Police have yet to formally identify the body which was found in a river
A body has been recovered in a river while searching for a woman who was reported missing last month. Carol Hillier was reported as missing from Sutton in February, 22 days ago. Police have yet to make a formal identification.
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Carol, 64, was first reported as a missing person on February 15. She was last seen near a pub, and Cambridgeshire Police has continued to investigate her disappearance.
A spokeswoman for Cambridgeshire Police said: “Police searching for missing woman Carol Hillier from Sandy in Bedfordshire recovered a body from the river at Sutton Gault yesterday (Sunday).
“Carol, 64, went missing on Sunday, 15 February near The Old Anchor pub off Bury Lane, Sutton, near Ely.
“Her family has been informed of this development, however, no formal identification has been carried out.”
Trump claims he was told sinking Iranian naval ships was ‘more fun’
Donald Trump has alleged that Iran’s navy has been effectively destroyed, claiming in a speech that dozens of its ships had been sunk by American forces.
He said he had asked “our people” why the vessels were not captured, but claimed that he was told it was “more fun” to sink them.
“The Navy is gone. It’s all lying at the bottom of the ocean, 46 ships,” he said.
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“I said, why don’t we just capture the ship? Why did we sink.. He said: ‘It’s more fun to sink them.’
“They like sinking them better. They say it’s safer to sink them. I guess it’s probably true, but the Navy is gone.”
Maroosha Muzaffar10 March 2026 07:11
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South Korean president says Seoul can’t prevent redeployment of weapons to Middle East
South Korea cannot prevent US forces stationed in the country from redeploying some weapons, president Lee Jae Myung said on Tuesday.
His comments come following reports that Patriot missile defence systems were being moved to the Middle East.
Speaking at a cabinet meeting, Lee said: “It appears that there is controversy recently over US Forces in Korea shipping some weapons, such as artillery batteries and air-defence weapons, out of the country.”
He said that while Seoul had expressed opposition, it was not in a position to make demands, according to Reuters.
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Lee also said the withdrawal of some US weapons from South Korea “does not hinder deterrence strategy towards North Korea”.
Maroosha Muzaffar10 March 2026 07:01
Trump threatens to unleash ‘death, fire and fury’ on Iran if it meddles with flow of oil in Middle East
In a post on Truth Social Monday night, the U.S. president vowed to all but wipe out the Islamic Republic unless it fully re-opens the Strait of Hormuz, a critical sea lane for oil exports from Iraq, Kuwait, Saudi Arabia, and other Gulf petrostates.
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Maroosha Muzaffar10 March 2026 06:31
US orders departure of diplomats from consulate in southern Turkey
On Monday, the US state department ordered the departure of US diplomats and their families from the consulate in Adana in southern Turkey, near Incirlik air base, where US and Nato forces are stationed.
Last Wednesday, Turkey intercepted a missile from Iran that, according to a senior US official, was targeting the base.
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A covered piece of ammunition that fell on Turkish soil after a Nato air defence system intercepted a missile launched from Iran is seen in Gaziantep, Turkey, 9 March 2026 (Ihlas News Agency)
On Monday, Turkey reported shooting down a second Iranian missile that had entered its airspace.
Earlier, US diplomats were instructed to depart from missions in Saudi Arabia, following earlier mandatory departure orders for Iraq, Jordan, Bahrain, Qatar, the United Arab Emirates, and Lebanon.
Maroosha Muzaffar10 March 2026 05:46
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Macron orders ‘unprecedented’ naval deployment to Strait of Hormuz
French president Emmanuel Macron has ordered an “unprecedented” naval deployment to the Strait of Hormuz following Iranian attacks on ships passing through the crucial narrow passage.
The operation, which includes the flagship aircraft carrier Charles de Gaulle, aims to “guarantee freedom of navigation and maritime security”, Macron said during a visit to a military air base in Cyprus.
French vessels will join US forces in the region as they seek to reopen the crucial maritime route.
A navy vessel is seen sailing in the Strait of Hormuz, a vital waterway through which much of the world’s oil and gas passes on 1 March 2026 (AFP/Getty)
Macron said: “We are in the process of setting up a purely defensive, purely escort mission, which must be prepared together with both European and non-European states, and whose purpose is to enable, as soon as possible after the most intense phase of the conflict has ended, the escort of container ships and tankers to gradually reopen the Strait of Hormuz.
“Our objective is to maintain a strictly defensive stance, standing alongside all countries attacked by Iran in its retaliation, to ensure our credibility, and to contribute to regional de-escalation. Ultimately, we aim to guarantee freedom of navigation and maritime security.”
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Maroosha Muzaffar10 March 2026 05:30
Trump ally Lindsey Graham questions Saudi Arabia
US senator Lindsey Graham has questioned whether the US should uphold its defence agreement with Saudi Arabia, criticising the kingdom for refusing to join military operations against Iran.
On X, he said that “Americans are dying and the US is spending billions to dislodge the terrorist Iranian regime. Meanwhile, Saudi Arabia seems to be issuing statements and doing things in the background that are marginally helpful”.
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He continued: “Hopefully Gulf Cooperation Council countries will get more involved as this fight is in their backyard.”The post ended with a warning: “If not, consequences will follow.”
Maroosha Muzaffar10 March 2026 05:12
Pakistani warships escorting merchant vessels passing through Middle East
Pakistani warships have started escorting the country’s merchant vessels through the Middle East as regional conflict disrupts oil tanker traffic.
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With the nation heavily dependent on energy imports from the Gulf, the government has introduced broad fuel-saving measures, including closing schools, while the war continues.
On Monday, the country’s navy said that the operation was launched to ensure the country’s energy supplies were not interrupted.
“Pakistan Navy has launched Operation Muhafiz-ul-Bahr to counter multidimensional threats to national shipping and maritime trade. The initiative has been undertaken to ensure the uninterrupted flow of national energy supplies and the security of Sea Lines of Communication,” a spokesperson for Pakistan Navy said in a Facebook post.
Maroosha Muzaffar10 March 2026 05:00
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Trump claims war would go on at least for another week
Donald Trump said on Monday that the war would go on at least for another week, soon after he suggested that the war would end “very soon”.
“We’ve already won in many ways, but we haven’t won enough,” he told a gathering of Republican lawmakers in Florida.
“We go forward more determined than ever to achieve ultimate victory that will end this long-running danger once and for all.”
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Iran, on the other hand, has refuted Trump’s claim that their missiles are declining and instead claimed that its missiles were getting more powerful.
Maroosha Muzaffar10 March 2026 04:50
Body of seventh US service member killed in war arrives at Dover air base
US vice president JD Vance was present as the body of the seventh US service member killed in the war with Iran arrived at Dover Air Force Base on Monday evening.
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Sgt Benjamin N Pennington sustained critical injuries during an attack on Saudi Arabia’s Prince Sultan Air Base and later succumbed to those wounds, officials reported.
Earlier, six American troops were killed in an Iranian drone strike on a base in Kuwait.
Vice president JD Vance, defence secretary Pete Hegseth and chairman of the joint chiefs of staff Gen Dan Caine salute as a US Army carry team moves the transfer case containing the remains of Sgt Benjamin Pennington at Dover Air Force Base, in Delaware (AP/Julia Demaree Nikhinson)
According to an Iranian official, US and Israeli operations in Iran have resulted in roughly 1,300 fatalities, while Iranian attacks throughout the Middle East have claimed more than 30 lives.
Maroosha Muzaffar10 March 2026 04:37
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Trump again suggests Iran struck elementary school
Donald Trump has again suggested, without evidence, that Iran bombed an elementary school in Minab on 28 February, killing 175 people, including many children.
Video evidence verified by The New York Times shows a Tomahawk missile struck a naval base near the school.
Tomahawks are developed by the United States, and only a few allies possess them; Iran does not have Tomahawks but has its own distinct domestically produced cruise missiles.
A satellite image, annotated by Reuters, shows the Shajareh Tayyebeh girls’ school and other structures damaged after being struck, amid the US-Israeli conflict with Iran, in Minab, Hormozgan Province, Iran, 4 March 2026 (Planet Labs PBC)
Earlier, US Senator John Kennedy, a Louisiana Republican, admitted America “made a mistake” when a girls’ school in Iran was bombed.
US military investigators reportedly believe American forces were likely responsible for the strike in Minab late last month.
Donald Trump has said he thinks the war is ‘complete’, but has warned to unleash ‘fire and fury’ upon Iran if they block the Strait of Hormuz.
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Speaking to CBS News, Trump said: ‘I think the war is very complete, pretty much… very far ahead of schedule.’
Although oil prices have fallen back below $90 per gallon, Trump seems to think the conflict is almost over, even if his own Defence Department thinks it may linger for a while longer.
Despite thinking the war might end soon, Trump took to social media and said that if Iran stops the flow of oil in the Strait of Hormuz, the US would make it ‘make it virtually impossible for Iran to ever be built back.’
On Truth Social, he wrote: ‘If Iran does anything that stops the flow of Oil within the Strait of Hormuz, they will be hit by the United States of America TWENTY TIMES HARDER than they have been hit thus far.
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‘Additionally, we will take out easily destroyable targets that will make it virtually impossible for Iran to ever be built back, as a Nation, again – Death, Fire, and Fury will reign upon them – But I hope, and pray, that it does not happen!
Hundreds of ships have come to a halt in the Strait of Hormuz (Picture: Marine Traffic)
‘This is a gift from the United States of America to China, and all of those Nations that heavily use the Hormuz Strait. Hopefully, it is a gesture that will be greatly appreciated.’
The back-and-forth dialogue from Trump sent oil prices and stock markets see-sawing.
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The war has choked off major supplies of oil and gas to world markets and sent fuel prices rising across the US.
The fighting has also led foreigners to flee from business hubs and prompted millions to seek shelter as bombs hit sites including military bases, government buildings, oil and water installations, hotels and at least one school.
The selection of Ayatollah Mojtaba Khamenei to succeed his late father as Iran’s supreme leader sent oil prices surging and markets sliding.
Investors saw it as a signal that Iran was digging in, 10 days into the war launched by the United States and Israel.
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Oil prices later fell, and the US stock market closed higher after Trump told a group of politicians at his golf club: ‘We took a little excursion to get rid of some evil. And, I think you’ll see it’s going to be a short-term excursion.’
Trump told reporters he thinks the war is near ending (Picture: AP)
Still, oil prices topped $100 per barrel yesterday, a price not seen since the summer of 2022 when Russia began its illegal war in Ukraine.
Though China and Russia face risks of energy supply loss after the attacks in Iran, there are ‘greater risks’ for the UK and Europe than for America.
The UK has just 1.5 days of demand, according to new data published by National Gas, and is now paying the highest wholesale gas prices in Europe as supplies from the Middle East dry up.
Draper claimed the first set inside 32 minutes before Cerundolo provided a sterner test in the second, breaking Draper’s serve in the opening game.
A further break meant Cerundolo had the chance to serve for the set at 5-4 up, but Draper resisted and took the next three games to clinch victory on his first match point.
Draper’s win means he will face 38-year-old Djokovic for the first time since he took the first set off the defending champion on his Wimbledon debut in 2021.
“I’ve been watching him since I was a young boy and in my opinion he’s the greatest player of all time,” said Draper.
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“When you come up against him you know he’s going to be there mentally, you know he’s going to make it an incredibly tough match and play some crazy tennis. I’m going to have to be ready for that.”
The victories for Norrie and Draper came a day on from fellow Briton Emma Raducanu being well beaten by American Amanda Anisimova, winning only two games and being ousted in 52 minutes.
Norrie is the 27th seed in the men’s draw but played above that status as he earned three breaks en route to victory over De Minaur.
His next opponent will be Australian qualifier Rinky Hijikata, who beat Kazakhstan’s 10th seed Alexander Bublik in three sets.
In the 50 years since Panenka brought the dinked penalty to prominence, it has gradually become more common.
A number of top players, including Lionel Messi, Thierry Henry and Francesco Totti, have successfully used the technique from the spot.
France legend Zinedine Zidane has a claim for taking the most high-pressure Panenka, in the 2006 World Cup final with his penalty hitting the underside of the crossbar and just crossing the line.
England have suffered at the hands of the Panenka a couple of times in shootouts, most famously when Italy midfielder Andrea Pirlo nonchalantly beat Joe Hart to change the momentum of the shootout in the Euro 2012 quarter-final.
“For me, Hart seemed to be very confident in himself,” Pirlo said. “I needed to do something to beat him.
“Penalties are a very personal thing but, when I saw him move, I decided to do that. It seemed to be a psychological blow for us.”
Similarly in the 2022 EFL Cup final, with Chelsea keeper Kepa Arrizabalaga making a show of trying to distract the Liverpool players, Fabinho responded by calmly dinking his kick down the middle, much to the delight of the Reds fans behind the goal.
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A psychological blow? Well, every Liverpool player proceeded to score as they won 11-10 on penalties.
But for all the notable successes, Ouattara is not the first high-profile miss.
In 1992, Gary Lineker had the chance to match Sir Bobby Charlton’s 49 goals for England in a friendly against Brazil but fluffed his attempted Panenka and ended up one shy of the then-record.
Manchester City striker Sergio Aguero was usually pretty reliable from the spot but was made to look foolish when he attempted a Panenka in May 2021 as Chelsea went on to win 2-1 after the penalty save from Edouard Mendy.
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In January, Brahim Diaz attempted a Panenka to win the Africa Cup of Nations in stoppage time for Morocco. His effort was saved and Senegal emerged champions.
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The freight train was approaching the crossing at 75mph when the signaller raised the traffic barriers
A train signaller at a level crossing who ‘forgot’ a 75mph freight train was approaching and raised the barriers caused a ‘near miss’, a report has found. The incident occurred at 8.16am on October 21, 2025, at the manually controlled barrier in Helpston, near Peterborough.
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A report by the Rail Accident Investigation Branch (RAIB) found the on-duty train signaller had ‘forgotten’ a freight train was approaching the crossing. They used the ‘raise barriers’ control, which fully raised the barriers and extinguished the road lights while the freight train was still on the crossing.
A waiting motorist started to drive their car towards the crossing after the barriers started to rise, according to the RAIB. The report said: “There is conflicting witness evidence about how far the car moved. The train driver did not report seeing any road vehicles enter the crossing as the train approached and no road vehicles were struck by the passing train.”
The incident happened after two passenger trains passed on the fast line. The signaller looked out of the crossing windows to check both directions of the fast line but failed to check the Stamford line for approaching trains.
As a result, the crossing barriers were not lowered in time for the approaching freight service. Signalling data later showed that the signaller attempted to raise the barriers after the two passenger trains had passed.
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The system prevented this after detecting the approaching freight train. The signaller assumed the system had detected a fault, partly due to recent barrier failures, and responded using the sealed release plunger to manually raise the barriers.
Signalling data shows the sealed release was used as the freight train approached the crossing. After looking to their left and noticing the approaching train, the signaller immediately activated the control to lower the barriers.
A local operations manager, who was present, reported the incident and took over the signal box’s operations. The RAIB report said: “Helpston signal box is normally staffed by a single signaller. Witness evidence indicated that, at the time of the incident, it was possible that the signaller was distracted by the presence of the LOM in the signal box.”
‘This isn’t a new idea, or a new motion, in fact it has been campaigned for in the Ards Peninsula since the 1950s’
21:48, 09 Mar 2026Updated 21:51, 09 Mar 2026
A call has been made by Ards and North Down councillors for a “feasibility study” into the construction of a bridge from Portaferry to Strangford.
During a meeting of a committee at Ards and North Down Borough Council, a DUP motion calling for a feasibility study into finally realising the dream of a bridge across the pinch point of Strangfor Lough, was passed by the chamber.
The motion states: “The council recognises the huge benefits, to the Ards Peninsula and wider borough, of greater connectivity in terms of tackling isolation, boosting local business and enhancing tourism.
“Furthermore, the council is concerned about the increased traffic travelling along Ards Peninsula roads, which would be better served by a fixed crossing between Portaferry and Strangford village. (This) may help in addressing congestion in other parts of the borough and assist in improving road safety in roads within the peninsula.”
The committee agreed to write to the Stormont Minister Department for Infrastructure, Sinn Féin MLA Liz Kimmins, to request that she “prioritises funding for a feasibility study” into a bridge across Strangford Lough from Portaferry to Strangford village.
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Minister Kimmins has previously said there could be a feasibility study into the project “if there was political will.” The committee decision will go to the full council meeting later this month for ratification, where it is expected to pass.
Alderman Robert Adair, who proposed the motion, said at the meeting there was “overwhelming support” for the bridge in the local areas.
He said: “This isn’t a new idea, or a new motion, in fact it has been campaigned for in the Ards Peninsula since the 1950’s.”
He said: “The Ards Peninsula is one of the most socially cut-off areas in Northern Ireland. A lot of services that people take for granted, we are cut-off from, and we have a long journey.
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“We want to boost business, we want to boost tourism, and we want to enhance connectivity. What facilities people in Newtownards and Bangor have access to, we want access to also.
“Hospital waiting times, ambulance waiting times, could all be enhanced through a fixed crossing between Portaferry and Strangford. It would also open business opportunities and business growth.
“Our main link to Belfast is the Portaferry Road, which is not a safe road, and there are a lot of congestion issues with it. You only have to travel along it any morning to see it is not working.”
He referred to the new Narrow Water Bridge, which will increase connectivity between Northern Ireland and the Republic, saying “If they can do it why can’t we?”
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Alliance Councillor Patricia Morgan said at the meeting: “I have no particular problem with the council writing to the Minister, but I don’t think it will take her very long to reply, and I think we already know the answer.
“A significant cost has been suggested. I think the figure is in and around £300 million, but I don’t know what date that was (made) and presumably it will move with inflation, and potentially more.
“When we look at the likes of the Narrow Water we see that not all such things remain a pipe dream if there is good support and a strong economic case for it, then why not?”
“All the gang stuff, the points systems, the AI posters, all of it is totally native and completely legible to the generation it emerged from, and easy to completely misread if you’re outside. That’s how internet culture works. These things develop their own internal logic, their own mythology, and they’re not designed to be understood by parents or police or journalists, they’re a community talking to itself in its own language.”
Strictly Come Dancingappears to be undergoing a major overhaul in 2026, with another fan-favourite pro having reportedly being axed by BBC bosses.
The last series also saw Tess Daly and Claudia Winkleman step down from their long-term presenting roles. While speculation rages on about who will replace the hosting duo, Strictly fans received a shock over the weekend with reports that four professional dancers have been given the cut ahead of the 2026 series.
Following initial reports claiming that Gorka Márquez, Luba Mushtuk and Michelle Tsiakkas have all departed the show, a separate story from The Sunalleged that Nadiya Bychkova was the latest to receive news that she would not be making a return.
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The Ukrainian dancer, 36, is said to have received the news in a meeting with BBC bosses on Friday (6 March) that allegedly left her “distraught”.
An insider told the publication: “The news came as such a huge shock as Nadiya’s life was Strictly and to find out she’s not been invited back as full time pro has really broken her heart. No one was expecting producers to chop so many professionals.
“Especially someone like Nadiya, who’s shown so much dedication to the show over the years. There’s a super weird feeling among the rest of the pros now, they’re all wondering if they’re safe and everyone’s nervous.”
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Bychkova competed with Chris Robshaw on the 2025 series (BBC/Guy Levy)
The Independent has contacted Bychkova’s representatives, while a BBC representative said that plans for Strictly Come Dancing 2026 would be confirmed in due course.
Bychkova joined the cast of Strictly Come Dancing in 2017, where she competed with the likes of Davood Khadami and Dan Walker. Her height – Bychkova is 5ft 8 – has meant that she has normally been paired with the tallest male contestants, and has never reached the final.
Despite the reported bad news, Bychkova put on a brave face on social media over the weekend, as she posted a video of herself dancing by a swimming pool to celebrate International Women’s Day.
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Strictly’s pro dancers are beloved by fans (BBC/Guy Levy)
“Celebrating women today and every day,” she wrote. “The strength, the joy, the resilience and the beautiful way we lift each other up. And sometimes… a little dance along the way. Happy International Women’s Day.”
The other dancers reportedly getting the cut from Strictly 2026 have also been by fans. Spanish dancer Márquez joined the show in 2016, and reached the final twice with Alexandra Burke and Helen Skelton. He met his fiancée, influencer and presenter Gemma Atkinson, on the show in 2017.
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Russian pro Mushtuk became a Strictly dancer in 2018 and has competed on four series, while Cypriot dancer Tsiakkas joined in 2022 and has competed on just one series.
While none of the three dancers had a celebrity partner in 2025, they are all due to appear in the Strictly: The Professionals tour that kicks off in late April.
Bychkova, meanwhile, competed last year with Chris Robshaw, when the pair were the third to be eliminated.
I hadn’t really come across the term ‘matrescence’ before becoming a mother.
Then one day, in the throes of trying to look after a small child – desperately sleep-deprived to the point of hallucinating, trying to fight the intrusive thoughts and anxiety every time they got a sniffle, and hearing the sound of her crying from the shower (when she was, in fact, fast asleep) – my Instagram algorithm pointed me to a post where a parenting influencer described what it was.
And suddenly, I felt seen.
For the uninitiated, matrescence describes the process of becoming a mother – it’s all the physical, psychological and emotional changes you go through after the birth of a child (of which, spoiler, there are a lot.)
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I’m four years in and while there are still glimmers of who I was before having kids, I am fundamentally changed. My body is different. My brain certainly is. My personality is even different (I certainly feel more serious than I used to be).
It is the different that comes from the responsibility of a) keeping someone alive but b) trying not to mess them up. It’s the years of disrupted sleep, navigating relationship and friendship changes, hormone shifts, mental health challenges, physical health changes (hello mastitis and pelvic floor issues), your new work-life-parenting balance.
It is also the different that comes from holding their tiny hands while they sleep and feeling like you could explode with love. Or the pride that makes your eyes water and takes your breath away when they do something even seemingly insignificant (like sing you a song, or draw a picture that actually resembles a person and not a genital).
In February, the brands shared a full-page ad in the New York Times, urging lexicographers, including those at Oxford English and Merriam-Webster, to add the term to their dictionaries. (Big shout out to Cambridge Dictionary which is leading the way.)
Not only that, but they want digital platforms to stop flagging matrescence as a misspelling – yes, that infuriating red wiggly line is repeatedly showing up even as I write this.
Matrescence isn’t in the dictionary.
Matrescence is backed by science
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Research has confirmed that motherhood fundamentally reshapes the brain, body, and identity. I have felt this, deeply – as I’m sure many other mothers will have.
But 67% of British mothers have never even heard the term matrescence, leaving them to navigate one of the most significant transitions of their lives without the language to describe it.
“Your phone treats matrescence like it’s a typo,” said Michelle Kennedy, founder and CEO of Peanut.
“The dictionary knows ‘ghosting’. It knows ‘selfie’. It knows ‘delulu’. But the word for what happens when a woman’s brain physically rewires, when her identity shatters and rebuilds, when she goes through one of the most seismic shifts in human biology? Not there. That’s erasure.”
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For many mothers, however, this word can help explain a lot. It can also help them feel seen. Dr Sarah McKay, neuroscientist and author, explained: “This one word would have changed my world when my boys were babies. The grace I’d have given myself if I’d known that becoming a mother was a process.
“For what it’s worth, I still consider myself deep in matrescence 18 years later – learning to mother my firstborn while he’s away at uni.”
Experts are concerned that when an experience has no name, it gets minimised. Mothers have their struggles dismissed as baby blues, hormones, or simply just ‘part of the job’.
“Most women go through the biggest transformation of their lives thinking something is wrong with them,” said Michelle Battersby, president of Peanut.
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“Getting this word into the dictionary is the first step toward the research, funding, and support that mothers have been denied for generations.”
I’ve contacted Merriam-Webster and Oxford English to see if they’ll consider adding matrescence to their dictionaries and will update the article when I hear back.
If teens get ‘adolescence’ to describe the period when they’re developing into adults, surely we can make room for an equivalent that describes the seismic shift for mothers? I don’t think a word is too much to ask.
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