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Bridesmaids: Behind-The-Scenes Facts You Probably Never Knew
This time 15 years ago, some sceptics were seriously still carrying on that tiresome debate about whether a female-led comedy would actually be funny when Bridesmaids arrived on the scene.
Naysayers were more than proven wrong when the comedy came out, and not only made audiences around the world howl with laughter, but became producer Judd Apatow’s highest-grossing film, taking more than £220 million at the box office.
Viewers immediately fell in love with Kristen Wiig’s Annie, a maid of honour who is helping her best friend Lillian, played Maya Rudolph, prepare for her wedding, while also trying to keep a group of unruly bridesmaids (the incomparable Rose Byrne, Melissa McCarthy, Wendi McLendon-Covey and Ellie Kemper) in check.
But it wasn’t just the audiences that were won over by the tale of enduring female friendship (and bodily functions). Bridesmaids was also nominated for the Best Musical Or Comedy prize at the Golden Globes, and even earned two Oscar nods, for Kristen Wiig and Annie Mumolo’s writing and Melissa McCarthy’s performance.
To mark the movie’s 15th anniversary, the cast (minus Wendy McLendon-Covey, sadly) reunited at the 2026 Academy Awards, giving Bridesmaids fans the world over the urge to rewatch our favourite messy comedy – and sing along to Hold On with Annie and pals.
As many of us revisit the hit movie, we’re taking a peek behind the scenes, and it sounds like it was about as much fun to make as it is to watch.
Here are 23 facts you might not have known about how Bridesmaids came together…
It took five years for Bridesmaids to make it off the page and onto the screen

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Getting Bridesmaids to the big screen was certainly not a quick and easy task.
The first table read took place in 2007, with Bridesmaids finally appearing on director Paul Feig’s desk five years after he first heard about it. As he put it, the film saved his career.
“In 2010, I was at a low point,” he told Luxury London. “I was directing internet commercials for Macy’s. I was thinking ‘what am I doing with my career?’. Then I got a call out of the blue saying ‘that wedding movie’ is going to happen.”
Paul cites the film as a “game changer” in terms of his filmmaking, because it took him out of movie jail after the commercial failures of I Am David and Unaccompanied Minors.
Bridesmaids almost had a very different title
Producer Judd Apatow wasn’t originally sold on the film’s title, worried it would put off male cinemagoers.
“To get guys in, we were just going to call it Naked Boobs And Guns, but we didn’t have either one of those things, so we changed it,” Kristen joked to Collider. “We actually had a really hard time, trying to think of the title, to be honest. It was hard.”
In fact, it was nearly called Maid Of Honour, until one of the producers’ friends named his own film that title.

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Several comedy actors almost played Megan, the character who propelled Melissa McCarthy to international fame
It’s almost impossible to imagine anyone else in the role of Melissa McCarthy’s boisterous Megan, but a few different people were also in the frame to take on the character, with Paul Feig even claiming that Megan was the most auditioned-for role in the cast.
Speaking to BuzzFeed in 2012, Busy Phillips revealed she was considered for the role, having previously worked with Judd Apatow on the short-lived show Freaks And Geeks.
“The part wasn’t defined necessarily as one thing [when I auditioned],” she recalled. “I was doing a very specific take on it, and they really liked it. But I think, ultimately, Miss McCarthy is perfect in that movie.”
As well as Busy, Rebel Wilson also auditioned for the part, although she ultimately landed the role of Annie’s roommate, Brynn.
It was actually Kristen Wiig who pointed Bridesmaids’ director towards her friend Melissa McCarthy, who at the time was still best known for Gilmore Girls and Mike & Molly

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Paul Feig told Glamour in 2020: “[Megan] came in and her take on the character was so different than anyone else that it took me a good 10 seconds to even realise what she was doing.”
In a 2011 interview, Paul admitted he was initially unsure why she was playing the character as a “lesbian” doing “weird sex stuff”, before realising he was actually watching a genius at work.
“The mistake a lot of people make in casting is they get so tied to the words and the character they wrote that they don’t see when somebody is better than what they have on the page,” he claimed.
Melissa McCarthy drew inspiration from an unexpected source when putting together her characterisation of Megan in Bridesmaids
In an interview with Conan O’Brien, Melissa admitted that when she read the script, the first person she thought of was the chef, Guy Fieri.
She said: “I wanted to do the shirt, the Kangol. Every scene, I would have my glasses on the back of my head.”
Unfortunately for the actor (and maybe the audience), the production team reined her in, and stopped her from looking too much like the Food Network star.
“I tried for a long time to convince them to let me wear short, white, spiky hair, and they were like, ‘You can’t actually be Guy Fieri’,” she laughed.
Oh, and if you didn’t know – Melissa McCarthy shares the screen with her real-life husband in Bridesmaids

“Air Marshall Jon” is played by Ben Falcone, with whom Melissa has been married since 2005.
He has also made cameos in almost all of Melissa’s films, including Identity Thief, Spy, The Heat and Can You Ever Forgive Me?.
Bridesmaids was largely improvised by the cast
While Kristen Wiig and Annie Mumolo put together a hilarious script, with six Groundlings alum on set, there was always going to be some improvisation in the mix, too.
“I’ll be honest, I can’t remember what was scripted and what came out in improv anymore,” Maya Rudolph told Entertainment Weekly. “It all sort of bled together.”
Melissa McCarthy agreed: “In the rehearsal process, you really got to know everyone’s characters before you’re shooting. Even if you didn’t use the specific information, you’d start to build this backstory.
“We had this history as the characters. You’d get more and more comfortable with how [you were] going to play off of each other. I just remember thinking, ‘If this is what making movies is, this is mind-blowing’.”
Maya added that the director gave the cast “free rein to play”, so that by the time they started filming, they all knew each other’s creative processes.
“There was a stenographer who was typing everything that we were improvising. Then we’d come back, and there’d be new pages,” she recalled.
Rose Byrne learnt a new language for that hilarious toast scene

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During those engagement party toasts, Paul Feig let Kristen and Rose improvise one-upping each other, with hilarious results.
“It went on forever. I just kept laughing. I remember thinking, “Oh, I’m going to have a hard time getting through this movie without ruining takes,” Melissa remembered.
Rose even pretended to speak Thai in one rehearsal, and the producers loved it so much that they made her learn a portion of Thai for real in the final cut.
Helen shares a home with a superhero
Bridesmaids is set between Milwaukee and Chicago, but it was actually filmed in Los Angeles – and film and TV fans may recognise one of the sets from an iconic series.
The comedy was filmed in part at the same location used for the 1960s Batman TV series and film.
Helen’s lavish home, where Annie spectacularly flips out at the Parisian-themed bridal show, famously doubled as Wayne Manor in the retro show.
It’s also Eddie Murphy’s palatial home in Bowfinger and the estate of Kenneth Branagh’s conductor character in Dead Again.
Matt Lucas and Rebel Wilson actually became roommates after appearing as siblings in Bridesmaids

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Matt Lucas and Rebel Wilson play Annie’s roommates in Bridesmaids, and reality ended up mirroring fiction for the funny duo.
“We played roommates so well in Bridesmaids, we thought, ‘Yeah, we’ll do it for real’,” Rebel explained on Conan O’Brien’s talk show in September 2012. “Except instead of annoying Kristen Wiig, we’re now annoying all the neighbours nearby.”
After the film came out, fans suspected they were siblings, or married, because their chemistry was so effortless.
“When we met it was like complete synchronicity,” Matt told the BBC in September 2015. “We’re both very laid back and we’re also quite driven professionally and I see that in her and she sees that in me but we’re not competitive because we just enjoy each other’s work.”
The pair lived together in Los Angeles for three years, until Rebel moved out after making the “decision to become a huge movie star and buy a house”.
The film’s co-writer Annie Mumolo originally wanted to play a main role in Bridesmaids, but it didn’t work out in the end
The lengthy wait for the movie to get made meant that co-writer Annie Mumolo couldn’t RSVP for her role as a bridesmaid.
By the time the movie started filming, Annie was seven months pregnant, and her character was redeveloped for a new actor.
“I was like, I’m living my life and I was having a family,” she told The New York Times in 2021. “So, I got pregnant. [The film] had gotten sort of shelved, and then they called like two weeks later and said, ‘We’re back on!’ And it was like, ‘I’m pregnant. So that’s going to be great’.”
Annie eventually gave birth to her son a week and a half after filming wrapped on Bridesmaids.
Although Annie couldn’t take centre stage in the film, she does appear in the infamous plane scene, playing the woman sitting next to Annie on that turbulent flight to Las Vegas.

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That flight scene was actually created as a substitute for another chaotic scene that was axed so Bridesmaids wouldn’t be compared to The Hangover
What happens in Vegas stays on the cutting room floor with Bridesmaids.
The release of 2009’s The Hangover forced the team to scrap a messy Sin City bachelorette party adventure that featured in Bridesmaids’ original script.
“We did not want to be compared to The Hangover,” Paul told Insider in 2021. “We did not want to hear, ’This is the female Hangover. That was our kryptonite.”
He later told Glamour: ”[The Hangover] was so big and successful and had done Vegas so well that we were kind of like, ‘Why would we do it again?’. I said, ‘They should just not get to Vegas. It should all fall apart on the plane’.”
This Vegas sequence would have included a visit to a male strip club, where Annie would have been pulled up on stage by a dancer dressed as a cowboy.
There was also a scene where the bridal party went to a male strip club and Annie gets pulled on stage by a cowboy stripper.
Recalling what the scene entailed, Paul told Business Insider: “He has her lie down on the dance floor and dances over the top of her, but ball sweat drips into her open mouth as she’s screaming.”

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Jon Hamm is uncredited for his work in Bridesmaids
Jon Hamm plays Ted, Annie’s selfish love interest, in Bridesmaids – a role that was both uncredited and mostly improvised.
The Mad Men star’s lack of poster credit was his own request because, at the time, he was better known for his dramatic work, and he worried that his name being attached to the project would mislead audiences into thinking Bridesmaids was not actually a comedy.
He appeared in the film as a favour to Kristen Wiig, with whom he became friends after guest hosting an episode of SNL.
“I did that movie before there was a part, before there was a script, I said ‘yes’ to it. And [my] agents went, ‘Oh, well, shit. How do we, you know, ask for money?’,” Jon said on SiriusXM in 2022. “And I was like, ‘Don’t worry about it. Just let me let go and have fun with friends’.”
Jon’s most famous moment in Bridesmaids – his sex scene with Kristen – was approached more like a fight sequence than a love scene

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Paul Feig told Glamour that he thought it would be funnier to make the scene look less like romance, and more like “a professional wrestling scene”.
“It was like this big action scene,” he explained. “There’s nothing sexy about that scene at all, and that’s what made it so fun.”
A minor Bridesmaids storyline featuring Paul Rudd was left on the cutting room floor
Ant-Man actor Paul Rudd was originally supposed to appear in a scene with Annie, where his and Kristen’s characters go on an ice-skating blind date together.
The date, of course, goes horribly wrong, with Paul’s character falling to the ground and yelling expletives at children.
Paul Feig told Entertainment Weekly that the scene was “one of the funniest things I’ve ever been a witness to,” and was written to highlight Annie’s bad luck with guys. Unfortunately, this moment is cut from the final edit, but the seven-minute sequence was included on the DVD extras, and has since made its way to YouTube.
Bridesmaids nearly featured another famous cameo – from Matt Damon
Paul Rudd wasn’t the only A-lister who was robbed of an appearance in Bridesmaids. Speaking to Business Insider, Paul Feig revealed in 2021 that Matt Damon was supposed to play himself in a fantasy cameo.
Describing the scene, the director said: “Annie goes in the dressing room to try on this really expensive dress, and suddenly she has a fantasy of what her life could be in this dress.
“It’s this romance feel with her running through the woods and Matt Damon is shirtless chopping wood.”
This romantic fantasy sequence was totally scrapped from the film by Paul and producer Judd Apatow, because “there needed to be a consequence to Annie’s actions”, and she also needed “to be humiliated in front of Helen and the other bridesmaids”.
“So,” he added. “We came up with the food poisoning from being at a shitty restaurant.”
Certain jokes were edited out of Bridesmaids following the death of Jill Clayburgh

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Bridesmaids, sadly, was Jill Clayburgh’s last performance before her death.
Jill died between filming and the film’s release, which affected some of the jokes that made it into the final cut.
“We took some dirty Jill Clayburgh jokes out because I just thought, ‘that can’t be the last thing she says’,” Judd Apatow told The Playlist, admitting that even if the quips were still “funny” they could be perceived as “questionable”.
Some of these raunchier gags did make the DVD outtake reel, though.
Paul Feig recalled telling the late performer: “I can’t believe we’re making you say this.”
Her response? “Oh I love it.”
“She was so sincerely happy to be doing this kind of comedy that it’s a special memory for me,” he added.
Chris O’Dowd’s Bridesmaids character wasn’t written as Irish in the script
Chris O’Dowd told HuffPost in 2013 that he originally auditioned for Bridesmaids with an American accent – but Paul Feig suggested he try it in his own.
“Paul Feig is a huge Anglophile and knew [The IT Crowd] really well and was a big fan of it,” Chris explained. “He said, ‘Hey, why don’t you try it in your own accent?’. And it just kind of went well and we improvised for a good while like that with Kristen – yeah, and it played well.”

Judd Apatow also approved of having an Irish love interest, believing it would make the love story a little less formulaic and, in Chris’ words, “odd”.
Kristen Wiig is actually not a fan of the infamous food poisoning sequence
In an interview with The Hollywood Reporter’s Awards Chatter podcast in 2017, Kristen admitted that all the gross-out humour was added into her script by Judd Apatow.
“When people say, ‘Oh, we’re gonna give more female-centered movies a chance,’ you’re not reading the fine print, which is, ‘Oh, but, they have to be like this’,” she claimed. “They want to see women acting like guys.
“The scene was not our idea and it was not in the original script and we didn’t love it. It was strongly suggested for us to put that in there. I didn’t want to see people shitting and puking.”
Apparently, all that fake vomit tasted better than it looked

Another of the most memorable scenes in Bridesmaids is the moment when the women get food poisoning while trying on wedding outfits.
It looked gross, but Paul Feig told Glamour that the “concoction” that made up the faux vomit actually consisted of oatmeal (“for a little bit of texture”), “some chopped up vegetables” and almond milk”.
That food poisoning scene might feel extreme – but it originally went even further
Paul added that he and the crew made use of a “vomit cannon” at one point.
“There’s a scene that we didn’t put in the movie where Ellie’s character runs in, and Wendi’s like, ‘Get away from me’,” he noted.
“And so she runs down the hall and opens the door and projectile vomits across the room. But when we got in the editing room everyone was immediately like, ‘That’s just too much, we have to take that out.’ We do have some class.”
Kristen Wiig had no idea how big Bridesmaids would go on to become

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Kristen Wiig admitted recently that she was fairly sure the film would be a box-office failure.
“I remember after opening weekend, they were like, ‘Well, we tried,’” she said on a 2025 episode of Amy Poehler’s Good Hang podcast.
“We just thought, like, that was it. And then I think just more and more people kept seeing it and then it kind of happened later.”
Paul Feig also admitted on Jesse Tyler Ferguson’s Dinner’s On Me podcast that he felt pressure for the film to succeed, even though it was “predicted to not do well right up until the day of release”.
And no, there’s definitely not going to be a Bridesmaids sequel

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As the case with almost all hit films, people have been desperate for a sequel. Although many key players – including Paul Feig – are open to the idea, Kristen Wiig has explicitly said she has no interest in revisiting Annie and her friends.
During a 2021 appearance on Andy Cohen’s Sirius XM show, she explained, “I just don’t want it to be translated as a negative thing, because we obviously love the movie [but] we feel like we told that story and we were just so excited to do other things.”
Bridesmaids is currently streaming on Amazon Prime Video in the UK.
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Study Suggests ‘Mentally Active’ Behaviour While Sitting May Reduce Dementia Risk
Engaging in “mentally active” activities versus “mentally passive” ones while sitting or lounging may affect your risk for dementia, according to a recent study.
In a study published in the American Journal of Preventive Medicine last month, researchers evaluated over 20,000 adult participants in Sweden, most of whom were women. Researchers administered a baseline questionnaire to participants in 1997 to assess their mentally passive sedentary behaviours, such as watching TV and listening to music. They also assessed their mentally active sedentary behaviours, such as office work or knitting and sewing. Their light and moderate-to-vigorous physical activity was also assessed using questionnaires. The participants were evaluated for incident dementia nearly two decades later.
The study found that mentally passive sedentary behaviour ― for example, watching TV ― was associated with a higher incidence of dementia. But adding mentally active sedentary behaviour (needlepointing, anyone?) showed promising outcomes.
Researchers found that each additional hour of mentally active sedentary behaviour a day was associated with a 4% lower risk of dementia — and that adding mentally active sedentary behaviour showed a higher protective effect for participants aged 50 to 64.
The study also found that replacing one hour of mentally passive sedentary behaviour with one hour of active sedentary behaviour was associated with a 7% decreased risk. What’s more, adding one hour of mentally active sedentary behaviour, while maintaining the same passive sedentary behaviour and light and moderate-to-vigorous physical activity, was associated with a 11% decrease in incident dementia risk.
Researchers noted that the study had some limitations. For starters, the study began in 1997, before the vast introduction of smartphones, social media and video streaming — which are now very common ways people engage in sedentary behaviour.
Dr. Hussein Yassine, a professor of neurology at the University of Southern California Keck School of Medicine, emphasised to NBC News that phone and social media usage, which are considered mentally passive behaviours, may pose risks to our ability to concentrate.
“It’s going to be affecting your ability to process information and potentially build synapses in certain areas in the brain that help with concentrating,” Yassine told the outlet. “So the next time you have a serious task or you need to concentrate, you’re less capable because your brain networks have been hijacked by this passive reception.”
Among several other limitations cited in the study: Researchers pointed out that cognitive assessments were not done at the start, and it’s possible the sample may have included more prevalent cases of dementia, which may have resulted in a bias in the results.

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Dr. Leana Wen, an emergency physician and clinical associate professor at George Washington University and CNN wellness expert, told CNN that one explanation for the results of the study could be due to the fact that “the brain benefits from being challenged.”
“Cognitive engagement helps maintain neural connections and may support what’s called cognitive reserve, which is the brain’s ability to adapt and compensate for changes over time,” she said. “When people spend long periods in activities that require very little mental effort, those pathways may not be stimulated in the same way. Over the course of months and years, that lack of engagement could contribute to decline in memory and thinking.”
Wen cautioned, though, that the study doesn’t prove cause and effect.
“It’s possible that people with better baseline cognitive function are more likely to choose mentally engaging activities,” she said. “So, while the findings are compelling, they should be interpreted as an association rather than proof that choosing passive activities directly leads to dementia.”
Research has shown that engaging in mentally stimulating activities, in addition to staying physically active, can be beneficial for your brain health.
Dr. Dylan Wint, director of the Cleveland Clinic Lou Ruvo Center for Brain Health, previously emphasised the importance of strengthening the brain in an interview with HuffPost.
“You could try brain games, a new hobby, taking a class at a college or community centre, or learning a new language or instrument,” Wint said. “When determining whether an activity can have some cognitive benefit, what’s most important is that you are challenged and learning.”
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Keysight Technologies targeted over links to Israel’s genocide
At approximately 4am on Sunday, 12th April, three people from the direct action group People Against Genocide successfully evaded security and stormed the Keysight Technologies research and development plant in Hampshire:
Once inside, the activists destroyed computers, servers and machinery, directly linked to the murder of Palestinian, Lebanese, and Iranian civilians.
All three were arrested inside the factory:
Keysight Technologies: complicit in Israel’s genocide
US-owned Keysight Technologies manufactures radar and electronic warfare systems for military use. They supply UAV Tactical Systems (U-TacS), a drone factory which is now entirely owned by Elbit Systems, Israel’s biggest weapons maker.
Amongst other drones, U-TacS are responsible for developing the Watchkeeper drone, based on Elbit’s Hermes 450 drone, which has been central to the ongoing genocide in Gaza, and linked to the killing of seven aid workers from the World Central Kitchen in April 2024. They have been used to surveil and kill innocent citizens across West Asia, on behalf of the Israeli regime, and other genocidal regimes around the world.
As well as supplying Israeli weapons firm Elbit Systems, Keysight Technologies works with the US Army, US Air Force and US weapons companies, including Lockheed Martin. Keysight Technologies also specialises in 5G technology for military applications. The firm collaborates with Lockheed Martin on a 5G military solution called ‘5G.MIL Unified Network Solutions’ which provides a high-speed connection for weaponry and military applications used by the US military. Keysight Technologies also has a manufacturing plant in Israel.
In addition to Elbit weapons being used to kill thousands in Gaza, Lebanon and Iran, the Israeli weapons firm also made a $2.3billion deal with the UAE, which is accused of arming the Congolese genocide.
Shutting it down
Keysight Technologies has been targeted for some time by anti-genocide activists, with several previous actions at their site at Winnerish in Berkshire, as well as Keysight facilities in Scotland. So far, rather than cutting their ties to Elbit, which supplies the Israeli military with 85% of their killer drone fleet, Keysight has chosen to invest millions in infrastructure and security.
A spokesperson for People Against Genocide said:
Keysight Technologies makes a killing by supplying the necessary components for the weapons used to commit mass murder in Palestine, Lebanon, Iran and the Congo. By dismantling Keysight’s research and development site, we are taking necessary direct action against the US and Israeli military industrial complex, responsible for the killing of people across West Asia and in the Congo.
So long as they are directly involved in genocide, we will continue to target this murderous company, exposing their role in supplying the Israeli and US military, and shutting them down.
One action taker said:
Keysight Technologies is a key supplier of Elbit Systems, who are are supplying and supporting the genocidal Israeli army. Wherever there’s genocide, Elbit Systems is involved. They’ll participate in any and every other illegal war. Their tag line is “battle-tested” on the Palestinian people. That is their marketing line.
Recently the UAE who is heavily involved in genocide has signed a billion dollar contract with Elbit Systems. Elbit has been looking to the Congo genocide for business opportunities, and their bombs have been used in the Congo. All of the struggles are absolutely the same struggle, connected by the same genocidal maniacs.
Elbit Systems uses your tax money to make billions while you can’t afford healthcare, childcare, a holiday, groceries. “I support genocide” is legal. “I oppose genocide” makes you a terrorist. Now tell me who’s the real terrorist?
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Wes Streeting Condemns Trumps Iran War Comments
Wes Streeting has condemned Donald Trump’s “incendiary, provocative and outrageous” threat to destroy Iranian civilisation.
The health secretary accused the US president of using “rhetoric which people might find shocking” in the most outspoken attack on him so far by a government minister.
Streeting took aim at Trump after peace talks between America and Iran broke up without agreement.
Trump sparked an angry backlash last week when he claimed that “an entire civilisation will die tonight” unless Tehran re-opened the Strait of Hormuz.
A ceasefire was agreed at the last minute, but the vitally important waterway remains effectively blocked to oil traffic.
On Sky News on Sunday morning, Streeting said: “Over the course of the past week, President Trump has said some pretty bold, in Yes Minister language, incendiary, provocative, outrageous things on social media.
“I think we’ve all come to learn that you judge President Trump through what he does, not just what he says.”
Trump has also launched repeated attacks on Keir Starmer over the UK’s initial refusal to allow the US jets to use RAF bases to launch their attacks on Iran.
He said the prime minister was “no Winston Churchill” and has also compared him to his Hitler-appeasing predecessor Neville Chamberlain.
Streeting said the so-called special relationship had been “undoubtedly strained” by the split over Iran, but insisted the two countries still enjoyed a strong partnership.
He said: “We are old and close friends and we’ve got a shared outlook as democratic countries and we’ve got shared security interests.
“So all of that partnership continues to go on. The point I’m making is you have to distinguish between some of the rhetoric which people might find shocking, and then the reality.
“There were lots of people who went to bed earlier this week with President Trump threatening the end of Iranian civilisation, wondering what on earth would happen overnight, and woke up to a very different picture next morning.
“That’s the point we’re making. There’s a difference between what he says and what he does, and the prime minister has kept level-headed cool, calm leadership that I think the public have appreciated and respected.”
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6 Somatic Exercises To Try Mid Fight To Avoid Acting Like A Dysregulated Jerk
We’ve all been there. Whether it’s a fight with a partner or a tense moment with a co-worker, something gets triggered and suddenly it feels like your nervous system has been hijacked. You say or do something you regret later and think: How could I have handled that better?
The frustrating part is that trying to “think” your way through it in the moment often doesn’t work.
“When you’re mid-fight and your nervous system is flooded, your rational brain is offline,” Erica Schwartzberg, somatic therapist at Downtown Somatic Therapy, told HuffPost. “That’s why ‘just calm down’ or ‘let’s talk about this rationally’ doesn’t work. You have to regulate your body first. Then your brain comes back online, and you can have a productive conversation.”
But when you’re already dysregulated, it helps to adjust your expectations. As Toni Teixeria, licensed clinical social worker at Strong at the Core Counseling, put it, “When you are already dysregulated, it is often hard to get regulated.” The goal isn’t instant calm. It’s to “bring your thinking brain back online so that you can make the best choice in the situation.”

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That’s why simple actions matter. In the middle of a fight, “doing small things is best,” she said, especially because “doing something complicated or forgetting what to do may increase your frustration.”
And importantly, this isn’t about suppressing what you feel. As Schwartzberg noted, “These exercises aren’t about suppressing your feelings or ‘being nice’ when you’re legitimately hurt or angry. They’re about creating enough space between stimulus and response so you can choose how to express yourself instead of just reacting.”
Below are a few quick, physical ways to shift your state just enough to move from reacting to responding.
Take A Small Step Back
This might seem almost too simple, but it’s powerful. By taking a step back in the middle of a conflict, Teixeria said, “You are physically changing your position to move into a safer state.” It becomes a literal cue to your body that “you don’t need to fight.”
This simple movement can soften the body’s impulse to stay in “fight” mode by signaling that you don’t need to engage at full intensity.
“Research on ‘psychological distancing’ shows that stepping into more of an observer perspective can support emotional regulation,” Teixeria explains. “Creating even a small amount of physical space between you and the stressor gives you a chance to shift your perspective and interrupt the stress cycle, which may help dial down the surge of stress chemicals keeping you in a heightened, reactive state.”
Horse Flutter Breath (Lip Trills)
Schwartzberg calls this her favourite, and for good reason.
The practice is simple, and maybe a little fun. “Relax your lips and blow air through them so they vibrate/flutter (like a horse snorting or making a ‘brrrr’ sound).” Let your face soften and continue for a few seconds.
What’s happening underneath is surprisingly powerful. As Schwartzberg explains, “This technique releases tension in your face and jaw,” which are two places we instinctively tighten during conflict. When those muscles soften, it sends a bottom-up signal of safety to your nervous system.
There’s also a neurological component. According to Schwartzberg, the vibration stimulates the vagus nerve through the facial muscles while creating a gentle “pattern interrupt.” In other words, it disrupts the escalation loop just enough to give you a reset.
And then there’s the human element. “It’s nearly impossible to stay furious while making horse noises,” she said. That tiny moment of absurdity can add just enough lightness to break the intensity.
Shake It Out
This one might require you to step out of the room for a moment, but can be incredibly effective.
Basically, according to Schwartzberg, you’re going to physically shake your hands, arms, legs, or whole body for 10 to 30 seconds. “Let it be loose, floppy, and uncontrolled,” she said.
Why does it work? “When you’re in fight-or-flight, your body is flooded with stress hormones (cortisol, adrenaline) and physical tension. Animals in the wild literally shake after a threat to discharge that energy as a trauma release,” Schwartzberg explains. “Humans need to do this too, but we’ve been socialized to ‘hold it together.’”
Shaking does the opposite, said Schwartzberg, because “it completes the stress cycle your body started,” allowing that activation to move through instead of getting stuck.
Take A Deep, Audible Sigh
A sigh is more than just an expression ― it’s also a reset. “Sighing tends to reset your nervous system,” Teixeira explains, especially because it creates “a longer exhale which helps your parasympathetic nervous system to begin to settle you down.”
Physiologically, “a long, audible exhale helps your heart rate to slow down,” activating the vagus nerve ― your body’s internal calming system ― and helping shift you out of fight-or-flight.
One practical note: Sighing can be misinterpreted. People might confuse your sighing for frustration, which is why Teixeira suggests naming it so it doesn’t escalate things, letting the other person know you’re taking a pause rather than expressing annoyance.
Butterfly Hug (Bilateral Stimulation)
Coming from her work as an EMDR therapist, Schwartzberg said this one is especially useful when conflict feels emotionally overwhelming.
The setup: “Cross your arms over your chest… and slowly alternate tapping your shoulders (left, right, left, right).”
The butterfly hug uses “bilateral stimulation, alternating left-right tapping, to calm the amygdala (your brain’s fear and threat-detection center), and helps the left and right hemispheres of the brain reconnect,” Schwartzberg explains.
In a dysregulated state, those systems aren’t communicating well, said Schwartzberg, because our thinking brain and emotional brain aren’t linking up. The rhythmic left-right tapping helps restore that connection.
There’s also a deeply human layer to it, too. The motion “mimics being rocked or held, which is deeply soothing to your nervous system,” she said. “Especially if you’re feeling attacked or alone in the conflict.”
Look Around (Orienting)
According to Teixeria, conflict narrows your focus. “When there is [perceived] danger we are locked on it,” she said. And in an argument, that “danger” becomes the other person, and can easily dysregulate our nervous system.
That’s where orienting comes in. “Looking around is a way to send signals to your nervous system that you are safe,” she explains. By scanning your environment, you interrupt that tunnel vision and remind your brain this isn’t a life-or-death situation. You might even repeat: “I am in a room with four walls and a ceiling, not in a life-or-death struggle.”
This, Teixeria said, helps your brain recognise that you’re safe, so you can actually step out of survival mode.
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The Best Butter Bean Recipes, According To Chefs
Chef comment provided by Stuart Gillies, chef-owner for Number Eight, Sevenoaks and Bank House, Chislehurst, and Luca Meola, chef-owner of Rossella, Italian restaurant and deli in Kentish Town.
Recently, HuffPost UK asked chefs to share the very best meals they could think to make with rhubarb and leeks.
The seasonal staples are especially delicious in spring and early summer. But what about a good ol’ tin of butter beans, which lasts year-round?
Here, we asked chefs Stuart Gillies and Luca Meola to share their favourite meals to make with this “fibremaxxer’s” fave:
Stuart: a creamy Niçoise-style salad
Usually, the classic French salad contains potatoes, hard-boiled eggs, green beans, olives, lettuce, tomato, and tuna.
On top lies a tangy garlic, anchovy, mustard, vinegar, and olive oil dressing.
But for a “creamier” version, chef Gillies said you can’t go wrong with a can of butter beans in place of the usual spuds.
“I love adding them into a Niçoise-style salad ― they bring a natural creaminess and make the dish feel more substantial, while still keeping it fresh and balanced,” he told us.
“Tossed with green beans, tomatoes, olives and a sharp vinaigrette, it’s a really satisfying, protein-rich plate that works perfectly for warmer days.”
Luca: garlicky butter beans speak for themselves
One of my favourite lunches of all time is a leek and butter bean dish that takes less than 15 minutes to whip up. Another beloved version is “marry me” butterbeans, which basically just means cooking them in tomato sauce and adding something creamy and/or cheesy at the end.
Chef Meola takes a similarly minimalist approach.
“Butter beans are great cooked slowly with garlic, olive oil and a bit of rosemary until they go really soft and creamy,” he told us.
“Finish with good olive oil, and that’s pretty much it.”
He didn’t explicitly mention eating that with a hunk of crusty bread, but we’ll be trying it that way anyway.
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The House Article | Team Burnham Is Getting Organised Ahead Of The May Elections

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Labour MPs say Angela Rayner is down, Andy Burnham is up. Sienna Rodgers reports on the obstacles on the mayor’s path to No 10
Even the most enthusiastic advocates of a change in the Labour leadership are starting to wonder whether the current stalemate will really be broken by terrible results in May.
The party’s press operation may not yet have begun its expectation management ahead of the elections, but a very low bar has already been set in the minds of its MPs. “Ah, but that’s baked in,” they often say when asked about the possibility of shocking outcomes such as losing power in Wales for the first time ever. The number of Labour councillors lost in England could easily exceed 1,000, one whip privately conceded with a shrug.
The mood of the Parliamentary Labour Party (PLP) can shift quickly, however, and allies of Andy Burnham hope that, in the case of truly dismal results, MPs will wake up to the severity of the crisis the party finds itself in and get moving. The best-case scenario for them would be an orderly transition in which Keir Starmer sets a date for his departure, allowing time for the ‘King of the North’ to get into position.
Although the Iran war makes this less likely, the good news for Burnham is that he appears to have secured the support of senior members of the PLP, especially the Tribune group. Ed Miliband, Louise Haigh, Lisa Nandy and Miatta Fahnbulleh are all now considered by sources close to the mayor to be on board the Burnham train. He has moved from 50-odd potential nominees in the PLP to triple figures, says a backer.
After being promised by a senior Labour figure that his Gorton and Denton candidacy would not be blocked, Burnham failed to lobby National Executive Committee officers ahead of the vote and was blindsided by the outcome of his application. He is a busy politician with significant responsibilities, so “trying to find the time to be the saviour of the Labour Party and the civilised world is quite tough”, reasons one ally. But The House understands that Burnham is now doing the outreach required for a move.
READ: Worker Bees: Inside The Burnham Operation
He has started meeting with Labour MPs in a more intentional way, and a supporter of his ambitions says he is beginning to organise among trade unions too. Unison – a huge party affiliate that is best associated with Rayner but is now led by Andrea Egan, a Burnham fan – is regarded as key. The unions are significantly more amenable to the idea of a Burnham bid than they were pre-Gorton, says a source.
The increase in backing for Burnham has run parallel to a waning of Rayner’s star power. The more she says, a critic on the left asserts, the worse it gets for her.
Although the speech she delivered to soft-left group Mainstream’s March reception was successful in creating headlines, multiple sources say some of the contributions to it from left-wing partner Sam Tarry, MP Clive Lewis and ex-MP Jon Cruddas were removed by her parliamentary team. “The deeper thinking was ripped out,” as one disappointed insider puts it, adding that this left her with a classic Friday night Constituency Labour Party stump speech.
So, MPs on the soft left and left are waiting for Burnham instead. Getting into the PLP nonetheless remains a challenge, of course – but his allies are confident that appropriate options exist and that it will be easier to exert control over the timing of such by-elections this time.
They will not comment on which specific seats Burnham is eyeing. But with Marie Rimmer’s Merseyside seat out of the running (the MP has told The House in no uncertain terms that she would not be stepping aside to make way for the mayor), one friend of the mayor suggests that Manchester Rusholme (Afzal Khan) and Bootle (Peter Dowd) are seen as the favourites – and that the promise of a peerage could smooth this path.
Labour’s third-place result in Gorton and Denton has worried local MPs, they say, making it easier to persuade them to quit the green benches before they are pushed. Another idea floated is that Nandy could swap places with Burnham, though there is no suggestion that the Culture Secretary has endorsed such a plan.
So, as Burnham looks increasingly like the desirable choice for Starmer critics, his operations, organisation and policy work are all being ramped up.
For supporters, what worries them above all is the scale of the repair job needed. “Gorton and Denton had to happen for Andy’s support to rise this much, but on the other hand, Gorton and Denton may have been the death of the Labour Party,” says a Burnham-allied MP.
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How to Hire the Right Solicitor in North Yorkshire
Understandably, finding the right solicitor can feel stressful. This is especially true when you are already dealing with a legal issue. Whether you are buying a home, sorting out a dispute, or handling a family matter, the person you select can make the entire process smoother or harder than it needs to be.
Nonetheless, the good news is that hiring the right legal support is not a complicated process. With that said, if you are looking for Solicitors in Malton, North Yorkshire, or anywhere else in the region, the following smart steps can help you select someone you can actually trust.
Read on to learn more.
Understanding What You Need Help With
The very first thing to do before you start searching is to understand your situation. For instance, are you dealing with divorce? Are you planning to sell property? Are you going through workplace issues? You should know that not every solicitor handles every type of case. There are specialties, which is why some might focus on property, and others might deal with family matters.
Knock off by knowing what you need, you can easily narrow down your options and avoid wasting time talking to the wrong firms.
Looking for Strong Reputation & Experience
Now, if you are hiring someone locally, it is actually a big advantage. For instance, solicitors in North Yorkshire do understand legal procedures, property trends, and even the pace at which things work in the region. With that said, before selecting the solicitor, pay attention to their reputation.
The best way to go about it is by checking reviews, asking friends, and checking how long the firm has been operating. More importantly, do not be afraid to ask questions, such as whether they have handled cases like yours before.
Analysing Communication Style
Always arrange a first call with the solicitor and analyse their communication style. Believe us when we tell you that the first conversation will tell you a lot. You do not need a solicitor who talks over you or makes you feel rushed. You need someone who can listen, explain, and treat you like a real person instead of another case.
Seeing Through Fake Promises
One of the worst mistakes you can make is falling for promises that sound too good. You should know that legal matters take time, and the outcomes are not always guaranteed. It is quite self-explanatory that you must be cautious of anyone who promises quick results. Also, watch out for someone who claims that your case is an easy win before asking for the details. You might want to think of it like April Fool’s Day. This might sound convincing at first; however, they are not necessarily based on truth.
You should know that a trustworthy solicitor will always be honest about what they can and cannot guarantee.
Final Thoughts
Before you commit, you must understand the costs. After all, money matters! Before hiring anyone, ask for a transparent explanation of how they charge. You should know that some solicitors charge hourly, while others work according to fixed fees depending on the service. With that said, make sure that you really understand what is included and what might cost extra later.
Disclaimer
Please be advised this article is for informational purposes only and should not be used as a substitute for advice from a trained legal professional. Please seek the advice of a legal or real estate professional if you’re facing issues where you need legal help.
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Labour MPs Urged To Campaign In London Amid Green Surge Fears
Labour MPs from across the country are being urged to campaign in London over the next fortnight as the party fears losing key councils to the Greens.
Voters in the capital, as well as millions of people across England, Scotland and Wales, will go to the polls for crunch elections on May 7.
Experts, as well as Labour MPs themselves, are predicting that the party is heading for “a bloodbath” as the electorate delivers a damning verdict of the government’s performance so far.
MPs will return to Westminster on Monday after the two-week Easter recess.
Labour chair Anna Turley has written to the party’s MPs who were first elected at the 2024 general election urging them to get out knocking on doors while they are in London.
In her message, seen by HuffPost UK, she says: “Back to London next week!
Let’s make our time there really count in the last few weeks of the campaign!
“Every London council seat is up for election in May. I know you’re all doing great work across the country but let’s use our time in the big smoke to help our Labour family there.
“We’re heading out campaigning in key London areas next week and the following week.
It would be fantastic to have colleagues (and available team members) from across the country join us—just as London has supported so many of our campaigns before. Your help would make a real difference.”
One Labour MP told HuffPost UK that the message showed “things must be bad” for the party in the capital.
Among the Labour-run authorities thought to be vulnerable are those in Islington, Lambeth, Southwark and Hackney.
A Green Party spokesman said: “It’s not the 2024 intake of Labour MPs people in London want to see on their doorsteps, it’s help with the affordability crisis and real affordable housing.
“People are turning to the Greens because they see a real alternative to failing Labour councils.”
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Labour Cabinet Members Likely To Lose Seats In Election
A host of Labour cabinet members are set to lose their seats to both Reform UK and the Greens at the next election, according to a new mega poll.
The More in Common study suggests Rachel Reeves, Wes Streeting and Yvette Cooper are among those who could be kicked out by voters at the next election.
Labour leadership hopeful and former deputy prime minister Angela Rayner would also lose her seat, as would John Healey, Ed Miliband, Hilary Benn and Darren Jones.
Although Keir Starmer would be re-elected in the traditionally safe Labour seat of Holborn and St Pancras, his majority would be slashed.
Reform would win a staggering 324 seats – just short of an overall Commons majority – while the Greens would see their number of MPs quadruple to 21, the poll said.
However, Labour would plummet from 411 seats to just 102, with the Tories also falling to 81, the Lib Dems on 62 and the SNP on 26.
The findings are another blow to Keir Starmer and come less than a month before voters in England, Scotland and Wales go to the polls for crunch elections on May 7.
Around 15,000 people were polled by More in Common, who used the so-called MRP method to calculate their results.
This gives a seat-by-seat breakdown, based on the social and demographic make-up of each constituency, to come up with its forecast and is generally seen as the most accurate type of opinion poll.
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The Other Bennet Sister: More Jane Austen Adaptations Coming In 2026
It is a truth universally acknowledged that, almost as often as writers pinch Jane Austen’s most famous opening line, new adaptations must join the already hefty pile.
And this is especially true at the present moment, after last year marked the 250th anniversary of Austen’s birth. While most of us settle for a bottle of pinot down the pub, for Austen, the celebrations of her semiquincentennial include a fresh Hollywood movie and the Netflix treatment for a fan-favourite novel.
The latest spin on Austen’s work is the new BBC series The Other Bennet Sister, which taps into the POV of the sidelined Pride & Prejudice sister, Mary.
Starring Ruth Jones as Mrs Bennet and Call The Midwife actor Ella Bruccoleri as the titular character, many fans have already torn through the series and are on the hunt for more where that came from.
If that sounds familiar, you may well be looking for your next Austen fix right now. Luckily, there’s plenty to look forward to this year – here’s what else you can look forward to getting stuck into…
Netflix’s Pride & Prejudice is coming to our screens soon

After recruiting Dakota Johnson for a tepidly-received film version of Jane Austen’s 1817 novel Persuasion, Netflix is having another go at bringing Austen’s work to life on screen.
This time around, Everything I Know About Love author Dolly Alderton has written a six-part TV adaptation of Pride & Prejudice that will arrive at a currently undisclosed date later this year.
The Crown’s Emma Corrin will play Elizabeth Bennet while Slow Horses star Jack Lowden will follow in Colin Firth and Matthew Macfadyen’s footsteps to portray Mr Darcy.
Meanwhile, Olivia Colman and Rufus Sewell will play Mrs and Mr Bennett, respectively, with Heartstopper’s Rhea Norwood and Industry’s Freya Mavor also appearing as Lydia and Jane Bennett.
The star-studded series will also include appearances from Daryl McCormack, Jamie Demetriou, Louis Partridge and Black Mirror’s Siena Kelly.
Describing Pride & Prejudice as the “blueprint for romantic comedy”, Dolly has teased what we can expect “both familiar and fresh” ideas in her take on Austen’s classic.
“In it lies the opportunity to examine the complexities of love, family, friendship, and society, while aspiring to Austen’s delightfully observational voice,” she enthused.
Another Hollywood spin on one of Jane Austen’s most popular books is also in the works
If you’re more in the market for a big screen-adaptation, there’s also a new Sense And Sensibility movie on the way this September.
Austen’s 1811 novel centres on the Dashwood sisters, after they and their widowed mother have become destitute following the death of their father, resulting in them moving to a modest cottage on their cousin’s estate.
Naturally, being an Austen novel, the sisters also navigate suitors of varying morals and suitability.
The 2026 adaptation is led by BAFTA-nominated Blue Jean director Georgia Oakley, with Normal People’s Daisy Edgar-Jones and Hanna star Esmé Creed-Miles starring as Elinor and Marianne Dashwood.
Meanwhile, George MacKay, Fiona Shaw, Caitríona Balfe and Frank Dillane are also in the cast.
The 2026 adaptation is the first major take on Austen’s novel since Ang Lee’s 1995 adaptation, featuring Emma Thompson, Hugh Grant, Kate Winslet and Alan Rickman, which picked up seven Oscar nominations and 12 Bafta nods at the time.
What about a season 2 of The Other Bennet Sister?
Unfortunately, that’s not looking likely.

The TV series is adapted from Janice Hadlow’s book of the same name, with the events of pretty much the whole novel being covered over the course of the 10 episodes.
Screenwriter Sarah Quintrell did tell Radio Times that she would “love to do more” shows like The Other Bennet Sister, but clarified that she meant “more stories taking a different angle” on classic tales we already know and love, rather than specifically more shows set in the Pride & Prejudice universe.
There’s also a spruced-up Pride & Prejudice audiobook you can enjoy right now
If it’s even more stars you’re after, perhaps you’d be interested in the revamped audiobook of Pride & Prejudice, which features a bunch of the biggest new acting names as well as a few legends.
Alright, so technically this was released in 2025, but we reckon it’s new enough to pique your interest if you’re still coming off the Other Bennett Sister high.
Audible’s reading of the novel sees Industry star Marisa Abela take on the lead role of Elizabeth Bennet, with Babygirl’s Harris Dickinson joining her as Mr Darcy.
Elsewhere, Will Poulter voices Mr Wickham, while Oscar-winner Jessie Buckley is Caroline Bingley, Glenn Close stars as Lady Catherine De Bourgh, and Mr and Mrs Bennett are played by Bill Nighy and Marianne Jean-Baptiste
The Other Bennet Sister is streaming now on BBC iPlayer.
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