Living in a village is one of the most peaceful lifestyles – but it still has its drawbacks
The age-old debate of city versus village life is one that is hotly contested. Are you someone who craves the fast-paced city or do you prefer the serene peace of the countryside? I have lived in a rural village on the Cambridgeshire border all my life and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Living in Therfield, I have become accustomed to the charms of living in a village. But having spent a lot of my time commuting to Cambridge, I can see why some people are put off by the idea of rural living.
I used to commute to Cambridge around three times a week, and although the train journey can take as little as 15 minutes, the whole commute takes much longer in reality. I start by driving around 10 minutes to the station and then paying just over £10 for a full day of parking.
Once that is all sorted, it is a matter of waiting for the train. Sometimes I have waited for more than an hour due to delays.
In Therfield, you have two options when it comes to modes of transport – walking or driving. So, best believe, I began learning to drive the moment I turned 17. People from Cambridge truly are spoiled when it comes to transport. I’d be beyond happy to have regular trains, or better yet, a train station I could actually walk to.
For those who have never lived in a village, and have only heard rumours, there is one I have learned to be true. Neighbours do actually bring baked goods to your door, and pop round for a chat on a regular basis. Everyone really does know everyone within our tight-knit community, and more often than not I see and speak to my fellow residents every day.
Therfield, alongside many other villages, is surrounded by beautiful countryside, and lots of wildlife can be spotted waddling around. Yes, I said waddle – because the number of ducks you find crossing the roads is endearing.
Being in the countryside means being able to silence the noise of a bustling city and relax in the beauty of the idyllic views. On a sunny day, a walk along the public footpaths circling around the village can lift your mood, especially if you finish at The Fox and Duck for a drink and a meal afterwards.
This pub really holds the village together and acts as the perfect meeting point to spend time with the community. They serve both classic pub-grub and a la carte food. In the summer especially, it can get really busy, with regular entertainment and events taking place outside on the green.
Therfield hosts an annual village fete filled with many different stalls, a raffle, and usually involves activities like a coconut shy and welly-wanging. After the fete, the majority of locals walk over to the pub and indulge in some drinks and party the night away.
As well as a pub, the village is home to a preschool and a primary school which I attended. For me, growing up in a village allowed me to make close friends from a young age. Some of my fondest memories are knocking on my friend’s doors after school and playing silly games out on the green.
As much as these things are all lovely, I would still like to have a post office, or even just a small shop that I can walk to for essential items. My nearest supermarket is Tesco in the nearby town of Royston. This takes me over 10 minutes to drive to, and by the time I get back home, it’s somehow been over an hour.
In Cambridge, you may not have baked goods brought to you on a regular basis, but you do have everything you could possibly wish for right on your doorstep. From supermarkets to do your food shop and easy access to GPs, to independent shops like Lilac Rose or Podarok.
Whether it’s traditional pub grub at The Pint Shop or Bread & Meat, often referred to as having the “best sandwiches”, or even a scone drowned in jam at La Patissier, Cambridge has a cuisine for every need. There are still plenty of places I haven’t tried and tested yet.
The city is also home to some fantastic shops to explore and I enjoy visiting the Lion Yard and Grand Arcade for the variety of shops. This includes New Look, Sports Direct, and Hotel Chocolat – but brace yourself to splash the cash, especially on parking.
On a shopping trip to Cambridge, I can sometimes spend four hours there roaming around and I used to opt to park in the Grand Arcade car park. On a Saturday, up to four hours would cost me £18.90, which is pretty steep. Now, I choose to use the Park and Ride in Trumpington. It is free to park here for up to 18 hours, and you only have to pay £4 for a adult return ticket to the city centre.
The other thing about the city centre that sometimes leaves me feeling frustrated is the crowds of people that often block the footpaths. There’s nothing worse than getting stuck behind a slow walker, especially if you are a fast-paced walker like me!
Although I have my grumbles about Therfield, it is a gorgeous place to live, and I can’t imagine living anywhere else but the countryside. I will continue to enjoy my long walks in a remote area and enjoy food being brought to my house – as well as trips to Cambridge for shopping and socialising.
