Nick Cave’s son Earl has shared how his life devastatingly changed after losing his twin brother Arthur in a clifftop accident over 10 years ago
Nick Cave’s son Earl has opened up about the devastating impact of losing his twin brother Arthur.
Eleven years ago, his brother Arthur sadly died when he fell off a cliff in Brighton after taking LSD for the first time. Following his brother’s death, Earl, 26, found solace in religion and believes the trauma partly led to him calling himself a Christian.
Earl didn’t go to church as a child but says that he became drawn to the idea of religion as he’s gotten older. He started attending every Sunday and began to like the message “more and more.”
“I like the idea that this isn’t it. I wonder whether that’s something intrinsically connected to my trauma. The idea is definitely something that I need to have. It’s comforting,” he said.
He told The Sunday Times: “Life doesn’t feel like an endless vacuum of nothing. Faith keeps me and my morals in check. I manifest and pray for people. It makes me happy.”
Nick and his wife Susie have both used different mechanisms to cope with the death of their son. Nick uses his music to process his grief, with his song Skeleton Tree in 2016 discussing grief in its rawest form.
Susie, meanwhile, channelled her grief into The Vampire’s Wife, a fashion line which she has now closed. Sadly, there has been a lot of grief in the family as Nick’s son, Jethro, 31, died in 2022.
Jethro had schizophrenia and battled with drug addictions, and he died in Melbourne two days after he had been released from jail two months after he violently assaulted his own mother.
Speaking about the deaths of two of his children, he told The Guardian: “‘I think it’s something that people who lose children feel regardless of the situation, simply because the one thing you’re supposed to do is not let your children die. Forget that. The one thing you’re supposed to do is protect your children.”
Asked if he feels culpable because drugs were involved in the death of Arthur, he added: “There could be some element of that, yep. Look, these things are in our DNA, they’re inherited.
“I don’t want to make any assumptions about Arthur, who was just a young boy. It’s not like he was into drugs. On a fundamental level, it’s against nature to be burying your children. And there can’t help but be feelings of culpability.”
Because of the public nature of the death, Nick felt he had to grieve publicly too.
“That was helpful, weirdly enough. It stopped me completely shutting the windows and bolting the doors and just living in this dark world,” he shared following Arthur’s death.
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