90 Day Fiance: Thomas Embarrasses Paula with Fragrance Freak Out – Recap [S12E14]

On 90 Day Fiance, Thomas Dintino freaks out about fragrance when Paula Barbosa‘s family come for a stay in his apartment. Marissa Rubinetti wants to keep it light but Edward Miguel Gomez goes deep on trust issues. It’s the morning after Catie Norboe‘s bachelorette party but Josh Atkins is the one hungover. And Debby Rolando gets some bad news concerning her intimate wedding. Let’s take a closer look in this recap of Season 12, Episode 14 On Borrowed Time.

90 Day Fiance: Thomas Dintino Lays Down the Law

On 90 Day Fiance, Thomas Dintino prefers to lay out a yoga mat rather than a welcome mat for Paula Barbosa’s family. While it’s not unreasonable to set some boundaries, he definitely comes on too strong. Paula preps for the visit by cleaning and laying out a rug for the balcony. Thomas Dintino flips when he learned the rug costs 70 dollars. Paula suggests splurging on a proper table for the guests to dine at. But Thomas is proud to set up a card table with a bunch of random chairs

Thomas Dintino whines that the table takes up the space for his yoga mat. Paula calls him selfish and he tells her she doesn’t appreciate life. Paula takes the practical route blowing up various air mattresses around the apartment. Finally, her family arrives. Thomas and Paula race to the street to greet them. Thomas begins boldly yelling in Portuguese and the multiple family members pile out of the van.

At first the family is charmed by the apartment. Until Thomas Dintino starts screaming about the rules. No soap, no perfumes, no shoes in the house. It’s awkward and uncomfortable when he brags about not spending a dime to welcome the family as well as not owning a television. Paula’s brother finds two year old expired meat in the fridge. And declares Thomas Dintino crazy. Paula is completely embarrassed by the tantrum.

90 Day Fiance: Edward Ruins a Night Out for Marissa

After a big fight in the big apple, Marissa Rubinetti and Edward Miguel Gomez are back on solid ground on 90 Day Fiance. They hold hands and laugh on the way to Barre class. Where Marissa will be the instructor. Edward comes in cocky, requesting heavier dumbbells. But Marissa warns it’s high repetition. After, he admits it was certainly much harder than he expected. They clean up the studio and plan for a night out later.

But dinner out proves tougher for Edward than Barre class. Even with a few swigs of gin and tonic. Marissa Rubinetti lays out that this night will be light and free of serious conversation. But Edward fails to comprehend and goes into a dark speech about how if she should decide to cheat or do him wrong in the future it’s on her. Marissa tells him to lower his voice and marches away from the table. So, all her doubts about the marriage are back in play.

Josh Feels Disrespected by Catie’s Latest Request

Catie Norboe behaved herself at her bride or die themed bachelorette party. She’s proud of herself and feels good enough to ride bikes and have a picnic with her 90 Day Fiance Josh Atkins. It turns out Josh is feeling the effects of drinking the night before. He watched the news and got upset and fearful about the state of immigration. He feels insecure and misses his home country and a sense of belonging.

Catie thoughtfully asks what she can do to keep his mind at ease. He’s touched. But it doesn’t take long before she bursts his bubble. She suggests she wants to be open with him about something. And of course it’s her desire to not leave her ho -life behind. In other words an open relationship. Hungover Josh is understandably upset. And reveals he wants to settle down into a good old monogamous marriage. And that he feels like she’s giving him the finger. Catie gnaws on some prosciutto and shrugs.

TLC Couple Debby and Mido Get Ready to Wed

In an effort to get closer as their wedding is just days away, Debby Rolando plans a cooking class for the couple. In her mind it will not only be an opportunity to spend time together. But will help her out at home if Mohamed “Mido” Fayed can make dinner while she works. Mido suggests he doesn’t need culinary instruction. And implies it’s Debby that oversold her cooking ability. And has only prepared french fries, tuna and eggs.

The couple begin class with the chef. Pasta and shrimp are the task at hand. But first Debby has to prepare the shrimp and rip their heads off. She’s squeamish on 90 Day Fiance. Mido taunts her and Debby bores the instructor with Mido’s engagement prank. Later, Debby gazes dreamily at Mido. She tells him she loves him “so much”. Mido looks uncomfortable. But blurts out “love you too” to Debby’s delusional delight.

It’s one day before the wedding. And Debby has to get flowers. She calls up her best friends who are in the dark about the impending nuptials. After the blow up after the haunted house, the friends aren’t really onboard with the marriage. Debby flashes her ring at them and they look disappointed. And feel even worse when she lets them know they aren’t invited. Only her son and daughter. But when her son texts to say he can’t make it, she starts to break down to them.

90 Day Fiance: Ashia Deals with Family

Ashia Montgomery is determined to follow through with her wedding to Maxwell Okeke in Nigeria. But not everyone is onboard. She shops for a dress with her future sister-in-law. Who vocalizes her concerns about Ashia wanting to change things about Maxwell. Ashia assures her she has her brother’s best interests at heart. And wants to know why she’s standing in her way when she has the life of marriage and family Ashia wants.

While Maxwell’s sister comes around and gives her support, things don’t go as well with Ashia’s own family. God brother Rod hasn’t held back. And in fact doubles down harder over dinner with Ashia Montgomery. He even brings a close family friend for back-up. Rod accuses Ashia of being “desperate to have somebody else’s last name”. And rushing to get pregnant. Ashia stands firm. But leaves when Rod angrily slaps the table to make a point. Till next time!