Ian Tonks was diagnosed with kidney disease and spent years managing a failing transplant before his father-in-law saved his life
A man has been given a fresh start after his father-in-law donated his kidney, becoming Britain’s oldest donor.
Ian Tonks, 49, had spent years managing a failing transplant and long periods on dialysis.
He initially received a kidney transplant 12 years ago, but complications arose after six years due to an autoimmune condition.
For years, Ian’s life was on pause as the life-threatening condition left him unable to work, enjoy his hobbies or even drink more than half a glass of liquid a day.
Despite concerns surrounding his age, Ian’s father-in-law Graham Sisson, 84, volunteered to undergo testing and was subsequently approved for the transplant, reports the Mirror.
He proceeded to have the procedure at Manchester Royal Infirmary.
Over a year later, Ian and Graham featured on Thursday’s (April 9) instalment of This Morning and discussed how he now shares a profound connection with his father-in-law following the transplant.
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Speaking to presenters Rochelle Humes and Joel Dommett, Ian remarked: “We’ve got an amazing bond now. We always got on well for obvious reasons but we are very close now.”
Graham revealed the motivation behind his decision to offer his kidney, stating: “I could see him deteriorating virtually on a daily basis. Several members of the family have already tried to donate him for various reasons but were unable to do so.”
He continued: “I felt that if someone else didn’t step in, he was literally going to die. So I spoke to my wife and said, ‘I think I might put myself forward’ and at that point, we had never thought about the age issue.
“So I just rang Ian and ‘I’d like to have a try and see if it works.’ And surprisingly, we found that we were compatible.”
He acknowledged they were forced to act swiftly, as Ian was at one stage given just 12 hours to live, revealing: “The operation was planned for August 2024 but he was too ill to have the operation. He nearly died in September.
“He was given 12 hours to live in September so when we got to October we snatched up (the next date) and the hospital carried out the operation.”
In November 2024, the pair made their way to Manchester Royal Infirmary for the procedure, remaining there for several days. The transplant proved successful and both men made a complete recovery.
A thankful Ian expressed his gratitude, saying: “I’d like to say a big thank you to the NHS at Manchester Royal Infirmary, it wasn’t just the surgeons but it was the coordinators, it was the dialysis team, it was everybody that was underneath that helped and kept me alive.”
He further added: “Also made this happen and changed a lot of peoples lives. I mean, you know, it’s like a life lottery. You don’t win the lottery but it’s like a life lottery having this.”
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