An interior designer has shared the perfect shade to paint your bedroom for achieving the ‘old money’ aesthetic on a budget – and it’s not the standard blue or white
An interior designer and self-proclaimed ‘former rich person’ has revealed the ideal colour to paint your bedroom if you’re aiming for an ‘old money’ look on a smaller budget – and it’s not the white or blue that many might assume.
The ‘old money’ aesthetic, which mimics the appearance of inherited wealth spanning generations, has seen a surge in popularity within the realm of home design in recent years, with Bridgeton and Downton Abbey often being cited as inspiration. Kiki Astor, a romance novelist and interior designer with a deep understanding of the ‘old money’ style, has imparted wisdom gleaned from her time living in the sought-after area of Montecito, California – also home to Prince Harry and Meghan.
Recently, she provided advice on the most opulent colour to use when revamping your bedroom to achieve an ‘old money’ vibe without splurging on your design budget.
“There’s only one appropriate colour to paint your bedroom in the old money aesthetic. Some of you won’t like it, so go ahead and prove me wrong,” she stated in a TikTok video.
She continued: “Oh, I know that psychologists say, ‘Oh, you should have a blue bedroom, it promotes sleep, it’s so restful’ – what do they know about style?”
However, she pointed out that for those adamant about having a blue bedroom, it’s crucial to offset the colour with thoughtfully selected décor such as artwork, Persian rugs, and brown furniture.
“If you don’t do that, it’s going to look like a nursery. Don’t say I didn’t warn you,” she warned, before advising against the use of green in the bedroom.
“I know that I’ve said that green is the most old money colour to paint most rooms in your house, but not your bedroom,” she clarified, suggesting that green walls could cast an unflattering hue on those undressing.
Kiki continued to share her bold views on bedroom colour schemes, stating unequivocally that white should be avoided as bedrooms are not art galleries. Her strong opinions didn’t end there: “Not red, that awakens passions. Do not paint it grey, people used to know how to use grey appropriately, that knowledge has been lost.”
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“The only appropriate colour to paint a bedroom is pink,” she declared. “Not bubblegum pink, not hot pink. No, you paint it the sort of neutral pink that you can tell your husband is beige.
“He’ll believe you. I promise he believes everything you say,” she added with a hint of humour.
Her viewers seemed to concur with her advice, sharing their own experiences of selecting the perfect paint colours for their bedrooms.
One viewer supported Kiki’s theory, saying: “As a lady with a pink bedroom who told her husband it’s beige… yes,” while another agreed: “This is true y’all it’s the cosiest possible colour.”
Another grateful commenter, who had been considering green but was now having doubts, wrote: “My primary room was going to be green. I am yellow toned. Thank you for saving me from myself.”
However, not everyone was convinced by Kiki’s pink creation, with one person remarking: “Old money here! We actually wallpaper our walls.”
Meanwhile, another commenter injected some humour about their own circumstances, saying: “I’m no money and my bedroom is the landlord special.”

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