Oliver Johnson says he spent most of the inheritance left by his late father
A man says he blew his dad’s inheritance – and has spoken about the impact of his father’s dying wish to him. Oliver Johnson’s problems first began when he was just 15. But they spiralled out of control and almost destroyed his life.
But he thanks his dad for being a perfect role model. And remembers the words he said that helped him turn his life around.
The 32 year old says by the time he was 18 he was using cocaine and drinking daily, spending an average of £500 per week on his addiction – and sometimes ‘thousands’. Oliver even admits to blowing the majority of the £15,000 inheritance he got from his dad Paul Johnson on drugs – an amount he admits he would ‘kill to have’ now.
The tip worker says he would ‘stay awake for days on end’ sniffing the drug, which resulted in him experiencing drug-induced psychosis. After struggling with the addiction that ‘ruined his life’ for over a decade, Oliver decided to ditch drugs and alcohol for good two months before the birth of his daughter in August 2024.
He says his dad’s dying wish before he died of cancer had been for him to ‘get sober and be happy’ and he is proud now to be able to be a good role model for his own daughter like his father was for him. The dad of two is now urging other people who struggle with addiction to ‘reach out and get help’. Oliver, from Todmorden, West Yorkshire, said: “I started taking cocaine when I was still in my teens, it wasn’t really a problem until about 18.
“I was using it socially – I didn’t think it was a problem at the time. In 2018 it sort of just spiralled. I was drinking every day and sniffing cocaine – [I was spending] stupid amounts, £400 or £500 a week, some weeks even thousands.”
Oliver says he was constantly in debt and even admits to blowing his dad’s £15,000 inheritance on drugs. Oliver said: “It was costing me £80 per day and I think the most I owed one week was about £1,300.
“I was in debt – it was very rare I wasn’t in debt. I got a bit of inheritance off my dad but a lot of it went on substances and alcohol. I kick myself now because I got quite a lot of it – it was £15,000. Now I would kill for that type of money.”
Oliver says his addiction left him experiencing drug-induced psychosis and even saw him using crack cocaine, an even more dangerous and highly addiction version of the drug. Oliver said: “I used to have drug-induced psychosis – I would constantly hear things.
“I could be with my closest friends and I would hear voices, I thought people were inside my house. I was that paranoid I used to think there were people in the loft and I would go checking in there and things like that. I always felt like there were people coming for me and it was nuts.”
Sadly, Oliver’s dad Paul, 67, was diagnosed with cancer in 2019. Oliver revealed that his father’s dream had been for his son to ‘get sober and be happy’.
Oliver said: “In 2019 my dad got diagnosed with cancer and sadly he passed away in January 2020. My dad’s dream was for me to get sober and be happy. He was the perfect role model. It was because of my own self-inflicted trauma [that I turned to drugs].”
‘It’s the best thing I’ve ever done’
In August 2024, Oliver decided to live a cocaine and alcohol-free life ahead of the birth of his daughter. He says he is now able to do all of the things he missed out on in his 20s, including going abroad for the first time last year.
Oliver said: “Two months before my daughter was born I got sober and it’s the best thing I’ve ever done. I’m a better partner – my daughter means the world to me and I’m so grateful to my partner for sticking by me and giving me the chance.
“Being a present father means more than anything to me. I had an amazing dad myself and he never turned his back on me – I just want to be able to pass down what he passed down to me.
“Now I’m working a stable job, I have an income and I’m able to save money. I went abroad last year for the first time in my life – I’d never been abroad. I’m ticking all those things off on my list now and it’s crazy.
“I missed out on a hell of a lot because of my cocaine use. I didn’t really have a 20s – it ruined my 20s, it ruined all of my life really for a very long time. I wouldn’t be the man I am today if it wasn’t for my partner and daughter finally made me see life for what it really is. I’d be lost without them both.”
Oliver is now using his social media accounts to raise awareness and is encouraging other people struggling with addiction to seek support. Oliver said: “Just be honest – be as honest as you can be. Don’t be scared to reach out and get help.
“A problem shared is a problem halved. For many many years I thought hiding away and isolating myself was the answer but it wasn’t.”



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