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Cambridgeshire village makes unexpected discovery while digging for new footpath

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They didn’t expect to find it

Villagers have uncovered and restored a hand-built reservoir that is more than 150-years-old. Its discovery came about during construction for a new footpath in Orwell.

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Following its discovery, volunteers began excavating the cistern by hand, according to Orwell Parish Council. However, this was later deemed “too dangerous”, so a speciality team emptied the well using a “Giant Henry Hoover vacuum the size of a refuse lorry”, the council explained.

The reservoir, built in the 1860s, was specially designed to catch rainwater from a house roof for use in washing and irrigating plants. It has been estimated it would have stored 9,000 litres of water.

The three metre-deep structure, which was constructed of bricks and made at Wimpole, had been completely hidden where nobody was aware of its existence. This find, which was amid an ongoing water shortage, evidenced the innovative approach the Victorians took in building it.

Since then, volunteers have completely emptied the structure, partially restored the dome, and have created a special viewing platform. It was unveiled on Saturday (September 5) to the village.

The reservoir is located on land previously owned by the Diocese of Ely. Orwell Parish Council, working in partnership with the Diocese, has taken ownership of the land together with the adjoining Glebe Field. This will aim to preserve the five-acre site as green open space in perpetuity.

Fundraising enabled the parish council to acquire the land for the village. It also funded the council to plant trees and hedgerows, install a community picnic table and create a new footpath.

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The funding has allowed the construction of a butterfly mound, and fences to be repaired and replaced. Newly installed kissing gates will allow people with buggies and mobility scooters to access the space.

Speaking about Glebe Field, Ely Diocesan Secretary George Woods, said that this particular field in Orwell hasn’t been farmed for decades, and we decided that it would be far better if it was returned to the local community for use as a village amenity site”.

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The former Top Gear presenter is in remission after revealing on the latest series of Clarkson’s Farm that he had been diagnosed with “aggressive” prostate cancer.

The 66-year-old chose to have high-intensity focused ultrasound (HIFU), a minimally invasive medical procedure that uses high-frequency soundwaves to heat and destroy targeted cancer cells.

His partner of nine years, Lisa Hogan, says he was initially reluctant to share his diagnosis with the public.

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She told the Daily Star Sunday: “I’m really happy he caught his prostate cancer early and I’m really proud of him for putting it on the show, because that was a really big decision.

“When I was filming him in hospital at first, he said, ‘Please don’t’.

“It was (producer) Andy Wilman who convinced him to do it, to help everybody else. When the show came out, Prostate Cancer UK had 30,000 people going on to their website in one day.”

Hogan says Clarkson has also benefitted from opening up to those around him.

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“Yes, of course it was a terrible worry,” she added. “But what I did encourage him to do was to talk to his friends.

“He didn’t want to initially, but he’s got lots of friends who’ve been through the same thing and he’s been talking to them about it. I think that’s really helped.”

Clarkson revealed in June that he is in remission.

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The Wellington Inn in Alma Terrace, Fishergate, has been open a month now.

Landlady Isabel Redfern-Smith says things have been “going really well”.

The Press called by on Friday lunchtime, a month to the day the historic ‘wet-led’ pub re-opened and found a few drinkers inside enjoying the fine day.

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Isabel said of the first month: “We have been busy. Everybody is positive. We have had really good feedback from all the old faces and the new faces.”

Isabel, who runs the pub with husband Henry, says the best seller has been the Old Brewery Bitter “which has been going down a treat.”

“Everybody is loving it,” she continued.

Prior to coming to York from Featherstone, the couple had been running their family-owned pub in Pontefract. Henry also had a small brewery.

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Isabel Redfern-Smith and Henry Smith behind the bar, as taken from outside the pub through the front window, so as not to breach brewery policy on digital devices. (Image: Darren Greenwood)

Isabel continued: “Customers know how Henry keeps the beer. The stout is also going down a treat.”

The Wellington Inn, which is affectionately known as ‘the Welly,’ has been receiving rave reviews online since the young couple took over.

The latest TripAdvisor review was from “a regular who will continue to be a regular,” who awarded five stars out of five.

The review continued: “I am a regular at the Wellie and the hand pulled bitter has never been better, a big thanks to our new friendly hosts Henry and Isobel.”

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The latest review on Google gave four stars and said: “Great Samuel Smith’s pub. Had a revamp since I’d last been, but it has kept its character. Excellent beer at a great price.”

Another recent comment gave five stars and said: “A fabulous authentic original Sam Smith’s pub with an abundance of character. Fantastic well-kept beer. Your Host and hostess are a truly warm wonderful, friendly young couple whom make everyone feel welcome.”

Isabel Redfern-Smith and Henry Smith behind the bar, as taken from outside the pub through the front window, so as not to breach brewery policy on digital devices. (Image: Darren Greenwood)

The re-opening of ‘The Welly’ comes as Sam Smith’s brewery has stepped up its efforts to re-open its pubs across the country.

As recently reported, Tom Taverner of Malton, who keeps a list of which of the Tadcaster-based brewery’s pubs are open or closed, recorded 18 re-openings nationally since the start of June.

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The Sam Smith’s pubs that have reopened since the start of June, he says, include the Golden Ball, Scarborough; Angel & White Horse, Tadcaster; Ebor Inn, Bishopthorpe; Wellington Inn, York; Tankard Inn, Rufforth; and the Red Lion at Bramham, near Wetherby.

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Speaking to BOYLE Sports, who offer the latest Premier League odds, Petit said: “Mikel Arteta has been rebuilding Arsenal step by step and I really liked the way they worked on the transfer market this summer, bringing some players in and trying to make the squad as competitive as possible. It was like watching them create a painting.

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Roger suffered from a constant blocked nose and headaches for years. Then a simple blood test revealed a hidden life-changing condition…

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Why Manchester United are about to see the best of Benjamin Sesko

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Man Utd striker Benjamin Sesko is back to full fitness after recovering from a shin injury that he aggravated last season.

Benjamin Sesko could make his first start for Manchester United in the Premier League for 133 days in the Manchester derby.

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Michael Carrick is likely to revert to a striker-less attacking line for Manchester City’s visit to Old Trafford, but Sesko gave his manager something to think about by scoring against Sabah SK in the Champions League.

Sesko made his first start of the season against Sabah, which he “really enjoyed” after making appearances from the bench in United’s opening league games against Hull, Ipswich Town and Everton.

Whether Carrick believes Sesko is the right choice to play up front against City, a game in which his team will try to counter-attack, remains to be seen, but he is back to full fitness after recovering from a shin injury.

“I got a kick last season, but it was also a little bit of an overload from myself,” Sesko said, referring to a challenge from Liverpool defender Ibrahima Konate in May, which aggravated an existing shin injury.

The kick from Konate was enough to keep Sesko out of pre-season entirely. He did not play a single minute across the summer, but insiders were adamant that he would return for the first game against Hull.

“It was basically just to make sure that it doesn’t get worse because this was kind of a problem,” he explained.

“We just needed a little bit longer, longer than usual, because if you start too early, it might appear again. And I think waiting a little bit longer was a great decision, and now it’s healed, so it’s perfect.”

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Sesko stayed behind at Carrington over the summer while United made trips around Europe, and photos published by the club’s in-house photographer showed that he’d used the time to bulk up.

The Slovenia international deliberately cut in the weeks before the season to be more agile, though. “Obviously, I had quite some time from the injury to gain some muscle,” he said.

“I lost a lot because I was overweight with muscles, and I couldn’t really move so much, but now I feel very good and I think I’m in the right place at the moment.”

Sesko now feels he’s in the best place he’s been in since his arrival from RB Leipzig last year. “Way better, especially than last season. I changed a country,” he said when asked about his mental and physical state.

“Everything was new for me. Now, for me, it’s like I’m really enjoying it. I’m really happy here. I love life here. I have teammates that are perfect. I can’t really complain about anything.

“I like the vibes. I even like to go to the city for a walk. I can do certain arcade things that I like to do in my free time. Then, obviously, spending a little time with the players.”

Sesko is an introvert, but he comes out of his shell when he gets to know somebody. “Beni was very shy and quiet at first contact,” his former coach, Mirsad Mujakić, from Slovenian team NK Krško told the Manchester Evening News.

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“However, already in the first training sessions, he showed exceptional athletic abilities and technical knowledge, which players at this age usually do not have.

“He was an exceptional boy, all his teammates loved him because of his positive nature. At the same time, he knew how to motivate the team and encourage his teammates to work extra hard.”

Sesko has developed a close friendship with Diogo Dalot, bonding during their early visits to Carrington before the mandatory training reporting time.

“He’s an early bird as well, so the first few weeks we were coming into Carrington at the same time and we created this bond,” Dalot told the MEN last season.

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“We both have very similar ways of behaving and thinking, so it became a natural, good relationship, and I think that sometimes helps you to also adapt quickly to a new environment, to a new league, to a new country.”

Sesko was brought off in the 64th minute against Sabah on Thursday, and Carrick may have made that change to keep him fresh for the Manchester derby. United were dominant against Sabah, and the win was a confidence booster ahead of the City clash.

Carrick oversaw a 2-0 win against City in his first game in charge following his interim appointment in January. “Unbelievable,” Sesko said of the game. “It was very, very nice. I’m really hoping for a moment like this again on Sunday. I think we can put in a great performance.

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“I think again I said many times what he [Carrick] provided for us already. Even from the start, when he came, it was something special. I think everyone felt it.”

Carrick has got a tune out of Sesko since his return to the club. “The more games I’m getting, the more comfortable I feel and the more free I feel in the game as well,” he said. “For me, focus is all about scoring goals to provide everything for this team.

“But then also certain things, like link-up play, these little things that can be better. I think it will just come now for the time being. I’m here. I feel every day better and better. This is the most important.”

Sesko has his feet on the ground as he looks to develop into one of the world’s best strikers. “I try to give everything to this club. We talk about legends that are the best of the best in the world. I’m still very far from that,” he reflected.

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“I’m just trying to get better each day, trying to provide for this club and for me to get better.”

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‘It’ll be more luck than judgment if lights are on this winter’: Stark warning from industry expert as hard-pressed families brace for energy bill surge

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Britain’s rush to Net Zero means it will be luck rather than good management if the lights stay on this winter, a leading analyst has warned.

European nations face a series of energy shocks in the coming weeks thanks to the Iran war, record low gas reserves and a water shortage in Norway that threatens to cut crucial exports of hydro-electric power.

But Britain is uniquely vulnerable because the dash for wind and solar power and power station closures mean we now import electricity from our neighbours, said energy consultant and parliamentary adviser Kathryn Porter. 

‘We’ve put ourselves in a position where we can’t meet our own demand, particularly when the wind doesn’t blow,’ she told The Mail on Sunday. ‘We can cope with these risks individually, but combined they are a threat. It means we have to be lucky all the time.

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‘Every single winter we’re making this gamble, and eventually we’ll lose. It could well lead to higher electricity prices and, if we finally run out of luck, blackouts.’

Her warning follows Ofgem’s announcement that the energy price cap will rise in October by £60 to £1,723, and experts have predicted that household bills are about to surge.

Households face more cost-of-living misery this winter after the cap on energy bills regulator was hiked by 4 per cent (Stock photo)

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Shadow energy minister Andrew Bowie said the looming electricity shortage was ‘increasingly dangerous’ and urged Labour to resume drilling in the North Sea.

‘It is a threat to our security and prosperity,’ he told the MoS. ‘We’re more exposed than any other country – it’s deeply worrying.

‘It demonstrates the folly of failing to exploit our own resources. If we got the Jackdaw gas field up and running now, we could be pumping gas by Christmas.’

On Friday it was reported that a decision on whether to open the giant Jackdaw North Sea gas field near Aberdeen is likely to be postponed until after the Holborn And St Pancras by-election.

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The seat is likely to be a race between Labour and the Green Party candidate, Zack Polanski.

Meanwhile, a National Audit Office report warns that delays to a £70billion upgrade to the national grid will cost consumers billions of pounds because the transmission system cannot cope with the rapid shift to renewables. The NAO estimates that attempts to decarbonise the grid by 2030 will add £1.9billion a year to bills.

Britain’s plight could get worse if, as feared, neighbouring governments prioritise domestic prices.

Norwegian politicians are already demanding export controls, arguing Norway should not be treated as ‘Europe’s battery’.

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‘There’s a danger governments will prioritise their own consumers,’ said Ms Porter, who advises MPs on the All-Party Parliamentary Group for Energy Studies. ‘They will stop exporting any spare capacity and the market will break down.’

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This year’s heatwaves mean that reservoir levels are lower than for 20 years – and falling.

Britain’s ageing electricity infrastructure and the move away from traditional power stations to unpredictable wind and solar energy are adding to the problem.

In June, whistleblowers at the National Energy System Operator (Neso) claimed the national grid had been so short of electricity that, at one point, it breached safety limits, prompting an independent inquiry. One

Neso engineer told the MoS that power cuts are now a ‘mathematical certainty’.

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He claimed the engineers charged with keeping the grid stable are ‘flying blind’, armed with minimal information, yet obliged to deal with thousands of unpredictable wind and solar generators around the country.

Ms Porter said: ‘If this winter sees another long spell of high pressure – and no wind – like the one we’ve just seen in the summer, then Britain will be in an extraordinarily difficult position.

‘You don’t have to have too many things go against you for the grid to break down. Losing one big power station or one big interconnector would be enough.

‘Who, in the cold light of day, could honestly say this is a sensible way to run things?’

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The BBC has been criticised over its coverage of the 9/11 anniversary after focusing on Islamophobia rather than the terrorism behind the outrage.

One Westminster source said it was ‘like starting D-Day memorials by remembering the plight of the Nazis’.

Radio 4’s Today programme featured a Muslim interviewee who said: ‘We were viewed through the lens of terrorism. Sadly there were questions about our faith and whether we share British values.’ 

The BBC reporter at the memorial in New York told News at Ten: ‘25 years on, the city has its first Muslim mayor. At the same time Muslim Americans experience a record rise in discrimination and increased anti-Muslim sentiment from voices on the Right.’

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On both the Six O’Clock News and News at Ten, the main package was about a man who lost his brother, a Muslim American police cadet, in the tragedy. He said Right-wing commentary is the ‘kind of rhetoric which adds to the pain’.

Former BBC journalist Catherine Leng said: ‘Words I heard on BBC News in its coverage: Islamophobia, disproportionate overreach, Muslim communities. Words I have not heard: Islamist terrorists.’

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Ex-Sky journalist Colin Brazier said the BBC was determined ‘not to use the word “Islam” in connection with 9/11 but rather to turn it into another chance to…hint that the West got what it deserved’.

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DEAR CAROLINE: My son has just made a major confession to me and my wife, but I can’t help but think he is less of a man for it…

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‘Exceptional’ new Wales cap steals show and Springboks v New Zealand ends in crushing

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Here are your rugby morning headlines for Sunday, September 13.

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New Wales cap steals show

New Wales cap Kane James stole the show for Exeter during their Prem Cup victory over Bristol Bears.

Team-mate Olly Woodburn grabbed a hat-trick in the 45-21 victory, but back-row James – who made his Test debut off the bench against Argentina this summer – was perhaps player of the match.

The 21-year-old scored one try after bumping off Tobi Wilson with ease. Then, an explosive carry by James from a lineout laid the platform for Ethan Roots to score.

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James should have had a second try near the end, after Exeter’s scrum drove over the line. However, scrum-half Jake Murray snuck in to ground the ball at James’ feet.

“Kane just looks like he loves playing rugby, doesn’t he? Running at speed, running around, making tackles – there’s something exceptional about that young man. We’re very lucky he’s here,” said Exeter boss Rob Baxter.

“I thought he gave a lot of energy to the game today and was probably one of our real energy drivers.

“It’s a really good start to the competitive season. I’m really pleased with our attitude and how we came through things, because there were pressure moments in the game.

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“We went down to 14 men when we were 10 points up, with a quarter of the game still to play, and those moments almost brought the best out of us.

“We could have looked around and thought, ‘This is getting a little bit tough now, what are we going to do?’ Instead, we upped our attitude and our effort, and I think that’s the most pleasing thing for me.

“There are still things we can improve. Our lineout was off at times, we got a little loose at a couple of breakdowns and gave away a couple of soft penalties. But you’re always going to have those things.

“My overriding feeling today is that we were pretty good. We had good attack, we were physical, we scored a lot of tries and at times we looked very clinical in the first half.

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“Some of the tries were really well worked, while at other times we had to work hard for them. The scrum went very well, the maul went very well and, as I say, the lineout was a little bit shaky.

“Outside of that, most parts of our game held up really well. To concede only 21 points against a dangerous Bristol side, when you actually start to break the game down, is pretty pleasing.”

Springboks wrap up Rugby’s Greatest Rivalry series

A relentless South Africa wrapped up Rugby’s Greatest Rivalry series with a 43-28 victory over New Zealand in Baltimore.

Having already had one hand on the trophy after going into the final Test with a 2-1 lead, the Springboks ensured that the trophy would not be split as they added more silverware to their cabinet.

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The back-to-back world champions outscored the All Blacks six tries to four in the United States, with Damian de Allende, Morne van den Berg, Malcolm Marx, Pieter-Steph du Toit, Kurt-Lee Arendse and Cameron Hanekom scoring for the Boks.

New Zealand once again showed their attacking side – with Codie Taylor, Will Jordan, Ethan Blackadder and Beauden Barrett all crossing – but it wasn’t enough.

The fourth Test had been halted in the first half due to a technical issue with the referees’ comms.

Both sets of players knelt together on the pitch afterwards to mark the end of a remarkable Test series, before Dan Carter and Schalk Burger brought the trophy onto the pitch at M&T Bank Stadium for Siya Kolisi to lift.

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SRC starts with last-gasp thriller

Super Rygbi Cymru champions Llandovery were beaten by Pontypool at the death as the season got under way on Saturday.

Evan Lloyd’s 78th-minute penalty settled a thriller, with Pooler – who had finished bottom of the league last season – coming out on top in a 13-try thriller, winning 43-31.

Elsewhere, Aberavon saw off Bridgend 36-17, with wing Frankie Jones grabbing two of the Wizards’ six tries.

Cardiff came away from west Wales with a victory, having beaten Carmarthen Quins 27-17.

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Last season’s runners-up Ebbw Vale started their campaign with a comfortable victory over Swansea, winning 40-12 at Eugene Cross Park.

And Newport defended the SRC Challenger Shield with a 34-25 victory over Newport.

England shrug off slow start to register dominant win over Australia

By Duncan Bech, Press Association Rugby Union Correspondent

England recovered from a poor first-half to storm to a 48-15 victory over Australia with Abi Burton emerging as the star at CorpAcq Stadium.

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Trailing 10-5 at the interval, the Red Roses burst into life with their set-piece initially turning the tables before they cut loose to finish the WXV Global Series opener with eight tries and a 39th consecutive Test win.

In their first outing since being crowned Grand Slam champions by beating France in May and first with the new smaller 4.5 ball being trialled in the women’s game, they took time to blow away the cobwebs with their high error count before the break leading to frustration.

Australia deserved to be ahead after controlling the breakdown and showing resilience in defence and they even played 10 minutes of the first-half with 14 players after Samantha Wood was sent to the sin bin for a deliberate knock-on.

But in the 47th minute England’s pack took charge with May Campbell finishing a line-out drive before they made an ominous statement with a dominant scrum.

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It ignited their attacking game with captain Meg Jones then dotting down a low kick through by Holly Aitchison, who was winning her 50th cap on her ground, to begin the stampede of tries.

Wings Mia Venner and Claudia Moloney-MacDonald were among those to breach the Australian whitewash but the world champions’ standout figure was Burton, the blindside flanker who bagged their first try as part of an impressive all-round display.

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I Was Bullied For My Hijab. I Almost Believed Things Would Be Different For My Daughter

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I began wearing a hijab at 12 years old, one year after 9/11. Almost overnight, I went from blending in to being stared at and bullied, as if my scarf had erased the girl my classmates previously knew.

When my daughter started school, I worried about how she would be treated in the classroom. I wanted her to take pride in her faith and her Muslim identity. I wanted her to feel she belonged just as she is.

And for a little while, I started to believe that was possible.

When my daughter was in preschool, her teacher called and asked, “What can we do for Ramadan?” So I came into the classroom and taught a lesson about Ramadan. Small hands folded paper lanterns and covered them with shapes and patterns. Then the lanterns went up around the room, representing our celebration on my daughter’s classroom walls.

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The little girl I used to be felt seen, too.

In kindergarten, we continued to be welcomed. I taught the moon’s phases and explained that breakfast means “breaking a fast”. We all fast while we sleep, I told the class. We were not so different from one another. After the ESL teacher saw my presentation, she asked me to give the presentation to the rest of the kindergarten classes.

My daughter brought Ramadan treat bags, just as her classmates brought treats for Christmas and Easter. I watched a better childhood begin to take shape in front of me.

Last year, when March came, my daughter packed the bags herself the night before. They showed painted lanterns, palm trees, geometric buildings, moons and stars, and she filled them with little stamps and bracelets chosen in her friends’ favorite colours. Only one was labelled, with “Ramadan Kareem,” for the only other Muslim child in the room.

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But this time, her teacher would not hand them out.

The teacher called me in the middle of the day and informed me that she would not be handing out the Ramadan goodie bags because they had “religious undertones”. When I asked her to explain what she meant by that, she referred to the designs on the the bags as “pictures of your temples”. I explained that Muslims do not worship in temples.

Following my phone conversation with the teacher and learning of her decision not to distribute the bags, I called the school and requested a meeting with the principal and the teacher. Several days later, I met with the principal alone; the teacher did not attend the meeting.

The principal later told me he had concluded that the images on the bag were religious symbols because he had searched the word “Ramadan” and saw pictures depicting crescent moons and stars. That is how it was decided – with Google Images. He never even actually saw one of the bags.

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This despite the fact that the school welcomed Santa visits and hosted Easter egg hunts. Children coloured dreidels and made candles for Diwali. My daughter’s school photograph came home on a holiday ornament.

When my daughter came home, she was upset with me. Her teacher had told her that “her mother had asked her not to” pass out the bags because there wasn’t enough time. She thought I had taken that moment away from her.

I sat beside my six-year-old and explained, in words small enough for her to carry, what had happened. Then I told her adults make mistakes, too.

A few nights later, she asked again whether she could pass out the bags. She still could not comprehend what was wrong with them. How could she? When I told her “not yet,” she grew quiet and offered to donate them to other children if her friends did not want them. She had concluded that her classmates had rejected a piece of her. They had not. They had never seen the bags she made.

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Two years earlier, a teacher at the same school invited me to help with an Easter egg hunt. Knowing my daughter could not eat pork-based gelatin, she prepared eggs marked with my daughter’s name so she could participate fully.

The school already knew how to include her. It had done it beautifully. But with this moment, someone dragged a stroke of black paint across six years of work.

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The goody bags the author sent to her daughter’s first-grade classroom. Each contained a light-up bracelet, a stamp, a tic-tac-toe keychain and a small treat.

After the school returned them, I posted photographs of the actual Ramadan goody bags in a parenting group I’m a member of, and asked whether parents found anything about them offensive. Many of the parents and teachers in the group were Christians, but said they appreciated the thoughtfulness of the gift and the learning opportunity it could provide.

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One parent who identified herself as Jewish commented, “They have to be consistent. If they want to celebrate one holiday, they’re going to have to celebrate all of them.”

I taught in K-12 classrooms before becoming a university educator. I do not believe harm always begins with malice. Here, it grew from three failures that are far too common in schools. The first was a failure to ask before deciding. No one asked what the images meant. One question – “What is this?” – could have prevented everything.

The second was a failure to apply the same standard to every tradition. Christmas marks the birth of Christ yet arrives as decoration. Easter arrives as plastic eggs. Familiar traditions are treated as culture, but my daughter’s Muslim traditions are treated as a problem.

The third was a failure to repair harm. I never asked for discipline. I wanted curiosity, accountability and repair. Instead, the teacher and administration defended their decision. The unfamiliar may cause discomfort, but that discomfort should invite curiosity, not erasure. Rather than examine their adult discomfort, they expected my daughter to become smaller.

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After a classroom lesson about Ramadan, each student in the author’s daughter’s Pre-K4 class created a lantern, choosing the colors of the construction paper, balloon and decorative tape.

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After a classroom lesson about Ramadan, each student in the author’s daughter’s Pre-K4 class created a lantern, choosing the colors of the construction paper, balloon and decorative tape.

I could not let her learn that belonging required her to disappear. So we unenrolled her, and she now attends another school. I remain grateful to the teachers who asked what they could do to be inclusive – who marked the eggs, invited me into their classrooms and hung lanterns on the walls. They showed me inclusion was possible. But my daughter learned the other lesson anyway.

Every classroom is a painting. When teachers hang one child’s lanterns beside another child’s snowflakes, they do more than say both children belong. They build a classroom where they actually do.

Differences should stir curiosity, not ignorance. They should open doors into worlds we have not yet seen, not build walls between children. When a child hands you something unfamiliar, ask what it is before deciding what it means. One sincere question can turn a barrier into a doorway.

Mariam Hussein is a Teaching Specialist of Mathematics and First-Year Studies at Stockton University. As a Muslim mother and educator, she is committed to empowering students, strengthening their sense of belonging and mathematical identities, and helping Muslim students embrace their faith and identities with confidence.

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