Robert Easom, 57, of Longridge Road, Chipping, appeared before Preston Crown Court charged with GBH with intent, two counts of ABH and two counts of controlling and coercive behaviour.
The charges relate to a period between 2017 and 2025, when the defendant subjected Trudi Burgess to constant verbal, emotional and physical abuse.
It culminated in an incident on February 17, 2025, when Easom launched a sickening attack on his victim, which left her with a broken neck and permanently paralysed.
Laura Magill, prosecuting, said: “He manipulated her body into a position where she was on her knees. With both of his hands and all of his chest onto the back of her head, he pushed back with his entire body weight, pushing her chin into her chest.
“She was trying to scream, but he continued to push. She was trying to say he was killing her, but she could not speak.
“She said she felt like his body was going to crack her skeleton. She heard a crack, and all of the feeling left her body. She thought she was dying, but he did not stop.
“He kept shouting, ‘I will shut you up.’ By the time he stopped, he had broken her neck, affecting all four limbs.
“Doctors would later operate on her, but were unable to undo the neurological damage.
“She realised at the moment he said he had done this that life as she knew it was over.”
Judge Robert Altham said that the injuries she sustained were comparable to those of someone who had fallen from a height.
He added: “She had depression, anxiety and symptoms of PTSD. She suffered flashbacks of the attack on her. She loved to sing for pleasure and professionally. She is someone who likes to look her best, and she now has to leave that to others.
“A third heading is the impact on her family, and the impact of harm is testified to by her children. Her mother cannot come to terms with the impact. Her grandchildren cannot understand where their grandmother has gone.
“The impact upon them is profound. She describes the social impact. She used to be an active person with a normal social life, and getting anywhere, including to court today, is a massive operation.
“Even with the lengthy sentence I am going to impose, you will have a future, unlike your victim.”
Before the incident, Easom subjected the woman he claimed to love to a relentless campaign of coercive and controlling behaviour.
Around seven months into the relationship, during a trip to York, Easom “switched” into a rage, dragged her around a bathroom and threatened her, quoting a line from Rambo: “Don’t push or I’ll give you a war.”
In another incident in 2019, Easom went into a rage after the victim went to get a glass of wine, thinking the defendant was asleep.
Storming down the stairs, Easom berated her, grabbed her by her hair and rammed her head against each of the steps, leaving her with cuts to her nose.
In January 2025, after an evening at a friend’s house, Ms Burgess made a joke about the lack of crockery at the defendant’s house.
Judge Altham said: “It is the hallmark of a sophisticated abuser to combine cruelty and kindness, and that, as you intended, you led this intelligent and articulate woman to doubt her own experiences. It is a chilling insight into your manipulation and control of her.”
Easom then drove at 80mph before stopping and headbutting her.
Ms Magill added: “He did this to frighten her, and it worked. With the car stationary, he headbutted her and dragged his stubble down her face.”
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During the relationship, Ms Burgess kept notes to herself in her Apple Notes, which highlighted the levels of gaslighting that Easom imposed on her.
A section of former teacher Ms Burgess’s victim impact statement said: “I am slowly learning how to live with my spinal injury, but the reality is… this is a life sentence.
“Emotionally I have been shattered. I suffer from bouts of depression, daily anxiety and symptoms of PTSD. I have flashbacks of the attack and nightmares that wake me up.
“My sense of safety for my family and me has been taken from me, and the thought of him walking freely is a terrifying prospect. I grieve every day for the life I’ve lost – a life that was stolen from me by someone whom I trusted.
“I feel trapped and powerless. Sometimes I feel like I’m just surviving, not living. Everything that once gave me joy now feels out of reach.
“I also want the court to be aware of my real concern for anyone getting involved with Robert in the future, romantically or otherwise. He has a true Jekyll and Hyde personality.
“He could be a loving and attentive partner and then he could switch in a moment into a truly terrifying monster, restraining me, dragging me round the room, screaming threats at me.
“All of which were dismissed moments later. I am living proof of the devastating effects of his uncontrolled bursts of anger.”
In mitigation, Tobias Smith outlined that his client accepted full criminality; however, Judge Altham said that was not the case due to his failing to admit to anything in his pre-sentence report.
He also added that his client had engaged well whilst in prison and was supporting other inmates with horticultural tasks.
Easom was sentenced to 20 years, of which he will serve a maximum of 16 years in custody.