Nikki Glaser Reveals Her Unusual Relationship Dynamic

Nikki Glaser is opening up about her unconventional approach to her relationship with Chris Convy, sharing why she encourages him to “hook up” with other women. The comedian’s candid comments offer a glimpse into her views on love and commitment, sparking conversation about the boundaries and dynamics that work for different couples.

Nikki Glaser Likes It When Her Boyfriend Hooks Up With Other Women

On the “Call Her Daddy” podcast episode released on April 8, Nikki Glaser talked candidly about her relationship with her long-time boyfriend, producer Chris Convy. She told host Alex Cooper that she doesn’t mind if her boyfriend were to “hook up” with other people. However, the comedian said that it was “not a two-way street.”

“I’m not someone who likes to hook up when I’m in a relationship. I don’t really care about that. But I don’t care if someone else were to. In fact, I kind of like it,” she explained.

Glaser said she has urged Convy to “go out there” to be with someone, since she’s attracted to “a guy who other girls want.” Without sharing any details, the comedian said that her boyfriend has “done some stuff” outside their relationship, which she said was “fun” to hear. “Sometimes I’m too busy to be really sexy, so I’m like, ‘Go out and get some attention’,” she said.

The Comedian Does Not Believe In Soulmates

Glaser also discussed the concept of soulmates and why she doesn’t believe in it. According to the two-time Golden Globes host, there are too many people in the world, and the odds of finding the one are low.

“I don’t believe in soulmates, and I do believe you have to go like, you know what, ‘This is the best I can do right now, and I’m just gonna cash in my chips because I probably could do better, but who knows?’” she explained.

Glaser shared that Convy has the same beliefs, adding that she does not think she’s the “love of his life.”

“I mean, I’m a love of his life… There’s probably a woman that is so much more compatible for him than me, like would be so much better, like truly,” she said frankly.

Nikki Glaser Sets Her Boundaries

Despite urging her partner to have hookups with others, Glaser still has boundaries. In a 2022 interview with Graham Bensinger, the comedian said Convy was her “first real boyfriend,” and his fun nature made him attractive to her.

“I’m a weirdo, and I like my boyfriend to at least entertain the idea of being with other women,” Glaser shared. However, she clarified her stance, saying that although she’s fine with him sleeping with other women, she draws the line if there’s an emotional attachment.

“Everyone has their own kinky thing. My thing is, I don’t mind that,” she added.

The Stand-Up Comedian Researched Her Kink

In March 2025, Glaser appeared on the “goop” podcast, where host Gwyneth Paltrow asked about her relationship. Paltrow asked her whether she really wouldn’t mind if Convy had relations with other women, to which Glaser replied that it had happened a couple of times in the past, confirming that she was fine with it.

Glaser then shared that she looked into the fetish, saying, “It’s called ‘hot husband.’” The fetish involves a man in a committed relationship who has sexual relations with others while the partner watches or encourages it. Glaser stated that she doesn’t like watching, but gets turned on hearing about it.

Elsewhere in the interview, Glaser said Convy “doesn’t even want” to be with other women.

“The strange thing is, he’s like, ‘I don’t need anyone else or crave anyone else, but I’ll do it if it turns you on,’” she explained.

Inside Nikki Glaser And Chris Convy’s Relationship

Glaser and Convy met in 2013 when she hosted MTV’s “Nikki & Sarah Live,” which Convy produced. The comedian told Bensinger in the 2022 interview that she “fell in love from afar” and was pining for Convy. “It was very Jim and Pam, I was Jim, and he had no idea,” she said, referring to the friends-to-lovers couple in the hit sitcom “The Office.”

The couple had a few breakups over the years, but ultimately got back together. As Glaser revealed, one of their past problems stemmed from her making jokes about their relationship in public. The issue has since been resolved, with the comedian sharing that Convy has one rule when it comes to jokes about him: it has to be funny.

“If you’re just venting up there to get it off your chest and embarrass me, not good. But if you’re up there and you’re making a solid joke, you can do whatever you want,” Convy told Glaser.