Sixty years after she vanished mum is found with sinister explanation for leaving kids

Audrey Backeberg was 20 years old when she vanished from her family home in 1962 – and was finally confirmed to be “safe and well” decades later

A mum who married her husband at just 15 and then left her two children for over 60 years had a harsh explanation for her disappearance when she finally returned.

Audrey Backeberg’s shocking reappearance astounded the community she disappeared from back in 1962 when she was 20. Audrey was finally confirmed to be “safe and well” in 2025, aged 82.

Police said her disappearance was confirmed to be “by her own choice” and “not the result of any criminal activity or foul play”. On the day she disappeared, she left home to pick up her pay cheque from the woollen mill where she worked.

Her family’s 14-year-old babysitter told authorities she had hitched a ride with Audrey to the city of Madison, Wisconsin, where the pair boarded a Greyhound bus to Indianapolis, Indiana.

When they arrived there, the babysitter got cold feet but Audrey would not go back and she walked around the corner from the bus station – and vanished without trace.

When she was tracked down by a detective six decades into her new life she is said to have told them she had “no regrets.”

According to the Audrey Project, an organisation which documents over 16,000 “cold case” missing persons reports in the US, Audrey had married her husband Ronald Backberg when she was “about fifteen years old” – but had endured a “troubled” marriage surrounded by “allegations of abuse”.

The childminder claimed Audrey had vanished in Indianapolis of her own free will, but this sparked a dispute with members of her family, who “insisted she would never have abandoned her children.”

After more than six decades, answers began to emerge when Sauk County Sheriff’s Office assigned a detective to the cold case earlier this year. Detective Isaac Hanson meticulously sifted through case files and evidence, as well as re-interviewing key witnesses in the case – but it was her sister’s Ancestry.com account that eventually led him to her.

He told local news station WISN: “That was pretty key in locating death records, census reports, all kinds of data. So I called the local sheriff’s department, said, ‘Hey, there’s this lady living at this address. Do you guys have somebody, you can just go pop in?’. Ten minutes later, she called me, and we talked for 45 minutes.”

He added that she seemed to have “moved on from things”, and sounded happy and “confident” in her decision to flee many years ago.

A statement from Sheriff Chip Meister read: “Earlier this year, the case was assigned to a Sheriff’s Office Detective for a comprehensive review as part of an ongoing examination of cold case files. Through diligent investigative work, which included a thorough re-evaluation of all case files and evidence, combined with re-interviewing witnesses and uncovering new insights.

“The Sheriff’s Office is now able to report that Audrey Backeberg is alive and well and currently resides out of State. Further investigation has revealed that Ms. Backeberg’s disappearance was by her own choice and not the result of any criminal activity or foul play.

“The Sheriff’s Office would like to acknowledge the work of Investigators, both past and present. Despite the significant challenges that many cold cases present, this resolution underscores both the importance of continued work and the dedication of the Sheriff’s Office to providing answers to families and the community.”

Hanson said: “I think she just was removed and, you know, moved on from things and kind of did her own thing and led her life. She sounded happy. Confident in her decision. No regrets.”