, they can often feel out of place or like they don’t belong. because i liked a boy is all about Sabrina Carpenter falling for a new guy, only to be painted by gossipy “fans” as a man-stealer just because of his ex-girlfriend. It’s her way of calling out people who are overly critical of her love life while feeling sad about being made an outsider. Pisces signs who have felt self-conscious about their dating lives will totally relate to the self-conscious yet defiant tone of this iconic ballad.
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There is no other way to put this: Breakups are complicated as hell. It doesn’t matter what happened, which partner initiated it, or if it was amicable or not, going through a breakup can be frustrating, sad, relieving, and confusing all at the same time for both people. There are plenty of books and blogs that explain how to navigate it, but truthfully, I don’t think anyone has ever perfected how to get through a breakup gracefully. And if we aren’t pros on our own, how are we supposed to know how to help a friend through a breakup?
If you’ve tried to support a friend who was going through a breakup or you are working through it right now with one of your besties, you know that finding the right thing to say to them isn’t easy, and knowing how to be there for them when and how they need you to be can be even more difficult. There is a fine line between not being supportive enough and being overbearing and saying the right or wrong thing. But rest assured, you don’t have to be an expert to help a friend through a breakup—all you need to do is keep the do’s and don’ts we are breaking down ahead in mind.
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Do: Allow them to process in their own way
And just as importantly, in their own time. Breakups look different for everyone, and it’s not our job to tell our friends how they should process theirs. If they want to cry on the couch and watch Dirty Dancing for a week like Jess in New Girl, so be it! Alternatively, if they want to distract themselves so much that they don’t grieve at all, let them, but make sure that you are there when their emotions finally set in. The way they move on is their own decision, and as a friend, all you need to do is support them. Only intervene if and when there is cause for concern. For example, if they start excessively drinking or if they start to skip work or miss important deadlines, gently let them know you are concerned and ask them how you can help get them back on their feet.
Don’t: Talk badly about their ex
Now is not the time to say anything along the lines of “Thank gosh, they were terrible,” “I never liked them anyway,” or worse, “I knew they weren’t right for you from the beginning.” These comments are not helpful in any way, and they won’t make your friend feel any better. If anything, they will probably just get upset with you for never telling them how you really felt in the first place or start to feel judged by you. If they want to talk trash about their ex, they can do that, but it’s not your place to start that dialogue—even if they really were the worst.
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Do: Check in every few days
Sending a text or calling your friend every few days to check in and say hi—especially if you can’t be there for them in person—will go a really long way. Ask them how their week is going, tell them something funny that happened, tell them about a new show you’re loving that you think they’ll like, too, and talk as you normally would with them. If their breakup doesn’t come up in conversation, that’s OK. Let them know that you are there for them to talk about everything or talk about nothing, and leave the ball in their court knowing that they have you to lean on if they need it.
If you really want to go the extra mile to let her know she’s in your thoughts, you can go beyond a text or phone call by sending a thoughtful little note via snail mail. Whether it’s something sweet and heartfelt or something a little funny to get their spirits up, Moonpig has endless cards fit for the job. Plus, all you have to do is pick your card and type out your note, and Moonpig takes care of the rest by sending it straight to their door for you. No more time wasted scrambling for postage materials or forgetting to stick your card in the mail on time—it’s basically the easiest thoughtful act you can do to let a friend know you’re there for them when they need it most. And right now, you can use our code EVERYGIRLFREE to get your first card sent for completely free! Here are a few we’d send to our girls in a heartbeat:
Don’t: Push them into dating
Listen closely: Your friend will start dating again when they are good and ready. I know we always hear the phrase “The best way to get over someone is to get with someone else,” but, really, when has that actually worked for anyone? Dating when you’re not truly ready to open yourself up again is a setup for more disappointment, and rebounding doesn’t make anyone feel good either. So leave the “let’s get you back out there!” encouragement at the door, and let your friend make the decision of when or if they will start dating again without the outside pressure.
Do: Make fun plans
Your friend probably has a lot of free time on their hands now, and while it’s important that they allow themselves some time to be alone, they probably don’t want to spend all of their time by themselves. Ask them if they are free to go out to dinner, head to a farmers market, check out a winery, go to the nail salon, or anything else you can think of that will give them something to look forward to. But take note: Whatever you choose to do, refrain from saying anything like “I’m just trying to keep you busy” because you never want them to feel like they are a burden or that their breakup is the only reason you asked them on a girlfriend date.
Especially if your friend and their ex were together for a while, you probably became pretty good friends with their partner during their relationship. This makes navigating a breakup all the more difficult—for the couple and their mutual friends. But remember that at the end of the day, their breakup is between them. You can support them both as friends, but be careful not to become a mediator or take sides. Similarly, don’t try to repair their relationship either.
Do: Help them see the bright side
Breakups are gloomy, no matter which way you look at it, but you know what they say: When one door closes, another one opens. This is the start of a new chapter for your friend, and it’s important that they start to see little glimpses of that as they move on. If there has ever been anything they’ve wanted to do that they didn’t get around to doing during their relationship (like a hobby they’ve talked about starting or the business idea they’ve been scheming but haven’t moved forward with yet), encourage them to go for it! Being able to see a life filled with things that excite them can help them be optimistic about what the future holds.
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