The Liverpool player was upset and refused to stay with Liverpool
Sepp van den Berg rejected Arne Slot’s request to stay at Liverpool after battling “dark days” in Merseyside. The Brentford defender is expected to return to Anfield on Sunday afternoon to face his former club on the final day of the 2025/26 season.
Van den Berg was signed by the Reds from Eredivisie side PEC Zwolle in 2019 and made his debut that year in an EFL Cup clash with MK Dons. The Dutchman’s time with the club descended into a living nightmare, however, as he was dropped to the reserves after four cup appearances and came to feel forgotten while living on his own in a new country.
Then a mere 17-year-old, he was overwhelmed by loneliness and his mental health took a blow to the point where he didn’t want to go in for training, even recalling crying on his way home sometimes. He found his footing with several loan spells, including to Preston North End, Schalke and Mainz, during which he endured challenges like injuries and relegation.
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Van den Berg was offered a second chance at Anfield in the summer of 2024 after Slot was appointed as manager. The Reds boss hails from the same town and, remarkably, his first job had been with the PEC Zwolle Under-13s, where Van Den Berg played under him.
The 24-year-old recalled Slot speaking to him as if he had a future under the new manager – but by that point he had mentally checked out and was ready to leave Liverpool. Van den Berg said: “It was a little bit awkward. It was just funny… coming from the same hometown, he’d coached me when I was a kid and now he’s the guy at Liverpool.
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“He was just like,‘ How’s your off-season been? Have you been working? Are you ready for pre-season?’
“I said, ‘Yes, of course.’ But in my own head, I was thinking,‘Yeah, I’m ready but hopefully I’m not even coming back for pre-season,’ because I wanted to leave.”
The centre-back signed a five-year deal with Brentford in August 2024 for a fee of up to £25million. He added: “It was definitely dark days. As a 17-year-old boy coming in from a different country, you’re not the priority.
“I was going home crying at some points and then not speaking to anyone. Do you call this depressed? I think it’s a bit too heavy a word. But I wasn’t feeling well. I wasn’t in the head space you are supposed to be in. I had no confidence and that really affected me as a footballer. I was just constantly doubting myself, like I was not good enough. I didn’t want to go to training, which is not me. Then, you know you are really down low.
“Looking back, if someone had taken care of me as a young player, it would have helped me, for sure. For young guys going abroad, going to big clubs, I’d say to parents: ‘Be careful. Make sure the kid is OK.’ I have lovely parents, my mum FaceTimes me every day but still she didn’t know 100% how I felt. And for the clubs, definitely look out more for the younger players.
“On the other hand, I did learn a lot from the situation. It made me the guy I am today. My injury at Schalke, as well – it makes you stronger. You learn so much because you go into such a dark space. It feels like your whole world dies in front of you because football is your world. Luckily, I survived it.”
Van den Berg has been key for Brentford this season, making 37 appearances, including the 3-2 win over Liverpool at home back in October.
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