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Peter Franklin: Does it matter if the Conservative Party becomes the Kemi Show?
Peter Franklin is an Associate Editor of UnHerd.
No one has benefitted more from the release of the Epstein Files than Kemi Badenoch.
Before the Mandelson scandal blew-up again, the political narrative was heading in the wrong direction for her. It wasn’t just the disruptive effect of the defections; it was also the botched response. Those uncalled for remarks about Suella Braverman’s mental health were quickly withdrawn and explained away as an isolated lapse of judgement. However, the mocking tone of Badenoch’s “drama queens” speech on the 28th of January spoke to a deeper problem: the apparent belief that we can convince the country we are the “party of serious people” by means of an unserious speech.
The Gorton and Denton by-election presented Badenoch with another impediment. Our vote in the constituency is already low and likely to be squeezed by Reform. So, again, a further drain on the momentum that she’d accumulated last year.
There’s more bad news to come with the May elections for the Scottish Parliament, the Welsh Senedd and various councils. These are seats last contested four or five years ago and the results will reflect everything that Boris Johnson, Liz Truss and Rishi Sunak did to crash the Conservative Party when they were in charge. Unfortunately for Badenoch, she’ll be the one sweeping up the wreckage.
It’ll probably be worse for Labour.
If Starmer hasn’t already gone by that point, then coming third in Scotland and losing in Wales for the first time in a hundred years could be the last straw. And yet the choice of a new Labour leader — and, possibly, an acting prime minister, will extend the period in which the Conservative Party struggles for traction.
Or rather that would have been the case if the Epstein files hadn’t recontextualised the entire narrative.
Far from being sidelined, Badenoch has been handed a starring role. And last week, she played it perfectly.
Rather than using PMQs to grandstand, she got the Prime Minister to make a crucial matter-of-fact admission in front of his stony-faced colleagues. And instead of pushing for a vote of no confidence, which would have united the Labour Party, the use of the humble address procedure gave the whole House the space to extract maximum concessions from the government.
So if Keir Starmer does end up following Morgan McSweeney out the door, it won’t be the winning party in Gorton and Denton that gets the credit, nor the forthcoming triumphs for the SNP in Scotland and Plaid Cymru in Wales, nor Starmer’s enemies within the Labour Party. Rather, the clip that’s going to be played over-and-over again is Badenoch’s stiletto of a question: “Can the Prime Minister tell us: did the official security vetting that he received mention Mandelson’s ongoing relationship with the paedophile Jeffrey Epstein?” To which Starmer could only answer: “yes, it did.”
The significance of this moment wasn’t just the admission itself, but that it also focused all eyes on two areas of Conservative strength:
The first is the Conservative Party’s biggest advantage over Reform UK: our status as the Official Opposition. While Conservative shadow ministers face their Labour counterparts over the dispatch box, the eight Reform MPs are stuck at the back with the Corbynites for company. No wonder Nigel Farage prefers to address the nation from the studios of GB News.
The second strength overlaps with the first: Kemi Badenoch’s emergence as the star performer of this parliament. Comparisons are being made to William Hague’s legendary takedowns of Tony Blair in his pomp — but there’s a key difference. Like the jester in the court of a medieval monarch, Hague’s wit served as a safety valve at a time when Blair was otherwise conquering all before him. But Badenoch’s barbs are hitting home and drawing blood. Starmer (or it may be Rachel Reeves or some other minister) emerge diminished from every encounter.
If voters are ready to give the Conservative leader a hearing it is because no one else is better able to articulate the country’s contempt for this disgrace of a government.
This being our most powerful weapon, it makes perfect sense to deploy it at every opportunity. But in the process, we need to be aware that the Conservative Party is fast becoming the Kemi Show.
Of course, we’ve always expected our leaders to take a leading role — it’s right there in the job title. And yet, looking back, the limelight has usually been shared. In Hague’s case, Michael Portillo, Francis Maude and Ann Widdecombe also had starring roles. By the time we clawed our way back into power, the leadership was more of a double act — David Cameron and George Osborne. When Theresa May became Prime Minister, she had no choice but to concede a large slice of power to the leading Brexiteers — Boris Johnson and David Davis. Later, when it all went wrong, she summoned Michael Gove back from exile.
If any of our recent leaders could have hogged all the attention it was Boris Johnson, especially after the triumph of 2019. But even he felt the need to build up a major role for Rishi Sunak — and, subsequently, for Liz Truss too as a counterweight. Truss’s brief time as PM was also something of a partnership — with Kwasi Kwarteng and latterly Jeremy Hunt. When Sunak replaced Truss, he did not share the limelight — but only because there wasn’t any, just a lectern in the rain.
So am I suggesting that Badenoch is a rampant egotist, unwilling to allow other Conservatives their moment in the sun? No, there’s scant evidence of that — in fact she peppers her speeches with shout-outs to colleagues. Nor am I saying that the singular focus on our leader is the result of idleness on the part of shadow ministers. It’s just the attention naturally comes to her. She’s telegenic of course, but much more importantly she’s mastered the art of speaking normally despite the presence of a crowd. I’m afraid that too many of her colleagues still sound like Tory boys or PR persons.
Another reason for the Kemi-alone dynamic is that her backroom advisors are just about invisible. She has no equivalent to a Morgan McSweeney or a Dominic Cummings. Her first chief-of-staff, Lee Rowley, came and went without fanfare. And the current incumbent, Henry Newman, has a lower profile now than when he was serving in a more junior position under Boris Johnson. That’s not a criticism, by the way. Quite the opposite, in fact — backrooms should not be stages.
The final reason why it’s all about Kemi is that she’s all out of rivals. Of the potential alternative leaders, Robert Jenrick has quit for another party; James Cleverley, having accepted a shadow cabinet role is quietly getting on with that; and Tom Tugendhat appears to be fully focused on geopolitical issues. As for Boris Johnson, he’s failed to contend with his own record in office — and thus won’t be welcome back any time soon.
It’s always worth keeping an eye on future prospects like Katie Lam and Rebecca Paul — as long as one bears in mind just how early in the day it is for them. As for any challenge from the Left of the party — such as the recently launched Prosper UK movement — I’m afraid it’s rather too late. That much is made clear by the group’s list of seventy supporters — which is dominated by former ministers, former MPs and former mayors. If the group doesn’t advance bold new ideas and platform fresh thinkers it’ll be more a case of Remember Us? than Prosper UK.
So, does it matter if the Conservative Party does become the Kemi Show? Well, it’s preferable to be a party of many shining stars, but better one than none. What’s more, in an era of multi-party politics and limited attention spans, it’s an idea to give voters a face and a personality to focus on. After all, it works for Reform, it seems to be working for the Greens and even Ed Davey’s nonsense provides the Lib Dems with a degree of definition.
So unless anyone has any other ideas, Conservatives had better hope that the Kemi Show runs and runs.
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The Easter Eggs From Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl Performance, Explained
Bad Bunny’s Super Bowl halftime performance was chock-full of Easter eggs for his dedicated and newest fans alike.
Here are the ones we caught…
The Child Who Got A Grammy
After many people became attached to the idea that the young boy to whom Bad Bunny handed his Grammy was Liam Conejo Ramos, the five-year-old who was detained by ICE in January in Minnesota, fans quickly figured out that the boy was actually child actor Lincoln Fox, dressed as a young Bad Bunny.
In the scene, Bad Bunny hands his Grammy to his younger self in a symbolic gesture. Earlier in the performance, Bad Bunny looked into the camera and said that he was at the Super Bowl because he never stopped believing in himself.

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The Bride And Groom
A couple was quickly married on stage during the Super Bowl, right before Lady Gaga made a surprise appearance to perform a salsa-inspired version of her song Die With A Smile.
The bride and groom have not yet been identified, but according to The Hollywood Reporter, they had originally invited Bad Bunny to attend their wedding. When he couldn’t make it, he reportedly invited them to get married during his Super Bowl performance.
Near the beginning of Bad Bunny’s performance, the couple got engaged, then later married, then sliced a wedding cake together.

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The ‘64’ On His Jersey
Bad Bunny’s reps didn’t immediately respond to a question on what the “64” on his jersey represented, but fans have some theories.
It could be the original reported number of Puerto Ricans who died in Hurricane Maria, the storm that devastated the island in 2017. Or maybe it’s a nod to the 64th Congress, which passed the Jones–Shafroth Act, granting U.S. citizenship to people born in Puerto Rico.
Others have speculated that it’s simply the year of his mum’s birth.
A Puerto Rican Social Club
At one point, Bad Bunny takes a quick shot on stage. The woman who handed it to him was none other than María Antonia Cay, also known as Toñita, who owns the Caribbean Social Club in Brooklyn, a gathering place for the Latino community in the now-gentrified Williamsburg neighbourhood.
In 2022, Bad Bunny celebrated the release of his album Un Verano Sin Ti at the club, and there’s even a festival in Toñita’s honour every year.

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The Power Lines
After Ricky Martin’s surprise performance during the halftime show, the camera panned to power lines sparking and then going out, likely a nod to Puerto Rico’s many blackouts (“apagón” means “blackout” in Spanish).
Since Hurricane Maria devastated Puerto Rico in 2017, millions of Puerto Ricans have experienced intermittent power outages, which are a recurring problem even in the absence of hurricanes.

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The Light Blue Puerto Rican Flag
As Bad Bunny was singing his song El Apagón, he waved a Puerto Rican flag featuring a light blue triangle. This flag typically represents Puerto Rican independence.
In his music video for LA MuDANZA, Bad Bunny ran from police carrying the light blue flag.

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Celebrity Cameos
Multiple celebrities were seen dancing along to Bad Bunny’s performance, including actors Jessica Alba and Pedro Pascal, singers Karol G, Cardi B and Young Miko, entrepreneur David Grutman, social media personality Alix Earle and more.

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The Jumbotron Message
Toward the end of Bad Bunny’s halftime performance, a simple and bold message —“The only thing more powerful than hate is love” — was displayed on Levi’s Stadium’s jumbotron. The message seems to respond to right-wing outrage over Bad Bunny’s selection as the halftime headliner, in part because he sings primarily in Spanish.
After the performance, Donald Trump fumed on Truth Social that “nobody understands a word this guy is saying”, among a litany of other complaints.
A Beloved Taco Truck
The Caribbean Social Club wasn’t the only small business Bad Bunny featured in his halftime performance. Los Angeles’ beloved Villa’s Tacos was also highlighted when Bad Bunny took a shaved ice from one stand and handed it over to Victor Villa, the taco shop’s owner and chef, who was standing behind his taco stand.
Villa thanked Bad Bunny on Instagram for giving him an opportunity to “represent my people, my culture, my family and my business”.
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Chappell Roan Leaves Agency Over CEO’s Emails With Ghislaine Maxwell
Chappell Roan has announced that she is parting ways with her long-term talent agencies after emails between its CEO and convicted sex trafficker Ghislaine Maxwell were unearthed.
Towards the end of last month, Wasserman Media Group founder Casey Wasserman – who is also the chairman of the organising committee for the upcoming Olympics – issued an apology after flirtatious emails between himself and Maxwell from 2003 were made public.
In the early hours of Monday morning, the Grammy winner shared a brief statement on Instagram explaining that she no longer felt comfortable being represented by Wasserman.
The Pink Pony Club singer told her Instagram followers: “As of today, I am no longer represented by Wasserman, the talent agency led by Casey Wasserman.
“I hold my teams to the highest standards and have a duty to protect them as well. No artist, agent or employee should ever be expected to defend or overlook actions that conflict so deeply with our own moral values.”
Chappell continued: “I have deep respect and appreciation for the agents and staff who work tirelessly for their artists and I refuse to passively stand by.
“Artists deserve representation that aligns with their values and supports their safety and dignity. This decision reflects my belief that meaningful change in our industry requires accountability and leadership that earns trust.”

HuffPost UK has contacted the Wasserman Media Group for comment.
In his previous statement, Wasserman said that he “deeply” regrets his past correspondence with Ghislaine Maxwell, which he insisted took place “long before her horrific crimes came to light”.
He added: “I never had a personal or business relationship with Jeffrey Epstein. As is well documented, I went on a humanitarian trip as part of a delegation with the Clinton Foundation in 2002 on the Epstein plane.
“I am terribly sorry for having any association with either of them.”
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The House Article | Countdown: Can Labour Meet Its 2030 Clean Power Mission?

Illustration by Tracy Worrall
11 min read
The success of the latest wind power auction has put Ed Miliband within sight of realising the goal of decarbonising the UK’s electricity network by 2030. But, as Adam Bell reports, daunting obstacles remain – and any success may be bittersweet
It is almost midnight on 31 December 2029, deep in the bowels of Whitehall. A room where monitors bedeck every surface is filled with officials scurrying to and fro. A bespectacled man is on the phone, pinching the brow of his nose in frustration.
“…I know, I know, I know. Inertia. Just please turn it off for the next half hour, and spin up a battery instead.”
He puts down the phone with a heavy sigh. “TEN SECONDS TO MIDNIGHT,” yells one of his staff.
All eyes turn to the screen, where a bar labelled “GAS” is starting to shrink.
“FIVE.” The bar is now halfway down.
“FOUR.”
“THREE.”
“TWO.”
“ONE.”
The bar falls to zero. The room erupts. The lights stay on.
The government is building an enormous machine. It could already raise the temperature of the North Sea, albeit by a single degree and in 200 years. But by 2030, it hopes to have upgraded the machine to such an extent that it would take a mere 150 years.
This machine is the electricity system, and it touches every part of our isles. It is, by a substantial margin, our most complex device. It is in every home, every office and every factory, and it connects them together through a web of cabling that is now well over a century old. While the individual wires may have been replaced, the circuit endures.
The original point of building such a vast machine was to manage the reality that our demand for electricity is not a flat line but varies continuously throughout the day. But the more people connected to a circuit, the more their varied times of switching on the kettle even out. This allows fossil fuel generators to run much more efficiently. Constantly switching them on and off takes more fuel, and instead being able to gently ramp them up and down over the course of the day made electricity considerably cheaper.
Labour won the last election in part through a promise to cut bills by £300 by weaning the country off gas. Its plan for doing so is to decarbonise power by 2030 and thus ensure that the energy crisis, prompted by Russia’s invasion of Ukraine, can never happen again. The public face of this plan is Ed Miliband, and his political future is tightly tied to its success. As part of this, he has given considerable new powers to the National Energy System Operator, the body responsible for both balancing the minute-to-minute operation of the grid and now planning its upgrade.
This is not an easy task. Power plants that run on sunbeams do not have the same performance characteristics as plants that run on gas. You can’t switch the Sun on and off, and indeed in the UK the weather will frequently switch the Sun on and off for you. This means that renewable power plants can’t respond to demand. So, to replace gas, you must not simply build solar panels and wind turbines but all the infrastructure necessary to ensure that demand can be satisfied. And then you must ensure that you can actually make that infrastructure run smoothly.
Nuclear power helps out in part but suffers from almost the opposite problem to renewables: it is very hard to switch off. You can change its output at the margins, but demanding that it have the same performance characteristics as a gas plant will lead to a nuclear engineer saying terrifying things like, “Well, I suppose we could poison the reactor with xenon.”
Nonetheless, having a nuclear backbone helps. In 2025, always-on demand equated to about 13m kettles all boiling at once. Most of the UK’s nuclear reactors are older gas-cooled designs. The last of these came online in 1988. They are now ageing and will need to come offline for decommissioning.
By 2030, it is likely that only one of those reactors will remain online, alongside the 1990s vintage reactor at Sizewell in Suffolk. The only nuclear power plant currently being constructed in the UK, at Hinkley in Somerset, consists of two very large reactors, one of which has the potential to be online by 2030. Without this last reactor, the 2030 target will be in trouble, and considerable effort is going into making sure it happens.
However, while nuclear can take care of our 13m kettles, at maximum the UK consumes power equivalent to 60m kettles. This means there is a very large volume of variable demand to solve. As above, we can’t do this with wind and solar alone. We need ways to store their power and ensure it can get to where it needs to go. But even with that, we’ll still need a lot more wind and solar. The government’s task here is to make that happen.
To put this into perspective, we currently have 16GW of offshore wind around our coasts. You don’t need to know what a gigawatt is to know that adding at least 28 more is a lot. Luckily there’s enough already in process to mean that the government is likely to only need to buy 16-20 extra gigawatts. In its most recent round of renewables purchases it was able to buy 8.4 of this total, putting it within striking distance of hitting its target.
But the problem government now faces is that the price it paid for offshore wind in this round was higher than it has paid for other recent rounds, and developers now know that it’s willing to pay over the odds to hit its target. This implies that if it wants to buy the same amount in the next round it might be charged even more. At the same time, the US’ current antipathy towards wind projects in its own waters will prompt developers to pivot away towards Europe and Asia, potentially improving competition.
The same challenge applies to onshore wind and solar. Onshore wind needs to double, and solar needs to triple. In February we will find out how much government has paid to bring more of these projects online. But the big problem these projects face is much less getting paid and much more about getting connected.
Where pylons stride across landscape, local opponents could cause delay, whether by judicial reviews or planning inquiries
The wires that run the length of the country, the high voltage highways of the power system, were built when most of our power stations were located in the middle of the country and the task was to get the power from the middle to the edge. But the windiest parts of the UK are in Scotland, and the sunniest parts are in Cornwall, which means we now need to rewire the country to bring power from the edges into the middle. Given that our existing grid was slowly built out over the course of about a century, rewiring everything everywhere all at once is a colossal challenge by itself.
It will involve building about 1,000 kilometres of wire onshore and about 4,500 kilometres of wire offshore. The onshore cables will carried by pylons, aside from a small number of locations where they will be buried in the ground to protect nationally significant landscapes. The offshore cables will take the form of enormous wires stretching through the North Sea from Scotland to the Midlands, ensuring that wind can get out of Scotland efficiently, as well as new offshore connections around East Anglia.
Whether onshore or offshore, these projects will face opposition. Where pylons stride across landscape, local opponents could cause delay, whether by judicial reviews or planning inquiries. Offshore cables are not immune because bringing high-voltage direct current connections onshore means very large converter stations. To the uninitiated, these resemble large coastal warehouses – and those who live near them have already started to organise.
Without sufficient connectivity, adding more wind farms will not actually reduce emissions: even if England buys their power, if the power can’t physically get to England, gas power stations will need to be switched on to meet demand.
But because if you’ve sold your power you still get paid regardless of whether it can get to your customer or not, lots of applications for wind, solar and battery projects have been put in across the country. Not all of those can efficiently connect to the grid. Historically, new grid connections have been managed on the basis of first-come first-serve, but in a context in which literally hundreds of gigawatts’ worth of projects had applied for a connection, something new was required.
The System Operator has, therefore, decided to stop allocating connections based on who happened to have bought an option on farmland in Yorkshire and applied on the never-never six years ago, and instead moved to a much more centrally directed regime. Quite simply, it’s looked at all the regions of the UK, looked at how much connectivity it has to play with, and said, “Alright, we need more solar here, some batteries there, and a few wind turbines over here.” It’s then allocated grid connections on this basis and stripped out all those applications from people who hadn’t even bothered to get planning permission.
Batteries and solar – and projects with solar and batteries on the same site – have been the big winners from this process, even if a lot of more speculative applications for these technologies have fallen by the wayside. Lithium-ion batteries, typically made in China but controlled by British-designed software, are expected to come into their own for the purposes of 2030. They will be increasing fivefold from their current capacity of 5GW to closer to 25GW. This moves them from an interesting technology project into the daily mainstay of the grid, storing the midday sun and pumping it out at teatime.
But this new approach to grid connections relies on the wires that provide that connectivity actually being built on time, and here the picture is not quite as positive. The Norwich to Tilbury line, essential for conveying as much offshore wind to the South East as possible, has been delayed to 2031. Without it, the volume of low carbon power that can reach demand will be lower.
Delays are a function of both engineering challenges and financial engineering challenges. In building all of this new grid infrastructure, the transmission companies can only spend up to the amount that Ofgem has allowed them to, before it starts cutting into their bottom line. Ofgem has not allowed the network companies to spend everything they might need for 2030 yet. They have taken the not-unreasonable view that all the generation needed might not materialise, and if it doesn’t materialise then the wires aren’t needed. The spending is therefore locked up inside Uncertainty Mechanisms, a term of regulatory art that doesn’t refer to a mechanical magic 8-ball but rather to a set of conditions under which the money will be unlocked. Which includes progress on delivering all the renewables projects laid out above.
The government’s problems don’t end there. While gas will only provide about five per cent of the electricity needed to run the system, actual gas plants will need to run 20-30 per cent of the time. But much like the nuclear fleet, our gas fleet is ageing and it’s not clear whether many of the existing plants will stagger over the finish line.
The government currently plans to carve out a special market for new build and refurbished gas plant – but, much like with offshore wind, the market knows that these plants are needed and will extract as much value as it can.
These are strong headwinds, but there is an unexpected chink of light. The government may be on course to achieve its 2030 target, albeit not in the way it expected. Many of the large numbers set out above presume significant increases in demand. If demand doesn’t increase dramatically – driven by heat pumps, electric cars and data centres – then a smaller generation build-out might be sufficient to decarbonise the power system. Given that demand for electricity has been declining for the last 20 years, this would be in keeping with the existing trend.
This may be excellent for the target, but this chink of light would in fact be the lights of an oncoming train of failure for the government’s other objectives. Progress on decarbonising heat and transport – not to mention progress on rolling out the data centres necessary for AI – will have gone seriously off-track.
The government’s Warm Homes Plan calls for 200,000 fewer heat pumps than the Climate Change Committee’s target. The Treasury has decided to levy a similar tax on electric vehicles that, when imposed in New Zealand, saw deployment fall by half. The newspapers are full of claims that AI is a bubble.
The triumphant crossing of the finishing line at the end of the decade may yet be realised – but the way we got there may mean it doesn’t feel that great.
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Newslinks for Tuesday the 10th February 2026
Starmer fends off coup his aides accuse Streeting of being behind, as Badenoch insists his position is still untenable
“Sir Keir Starmer on Monday insisted he was “not prepared to walk away” after he survived the most serious challenge yet to his leadership, even as fresh tensions emerged between the embattled UK prime minister and one of his leading rivals. Starmer’s authority was badly damaged after Anas Sarwar, Labour’s leader in Scotland, called on him to resign less than two years after winning power, saying there had been “too many mistakes”. The prime minister’s allies claimed that Sarwar’s move was co-ordinated with health secretary Wes Streeting, who is seen as a contender for the Labour leadership if and when Starmer leaves office. “You don’t have to be a rocket scientist to wonder whether Wes knew about and encouraged him to make a move,” said one MP close to Starmer. Streeting’s team hit back, criticising Starmer’s Downing Street operation for trying to implicate the health secretary even after he had voiced some support for the prime minister. “We did not ask Anas to do this, he did not co-ordinate with Anas on this, Anas is the leader of the Scottish Labour Party, he is his own man, and Wes has the highest respect for him,” said a spokesperson for Streeting.” – FT
- ‘Too many mistakes’ Scottish Labour leader tells Starmer to quit now and blasts ‘it’s not good enough’ – as PM desperately clings on to career – The Sun
- Cabinet bounced into giving PM ‘a stay of execution’: Ministers back Starmer after 24 hours of silence as markets wobble in wake of Scottish Labour chief telling Sir Keir ‘go now’… amid war with Wes – Daily Mail
- Starmer still standing after the coup that never was – The Times
- Cabinet forced to back Starmer to save his skin – Daily Telegraph
- ‘This is my fight’ Starmer vows to fight on & beat rebels in Labour showdown as he pleads with MPs to battle Reform after Mandelson scandal – The Sun
- Keir Starmer tells MPs: I’ve won every fight I’ve been in — as it happened – The Times
- Keir Starmer says he is ‘not prepared to walk away’ after call for resignation – Guardian
- Starmer stumbles on as rivals balk at killer blow – FT
Editorial
- While Sir Keir clings on to his leadership, next to nothing is being done to fix UK’s broken borders or flailing economy – The Sun
Comment
- Starmer should go for the good of the country – Kemi Badenoch, Daily Telegraph
- Blimey, what a Monday! But the nasal knight will live to honk another day – Quentin Letts, Daily Mail
- Neither good nor serious – Ben Sixsmith, The Critic
- Labour’s toxic cult of masculinity has been Starmer’s undoing – Suzanne Moore, Daily Telegraph
- McSweeney’s exit sounds Starmer’s death knell – William Atkinson, CapX
Today
Wes Streeting blamed by Starmer loyalists for ‘coup’ attempt that failed
“A fresh row broke out between Wes Streeting and Downing Street on Monday night after the Health Secretary accused No 10 of briefing against him while he was out defending the Prime Minister. Downing Street accused Streeting of co-ordinating with Scottish Labour leader Anas Sarwar to call for Keir Starmer to quit over the Peter Mandelson scandal, the Health Secretary’s spokesman said. The hostile briefing against him took place while Streeting was doing an interview with Sky News in which he expressed support for the PM, they added. Despite that support, the Health Secretary seemed to be clearing the path for a potential leadership bid as he published his private WhatsApp messages with Peter Mandelson. As dark clouds gathered around the PM last week, Streeting’s name was once again thrown into the mix to replace him, leading to a vicious briefing war with other rivals, who made much of his friendship with the disgraced peer.” – Daily Mail
- Streeting accused of No 10 coup – Daily Telegraph
- I’m not prepared to walk away’: Starmer tells Labour MPs in showdown meeting as he fights for his future – but his woes deepen as Streeting reveals how he moaned about PM’s ‘no growth strategy’ in Mandelson WhatsApps – Daily Mail
- Starmer just one Cabinet resignation from being forced out, insiders say – The i
- Streeting told Mandelson Labour had no growth strategy in private texts – Daily Telegraph
- Wes Streeting’s Mandelson texts: ‘No growth strategy at No 10’ – The Times
- Streeting accused of coup against Starmer as plot to oust him exposed – Express
- Streeting wrote off his re-election chances in WhatsApp exchanges with Mandelson – Guardian
- Keir Starmer to force out cabinet secretary over Mandelson vetting – The Times
Comment
- Wes Streeting is disloyal, untrustworthy – and right on many things – Stephen Pollard, Daily Telegraph
- The Cabinet’s belated – and frankly unconvincing – show of loyalty has brought Starmer a stay of execution only. All it would take is a puff of wind to blow him over now – Jason Groves, Daily Mail
- What could a Starmer government possibly achieve now? – Isabel Hardman, Spectator
- Cabinet delighted to save Sir Keir… now they own him – Tim Stanley, Daily Telegraph
Angela Rayner for leader website went live briefly last month…
“An unfinished website claiming to launch Angela Rayner’s Labour leadership campaign was published temporarily in January, prompting further speculation that the former deputy prime minister could be gearing up for a contest to replace Keir Starmer. The Guardian was alerted to the website, which appeared to be under construction, by a source in the IT industry – before the US Department of Justice’s latest release of documents on Jeffrey Epstein threw the UK government into disarray. It was published, seemingly by accident, on a “staging site”, before being removed from the internet. The domain name angelaforleader.co.uk was registered within minutes of the apparent publishing error, at 9.48am on 27 January, with the same company – Webfusion – as her official parliamentary site. Rayner has denied any links to the website, with her team dismissing it as a “fake” that had neither been commissioned by her, nor with her knowledge, while one ally described it as a “false flag” operation.” – Guardian
- Angela Rayner ‘leadership website’ revealed as she claims it’s ‘nothing to do with her’ and steps back from killing off Starmer – after Scots Labour leader said he must go on day of drama – Daily Mail
- Rayner for leader’ site proves race to succeed Starmer is well under way – Guardian
Comment
- Why Angela Rayner would be the most abysmal PM of my lifetime – Stephen Glover, Daily Mail
Yesterday
Jimmy Lai sentenced to 20 years in jail by China just days after PM asked for his release
“Jimmy Lai will die in prison, his daughter warned, after the Hong Kong newspaper owner was sentenced on Monday to 20 years in prison under the territory’s national security law. Despite Sir Keir Starmer’s personal lobbying of President Xi of China in Beijing last month, Lai, 78, received the longest sentence given so far under the law after being convicted in December of sedition and collusion with foreign powers. Eight other defendants, including journalists at Lai’s former Apple Daily newspaper, were sentenced to terms ranging from six years and three months to ten years, at the end of a trial that has been condemned by western governments and human rights organisations.” – The Times
- Keir Starmer accused of ‘monumental diplomatic failure’ as China jails British citizen Jimmy Lai for 20 years just weeks after Prime Minister raised his plight during talks in Beijing – Daily Mail
- Jimmy Lai: will Hong Kong media tycoon die in jail? – Guardian
Today
Palace will cooperate with police over Andrew’s connections to Epstein
“Buckingham Palace has said it will support police in their investigation into Andrew Mountbatten-Windsor and his links with the late paedophile financier Jeffrey Epstein. The King emphasised his “profound concern” about his brother’s alleged conduct and said the Palace would provide help to police if it was requested. Thames Valley Police has expanded its inquiry into Andrew, who was already under investigation over allegations that he was introduced to a second victim of Epstein — someone other than Virginia Giuffre — at Royal Lodge in 2010. Andrew denies wrongdoing. The force confirmed that it would also assess allegations that Andrew leaked confidential information as a trade envoy.” – The Times
- King Charles says he will help UK police investigate brother’s links to Jeffrey Epstein – FT
- King Charles expresses his ‘profound concern’ at allegations of Andrew’s conduct after Epstein file release, as Buckingham Palace says it ‘stands ready to support’ the police – Daily Mail
- King Charles ‘ready to support’ police over claims about Andrew – Guardian
- King Charles’s U-turn in response to Andrew scandal proves one important thing – Express
- King ‘stands ready’ to support police probe into Andrew amid claims ‘he leaked confidential docs to paedo pal Epstein’ – The Sun
Reform-led Worcestershire set to issue England’s largest council tax rise
“Reform-led Worcestershire county council is likely to issue England’s largest council tax rise this April after it was given special permission by the government to increase it by up to 9%. Worcestershire is one of a handful of authorities whose requests to be allowed to increase local rates above the standard 5% cap from April have been accepted by ministers. Its cap-busting tax hike will be embarrassing to Reform UK nationally, which has made low council tax a political priority; while it has already led to one local Reform councillor quitting the party in protest. Ministers have also announced the government will clear about £5bn of historical debts accumulated by English councils who have overspent on special educational needs and disability (Send) services in recent years.” – Guardian
- Eric Pickles: ‘Cancelling local elections is unconstitutional’ – Daily Telegraph
Yesterday
For successful economic reform, the sums need to add up and Reform’s economics don’t – Mel Stride
News in Brief
- Our armed forces are hollow – and our enemies know it – Nick Carter, Spectator
- Who has the courage to fix Britain’s debt crisis? – Anne Strickland, CapX
- The conservative case for Keir Starmer – Mary Harrington, Unherd
- Call for the King – Nicholas Boys Smith, The Critic
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Wes Streeting Accuses Israel Of War Crimes In Gaza
Wes Streeting told Peter Mandelson that Israel was “committing war crimes before our eyes” in Gaza, private WhatsApp messages have revealed.
The health secretary’s views put him at odds with the government’s official position on the conflict.
Streeting released all of his WhatsApps to Mandelson, who faces a criminal investigation into allegations he leaked sensitive government information to convicted paedophile Jeffrey Epstein when he was business secretary.
In one sent in July last year, he said: “Israel is committing war crimes before our eyes. Their government talks the language of ethnic cleansing and I have met with our own medics out there who describe the most chilling and distressing scenes of calculated brutality against women and children.”
He said Labour “need to be leading the charge on this”.
″The alternative is being dragged there with enormous damage to Keir, the govt and the party,” he said.
In a later message, Streeting accused Israel of “rogue state behaviour”.
“Let them pay the price as pariahs with sanctions applied to the state, not just a few ministers,” he said.
Speaking to Sky News’s Electoral Dysfunction podcast, the health secretary said: “I have made [Foreign Secretary] Yvette Cooper aware of what I’ve said about Palestine, Gaza, and the conduct of the Israeli government, and I hope that doesn’t cause colleagues difficulty because I have always been a team player.”
In another message to Mandelson, Streeting said the government “has no growth strategy at all” for the economy.
The Ilford North MP – who only retained his in 2024 with a majority of 528 – also told the disgraced peer he was “toast at the next election”.
Although the pair sign off some of their messages with kisses, Streeting insisted he was “not a close friend of Peter Mandelson”.
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Luke Thompson Explains Why Benedict Doesn’t Recognise Sophie In Bridgerton Season 4
With the fourth season of Bridgerton still riding high, fans are again under its spell – but that’s not to say that the new episodes haven’t also left them with one rather puzzling question.
The latest episodes of the hit Netflix period drama focus on Benedict Bridgerton’s budding romance with Sophie Baek, who he doesn’t realise is also the mysterious “Lady In Silver” with whom he became infatuated after meeting at his family’s masquerade ball.
But this Cinderella story has left many viewers pondering how Benedict doesn’t recognise that Sophie is the “Woman In Silver”, and that’s exactly what Alison Hammond put to Luke Thompson when interviewing him for the show’s companion podcast.
“Why did he not recognise her, come on?” the This Morning host asked. “It’s all in the mouth! You were dreaming about the mouth the whole time!”
Luke responded: “On a metaphorical level, I do think everyone is blind up to a point. Everyone has huge blind spots.
“We all have that friend, or friends, or even ourselves, that we look at, and there’s a part of us that we just don’t see and we don’t understand, and that can last for years.”
His on-screen mum Ruth Gemmell had a more straightforward answer, though, remarking: “In the Ton, they’re all a bit dim.”
Elsewhere in the interview, Luke also shared his take on the cliffhanger ending that saw Benedict asking Sophie – played by Bridgerton newcomer Yerin Ha – to be his “mistress”.
While Alison conceded this was something of a “dick move”, she also defended Benedict, suggesting that this was the only way he could envisage a long-term future with Sophie due to their class differences.
Luke agreed: “It’s his idea, I think, of a really good offer.
“And it’s also sort of striking because we’ve seen this very soft, relaxed, easy side of Benedict. And actually, at his centre, he is very anxious about love. The fact that he’s like, ‘OK, well you can be my mistress’, and then I’ll be in society.
“I always say [he feels like] a ‘traditional man’ turned inside out – all the soft stuff is outside, and the actually more controlled side is very well hidden.”
He added: “What I will say, in his defence, is that Sophie hasn’t told him she’s the Lady In Silver. She’s holding back as well.”
Bridgerton showrunner Jess Brownell recently shared a similar take on the backlash to Benedict’s “mistress” offer among fans.
Meanwhile, Bridgerton will return for four more episodes on Thursday February 26, with at least two more seasons also in the pipeline.
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Politics Home | A unique industrial chemical partnership is addressing real-world challenges

Credit: Fergus Burnett
With the necessary investment, BASF and Imperial College London say their innovations have the potential to create new economic opportunities in the UK
The chemical industry plays a vital role in all our lives. Chemicals and their derivatives are used in more than 90 per cent of manufactured products and materials – everything from construction and automotive products to everyday items like cleaning products and medical devices.
But with the advent of AI and new technologies, innovation is crucial to support the success of the industry.
With that in mind, world-leading chemical company BASF and Imperial College London are working in partnership to share their expertise and develop innovative solutions to real-world challenges. These include meeting sustainability commitments by developing sustainable products and technologies, improving resilience to supply chain shocks caused by geo-political events, and potentially being ready to manufacture pandemic pharmaceuticals at speed.
Our partnership with BASF is unusually close, interactive and genuine
Since 2019, the partners have been pioneering ways to produce chemicals with less energy and fewer materials, implement continuous production techniques at smaller scales, and use AI to optimise manufacturing, thereby ensuring that the industry continues to be as competitive as possible. Innovations like these could improve the performance of BASF’s production sites and support economic growth across the UK.
Working together, the partners are creating advanced technology and know-how to support the green transformation of the chemical industry by accelerating a shift to non-fossil feedstocks and less energy-intensive methods.
At the same time, they are nurturing a new generation of industrial chemists able to boost the industry’s success, resilience and sustainability.
“We are always looking to work with the best and brightest students and the top people in their fields,” says Darren Budd, Managing Director of BASF plc.
“We have around 10,000 researchers globally, and 40 or 50 years ago maybe we could do it all in-house. But research requires a multi-disciplinary approach today and we can’t do everything ourselves. We need to find the best partners – partners who fit with our ethos, allow us to progress our research and bring products to market much faster.
“Imperial has like-minded individuals with whom we can work, collaborate and share best practice. Working with them allows us to pick up new techniques and new ideas to support the way in which the world is changing, whether that’s the labs of the future in terms of digitalisation or getting the best students and training them in new techniques and new technologies.”
“Our partnership with BASF is unusually close, interactive and genuine,” agrees Dr Philip Miller, Associate Professor in Applied Synthesis at Imperial’s Department of Chemistry.
“Having a steer and direction from industry as to what some of the challenges are is really important to us. We get to work hand-in-hand with an industrial partner, so from the ground up we co-create projects together. It means that we can take the fundamental research that we do in our labs and apply it to real-world problems.
“Having early-stage input from industrial chemists, engineers or other scientists within companies is important. When you have support from industries like BASF, it puts the rocket boosters on what you can do over the short and medium term – and hopefully sustain that investment, research and translation into the longer term.”
Advancing the chemical industry, a report on the Imperial-BASF partnership published last autumn (2025), showed how the partners are translating their research findings into technologies that are ready for adoption and roll-out. Turning a lab-scale reaction into a commercial manufacturing process can take anything up to 12 years, but the partners believe that their respective expertise can help bring projects to market more quickly.
To date, the partnership has supported 35 PhD students, many of whom are working on improving the economic and environmental performance of the chemical industry – for instance, by improving the yield and selectivity of chemical reactions and by using digital techniques to reduce the time-to-market for new continuous manufacturing processes. Their research has led to numerous papers in leading academic journals, patents and new technologies.
As the partnership evolves, the partners are increasing their focus on bringing new techniques and technologies to industrial adoption.
Routes include their direct transfer to BASF, joint development with consortium partners, and the launch of start-up companies to commercialise their joint research. The formation of SOLVE Chemistry, for instance, is the first time BASF has jointly launched a spin-out with a university. SOLVE Chemistry is now working independently to provide the whole industry with access to its AI-based solutions to find the best way to manufacture chemicals more rapidly.
BASF and Imperial believe that their partnership is a model for the way industry and academia can work together and benefit from each other.
“The pragmatic, impact-driven mindset is what you find at Imperial,” says Dr Christian Holtze, Open Innovation Manager at BASF and BASF’s lead in the partnership. “Imperial is very advanced in how they’re deploying digital science into every aspect of research. They are very strong in areas such as scientific modelling and optimisation – and the way the students are educated is always integrating a digital component. This is fairly unique when compared to research and education at other universities.”
Meanwhile, Professor Mary Ryan, Vice-Provost (Research and Enterprise) at Imperial, sees the partnership as one of the university’s most significant strategic partnerships. “Using Imperial’s advanced expertise in chemicals and digital technologies, the technical advances we now have in the pipeline with BASF are both highly realistic and deliverable and potentially transformational, opening up opportunities for dramatic increases in efficiency and even new value chains,” she says.
Today’s chemists are a world away from the days when they worked at benches cluttered with beakers, burners and rising smoke; they now work in highly controlled environments that blend AI, advanced instrumentation to generate high-quality data and data-driven design.
“If you have sufficient data, you can feed that into a machine learning algorithm that enables decisions to be taken out of humans’ hands and direct the temperature, pressure or flow rate to maximise yield or minimise factors such as cost,” says Imperial’s Dr Miller.
Some of the partnership’s other projects include the introduction of flow chemistry, a form of chemical production that allows the fine control of parameters such as temperature, flow rate and real-time monitoring via sensors. Imperial and BASF are also combining new computational approaches with experimental data to improve crystalline products and make production processes more scalable. A third project is looking at a new technique that uses light instead of heat to set off the chemical reactions needed to produce products such as crop protection chemicals.
BASF and Imperial are confident that with the necessary investment, the innovations under development have the potential to create new economic opportunities in the UK, including new manufacturing facilities and high-skilled employment. To date, their work has been supported by the government through the Engineering and Physical Sciences Research Council and other organisations in the Innovative Continuous Manufacturing for Industrial Chemicals programme, a £17.8 million research scheme in continuous chemical production.
Economic challenges in the chemical sector and in the European societies mean we need support to secure the continuity that is required to deploy our transformative innovations
The partnership’s current priority is to intensify the focus on translation, thereby turning technology innovation into commercially viable businesses – with support from senior stakeholders at BASF, Imperial and UK public funding bodies.
The chemical industry is one of the UK’s foundation industries, producing the core materials on which much of the manufacturing economy depends. As Darren Budd of BASF puts it, it is “the building block of everything”, underscoring its vital role in the UK economy.
It is therefore essential for universities like Imperial to attract the best students from around the world so they can work on new technologies that can then be deployed at scale. The industry also needs the government to enable the regulatory environment and to offer financial support and backing to drive the chemical industry forward.
“But we are at a tipping point,” writes BASF’s Dr Christian Holtze in the partnership’s Advancing the chemical industry report.
“Economic challenges in the chemical sector and in the European societies mean we need support to secure the continuity that is required to deploy our transformative innovations and we need to work hard on removing hurdles to technology translation. This will take a concerted effort by the key stakeholders in our partnership – BASF, Imperial and the public funding institutions.”
Read the full report here: Advancing the chemical industry: A report on the Imperial College London – BASF partnership
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Catherine O’Hara’s Cause Of Death Has Now Been Confirmed
Catherine O’Hara died as the result of a pulmonary embolism, her death certificate has confirmed.
Last month, it was announced that the two-time Emmy winner had died in hospital at the age of 71, following what her family described at the time as a “brief illness”.
On Monday evening, it was reported that her death certificate indicated that the actor died as the result of a blood clot on her lungs, with rectal cancer also listed as an underlying cause.
Per BBC News, Catherine had been undergoing cancer treatment since March 2025.
The Canadian-born performer began her career on the sketch comedy series Second City Television, for which she won her first Emmy in the early 1980s.
From there, she went on to land roles in the likes of Beetlejuice, Home Alone and the largely-improvised Christopher Guest comedies Best In Show, A Mighty Wind and For Your Consideration.
In her later years, she became synonymous with the role of Moira Rose in the sitcom Schitt’s Creek, with her co-stars having all paid their respects in the weeks since her death.
Her frequent collaborator Eugene Levy lamented: “Words seem inadequate to express the loss I feel today. I had the honour of knowing and working with the great Catherine O’Hara for over 50 years.
“From our beginnings on the Second City stage, to SCTV, to the movies we did with Chris Guest, to our six glorious years on Schitt’s Creek, I cherished our working relationship, but most of all our friendship. And I will miss her.”
Dan Levy also wrote in his own tribute: “What a gift to have gotten to dance in the warm glow of Catherine O’Hara’s brilliance for all those years.
“Having spent over fifty years collaborating with my dad, Catherine was extended family before she ever played my family. It’s hard to imagine a world without her in it.”
Remembering her on-screen mum’s distinctive laugh, Annie Murphy also said: “Her laugh was a perpetual ‘yes, and’… it challenged anyone who heard it to join in, and be as delighted as she was. Gosh, were we ever lucky to have her.”
More recently, Catherine also played a small role in the second season of The Last Of Us, and shared the screen with Seth Rogen in his Emmy-winning comedy The Studio.
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What the Tories see when they look at Starmer
“We don’t do betting in the Tory Party anymore,” quipped one shadow cabinet minister to me yesterday when asked about the odds of Sir Keir Starmer resigning as Prime Minister – an aside to bad memories of the gambling scandal at the last election.
Others were less restrained. One member of LOTO told me plainly: “He’s a dead man walking. He will be there for PMQs this week – but he may not be there for the next one.”
But there is a line for Kemi Badenoch to follow as Starmer’s leadership seems to unravel. “Kemi has to balance doing the constitutional role as Leader of the Opposition with not seeming to enjoy the Prime Minister’s discomfort too much,” they added, “it is delicate”.
But as one CCHQ source told me: “It is quite nice seeing it from the other side for a change.”
Some in the shadow cabinet had thought the Prime Minister might depart alongside his chief of staff Morgan McSweeney. Politically amputated, with the vultures circling, Starmer might have been tempted to recognise where he had lost and call it quits.
Not quite yet. I would say he is fighting on, but that feels overly generous. From McSweeney’s resignation at 2pm on Sunday, Starmer went more than 24 hours without a single cabinet colleague offering public support. Even at the height of Boris Johnson’s collapse, half the Cabinet could still be relied upon to appear on air in his defence.
With cabinet silence still lingering throughout the morning, Scottish Labour leader Anas Sarwar made his move with a public defenestration of Starmer, calling for his resignation. But it left him conspicuously alone. He jumped, but no one followed.
As yesterday wore on, the leadership contest that had seemed genuinely plausible at the start of the day began to fizzle. It had the feel of a Burnham moment: the senior figure safely outside Westminster making a bid for personal advantage – in Sarwar’s case, some distance from the poor Scottish Labour results expected in May – only to trigger a reflexive show of loyalty to the wounded leader from those at the centre of government.
“Honestly, how has Sarwar ended the day in a worse position than Starmer?” one Tory MP asked.
Eventually, David Lammy became the first cabinet member to break cover, tweeting: “Keir Starmer won a massive mandate 18 months ago, for five years to deliver on Labour’s manifesto that we all stood on. We should let nothing distract us from our mission to change Britain and we support the Prime Minister in doing that.”
A slow trickle followed. One by one, cabinet ministers – alongside the likes of Angela Rayner – posted strikingly similar messages on X about Starmer’s “huge mandate” and their “fullest support”. They had apparently been instructed to tweet them, if the curiously identical phrasing and forced language wasn’t already obvious.
Perhaps they had remembered that forcing Starmer out would resurrect an awkward archive. Over the past few years, nearly all of them – from Rayner to Cooper to Lammy – repeatedly insisted that a change of leader or Prime Minister must be put back to the voters via a general election.
“It would be a shame if someone had all those clips saved,” one CCHQ source tells me.
Just take a look at their Twitter. Rayner, for instance: “The Tories have crowned Rishi Sunak without him saying a word about what he would do as PM. He has no mandate… The public deserve their say on Britain’s future through a General Election.” Lammy, meanwhile, declared it “unacceptable” for Tory MPs to choose another Prime Minister, demanding a general election “NOW”.
Swallowing one’s own words, however, is not difficult if shame is in short supply. Starmer himself said in 2020: “When they made mistakes, I carried the can. I never turn on my staff.” One wonders what happened to that principle.
All eyes automatically look to May. The shadow cabinet minister who declined to bet on Starmer’s departure made the case that no prospective successor would want to inherit the leadership just ahead of an almost inevitable local election meltdown. And while it may feel far away, it is only seven weeks of parliamentary sitting time – but that is seven weeks of survival, certainly not the same as governing, still less the “change” Starmer once promised.
Nor is there an obvious heir. Streeting does not appeal to the membership; Rayner has tax affairs to settle; Burnham lacks a Commons seat. Meanwhile, Streeting has chosen to publish his own messages with Mandelson (can one leak oneself?), admitting the absence of a growth agenda, criticising the government, and recommending Matthew Doyle – another Labour figure dogged by awkward questions over a friendship with a convicted sex offender – do the US ambassador’s comms. And there is more to come: the Conservatives’ humble address last week all means further uncomfortable disclosures over the next couple of months.
“It was definitely comms that was the problem — not appointing a friend of a paedo,” one LOTO figure joked, after the resignation of Tim Allan yesterday made him Starmer’s fourth director of communications to depart.
Yes, there may just be seven weeks until May, but they may be punctuated by a slow drip of increasingly awkward revelations. Without his usual political svengalis around him, it may begin to feel as though the vultures are drawing ever closer – and the Tories will make the most of it.
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The Quiet Loneliness Of Parenting SEND Children Without Support
I suspect some of you may feel a tightening in your chest just reading the headline above; perhaps a memory rising of a morning that felt impossibly heavy or an evening that ended in frustrated tears.
Let me say it gently: parenting can be lonely. And while there are certainly people who go days without seeing another person – and that kind of isolation is deeply painful – there is another kind of loneliness that is far more subtle and much harder to articulate unless you have lived it.
This is the loneliness of walking into a room full of people and still feeling unseen. It is the loneliness that arises in the midst of the school runs, birthday parties and appointments, when everything you do should be visible yet somehow your inner world feels invisible.
That quiet, persistent ache is familiar to many families parenting children with SEND (special educational needs and disability), including those with ADHD, and it brings with it a form of loneliness inflected by guilt and often anxiety.
This is not an article about blame – not of children, not of parents – but about the heavy load carried when we feel ‘other’ as a parent.
Of course we feel grateful. It is true that we are lucky and that we love our children deeply. Yet we are also human, and some moments are unbearably hard, and some days exhaust us to our core.
When we don’t feel grateful in a given moment, or when we don’t enjoy our parenting in the way we think we should, it can turn inward and make us feel that something is wrong with us.
Often, there is also the sting of being misunderstood: of having our experience minimised, or told – gently or sharply – that we are overreacting, not coping well enough, not doing things the “right” way.
Many parents learn to wear a socially acceptable mask, to show up as though all is well – especially when judgement comes from those we most want to understand us: our own parents, in-laws, friends and wider family.
And when the challenges of parenting a child with SEND put strain on relationships, that loneliness can quietly seep into partnerships too.
Research indicates that parents of children with disabilities experience significantly higher levels of stress and relationship strain, and that couples with a child with ADHD are more likely to separate earlier than parents whose children do not have ADHD.
This is not about placing blame on children; it is about naming systems and societal expectations that do not support families as well as they should.
Let me be clear: this is about the loneliness that comes from feeling that the full truth of your experience – the joy and the exhaustion, the love and the frustration – cannot be spoken aloud without apology.
We are taught that if we are “blessed and grateful” to have children, then enjoyment should naturally follow. But let me ask you: who among us enjoys every part of their life or work? Parenting is a privilege, yes – and it is also emotional, relentless labour.
That loneliness often does not arise because someone misses a spontaneous night out. It emerges from the sense that the hardest parts of parenting can only be whispered about, usually behind the closed door of a therapy room.
When we begin to talk about our experience, most of us start with the same careful preface: “I love my children and I feel lucky to have them… but…”
I have said those words too.
What is perhaps hardest to hold is that loneliness can coexist with joy. You might feel lonely while celebrating that your child walked into school that morning without tears, came home happy, or accomplished something that once felt impossible. You might feel lonely even in the warmth of a hug.
I have sat in my car after the school drop-off crying because my child could not face the day, and I have also cried in that same car when they walked through the school gates for a full week – not masking, but feeling safe and supported.
Both moments were real. Both moments were lonely.
Loneliness is not about the number of people around you. It is about whether your whole self – the tender parts, the messy parts, the parts you are taught to hide – is seen and understood. It is the ache of wanting to do what is best for your child while feeling like you are carrying much of it alone or with only your partner at your side.
This is why support networks matter so deeply for SEND parents. Whether it is an online community where your experience needs no explanation, or a real-life coffee with someone who simply gets it, connection can soften loneliness in ways advice never can. Being alongside others who recognise your reality does not take the difficulty away, but it can make it feel more bearable.
If our conversations about parenting – especially parenting children with SEND – were more honest, fewer parents might feel this level of isolation.
Often, loneliness looks like competence. It looks like coping. And if this resonates with you, please know this: you are not failing. You are responding to a reality that is far harder than most people realise.
What matters deeply is not perfection, but support, understanding, and the freedom to say without apology: “This is hard.”
Gee Eltringham is a SEN psychotherapist and founder of the parental support platform, twigged.
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