Dad Mark Hughes has asked “how do people afford life at the moment?” after detailing the cost of what he called a “simple night out” with his 17-year-old daughter in Manchester at the weekend
An Oldham dad has sparked an online debate after expressing his shock over the cost of taking his teenage daughter for a night out in Manchester at the weekend. Mark Hughes, from Saddleworth, shared his experience on his Facebook page after taking 17-year-old daughter Lily into Manchester city centre on Saturday night for a treat.
Breaking down the cost of their night out, including an Italian meal and drinks in a couple of bars, he said: “How do people afford life at the moment?” His post on his Facebook page TheMarkHughes has swiftly gone viral after he wrote about the full costs of the night.
As well as the £119 spent at an Italian restaurant, he also racked up £49 on taxis into and out of Manchester back to home in Oldham. In total the night out came to £210 which has left digital creator Mark saying: “My mind is blown”.
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In the full post, Mark wrote: “How do people afford life at the moment, took my daughter to town for a meal and bottle of wine in a basic Italian restaurant, nothing special, £119 and ill break that down, starters £9 each, main courses £27 and £25 (pasta dishes) bottle of rosé £39 and £10 tip”.
He continued with the breakdown of costs stating: “taxi to town £22 taxi home £27, 4 drinks in random bars £6 each £24, sweet treat and bubble tea £19… that’s £210 for a simple night nothing extraordinary with my daughter…
“Like my mind is blown, I don’t even know what the average wage is everyone earns cos I’m self employed I just make enough money to survive each day .. yet people are still out there spending money”.
The post has racked up hundreds of comments, with many pointing out ways he could have had a cheaper night out, like using the bus or train to get into town instead of taxis.
Russell Stirzaker said: “£40 odd on taxis Find somewhere more local or on a bus route. Plus I won’t spead £27 on a steak never mind pasta (it costs pence).”
Trevor Ward said: “A simple night out”? What would it have been if you’d taken the bus/train instead of spending £50 on taxis?”, to which Mark quipped back: “it would of been cold and wet, that’s what it would of been.”
Others agreed with Mark though that prices are becoming more and more unaffordable for the average family. Graham White wrote: “Ask myself this every other day. How are people affording stuff? Imagine you have more than one child to take . Everywhere I go I see cars that cost £600-700 a month how are they doing it I don’t get it.”
Becky Jones sagely wrote: “I think nights like this used to be the norm. Perhaps even once a week for a lot of people. Now they are a treat. A birthday etc. Really we are just going back to the 1950s.”
Maggie Howle added: “Took my daughter to local burger king, sat lunchtime, £27 for burger and chips, 2 drinks ….never again.”
Jackie McMillan said: “This is why wetherspoons are so busy.”
Digital creator Mark, who also runs the BeingHughes Facebook page, defended using taxis into town, saying to catch the train would have cost £13 each so it wouldn’t have been that much cheaper.
He added that he used to run restaurants himself, so knows only too well the pressures on businesses to make their costs add up, and eats out regularly, sharing what he’s been doing on his Facebook pages. He said he had chosen not to name the Italian restaurant for that reason and said he had no complaints about the meal he and his daughter had.
Mark told the MEN: “It was a nice restaurant, it wasn’t one of the posher ones, but it was Chinese New Year so it was very busy around town. We decided to go somewhere we hadn’t been before.
“It was a really nice meal, and I think that’s just the average price now, that’s what people are paying for going out.
“Because I’m single, I tend to go out a lot on my own, so I don’t think you notice so much the price when you’re paying for one person – like if it’s £60. But when two go out, well it whacks the price right up doesn’t it?”
“When I look at other families out there, if I had two or three kids right now I couldn’t afford to go out. I’m lucky that I do have an income, but even with that I can’t see regular people being about to afford to go out a lot.”
Mark said he’s been stunned by the volume of comments on his post, but welcomes the debate around the issues of pricing and the cost of living.
He said: “Everyone’s entitled to their own opinion and everybody’s situation is different.”

