Brotton couple have spent a decade fostering children

Martyn and Lauren Nelson, from Brotton in Redcar, have spent the past decade fostering children and use family routines and animal care to help them feel safe and supported.

Lauren said: “At the heart of fostering is making sure children feel safe, secure and happy.

“Often, it’s the simplest things that help children settle in. Spending time outdoors, caring for Troy or going for a walk with the dogs can help children feel calmer and more confident.”

The couple once fostered a young girl who loved horses but had never had the opportunity to ride before, and during her stay she was able to fulfil that dream, spending time grooming and riding Troy.

Lauren said: “She’s moved on now and has her own horse and competes in shows. It’s incredibly rewarding to see how far she’s come and know we were able to support her at an important time in her life.”

The couple began fostering in their 20s, inspired by a friend who was already a carer.

They initially thought they might be too young, but quickly learned there is no typical profile for a foster carer.

Martyn said: “Making that first call is the most important step.

“Fostering can fit around busy lives. We both work, have children of our own and Lauren is studying at university. Support is available throughout and the difference you can make to a child’s life is huge.”

While they acknowledge the challenges, they say the rewards far outweigh them.

They have since adopted a little boy they once fostered, and he has become a much-loved member of the family.

Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council is encouraging more people to consider fostering.

Councillor Bill Suthers, Cabinet Member for Children and Families, said: “The council is looking for foster carers like Martyn and Lauren to place local children in high quality local foster placements, where they have a stable home environment and the support to help them grow, develop and realise their potential.

“Anyone wishing to take up fostering will receive comprehensive support from the council.”