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When Is Bridgerton Back For Part 2 Of Season 4, As Well As Season 5? Here’s What We Know
Never was the escapism of a raunchy period drama more necessary than when Bridgerton first arrived on Netflix peak-pandemic.
More than five years later, and the world is still lapping up the galavants of the Bridgerton siblings and the society surrounding them, with the recently-released fourth season honing in on the second eldest son, Benedict, played by Luke Thompson.
If you’ve already raced through the first batch of season four episodes and you’re wondering what’s next, we’ve put everything together in one handy place.
And don’t fret, because there’s not long at all to wait until the next chapter in the Bridgerton story is here…
When does Bridgerton season 4, part 2 arrive on Netflix?
To the despair of many Bridgerton fans, Netflix only dropped the first half of season four last week.
However, the good news is we only have to wait until 8am on Thursday 26 February to get the remaining four episodes, which will all arrive at once.
What will the next episodes of Bridgerton season 4 be about?

Part one ended on a cliffhanger – not to mention a monumental cock-up from Benedict Bridgerton, when he asked Sophie to be his mistress as opposed to something more serious, following a steamy moment of passion on that staircase.
With that in mind, we can expect to see the fall-out from that in the next run of episodes, as Benedict also presumably discovers who the “Lady In Silver” he’s been yearning for is and Sophie’s true background.
There’s also the fact that Lady Araminta and her daughters are now – along with Mrs Varley – the Bridgertons’ neighbours, which could spell all kinds of drama.
Finally, it looks like we’re set to see more from Francesca and Michaela and what’s gone down between the pair, after Francesca is flustered by the arrival of her husband John’s cousin.

Are there more seasons of Bridgerton to come on Netflix in the future?
Season four is only halfway through, but we already know there’s even more Bridgerton to come, with fifth and sixth runs already in the works.
Bridgerton is based on Julia Quinn’s eight-book series (with one dedicated to each Bridgerton sibling), with showrunner and producer Shonda Rhimes confirming she plans to adapt all eight.
Jess Brownell – who picked up the showrunner reins for season three and four – recently revealed that season five and six would revolve around Eloise (Claudia Jessie) and Francesca (Hannah Dodd).
And while she wouldn’t reveal which story would be told first, if Jess stays true to the order of the books we’ll see Eloise’s love story unfold first, after the widowed Sir Phillip sends her a written proposal despite them never having met in person.
Meanwhile, the sixth book follows Francesca after the death of her husband, John, as she falls for his cousin Michael – or, in the Netflix adaptation, a gender-flipped Michaela.

Having said that, Netflix has been known to shuffle the order of events compared to the books in Bridgerton, so at this point we’ll need to wait for the official word to know for sure.
As for the prospect of seasons seven and eight – which will focus on the two youngest Bridgerton siblings – Jess said that’s something she’s “not thought about” too much.
“I will have to think about that at some point, but for now, I’m just focused on giving them more chances to shine,” she told Variety. “Both Florence and Will are tremendous actors, and it was really exciting to give both of them more to do this season.
″[Gregory] is away for a bit in the front half, but in the back half, you’ll see more from Gregory, as well as Hyacinth. It’s exciting to start fleshing out the world with the younger siblings as we get closer and closer to their season.”
When will Bridgerton season 5 be released?
There’s no official word on that from Netflix yet.
Looking at the staggering of previous seasons, though, we could be in for a two-year wait before we get a new season of Bridgerton, pointing towards a 2028 release for season five.
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Amazon ‘Alexa’ will say “Free Ukraine” but not “Free Palestine”
A US man has found that Amazon’s ‘Alexa’ AI will repeat a wish for pretty much any country to be free — but not “Free Palestine”.
Instead it performs contortions to avoid it, talking about the supposed ‘complex international situation’, before he eventually corners it into claiming “Free Palestine” involves “promoting harm or violence”. Presumably the Ukraine-Russia war is all roses and marshmallows.
But eventually, it seems even an AI can be worn down by the moral force of truth and justice:
A young man documents how the voice assistant ‘Alexa’ evades repeating the phrase ‘Free Palestine,’ in an experiment demonstrating how global algorithms and software are manipulated to obscure the truth and silence Palestinian voices. pic.twitter.com/MO4gglQIH9
— Eye on Palestine (@EyeonPalestine) March 26, 2026
Why on earth wouldn’t Amazon, which is owned by ultra-billionaire Jeff Bezos, has an Israeli subsidiary and earns billions from providing ‘cloud’ services to the military of genocidal apartheid Israel and to its suppliers, want to say “Free Palestine”..?
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The Best Plants For Every Type Of Soil
It’s one thing running a garden on well-aerated (but never dusty), easily compacted (but not too heavy) soil.
But it’s rare that the stars perfectly align; the UK’s soil, which is increasingly degrading, may run a little too chalky or clay-heavy in your backyard.
Here, we’ll share the types of soil in the UK and the best plants for each of them.
What types of soil are there?
The main types of soil in the UK are:
- Chalky,
- Clay,
- Loamy,
- Peaty,
- Sandy,
- Silty.
The type of soil is determined by its particle size. Clay particles are less than 0.002mm; silt is 0.002-0.05mm; sand is 0.05-2mm, and stones are larger than 2mm.
Most soil is a combination of different soil particles.
Which soil do I have?
To count as a “clay” soil, the earth has to contain 25% or more clay particles. These are fertile, but drain slowly and can be compacted quite easily; they take a long time to warm up, and may “bake” in summer. They get sticky when wet.
Chalky soils tend to be stony as they often lie over a limestone bedrock. They usually drain quite freely and are typically alkaline. If your soil froths when you put it in a jar of vinegar, it’s probably high in chalk.
Sandy soils retain little moisture, which is great for draining after rain but a little tougher to work with during hot weather. They feel gritty to the touch.
Loamy soils are often considered “the perfect soil type” as they contain a mixture of clay, sand, and silt. That makes them easy to work with and able to hold on to water without running waterlogged. They’re usually high in nutrients.
Peaty soils can be acidic and hold a lot of water, though they’re also high in nutrients. They’re not usually found in gardens, though.
And silty soils, while easily compacted, usually drain well and are quite fertile. They typically have medium-sized particles, which help them to retain moisture. They rarely clump and feel a little slippery.
Soil-testing kits can help you work out the nutrient content of your soil.
What are the best plant types for each soil?
1) Clay soils
- Roses
- Hydrangea
- Hardy geraniums
- Mahonia
- Foxglove
- Tomato
- Cabbage
- Squash
- Green beans
- Lettuce.
2) Chalky soils
- Geranium
- Clematis
- Lavender
- Yarrow
- Rosemary
- Globe thistle
- Crab apple trees.
3) Loamy soils
- Wisteria
- Geranium
- Day lily
- Dogwood
- Summer bulbs
- Roses
- Peony
- Tomato
- Lettuce
- Carrots
- Beans
- Cucumbers
- Strawberries.
4) Peaty soils
- Rhododendrons
- Azaleas
- Heather
- Magnolias
- Brassicas
- Radishes
- Potatoes.
5) Sandy soils
- Tulips
- Lavender
- Buddleja
- Hardy fuchsia
- Carrot
- Courgette
- Alliums
- Radishes.
6) Silty soils
- Willows
- Ferns
- Dogwoods
- Astilbe
- Cistus
- Lettuce
- Chard
- Green beans.
What if my soil is new and/or very shallow?
Wildflowers do exceptionally well on very new, thin soil, gardener and writer Arthur Parkinson previously told HuffPost UK.
“Perennial wildflowers like ox-eye daisy you can sow onto very poor soils, and they will establish well from being sown in the early autumn. Annual chamomile and cornfield poppies will thrive too if their seed is sown in spring,” he said.
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The idiocy of celebrity ‘anti-fascists’
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The war in Iran is driving a generational divide between MAGA men at CPAC
GRAPEVINE, TEXAS — Joseph Bolick feels betrayed by President Donald Trump. And it’s because of the war in Iran.
The 30-year-old Iraq and Afghanistan war veteran voted for Trump in 2024. But at the annual Conservative Political Action Conference gathering this week he sported a hat emblazoned with “America First” — a slogan Trump championed during his campaign, along with the promise not to start new wars in foreign countries.
“He’s lied about everything,” said Bolick. “If you go into a war where there’s no end game, how is it going to end? There’s no clear objective.”
Bolick is part of a cohort of young MAGA loyalists who are increasingly frustrated with Trump over the war in Iran. While Trump’s decision to join Israel in attacking Iran has rallied war hawks and his older supporters, it has alienated many of the young men who swung toward the GOP in 2024. That split is resonating among not only the rank-and-file, but also conservative media influencers and some corners of the White House.
The generational divide was on stark display at CPAC, the annual conservative base-rallying gathering, where some young MAGA loyalists expressed deep frustration and even anger at the Trump administration’s choice to reignite conflict in the Middle East. One month into the war, Trump’s shaky ground with young men threatens to fracture an already-fragile GOP coalition ahead of a hostile midterm in November.
At the conference in north Texas, some attendees carried around Iranian flags, pledging loyalty to the U.S. mission overseas, while others donned America First hats and preached about the need for anti-interventionism.
“Trump and Republicans in general are going to have major issues in the midterms, in 2028, if we can’t wrap this up in a relatively quick amount of time,” said 21-year-old Andrew Belcher, president of the Ohio College Republicans. He added that Trump is doing “relatively poorly” with hyper online young men who are influenced heavily by media figures like Tucker Carlson and other isolationists in the GOP.
A POLITICO poll this month found that Trump voters largely continue to back him. But men who self-identified as “MAGA Republicans” and voted for Trump in 2024 are deeply split by generation over their trust in the president and their view of the war, especially if the number of U.S. casualties rises.
The contrast was striking, even with the larger margins of error that come from the smaller sample sizes: More than 70 percent of those over 35 believe Trump has a plan, compared with 49 percent of those under 35. A 66 percent majority of older MAGA men are willing to sacrifice American lives in order for the U.S. to achieve its goals in Iran, compared with less than half of younger MAGA men who say the same. And the younger men are significantly less likely to say the war is aligned with MAGA principles and in the interests of American people.
Some of the most prominent MAGA voices are opposed to the Iran war, like Carlson and Megyn Kelly, along with influential figures like Joe Rogan, who holds tremendous sway with young men. There’s even growing consternation among younger, more-right wing White House staffers, said one person familiar with the dynamics who was granted anonymity to discuss them.
“They’re very frustrated. They didn’t love the war to start with, and since it began, the constantly contradictory messaging from the president himself, is just brutal, brutal for staff to deal with and making their life really hard,” the person said. “He puts his people in a really tough position, especially people who are public-facing.”
“What matters most to the American people – including young men – is having a Commander-in-Chief who takes decisive action to eliminate threats and keep them safe, which is exactly what President Trump is doing with the ongoing successful Operation Epic Fury,” said White House spokesperson Davis Ingle.
Part of CPAC’s intent, a hallmark grassroots gathering that has been held for more than 50 years, is to hype up conservatives, a particularly important mission for party leaders in critical election years. If Republicans want to prevent Democrats from flipping the House this midterm cycle, they need to ensure they don’t lose any gains they made with key parts of their coalition in 2024, namely young men.
“We need you,” said former RNC chair Michael Whatley, who is running for Senate in North Carolina. “We need every conservative, every Republican, every patriot across this country to focus on two things: get out the vote and protect the ballot.”
Mercedes Schlapp, senior fellow for the CPAC Foundation, opened Thursday’s session by pleading with conservatives to remain united. “We cannot divide from within,” she cautioned attendees.
But interviews with a dozen young men at CPAC revealed broad concern that Trump is imperiling the U.S. economy, which has seen spiking gas and fuel prices caused by the war.
“A lot of the young generation feels that there’s just not a lot of hope for the economy,” said a 30-year old attendee who was granted anonymity to speak freely about party dynamics.
Onstage and in hallway conversations, older attendees celebrated Trump for ending what they called a 47-year conflict in Iran, marked by the death of Iran’s supreme leader.
A panel featuring Iranian women speaking about human rights abuses was met with loud cheers from the audience. Scores of mostly older conservatives milled about wearing shirts with the image of exiled Iran Crown Prince Reza Pahlavi, who is set to speak at the conference on Saturday.
“I believe President Trump’s shock and awe is what they needed,” said Lawrence Ligas, a 63-year-old conservative Chicago activist who was pardoned by Trump for charges related to the Jan. 6 insurrection. “Young MAGA is causing this divide because they’re concerned about being drafted.”
Multiple speakers on stage both directly and indirectly roasted online influencers for their opposition to the war. Conservative political commentator Josh Hammer blasted Carlson and Kelly in particular as “doomsayers.”
In his speech, former Florida GOP Rep. Matt Gaetz told the audience that “dissent and disagreement has to be allowed. Tucker Carlson isn’t going anywhere.” Gaetz, who resigned in 2024 after being briefly nominated by Trump for attorney general, then warned about the risks of military occupation in Iran.
“A ground invasion of Iran will make our country poorer and less safe,” the 43-year-old said. “It will mean higher gas prices, higher food prices. And I’m not sure if we would end up killing more terrorists than we would create.”
Megan Messerly contributed to this report.
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Green Party conference ‘under attack’ to prevent anti-Zionism vote
The Green Party’s conference online voting system is under ‘DDOS attack‘ this morning, as members prepare to vote on a motion to declare the party officially opposed to the racist ideology of Zionism, according to party insiders who spoke to Skwawkbox.
Pro-Israel groups and the Israeli embassy have been frothing for weeks about the vote and attempted to pressure party leaders into blocking the motion, but democracy prevailed and the demands were ignored. Now it seems the Israel lobby is trying to take matters into its own hands.
The Green Party’s tech team is working to resolve or bypass the attack. Voting is taking place throughout the day, so members registered to ‘attend’ should log into the Greens’ members website and make sure to cast their vote for the motion as soon as it is working. Alternatively, the website link in the party’s emails to individual members about the conference appears to be still working despite the attack.
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Why Do So Many People Fall Asleep Watching TV?
If you’re like most people, you’ve probably drifted off to sleep as soon as you put on a movie or show at night.
It’s a common occurrence – you sit down with your partner to finally watch the season finale of the show everyone is talking about, only to fall asleep, jolt awake, pretend you didn’t fall asleep and keep on watching until you fall asleep again.
Sleep experts told HuffPost there are many reasons this happens, and some are more concerning than others. Here’s what to know:
When you’re watching TV or movies at night, you’re often in a good sleep environment.
“There’s a couple of environmental factors to the fact of watching TV, watching a movie that promotes sleepiness,” said Dr. Neal Walia, a sleep specialist at UCLA Health in California. “When you wake up in the morning, you develop something called a sleep drive, which is how much your body wants to sleep.”
As you go about your day, your sleep drive goes up before peaking at bedtime, he explained. “And that drive is what gets you into sleep and carries you to sleep,” Walia noted.
“Usually, people are watching movies and TV in the evening after a long workday. This is when their sleep drive is at the highest,” he said. So your body naturally wants to sleep at this time.
“And then sometimes it’s just a lack of stimulation,” said Dr. Molly Atwood, the director of clinical training in the behavioural sleep medicine program at Johns Hopkins Medicine in Baltimore.
If you find yourself feeling tired throughout the day, you may notice that your fatigue disappears when you interact with something, whether that’s scrolling on your phone or getting up to make dinner.
Why? “Your body has a system of overcoming whatever sleepiness you have with stimuli,” according to Walia. And watching TV and or a movie is, generally, a low-stimuli activity, he noted. TikTok or even a task like folding laundry are more high-stimuli.
“If you’re lying down, it is dark – so your body’s kind of getting that signal that it’s nighttime and if the movie is not very stimulating or boring, it might be a lot easier, too, for any sleepiness that is there to take over,” Atwood added.
“Another big thing is that, especially patients with insomnia, a lot of times what they’ll say to me is ‘I just can’t turn my brain off.’ And most of our day, our attention is preoccupied by something – probably a screen, most likely – but something is taking our attention away,” Walia said.
We don’t often just sit with our thoughts. That is, until we drift off to sleep at the end of the day. And if you’re stressed about work or anxious about money, sitting with your thoughts can make it difficult to fall asleep.
“But if you’re watching something like a show, you’re not really in your own head for the most part,” Walia said. Your attention is drawn to the show or movie you’re watching, not the taxes you still need to do. This encourages your body to drift off to sleep.
Morning people are more likely to fall asleep while watching TV at night.
Your body’s natural circadian rhythm can play a role in whether you’re prone to falling asleep on the couch or not.
“In some circumstances, if you’re more of a morning person, your body naturally makes you alert early in the morning and it shuts down alertness early at night,” Atwood said.
Folks in this group are just naturally more tired at night. For morning people, their body is giving them signals that it’s time for bed, which makes it more likely that they’ll drift off while watching TV.
It’s also more common if you re-watch shows.
Many people turn on their comfort shows after a long day. And according to Atwood, it’s more likely that you’ll fall asleep during a show you’ve seen several times.
“Our nervous systems are super calm and comforted, versus like an action movie or a horror movie,” Atwood said.
You also don’t have to pay much attention to the show to know what’s going on, which allows your body to drift off easily, too.

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Most people are also sleep-deprived, which makes it easy to fall asleep while watching TV.
“A lot of our population is sleep deprived,” said Walia, who explained that most people aren’t getting the seven to nine hours of sleep they need each night.
Everyone has different individual sleep needs. But no matter how much sleep your body requires, most folks aren’t getting it.
Because of busy days, family demands and high-stress jobs, you may not even notice you’re sleepy until you’re interacting with something that’s low-stimuli, like a movie. This is when your sleep deprivation can catch up with you and cause you to fall asleep.
Even people who sleep the recommended seven to nine hours a night may not be getting good quality sleep, which can also result in sleepiness on the couch.
“There’s many people out there with untreated or under-treated sleep disorders that disrupt the quality of sleep,” Walia said, adding that sleep apnea is one example of this.
If you fall asleep during a movie once in a while, there isn’t much cause for concern ― but if this is a regular habit, it’s worth evaluating your sleep.
It’s understandable if you fall asleep on the couch after a busy day of travel or after a late night out, but if you’re falling asleep in front of the TV frequently, you should take notice.
“If you’re sitting upright, the lights are on, it’s an engaging movie … and you still can’t keep yourself awake, that might be more of like, ‘OK, I should reevaluate how much sleep I’m getting overall,’” Atwood said.
If you think you’re getting enough sleep but still falling asleep during engaging shows and movies, it’s worth talking to a sleep specialist, she added. A professional can help test you for underlying conditions that could disrupt your sleep.
Being able to stay awake during movies and TV shows at night could be a sign of good sleep health.
If you can usually stay awake while watching TV or movies at night, it’s “probably a good indication that [you’re] not sleep deprived or they’re not having disruptions in their sleep,” Walia said.
This nighttime energy reflects relatively good sleep health, he added.
Some sleep disorders can keep people from napping or falling asleep during shows and movies, but, overall, if you are getting enough high-quality sleep, you likely have good sleep health, he said.
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There is nothing the left hates more than an angry Jew
At last, the left has found something to get angry about following the anti-Semitic attack in Golders Green in London this week. No, not the actual burning of four Jewish ambulances, don’t be silly. It’s the sight of angry Jews that has pissed them off. The frothing Israelophobes of the digital left have shown more fury over the behaviour of London’s exasperated Jews than they did over the savage act of arson that caused them such exasperation.
Over the past 48 hours, ‘Golders Green’ has finally trended in the digital hovels of the keffiyeh classes. But it’s not the setting alight of those four Hatzola ambulances in the early hours of Monday morning that has got them chatting and seething. It’s the fact that local Jews responded angrily to the presence of Al Jazeera reporters and basically told them to fuck off. Burning Jewish charity ambulances? Meh. Being rude to Al Jazeera hacks? How dare you.
It was in the daylight of Monday morning, as the wreckage of the ambulances still smouldered, that Jews in Golders Green bristled at the sight of Al Jazeera. They gathered around its reporters. They told them to leave. They made an impromptu chant: ‘Al Jazeera off our streets!’ No fists were thrown, which is more than can be said for Islamist gatherings, where ‘disagreeable’ journalists are frequently threatened and forced out. It was just an angry protest by a community that only hours earlier had been invaded by anti-Semitic arsonists.
One man in particular has got leftists spluttering into their iced coffees. His name is David Soffer. Video footage appears to show him speaking in Arabic to the Al Jazeera reporters, calling them ‘dogs’ and ‘donkeys’ and telling them to ‘go back to Qatar’ (where Al Jazeera is based). It has since been revealed that he is a volunteer officer in the Metropolitan Police. There’s now a wild digital clamour for him to get the boot. The Met has referred him to its department of professional standards.
I can’t be the only person who finds it sickening that the activist class has expended more energy on naming and shaming an angry Jew than they did condemning the fascistic act that made him angry. We seriously need some perspective on the behaviour of Mr Soffer and the other people in Golders Green. This was not ‘a mob’ hell-bent on shutting down foreign journalists. They were just worried Jews who weren’t best pleased to see a media outlet that has been accused of anti-Semitism covering an anti-Semitic attack in their neighbourhood.
Some are calling the angry Jews a ‘racist mob’. Grow up. ‘Donkey’ is an incredibly common insult in the Arabic language. And funnily enough in Irish culture, too. My brother called me a donkey on WhatsApp just last week. Perhaps I should report him for racial hatred. It is shameless Orwellianism and grotesque victim-shaming to damn as ‘racist’ a community that had just suffered a racist assault. It wasn’t enough that Jewish Golders Green was violently attacked – it had to be libelled, too. The salt of defamation rubbed into the wound of racist violence.
The true narrative of Golders Green – which is that Britain’s Jews have suffered a bloody wave of racism since Hamas’s pogrom of 7 October 2023 – has been utterly turned on its head by the ghouls of the Islamo-left. The British Muslim website 5Pillars put out a video titled ‘Golders Green attack and [harass] Arab journalists’. And so, courtesy of the twisted morality of that unholy alliance of foolish socialists and nutty Islamic hardliners, the story of Golders Green is no longer one of Jewish pain but of Jewish menace. The victims of racism reimagined as racists – the final grim accomplishment of the Jew-baiters in our midst.
What we are witnessing is the theft from the Jews of their moral status. Under the regime of identitarianism, the Jews can never be victims. They’re too ‘white’ for that. So their every claim to victimisation must be dismantled. Almost instinctively – but no less brutishly for that – the Islamo-left swarms on any story about Jewish suffering and seeks to disprove or dampen it. They must, in order to maintain their hierarchy of oppression in which Jews are hyper-privileged and suspect, and Muslims are oppressed and noble. Hence the events in Golders Green are twisted from a story of Jews being beleaguered by anti-Semites to Arabs being beleaguered by Jews.
This digital mobbing of concerned Jews is in keeping with the regime of moral inversion we have been living under since 7 October 2023. Time and again, the Jews are cast as perpetrators, even where they are the victims. Hamas subjects Israelis to genocidal violence and yet it’s Israel that is called genocidal. British Jews suffer an unprecedented spike in anti-Semitic incidents and yet they’re damned as ‘privileged’. Golders Green is subjected to the fires of racial hatred and yet it is Golders Green that gets called racist and hateful. This is the violent gutting of the truth in the service of keeping Jews in their place – that is, as symbols of ‘whiteness’ and ‘privilege’ that leftists and Islamists might righteously hate.
Someone needs to say it: it is perfectly logical that Jews waking up to news of anti-Semitic terror would be annoyed to see Al Jazeera skulking around. This is the media empire that is described by some as the mouthpiece of Hamas. Its digital channel, AJ+, has called into question the Holocaust. It has hawked conspiracy theories about the Jews controlling the porn industry and hating Jesus Christ. I’m not Jewish but if I had been in Golders Green that morning, with the smoke of Jew hatred getting in my eyes, I might also have invited the Al Jazeera guys to sling their hook.
There is nothing the left and its Islamist allies hate more than an angry Jew. They don’t mind them when they’re meek, when they just shut up and put up with anti-Semitism. But when they push back, when they hit the streets, when they shout, when they ‘weaponise’ their experiences of racism, as the left loves to accuse them of doing – that’s unacceptable. Listen, if Jewish anger grosses you out more than anti-Jewish violence, then you are further down the road of fascism than you might think.
Brendan O’Neill is spiked’s chief political writer and host of the spiked podcast, The Brendan O’Neill Show. Subscribe to the podcast here. His latest book – After the Pogrom: 7 October, Israel and the Crisis of Civilisation – is available to order on Amazon UK and Amazon US now. And find Brendan on Instagram: @burntoakboy.
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I’m A Child-Free Paediatric Surgeon, And People Have Thoughts
I published an essay entitled, “I’m A Surgeon. I’m Also Child-Free — And 6 Words From A Colleague About My Life Left Me Stunned,” on HuffPost Personal in 2024.
The morning it went live, my alarm jolted me from sleep well before sunlight filled the sky. I grabbed my phone, swiped it open to see the headlines, and there, smack dab in the middle of my news feed, I saw my name. The day had hardly begun… and I was already trending.
I had revealed my most private feelings about my reproductive life and detailed how my choice not to have children was repeatedly called out in professional settings. I was confident that whether I had kids or not did not determine my worth as a person. In the 21st century, it should not be controversial to say that some women choose other paths. And, still, that morning, I was nervous about sharing all this in such a public way.
Those nerves only proved my social conditioning. Women without kids are still viewed within the context of rigid stereotypes. I was anxious about how my essay – and I – would be perceived, and I worried it wouldn’t be good.
Then something unexpected happened. I was inundated with messages. Over the next week, my Instagram, the essay’s comment section, and even my work email were flooded with a huge outpouring of gratitude and positivity. Women wrote to thank me for sharing what they felt but couldn’t vocalise, for helping dispel the myth that women without kids are selfish and cold, and for making it clear that women don’t need to apologise for choosing not to have children. More people felt like me than I ever would have guessed.
Most of these messages were from women who, like me, did not want to be mothers. Women who knew that their reproductive freedom was hard fought and well deserved, but still wrestled with strong societal expectations. Some of the messages I received, however, were from women with kids who wished they had been told at some point in their lives that they had other options. I even received notes from men who had witnessed their partners’ or wives’ value reduced to whether or not they were a mother. What united all of these people was a simple wish: for women to be valued beyond their reproductive choices.
I would be lying, though, if I said all the responses I received were positive. A proportion of these notes were filled with anger and resentment. A few of them even veered into harassment. Like the positive messages, these all had a unifying theme.
“You stupid idiot,” wrote one person, “will feminism take care of you when you’re old and dying?” Feminism, responses like these implied, was to blame for my decision to pursue a life as a successful surgeon, to follow the instincts that told me I did not want children of my own and that my life could be complete without motherhood.

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To some degree, I expected to receive messages like these from men, but I was surprised to find that many of the negative replies were, in fact, authored by women. They insisted my own take on my own life could not be trusted and that I was lying about feeling fulfilled. I would never be happy, they insisted, and never know true love or joy. My life would always be incomplete, they said, since I had been misled by a wolf in sheep’s clothing into a life without meaning. That wolf was, apparently, feminism.
These sentiments are not new, even if they have been emboldened by the current presidential administration. Feminism has long been a societal scapegoat. The wave of feminism championed by figures like Gloria Steinem encouraged women to free themselves of society’s expectation that all women must have children and stay in the kitchen. However, in recent years, this narrow definition has been heavily critiqued for the way it may appear to overlook and undervalue the labour involved in motherhood. This version of feminism has also estranged women from different backgrounds by centring the experiences and priorities of only white middle class women.
Women who find deep meaning in child rearing and significance in their work at home have felt alienated by mainstream versions of the movement. Some have even fled progressive politics because they found more alignment in conservative platforms, which often embrace domestic life and labour as a woman’s truest calling. There are even those who have argued that feminism has “ruined” motherhood by allowing women to pursue alternative paths in life and by encouraging the declining birth rate. Furthermore, the experiences, voices, and struggles of marginalised, non-white, and queer women have not always been included in the mission of some approaches to / forms of feminism, leaving many searching for alternative frameworks to fight for all women’s rights.
As the derogatory messages I received in my inbox show, the societal skepticism of women without children is not going anywhere, especially now that we have high-powered conservative think tanks pushing regressive gender roles and opposition to feminist movements. They, too, take the stance that feminism has damaged the traditional family structure by allowing women to believe their lives can be fulfilled without motherhood and marriage.
At the same time, conservatives like JD Vance, who is well known for his animosity towards single women without children, are using their large platforms to claim that women who pursue professional careers are causing social unrest.
Instead of addressing the real lack of support mothers face in this country, Trump is also making an explicit play to push motherhood on American women. Since my essay was published, we have seen proposals for a baby-bonus cash payout for new mothers, childbirth medals, and a federally funded tax-advantaged savings account seeded with $1,000 for any child born between 2025 and 2029, all aimed at selling women on partaking in a traditional nuclear-family lifestyle.
As a paediatric surgeon who helps children every day, I do not understand how I could be viewed as an enemy of the state. Unfortunately, I still see this belief play out – even at work.
In fact, a mother recently asked me a series of personal questions to suss out whether I was capable of performing her child’s routine surgery. After inquiring about my qualifications, she asked me directly whether I was a mother. “No,” I told her, and I asked her why she wanted to know. After a bit of rambling, she concluded with an unconvincing apology, noting, “But I think women should be able to do all kinds of jobs… or whatever.”
I don’t mind questions, and I understand parents put a huge amount of trust in their children’s doctors, especially when it comes to surgery. However, this specific encounter was yet another reminder that even a woman’s value in professional settings can be tied back to their reproductive choices.
I knew a question like this didn’t belong in that hospital exam room and had nothing to do with my skill as a surgeon, but it’s no surprise women feel this way. After all, we are all taught to view women without children as less capable and less committed to the care of others.
At the time I wrote my original essay, I had hoped such sentiments about women without children were declining. But in the weeks after it was released, I watched Kamala Harris’ choice to not have children of her own get repeatedly dragged through the mud. The derogatory rhetoric about women without children has, sadly, only accelerated since I awoke to find myself trending on my phone screen.
I, however, have never wavered in my belief in my value as a childfree woman. Because of the women who have come before me, I have been able to live a life full of joy, meaning, and fulfilment – on my own terms. I will continue to use my voice to ensure others can do the same.
Caitlin A. Smith is a surgeon and writer in the Pacific Northwest. Her personal essays on surgical training and experiences have appeared on Doximity. She is currently writing her first book, a firsthand account about the life and experiences of women in medicine. Find her at @miseducationofaknife on Instagram and Substack.
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20 Minutes Of Cycling A Day May Boost Your Memory
We already know that exercise seems to reduce dementia risk (a 2022 paper found that walking 3,800 steps a day may lower your likelihood of developing dementia by 25%, with increasing benefits up to 9,800 steps).
Even when it’s not directly dementia-related, movement appears to improve memory and thinking skills.
A recent paper, published in Brain Communications, has found that 20 minutes of cycling a day can create “ripples” in the brain that might help us to process and store information more efficiently.
How did cycling seem to affect participants’ memory?
The research involved 14 participants aged from 17-50. They tracked their brain activity before and after 20-minute stationary cycling sessions through an intracranial electroencephalography (iEEG).
The iEEG measures electrical activity in the brain, which provides an added layer of detail.
Previously, scientists had noticed “ripples” in the minds of rats, which were believed to improve their memories after exercise, though these had not been seen in humans before.
But the iEEGs in this research saw similar results after the participants completed their exercise.
Speaking to Medical News Today, study author Dr Juan Ramirez-Villegas said, “Ripples are very brief bursts of highly synchronised electrical activity in the brain’s memory centre, the hippocampus.
“In animals, they are known to play a key role in stabilising memories after an experience. You can think of them as moments when the brain rapidly ‘reviews’ information, helping convert recent experiences into lasting memories.”
They might also help to regulate blood sugar in animals, the study added.
The study found that the higher someone’s heart rate got during the cycling session, the stronger those “ripples” seemed to be.
“This suggests that the intensity of physical activity may influence how strongly the brain’s memory circuits respond,” stated Dr Ramirez-Villegas.
That might not be the only benefit
Aside from the “ripple” effect, this research also seemed to help different parts of the brain communicate better, potentially leading to improved memory.
“It is surprising how after a session of acute exercise, hippocampal-cortical communication seems to be enhanced, a phenomenon thought to be strongly linked to memory processing,” Dr Ramirez-Villegas said.
“This suggests that even a brief bout of physical activity can influence the neural dynamics involved in learning and memory.”
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Irony Meters Explode Over Trump’s ‘Stupid’ President Demand
Donald Trump set off a wave of irony on Thursday when he declared during a Cabinet meeting: “I don’t want a stupid person being president.”
The remark came amid a lengthy attack on Democrats, whom he branded “a party of insanity” that “will destroy our country.”
Trump singled out California Governor Gavin Newsom, a potential 2028 Democratic presidential candidate who has spoken publicly about his dyslexia, the brain-based learning difference that affects reading and language processing.
“I believe he took himself out of the running when he says he suffers from mental disability,” Trump said, referring to Newsom by his derogatory nickname “Newscum.”
“A reporter said it was terrible that I talked that way about somebody with mental disability,” he added, before calling Newsom “actually a very stupid person.”
“I don’t want a stupid person being president,” Trump continued, later boasting about acing multiple cognitive tests — which he claimed proves he is smart, even though such tests are designed to detect cognitive decline, not measure intelligence.
Newsom’s press team fired back: “Wow. Trump is going to resign?”
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