Behind every great man, there is often a great woman, and for Jamie Oliver that has been his wife of 26 years, Jools.
The TV chef and the midwife, both 51, met as teenagers after they were set up on a double date.
At the time, Jools, then aged 17, relocated to Tokyo for three months for work – with Jamie writing her love letters every day.
They managed to keep their romance alive and went on to tie the knot in 2000 and welcomed five children together: Poppy Honey Rose, 24, Daisy Boo Pamela, age 23, Petal Blossom Rainbow, 17, Buddy Bear Maurice, 15, and River Rocket Blue Dallas, nine.
Now their eldest daughter Poppy is preparing to tie the knot herself after getting engaged this week to her boyfriend of five years, Ben.
No doubt she’ll be hoping to have a marriage as enduring and strong as her parents’ -but while Jools and Jamie’s romance sounds like it’s been lifted from a romcom, they have had their fair share of trying times too.
From struggling with his ‘rock star fame’ to claims of an affair and a ‘rut’ that almost broke them, they’ve had to put in plenty of work to keep their fairytale alive.
Jamie Oliver and Jools’ love story: How celeb chef and his teen sweetheart struggled with his ‘rock star fame,’ affair claims and a ‘rut’ that almost broke them to build a lasting marriage
The TV chef and the midwife, both 51, met as teenagers after they were set up on a double date
Now their eldest daughter Poppy is preparing to tie the knot herself after getting engaged to to boyfriend of five years, Ben, and is no doubt hoping for a marriage as enduring as her parents’
Jamie met his future wife in 1992 during a double date with his friend Jimmy Doherty, who went on to become a TV presenter.
In an interview with the Daily Mail in 2018, Jamie explained how Jimmy introduced him to Jools when he was 18 years old.
He said: ‘We went on a double date to the cinema in Cambridge – me, Jamie, Juliette and Sue Stump.
‘He had a Fiesta with big fog lights and an exhaust like a tractor on it. We were going over a hill listening to Bob Marley, Buffalo Soldier.
‘We’re all singing, the guy braked in front of us and Jamie smashed into him and knocked his front lights out.’
Oliver added: ‘My fog lights were hanging off so I just ripped them out and threw them away. I was so upset.’
‘Your car’s everything at that age,’ says Jimmy. ‘Juliette must have thought, “What the hell?”‘
Shortly after, Jools moved to Tokyo for a job and detailed how Jamie wrote to her every single day for three months straight.
In 2017, she posted a snap of the letter she has kept from her time away, writing: ‘When I was 17 I worked in Tokyo for three months and every single day Jamie sent me a letter or a fax without fail! These are only half of them.’
Reflecting on this time, Jamie admitted that they were heavily reliant on Jools’ job to survive in London.
He told Flow Magazine: ‘I was as poor as a church mouse; at the end of the month, I’d hardly have £100 left, and without Jools’ tips things would have been really grim.’
It didn’t take Jamie long to ask Jools’ father for his permission to propose. However, he was told they were too young to tie the knot.
Sadly, when Jools reached 22, her father passed away.
As Jamie could no longer ask him for permission, he decided to find a way to work his late father-in-law into his romantic proposal.
He explained: ‘I proposed to Jools in the pouring rain on Christmas Eve over his grave, which sounds really sad, but it was more out of respect for wanting to do it in front of him, even though he wasn’t alive.
‘It was a vile, dark time – but such a beautiful thing.’
In 1999, Jamie skyrocketed to fame when his show The Naked Chef premiered on BBC Two
They went on to tie the knot in 2000 and welcome five children together
In 1999, Jamie skyrocketed to fame when his show The Naked Chef premiered on BBC Two.
He went on to release a series of best-selling cookbooks, which helped turn him into a household name.
During the early days of their relationship, Jamie and Jools had agreed he would spend five years on the London restaurant scene before returning to Essex to open a pub and raise a family.
However, this wasn’t the path that actually happened.
After training at Westminster Catering College and working in Carluccio’s, the 23-year-old became the sous chef at The River Cafe, where his natural talent in front of the cameras was picked up by BBC producers filming a documentary about the Fulham restaurant.
In an interview with The Telegraph in 2010, Jamie explained how women began ‘throwing themselves’ at him during the show’s three-year run.
He said: ‘It was classic slightly rock star-esque: random knickers and bras getting thrown at you.
‘When The Naked Chef kicked off, it was a bit like a pop band. The memories of it were absolutely ballistically crazy.’
One year after the show aired, Jamie and Jools tied the knot at their local church in Essex – with the chef later admitting he found the ceremony ‘awkward and embarrassing’.
During his appearance on the Newlyweds podcast, he explained: ‘The first time you get married, it’s like, it just feels a bit awkward and embarrassing with all your family there.
‘But if you ever get married again, if you get to 10 years or 20 years, the words are different. Because you’ve earned every single line and it was really, really emotional.’
After their wedding, Jools worked as Jamie’s personal assistant – but stepped back from the role to focus on childcare.
Elsewhere in his Flow magazine interview, Jamie hinted that his wife never sought out fame – and would have ‘liked a more modest life’.
Although The Naked Chef ended in 2001, Jamie then went on to present the shows Oliver’s Twist and Jamie’s Kitchen.
Meanwhile, Jamie’s School Dinners saw the chef travel around the UK trying to improve the quality of meals served to schoolchildren.
In 2005, at the height of Jamie’s fame, he promised his wife he would step back from work for six months to spend more time with their growing family.
During this time, they had daughters Poppy Honey – who was born in March 2002 – and Daisy Boo, who followed in April 2003.
In 2005, at the height of Jamie’s fame, he promised his wife he would step back from work for six months to spend more time with their growing family
However, Jamie reportedly broke this promise when he embarked on a six-week tour of Italy for the Channel 4 show Jamie’s Great Italian Escape
However, Jamie reportedly broke this promise when he embarked on a six-week tour of Italy for the Channel 4 show Jamie’s Great Italian Escape.
At this time, fans began to speculate that the pair’s marriage was under strain due to the chef being filmed telling his wife to ‘f**k off’ when she called, The Metro reported.
But in the years that followed, Jamie admitted he regretted spending so much time away from his eldest daughters when they were younger.
He also credited his wife with helping him find a balance between his demanding career and personal life.
Speaking to the Daily Mail in 2013, he said: ‘I used to go away for four weeks at a time quite often when the girls were about two and three. I was growing a business. And I would think it didn’t matter and they were happy with Jools.
‘But I realise now it did matter. I have a wonderful relationship with my older girls and I’m not worried about anything, but I think I’ll have to earn my stripes with them when they’re older.’
As a result, Jamie adjusted his schedule, with Jools ensuring her husband takes weekends off and also has six weeks’ holiday per year.
In 2021, Jamie detailed how Jools has been a silent force who has allowed him to flourish in his career.
Speaking to the Australian magazine Women’s Weekly, he explained: ‘She’s been a really solid and utterly important part of my life and my job’s quite exciting.
‘[My job] expects quite a lot, and she’s my rock. She allows me to do my thing but then comes home and lets me be me… And I think she still quite likes me, which is really nice.’
Around this time, Jools said of their marriage: ‘We bicker all the time. A lot of my friends can’t believe how much. He drives me mad because he never listens to me and I drive him mad because I can be horribly selfish.’
In 2021, Jamie detailed how Jools has been a silent force who has allowed him to flourish in his career
Despite being devoted to each other for many years, Jools admitted that she keeps her husband in check by monitoring his devices and social media accounts.
She told The Telegraph in 2011: ‘I’ll check his email. I’ll check his Twitter.
‘I’ll check his phone. Everything seems fine. He says I’m a jealous girl, but I think I’m fairly laidback, considering.’
Seven years later, Jamie revealed his wife had accused him of having an affair in an interview with Closer magazine.
He said: ‘My missus accused me of having an affair once, because I kept disappearing and coming back with green on my knees. It was courgette season and I was in the vegetable patch!’
Jamie and his wife Jools went on to welcome Petal Blossom, 17, Buddy Bear, 15, and River Rocket, nine.
However, Jools’ road to motherhood wasn’t always smooth-sailing.
Over the years, the mother suffered five miscarriages, including one in lockdown and another that could have cost her her life.
Appearing on the baby loss charity Saying Goodbye’s Life & Soul podcast in 2021, Jools explained how she ‘felt guilty’ speaking about her miscarriages because she thought she was putting her loved ones ‘through hell for her own selfish gain’.
She said: ‘I stopped telling my friends, I didn’t even tell my mum as I was sure she was thinking, “You’re 40 something, you’ve got a wonderful family, you’ve got everything you’ve ever wanted, why are you pushing it?”‘
Two years ago Jamie and Jools flew out to the Maldives with their children to renew their vows
The couple with their five children: Poppy, 24, Daisy Boo, 23, Petal Blossom, 17, Buddy Bear, 15, and River Rocket, nine
Elsewhere in the podcast, Jools detailed how her second miscarriage, which made her home look like a ‘murder scene’, could have proven fatal and has left her with PTSD.
In 2023, Jamie and Jools flew out to the Maldives with their children to renew their vows.
Speaking on the Newlyweds podcast, he told hosts Jamie Laing and Sophie Habboo: ‘We were going to renew our vows at 20 years and then covid happened. So, it was at 23 years.
‘The girls were leaving for university and stuff, so it did feel like the nest was starting to break up.
‘We’d never been on what you would call a posh holiday, so we went to the Maldives.
‘I was a bit embarrassed about the whole thing, if I’m really honest, and I wasn’t so into it until we got there, and then when we got there, I think I probably enjoyed it more than anyone. It was just so nice’.
Elsewhere in the podcast, Jamie admitted that he has felt ‘lonely sometimes’ in his marriage and added: ‘There’s sometimes, like a month and a half, were you don’t quite like each other very much.’
However, he then went on to confess he’ll get over that feeling and fall in love with his wife all over again.
The couple tied the knot once again in a casual ceremony, in front of a tribute to Jool’s favourite hitmaker of all time, Elvis Presley in Vegas.
Last year, Jamie revealed Jools is neurodivergent – three months after confirming that some of the couple’s five children have also been diagnosed.
The chef spoke candidly about his wife to Davina McCall on her podcast Begin Again and admitted Jools’ condition can make life ‘really challenging’.
Jamie told Davina: ‘She’s quite in the background and she’s done that on purpose. She’s definitely the rock. She’s got incredible instinct…
‘She’s incredibly kind, very funny. I love her to bits. I can’t really talk for her but she has neurodiversities that make her life really interesting and really challenging…
‘Of course there’s positives, but there’s loads of things that, you know – she makes us the way that we are. And I’m very grateful for Jools… and an amazing mum.’
Neurodivergent is a term that describes people whose brains function differently, encompassing conditions like autism, ADHD, and dyslexia.
That year, the couple reflected on a quarter of a century together and lifted the lid on the secret to a happy marriage.
Jamie gushed over his wife as he admitted ‘opposites attract’ and said he feels ‘very blessed’ to have been married for so long.
Jamie told Good Housekeeping UK: ‘I wouldn’t be the first to say opposites attract. We get on very well and we genuinely like each other, but we’re also very different.
‘That can create a certain tension, but it also seems to work, and I feel very blessed to have had 25 years.’
In June this year, the pair marked his 26th wedding anniversary with a slew of sweet throwback snaps.
In the trio of images, the couple looked loved-up and fresh-faced, with two images showing them cosied up and one striking snap of Jools on her own.
He added a caption reading: ‘Just a little @joolsoliver appreciation post because she has truly been my rock for 26 years !! What would I do without her?’
This week, the doting parents announced their eldest daughter Poppy has gotten engaged to her boyfriend, Ben, with Jools sharing pictures of Poppy’s engagement on Instagram
This week, the doting parents announced their eldest daughter Poppy has gotten engaged to her boyfriend Ben.
Jools shared pictures of their eldest daughter’s engagement on Instagram on Wednesday.
A delighted Jools wrote: ‘Probably one of my favourite reels so far. Our first baby Poppy Honey is getting married.
‘We are so excited, proud and happy. Ben we all adore you. Little did I know as we moved Pop in to her second house at university, whilst I was sweating over your shoe rack flat pack you seemed very distracted with the boy who had just moved in next door…
‘5 years later you had met you soul mate. so excited for the next chapter love you xxx @bennewman___ @katenewman.’
Jamie then added on his Story: ‘Happy engagement my baby girl Poppy and Ben. I’m so please for you both. What a wonderful moment.’
The post showed Ben getting down on one knee during a beautiful sunset on the beach.
Ben and Poppy met at university and then, after graduating, they went travelling around Australia together.



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