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Aubrey Plaza Confirms She’s Pregnant With Her First Child
Aubrey Plaza has shared that she is pregnant with her first child.
The White Lotus star’s representatives confirmed to People magazine that Aubrey and her partner, Golden Globe-nominated actor Christopher Abbott, are expecting a child later this year.
People reported that the Parks And Recreation actor is due to give birth in the autumn.
Aubrey and Chris first crossed paths when they worked on the 2020 psychological drama Black Bear, before working together once again three years later in an off-Broadway revival of the play Danny And The Deep Blue Sea.
Following her breakthrough in Parks And Recreation in the late 2000s, Aubrey’s work has included projects as varied as season two of The White Lotus, the Marvel series Agatha All Along, the superhero pastiche Scott Pilgrim vs. The World and the festive rom-com Happiest Season.
Meanwhile, Chris has starred in the comedy Girls, the miniseries Catch-22, the space drama First Man, the Oscar-winning Poor Things and the Amanda Seyfried historical musical The Testament Of Ann Lee.
Aubrey was previously married to the writer and director Jeff Baena, who died by suicide in January of last year.
Speaking to her former Parks And Rec co-star Amy Poehler on the podcast Good Hang seven months after Jeff’s death, Aubrey admitted that her grief was a “daily struggle”, but felt “really grateful to be moving through the world”.
“At all times, there’s like a giant ocean of just awfulness, that’s like right there and I can, like, see it,” she shared, comparing her grief to the film The Gorge.
“Sometimes, I just want to just dive into it and just, like, be in it. And then sometimes, I just look at it. And then sometimes, I just try to get away from it. But it’s always there. It’s just always there.”
Prior to this, Aubrey also paid a subtle tribute to Jeff while presenting a segment as part of Saturday Night Live’s 50th anniversary broadcast, sporting a tie-dye shirt in honour of the outfits they wore on their wedding day.
Aubrey and Jeff married at their home in July 2021, and separated in September 2024.
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Baftas N-Word Broadcast Breached BBC’s Editorial Standards, Investigation Finds
The BBC has determined that the broadcast of a racial slur during its coverage of this year’s Baftas went against its editorial standards.
During this year’s Baftas ceremony, Tourette’s campaigner John Davidson – attending the ceremony with the cast and crew of the movie I Swear – experienced a series of involuntary tics, resulting in him shouting a variety of slurs from the audience.
One of these, which saw him shouting the N-word while Sinners actors Michael B Jordan and Delroy Lindo were presenting on stage – was included in the BBC’s broadcast of the Baftas, which aired on a two-hour time delay.
Following the event, the BBC faced a wave of scrutiny – and a “large number of complaints” – due to the slur’s inclusion, with outgoing director-general Tim Davie “fast-tracking” an investigation into how it came to be broadcast.
On Wednesday, chief content officer Kate Phillips confirmed that the BBC’s executive complaints unit (ECU) had “found this should not have made it to air and it was a clear breach of our editorial standards”.
A post on the ECU’s website explained: “The inclusion of the n-word in the broadcast (which was also streamed live on iPlayer) was highly offensive, had no editorial justification and represented a breach of the BBC’s editorial standards, but that the breach was unintentional.
“The members of the production team who were monitoring the event in the outside broadcast vehicle all say they did not hear or recognise the n-word when it occurred at about 14 minutes and 45 seconds into the broadcast (while Delroy Lindo and Michael B Jordan were introducing the first award). The ECU accepted their account, for two reasons.
“Firstly, the use of the n-word in that instance was extremely indistinct, to the point where it might well not have been recognised by the production team. Secondly, there was another occurrence of the n-word about 10 minutes later, which was recognised by the production team and immediately edited out in accordance with the protocols on offensive language which were in place.”

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The post continued: “There is no reason to conclude they would have applied the protocols in one case while deliberately ignoring them in the other. The ECU noted, however, that the BBC received one complaint from a viewer about the use of the n-word in the segment of the programme concerned while the programme was still on air and another very shortly after it ended.
“While this tends to support the view that the word was almost unintelligible (because we would expect a use of the word which had been clear to viewers in general to have caused a large number of complaints during the broadcast and immediately afterwards), it also means that we cannot say it was entirely so.”
As for the inclusion of the slur on the Baftas broadcast later uploaded to the BBC iPlayer catch-up service, the ECU said this was also “a breach of the BBC’s editorial standards”.
“The production team became aware shortly after the transmission of the first award that the interjection while Delroy Lindo and Michael B Jordan were on stage consisted of the n-word,” they said, saying that the delay in taking it down was a “serious mistake”, pointing out that by this point it had become “widely discussed” on both online and in news media.
In their findings, the ECU said: “The fact that the unedited recording remained available for so long aggravated the offence caused by the inadvertent inclusion of the n-word in the broadcast.”
A day after the Baftas, Kate Phillips sent an internal memo to BBC employees which read: “The edit team removed another racial slur from the broadcast. This one was aired in error and we would never have knowingly allowed this to be broadcast. We take full responsibility for what happened.”
After Delroy Lindo expressed his disappointment at the way Bafta had handled the incident, a spokesperson for the organisation later issued a lengthy apology which also took “full responsibility” for what transpired.
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Politics Home | UK Should Bring In Nordic-Style National Service, Says Former Defence Secretary

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Former defence secretary Michael Fallon has called for Nordic-style conscription in the UK in response to growing international threats.
The former Conservative MP also admitted that his party should have done more to increase defence spending while in power.
Sweden restored conscription in 2017 to address falling service numbers. Under Sweden’s total defence model, all 17-year-old men and women are required to submit applications to join the military, but entry is capped at around 8000 per year, making it highly competitive.
Fallon, who was defence secretary between 2014 and 2017, said it was an approach that Britain could adopt as European countries face pressure from the US to bolster their defensive capabilities.
“ I’d like to see us adopt some form as the Nordics have of competitive national service, where it’s a badge of honour to get selected for it,” said Fallon, speaking to the Latika Takes podcast in remarks shared with PoliticsHome.
“You set a certain number of places and open up a competition for them, and within a couple of years, you find in the Nordics, and this is something employers absolutely valued, people fought to get places on the scheme.”
Fallon argued that this sort of approach would avoid a situation in which “hundreds of thousands” of young people end up in national service despite not wanting to be there, “which obviously cost them a lot in terms of time and money and training”.
France, which is reintroducing a form of national service, has also been inspired by the Nordics. France’s Chief of Defence Staff General Fabien Mandon recently told French military magazine, Esprit Défense: “I was particularly struck by what I saw in Norway and Sweden, where some young people are even concerned about not being selected.”
Neil Barnett, who runs British private intelligence firm, Istok Associates Limited, and has special interests in the Nordic region, said the UK didn’t need to adopt Sweden’s total defence model, but did need to bolster the number of men and women who can be called up in the event of war, which “the Swedish model is excellent for”.
“What you see in Sweden is that among the young Swedes… there’s a competition to get into the elite forces,” he said, adding: “It becomes a prestigious thing and you’re not trying to press gang people who are mentally or physically unsuited because that’s not in anyone’s interests.”
Former Conservative prime minister Rishi Sunak proposed introducing national service during the party’s unsuccessful 2024 general election campaign.
Tobias Ellwood, former chair of the House of Commons defence committee, recently called on the UK to consider a form of national service as a way of deterring Russian aggression in eastern Europe.
Fallon admitted that the Conservatives should have raised defence spending higher and faster during their time in office.
“ Arguably, yes, we should have,” he told the podcast.
“I was responsible for three of those early years, from 2014 to 2017. The world then became more dangerous. It obviously became more dangerous after Crimea [annexed by Russia] and some of the other conflicts that we had.
“So there was certainly a case for raising it faster in the latter years of the 2010s.”
Prime Minister Keir Starmer has committed to raising defence spending to 2.5 per cent of GDP by April next year and to 3 per cent in the next parliament. However, he is coming under pressure to raise that target amid Russia’s ongoing aggression in Ukraine and conflict in the Middle East.
In February, the PM said that “to meet the wider threat, it’s clear that we are going to have to spend more, faster.”
“The issue is now you have a Labour government that clearly is not prepared to cut overseas aid further,” said Fallon.
“And it certainly doesn’t look prepared to cut back on welfare. And unless you do those two things, it seems unlikely they’re going to very quickly find additional money for defence.”
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Israel-backed militia commits massacre in refugee camp
The Israel-funded Abu Nasira militia group, with air cover from occupation warplanes, has massacred Palestinian civilians in the al-Maghazi refugee camp in central Gaza. Dozens of dead and wounded were brought to the Al-Aqsa hospital in Deir al-Balah, including children.
Local resident Ahmed Al-Maghari said that Israeli strike aircraft targeted locals as they tried to defend themselves or even help the wounded:
We were shocked when Abu Nasira’s forces—or the militia—entered the neighbourhood and began firing at people’s homes and at the children inside those homes.
Some residents of the neighbourhood were forced to go out and defend the area and their community, so they began firing back at the militias that were there. There were three or four injured people just three to four meters away from our homes, and we were unable to reach them because of the direct gunfire from the militia.
Whenever anyone tried to approach to provide aid to the injured, they were immediately targeted by the aircraft.
Witness Mahmoud Kassab said that Israeli drones were also involved in the attack:
They shot at us near the entrance of Al-Maghazi camp … Then the drones came and provided cover for them with missiles, and the quadcopter drones started dropping explosives on us.. Anyone who tries to move gets targeted.
Gaza chaos
The Abu Nasira gang formed as an offshoot of the Israeli-armed Abu Shabab militia that looted aid convoys and murdered refugees seeking food. The gang’s founder has described the group’s links with Israel as:
a strong relationship and an intimate friendship, and we will live with them for the rest of our lives in security and peace. They provide us with weapons, food, and clothing, and we coordinate with them on security to the fullest extent.
In a statement, the group described its victims as “a herd of pigs”:
Today, we pursued the herd of pigs of Hamas in Al-Maghazi camp … We will continue on this path until victory, and until the people are liberated and able to return to their homes and lands in full safety and security.
The Maghazi camp has been a frequent target for Israeli authorities, including the bombing of a UN-run school sheltering displaced families.
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The Viral ‘Jessica’ Toddler Tantrum Hack Is Not A Long-Term Parenting Fix
Parents are attempting to halt toddler tantrums by asking their children about a made-up person called “Jessica”.
The distraction technique seems to work, too. In one clip shared on TikTok, a father is buckling his crying child into a car seat and says: “Jessica, come here.”
“Are you going to stop crying? Because Jessica is coming. You want Jessica to come?” he asks his son, who promptly stops crying and looks around.
In another clip, a crying toddler runs towards their caregiver, who calls out: “Jessica. Jessica. Where are you, Jessica?”
Again, the toddler stops crying and looks around, wide-eyed.
Dr Sasha Hall, a senior educational and child psychologist, certainly understands the appeal to parents of young children. Who wouldn’t want a magic ‘pause’ button to stop those mid-supermarket-shop meltdowns?
But the expert warns it’s not an effective long-term solution for helping children navigate big emotions.
Why calling out for ‘Jessica’ stops toddler tantrums
It’s basically a form of distraction. “It can work initially because young children are highly responsive to novelty, unexpected input, and disruption of pattern,” says Dr Hall.
“During a meltdown, the nervous system is already overwhelmed, so an unexpected cue such as a different name being called can momentarily shift attention away from the emotional peak.”
Jo Walker, a hypnotherapist at Walker’s Therapy, previously said when a child is having a meltdown, there’s no point trying to reason with them as it simply “won’t work”.
Instead of speaking to someone who isn’t there (ie. Jessica), she asks a “tiny, non-threatening question”.
The question should have nothing to do with the tantrum. So, Walker gave an example of, “hey, I just noticed your shoes. Where did you get those from?” or “what is the animal on your T-shirt?”.
Other parenting pros, like Jon Fogel, have recommended similar techniques, such as the colour game, where you ask your child to find something of a certain colour to help distract them from their big feelings.
Why shouting ‘Jessica’ isn’t a long-term tantrum fix
It’s certainly not going to hurt your child to distract them with a conversation about ‘Jessica’. But it’s also important to bear in mind you’re not really teaching kids emotional regulation, either.
Dr Hall says it’s “not a technique that should be encouraged or used regularly, and it is not something to build into everyday responses to distress”.
“What is happening here is interruption rather than regulation. The emotional experience is not being processed or supported, it is being briefly redirected, which is why it may appear to stop the behaviour in the short term,” she says.
The issue is, if parents use this technique regularly, it’s “creating interruption without understanding, and over time this can begin to impact the parent-child bond, where the child starts to experience the adult as unpredictable in their response to distress”, notes the expert.
“For young children who are in the process of learning how to manage their big feelings with adult support, this needs to happen with co-regulation and connection, not through interruption and distraction alone.”
Emotion coaching and validating their feelings can help in the long-term
Dr Hall suggests approaches such as emotion coaching tend to be more effective in supporting long-term emotional development.
“This involves recognising the feeling, naming the feeling for the child, helping them begin to link language to their internal experience, for example ‘I can see you are frustrated’, and staying emotionally available while the intensity passes,” she explains.
And it does work. One parenting coach previously explained how doing this helped stop her son’s tantrum in a matter of seconds.
Gen Muir had accidentally broken her toddler’s banana in half while peeling it – and needless to say, he had pretty big feelings about it.
“One thing and one thing only saved me in this moment,” she said in a TikTok video, “I remembered that I don’t need to fix this or solve this, I just need to let him know that I get it.”
She continued: “I just said: ‘your banana broke, you did not want it to break [and] you wish it didn’t break, and you are really really sad about this’.”
The parenting educator said within six seconds her son’s head was on her shoulder, and within another second he was quietly eating the broken banana.
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Occupied Territories Bill: Irish teachers confront government
Delegates at two conferences for teachers’ unions have confronted education ministers about the Irish government’s ongoing failure to pass legislation limiting trade with so-called ‘Israel’ via the Occupied Territories Bill.
Attendees at the Teachers’ Union of Ireland (TUI) annual congress met minister for further and higher education James Lawless with chants of “enact the Occupied Territories Bill”. At the equivalent gathering for the Irish National Teachers’ Organisation (INTO), teachers demanded the same of minister for education and youth Hildegarde Naughton.
Successive governments have stalled on passing the legislation for a staggering eight years since Independent TD Frances Black first introduced the then Control of Economic Activities (Occupied Territories) Bill in 2018. It is now known as the The Israeli Settlements in the Occupied Palestinian Territory (Prohibition of Importation of Goods) Bill, but is typically still referred to as the Occupied Territories Bill (OTB).
Micheál Martin’s government has done everything possible to stymie progress of the bill, often claiming legal complexities as the key cause of delay. In reality the Genocide Convention – which requires signatories to prevent and punish acts of genocide – trumps the concerns Martin has raised. Halting all trade with the Zionist entity would be an effective way to adhere to the state’s responsibilities under the Convention.
Occupied Territories Bill restricting trade with ‘Israel’ weakened to help multinationals
In January the Taoiseach let slip the real reasons for the hold up – the negative effects for big companies operating in Ireland. Martin described the services element of the bill as “completely non-implementable”, and went on to say:
There would also be an impact for Irish multinationals, or multinationals based in Ireland. We need to be clear eyed about that, and people need to realise that and know about that.
Foreign affairs spokesperson for Labour Duncan Smith pointed out the obvious when saying Martin’s move was:
…a political choice, and it is the wrong one.
Martin has whined that the bill would “be very, very limited indeed” on its “impact on Israeli policy”. If watered down as much as Martin would like, yes. On its own and without other countries following suit, yes. However, a bill banning all trade with the Zionist pseudo-state would have a significant effect, given Ireland is the largest per-capita importer of goods from the terrorist regime. If followed by similar bills across the world, it would have a devastating impact on the apartheid economy.
When News Chambers confronted Tánaiste Simon Harris at the end of March if the OTB should be expedited, Harris claimed that:
…it’s being worked on as fast as it can…
He again cited vague legal concerns. No one would seek lengthy legal advice before smashing a car window on a hot day to rescue a suffocating baby. Similarly, the continuing atrocities of the Zionist land thieves warrant immediate response. In both examples, strong action taken should be easily legally defensible as a means of preventing a greater harm.
Delegates at the INTO conference passed a motion condemning the government’s failure to enact the OTB. They also included in that motion a demand that Irish schools adopt an ethical procurement policy in compliance with UN standards on human rights. A key part of this would involved ending trade with the Zionist entity. It would also mean adhering to policies laid down by the Boycott, Divestment and Sanctions (BDS) campaign against the terrorist regime in Tel Aviv.
GAA still under pressure for Allianz support
INTO members also put the spotlight back on the Gaelic Athletic Association (GAA) for their continued partnership with Allianz. The German insurance giant was named by UN Special Rapporteur Francesca Albanese in her landmark Economy of Genocide report. The company pumps vast sums into the criminal Zionist economy via investment in shares and bonds there. The GAA allow Allianz to sponsor its events.
INTO members’ particular focus is on Cumann na mBunscol, who promote and organise Gaelic Games in primary schools. The Allianz logo features prominently on their web page. It is self-evidently obscene to have this criminal company’s name attached to children’s sport, at the same time as it aids the massacre of children in Palestine.
INTO General Secretary John Boyle emphasised this message, saying there:
…can be no hiding place for those who cause the deliberate destruction of childhood.
Referencing the OTB, he went on to say that:
We need a government that shows the courage once demonstrated by the Dunnes Stores workers who helped bring an end to apartheid in South Africa – a government willing to enact the Occupied Territories Bill and show that Ireland will not be complicit in human rights’ violations.
This is indeed the example to look to. The Irish government in 1987 enacted a ban on importation of all apartheid South African products following a three year campaign against such items by the Dunnes Stores strikers.
In 2012, Desmond Tutu described apartheid ‘Israel’ as worse than its South African counterpart. Now it not only perpetrates apartheid, it carries out genocide. Rather than delays followed by a watered down version of the OTB, Martin’s government must move towards a ban of all trade with the illegitimate settler-colony.
Featured image via the Canary
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Youth mobility negotiations – UK in a changing Europe
Catherine Barnard and Denzil Davidson explain why negotiations on a youth experience scheme between the UK and the EU are so complex.
A UK-EU deal on youth mobility or ‘youth experience’, was always going to be fraught. Stopping free movement of people was the issue that clinched victory for the Leave side in the Brexit referendum. Yet many think that limited-time work/study opportunities for young people should continue. However, there is a problem with legal competence – the power for the EU to negotiate a full-fat youth mobility scheme enabling young people to travel, study and, crucially, work. This blog explains the problem and considers what can be done.
The Trade and Cooperation Agreement (TCA), the current basis on which the EU and UK trade with each other, makes only limited provision for individuals to move between EU member states and the UK. They must be providing services on a temporary basis as, for example, independent professionals or short-term business visitors, and the type of business they do must be listed in the annex. So, researchers or consultants can move but musicians and artists cannot because their professions are not listed in the annex. Currently, anyone wishing to move from the UK to the EU or vice-versa to study or work must rely on the vagaries of the national law of the EU member state in question. Hence the call for a youth mobility scheme benefitting the 18-30s as part of the UK-EU reset to make this easier.
While the UK and the EU share a vision on the breadth (and benefits of) the youth experience scheme, they have different substantive priorities. For the EU, it is access to UK universities for EU students on the same terms as UK nationals i.e. at lower ‘home’ fees (something that was not in the 2025 Common Understanding between the EU and UK). For the UK, it is the opportunity for the young to work, study and travel and a potential, reviewable cap on numbers of EU nationals coming.
The UK already has highly flexible, albeit capped, youth mobility schemes with 13 countries. Armed with a visa (on payment of a £319 fee and the health surcharge of £776 p.a.) and with savings of £2,530, the young person is free to come to the UK for two to three years to study, to work, to travel or to do nothing at all (and to switch between these activities), with no requirement to be sponsored by an employer. This is the UK’s vision for the EU/UK scheme.
By contrast, the EU itself has no youth mobility schemes. It has Directive 2016/801 which allows third country nationals to come to an EU member state for research, studies, training and voluntary service pupil exchanges, and to be an au pair, but not to work more generally. Individual member states have their own youth mobility schemes and it is the national mobility schemes which allow individuals to come to, say, France to work.
Herein lies the rub. The EU can negotiate a deal with the UK only in areas where it has competence. Its mandate, while broader than five years ago, does not explicitly extend to work. Further, Article 79(5) of the Treaty on the Functioning of the EU (TFEU) reserves to member states the right to determine ‘the volume of admission’ of third country nationals coming to their countries to work. This includes not just numbers but other conditions, such as a labour market test or sectoral limitations.
The EU’s lack of competence is one explanation for why the UK tried to negotiate bilateral schemes with France, Germany, Spain after Brexit: it’s the individual states who can agree to the terms on work. However, the UK was blocked by the European Commission which objected to the ‘differential treatment of Union citizens’.
Yet, the 2025 Common Understanding said that a youth experience scheme should facilitate the participation of young people from the EU and UK in ‘various activities, such as work, studies, au-pairing, volunteering, or simply travelling, for a limited period of time’. The Commission now worries that it does not have the legal competence to negotiate this ‘full-fat’ deal. It is dependent on the member states to deliver on commitments about work and the fear is that under Article 79(5), France, say, could set the figure on UK nationals coming to work in France at zero. So, it seems that the Commission has stopped bilateral deals without having the power to negotiate an EU-wide replacement.
Is there any way out of the impasse?
The legal basis (i.e. EU power) to adopt Directive 2016/801 was Article 79(2)(a) and (b) TFEU. This gives the EU the powers to regulate (a) ‘the conditions of entry and residence, and standards on the issue by member states of long-term visas and residence permits’ and (b) the definition of the rights of third-country nationals residing legally in a member state. One argument would be that the reference to ‘rights of third country nationals’ should include the right to work. The Blue Card Directive 2021/1883, adopted under the same legal basis, lays down ‘the conditions of entry and residence for more than 3 months in the territory of the member states, and the rights, of third-country nationals for the purpose of highly qualified employment and of their family members’. But that does not deal with the problem of Article 79(5).
If the Commission and the member states will not accept full competence under Article 79(2), another solution could be a framework or ‘mixed’ agreement, whereby the European Commission negotiates on matters which are under national competence but any resulting agreement requires member state ratification for it to come into force. This is complicated by the British desire for a UK-EU youth mobility agreement to secure youth mobility for British citizens not only to individual member states but enabling them to move across the EU more broadly, at least between two or three states, a matter on which the Commission’s competence is also uncertain.
Alternatively, there is a Canadian model: Canada has bilateral youth mobility agreements with 21 EU member states but no EU wide framework. An agreement could be made on non-work mobility between the UK and the European Commission, with a commitment that bilateral agreements on work would follow. But this may be unsatisfactory in two ways: first, the EU could obtain its ask on study without the UK ask on work being guaranteed, so some form of carrot and stick needs to be built into the agreement together with a review mechanism, and, second, it could mean precisely the differential treatment by nationality that the Commission wishes to avoid.
Some political flexibility and legal creativity are, therefore, needed if a youth experience scheme is to be agreed in time for a summit in early summer. The UK, the EU and its member states will need to understand that the benefits of a youth mobility agreement will be balanced and will be delivered by all sides. And since the Common Understanding’s other work strands in agrifood (SPS) and emissions trading form a package deal with youth mobility, the summer summit may lack substance if that flexibility and creativity is not found.
By Catherine Barnard, Professor in European Union Law and Employment Law, University of Cambridge and Denzil Davidson.
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These Pelvic Floor Trainers Could Be The Key To Stronger, Longer Orgasms
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You might think about it when you’re desperate for a wee, or when your Pilates instructor screams at you to engage your core – but other than that, our pelvic floor is a criminally unattended-to muscle.
Often ignored until a woman is pregnant or approaching menopause, the pelvic floor actually plays a key part in our health throughout our lives, as it is responsible for core strength, stability, and bladder control.
If that’s not enough to convince you to give it some attention, your pelvic floor also plays a big part in your sex life.
“The pelvic floor supports bladder, bowel, and reproductive health, but it also plays a key role in sexual sensation and pleasure,” says Samantha Marshall, head of brand at sexual wellness company Smile Makers Collection.
As well as being the absolute pinnacle of pleasure, orgasms are essentially just your pelvic floor contracting rhythmically, Marshall explains. When the muscle is too weak or too strong, this can cause problems with pain, lack of sensitivity, and weak orgasms.
But research shows that 60% of women have symptoms of poor pelvic floor health, namely: needing the toilet often; incontinence; and pain or numbness during sex.
Plus, just 22% of women do pelvic floor exercises regularly, and 23% don’t know how to do them. Enter: pelvic floor trainers.
These devices lead you through pelvic floor exercises, often tailored to your body’s needs, so that you can strengthen and tone your pelvic floor and maintain its health throughout your life.
Why use a pelvic floor trainer?
While the idea of adding another step into your wellness regime is always overwhelming, especially when you don’t know how to do it, exercising your pelvic floor is just as important as training the rest of your muscles at the gym.
“Regular activation of these muscles can help maintain strength and responsiveness, which may support bladder control, reduce the risk of weakness, and contribute to more satisfying orgasms over time,” Marshall explains.
“Just like any part of our wellbeing, looking after our pelvic floor creates a positive domino effect for long-term health. Building awareness of these muscles, through exercises, pelvic trainers, or even vibrators, helps us better understand our anatomy and notice changes earlier.”
Whether you’ve noticed a change in your sensitivity during sex, or simply want to set yourself up for a long and satisfying sex life, these are the best pelvic floor trainers to level up your orgasms.
Don’t make us download another app, please! Thankfully, this techy trainer helps you understand your pelvic floor engagement without the need for an app (or sharing your data) by vibrating when you’re engaging properly as a little treat to your G-spot. It has eight modes to give you something to work towards – just like a training routine in the gym.
Just as you’d lift weights in the gym, weighted beads can help tone your vaginal muscles. And it’s totally not a vanity thing: instead, it’s a way to get stronger pelvic floor muscles and with that, more powerful (and pleasurable) orgasms. Not convinced you’ll make time for them? Don’t worry, you can multitask wear them while running, walking, and even swimming for a bit of extra excitement.
These balls are also weighted, but come in three sizes so you can gradually work your way up to the strongest. They’re coated in silky silicone, so you don’t have to worry about forcing them in (although adding some water-based lube wouldn’t go amiss), which also makes for an easy clean up when you’re done.
Worried you don’t know your own strength? Never fear, this Intimina trainer uses touch sensors to tailor a regime tailored to your needs. It’s anatomically shaped, so it doesn’t feel like an intrusive object (ahem) up there, and it will automatically adjust your program over time to help you reach peak pelvic strength.
Invisible technology can sometimes be a little off-putting, we get it. If you like to know what’s going on down there, this medical-looking trainer lets you choose your own setting depending on what kind of training programme you’re after, and then remembers it for the next time around. It even comes with a handy booklet to teach you exactly how to do a pelvic floor exercise – with or without the machine.
Crystal lovers, unite! This seriously classy set contains two rose quartz eggs to help you ‘channel your inner energy’. Beginners will want to start with just one in the single silicone egg holder, and progress to two for deeper muscle engagement. Best of all, when you’re done you can pop them into that vegan leather case (just make sure you wash them first!).
How often should you train your pelvic floor?
While you might stumble across the odd kegel exercise video on your social media every now and again, that is not enough to maintain a healthy pelvic floor.
“Using a pelvic floor trainer around 2–3 times a week is a good starting point, but it should fit into your routine in a way that feels realistic, whether that’s part of your ‘everything shower’ or a few minutes of intentional practice,” says Marshall. “Consistency matters more than intensity.”
It’s also important to pay attention to your body, as you can overwork your pelvic floor.
“Sometimes these muscles are already too tense or overactive, and what’s needed is relaxation rather than strengthening,” Marshall adds.
Just as important as engaging the muscles is remembering to fully release them. A responsive pelvic floor is one that can both contract and relax. Listen to your body – it’s always the best guide.”
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BBC Correspondent Gives Reality Check To Donald Trump Post Iran Ceasefire
A BBC correspondent has delivered a reality check to Donald Trump just hours after the US president announced a two-week ceasefire in the Iran war.
The US president confirmed a suspension of hostilities shortly before the deadline he had given Tehran to re-open the Strait of Hormuz, the key waterway through which one-fifth of the world’s oil supply is transported.
In a post on his Truth Social account, Trump said it was “a big day for world peace”.
“Iran wants it to happen, they’ve had enough,” the president declared.
The breakthrough came less than 24 hours after Trump had warned that “a civilisation will die tonight” unless the Iranian regime agreed to end the war.
However, it remains unclear whether Iran will now be able to control what traffic passes through the Strait of Hormuz, an advantage they did not enjoy before the war started.
On Radio 4′s Today programme, BBC US correspondent David Willis pointed out that Trump appeared to have achieved none of the objectives he had sought when the war began at the end of February.
They included the destruction of Iran’s nuclear capability and the overthrow of the country’s Islamic regime.
He said: “Despite this ceasefire, the fundamental differences with Iran remain and they are perhaps sharper than when the conflict began five weeks ago.
“Iran’s nuclear stockpile remains in place, the theocratic government which President Trump urged people to overthrow is there too, albeit under a different management, and four weeks after he demanded their unconditional surrender, the president is about to negotiate with that same government.
“Against that backdrop, he now faces the challenge of reaching a more permanent settlement within the space of the next two weeks. In comparison, it took the Obama administration two-and-a-half years to negotiate the 2015 nuclear accord – that’s the one that Donald Trump withdrew from.”
Iran’s Supreme National Security Council said it would negotiate with the US in Pakistan’s capital, Islamabad, starting on Friday.
But while accepting a ceasefire, it said in a statement: “It is emphasised that this does not signify the termination of the war.
“Our hands remain upon the trigger, and should the slightest error be committed by the enemy, it shall be met with full force.”
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US-Israel axis bomb aluminium plant
Just a couple of hours before the alleged two-week ceasefire between Iran and the US-Israel axis, the US bombed Iran’s largest aluminium works. A huge explosion that ripped through the Arak aluminium factory in central Iran was captured in footage broadcast on Iranian local media:
The US have again showed complete disregard for the health of Iranian civilians. Fumes or vapour from burning aluminium have some of the most serious health impacts on those forced to breathe it in, from incurable respiratory conditions, to bone degeneration, to Alzheimers-like neurological breakdown:
• Pulmonary fibrosis: inhalation of aluminium vapour or fine dust can lead to the incurable condition pulmonary fibrosis, one of the most appalling and distressing breathing diseases. Lung tissue hardens and scars, making it progressively more impossible to draw breath. Always terminal, life expectancy is usually less than five years.
• Alveolar proteinosis: in this disease, air sacs in the lungs become filled with protein. While symptoms can be treated – through distressing ‘whole lung lavage‘ – it cannot be cured and leads to recurring bacterial and/or fungal infections.
• Metal fume fever: acute exposure can cause flu-like illness with fever, chills, metallic taste in the mouth, headache, breathing difficulties and cough, along with underlying lung damage and blood toxicity.
• Neurological effects: high exposure can affect the central nervous system, decreasing neurological performance in memory, learning, attention, causing tremors and physical degeneration of the brain. Symptoms can be so severe that they are misdiagnosed as Alzheimer’s disease.
• Bone diseases: aluminium accumulation can disrupt bone renewal, leading to osteoporosis and other bone-weakening diseases.
Trump ordered this strike knowing that a deal – at least a claimed one – was close, after threatening to destroy Iranian civilisation for ever. War criminal.
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Wuthering Heights’ Emerald Fennell Denies Basic Instinct Reboot Rumours
Oscar-winning filmmaker Emerald Fennell has denied reports that she is in talks to direct a new reboot of the erotic thriller Basic Instinct.
Earlier this week, the Saltburn and Wuthering Heights director was said to be in negotiations to helm the new project, following comments made by its screenwriter, Joe Eszterhas.
However, as his claims became more widespread, a spokesperson for Emerald was quick to shoot down the rumours.
In a statement to HuffPost UK, her representative said: “There’s no truth in this. She is not involved in any way.”
Production company Amazon MGM Studios also called the reports “categorically false”.
During an interview with The Guardian published on Tuesday, Joe – who also wrote the scripts for Showgirls and Flashdance – claimed that he was almost done with penning his new version of Basic Instinct.
He alleged: “The producers are negotiating with a really interesting director – a Brit, Emerald Fennell – who did Promising Young Woman and Wuthering Heights.
“Her sensibility is exactly right. She’s someone who is not afraid of controversy and sexuality. So I’m thrilled by that. I hope it works out.”
After starting her career in front of the camera in projects like Call The Midwife and The Crown, Emerald made her feature-length directorial debut in 2020 with Promising Young Woman.
The movie went on to be nominated for five Oscars – including Best Picture, Best Director and Best Actress for Carey Mulligan – and won one in the Best Original Screenplay category.
Her next film, Saltburn, generated even more conversation thanks to its dramatic twists, graphic sex scenes and performances from the likes of Barry Keoghan, Jacob Elordi and Rosamund Pike.
More recently, she put her own spin on the classic gothic romance Wuthering Heights, which proved to be the most divisive film of her career, mostly down to the many deviations she took from Emily Brontë’s original novel and controversy surrounding the casting of Jacob Elordi and Margot Robbie as her Heathcliff and Cathy.
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