Sam Neill was one of the world’s most recognisable actors, but away from the cameras his greatest pride was his family.
The Jurassic Park star was incredibly close to his children and grandchildren, becoming a devoted father-of-four and grandfather-of-eight after a life that took him from New Zealand to Hollywood.
Among his children was daughter Elena Neill, who briefly followed in her famous father’s footsteps before turning away from the spotlight and building a creative career of her own as a Melbourne tattoo artist.
Born in 1991, Elena is Sam’s only biological daughter with Japanese makeup artist Noriko Watanabe, whom he married in 1989.
Growing up with one of Australia’s most celebrated actors as her father, Elena initially explored a career in front of the camera.
She appeared in the 2004 Australian television film The Brush-Off, based on Shane Maloney’s crime novel, playing Sophie, the daughter of her father’s character Murray Whelan.
Sam Neill was one of the world’s most recognisable actors, but away from the cameras his greatest pride was his family (Sam is pictured with members of his family, including daughter Elena Neill and step daughter Maiko)
Among his children was daughter Elena Neill, who briefly followed in her famous father’s footsteps before turning away from the spotlight and building a creative career of her own as a Melbourne tattoo artist. (Elena is pictured in Top of the Lake)
She later appeared in Jane Campion’s acclaimed mystery drama Top of the Lake in 2013, where she played Stella, a young woman working as a tattoo artist.
The role proved to be an unusual glimpse into the future, as Elena eventually left acting behind and pursued tattoo artistry herself, becoming a Melbourne-based artist and creating a life away from her father’s fame.
Sam often spoke warmly about his daughter and included funny memories of fatherhood in his memoir Did I Ever Tell You This?
One story recalled a young Elena being asked what her father did for a living.
‘My daddy sits in caravans,’ she responded, referring to the long hours actors spend waiting between scenes on film sets.
Elena later became a mother to a daughter whose name has not been revealed publicly.
Sam’s eldest son is Andrew Neill, who he welcomed during his early twenties before making the difficult decision to place him for adoption in 1969. The pair later reuniting.
Speaking to The Times in 2014, Sam reflected on the experience.
Sam often spoke warmly about his daughter and included funny memories of fatherhood in his memoir Did I Ever Tell You This? (Sam is pictured with members of his family including his ex-wife Noriko Watanabe, daughter Elena and step-daughter Maiko)
‘No one has all the answers on how to be a good parent. I’ve got a slightly unusual family; it’s more extended than most,’ he said.
‘My first son, Andrew, was given up for adoption when he was very small. I was quite small, too – in my early twenties. I didn’t see him for 25 years and then we went looking for each other.’
Sam said their reunion was not the dramatic, emotional scene often portrayed in films.
‘These reunions are portrayed as sentimental and grisly, but there is nothing sentimental about it. No one sobs in anyone’s arms; it’s much more grown-up,’ he said.
‘If I could give my 20-year-old self any piece of advice, it would be that: you’re more capable than you think.’
By the time Sam and Andrew reconnected in 1994, the actor had already welcomed three more children.
His son Tim Neill-Harrow was born in 1983 during his relationship with New Zealand actress Lisa Harrow, whom he met while filming Omen III: The Final Conflict.
Unlike his father, Tim did not pursue acting and instead worked behind the scenes in film production, including roles in the camera and electrical departments on major productions such as The Matrix Reloaded and Guardians of the Galaxy.
One story recalled a young Elena being asked what her father did for a living. ‘My daddy sits in caravans,’ she responded, referring to the long hours actors spend waiting between scenes on film sets. (Sam is pictured in Jurassic Park)
His son Tim Neill-Harrow was born in 1983 during his relationship with New Zealand actress Lisa Harrow, whom he met while filming Omen III: The Final Conflict. (Sam and Lisa are pictured in 1981)
Tim later became a father himself, welcoming son Lachlan and twin daughters Molly and Poppy.
Sam’s fourth child was Maiko Spencer, the daughter of Noriko Watanabe from a previous relationship, whom Sam adopted during his marriage to Noriko.
Maiko largely stayed away from the public eye, but in 2021 she welcomed her first child, Nahlo – a moment Sam was so proud of that he made a rare exception and shared it publicly.
‘The Love. I don’t put family on media stuff. Except when they’re brand new,’ he wrote alongside a photo of his grandson.
‘This is my brand new grandson Nahlo, the bestest boy, two-weeks-old.
‘So chilled, no fuss. Just eats, sleeps and thinks about things. Parents blissed out, and everybody happy. Me particularly. The love.’
Despite his enormous success, Sam was candid about the difficulties of balancing fatherhood with a career that often took him around the world.
‘Probably a lot of my parenting has been marked by absence for one reason or another, not the least of them being that my job entails travel a lot,’ he told the ABC.
Sam’s fourth child was Maiko Spencer, the daughter of Noriko Watanabe from a previous relationship, whom Sam adopted during his marriage to Noriko. (Sam and Maiko are pictured in 2006)
Sam is pictured with ex-wife Noriko Watanabe in 1997
Maiko largely stayed away from the public eye, but in 2021 she welcomed her first child, Nahlo – a moment Sam was so proud of that he made a rare exception and shared it publicly
‘I don’t have any tips myself as far as parenting is concerned. At the same time, I’m not going to beat myself up about it.’
He also joked about the challenge of keeping up with his growing family.
‘Now I have eight grandchildren. This has to stop! I mean, I’ve only just got a handle on all their names anymore and I’ll be struggling. But they’re adorable,’ he said.
His son Tim was quick to defend his father, saying that despite the demands of acting, Sam had always been a loving parent.
‘There are worse things a dad can do than be off working. He is a good dad. He’s a very good dad. He’s grandad. Grad, as we call him.’
That deep love for his family was ultimately what inspired Sam to write what would become one of his most personal legacies.
After being diagnosed with stage-three blood cancer in 2022, the actor began writing his memoir, Did I Ever Tell You This?, at a time when he was confronting the possibility that he might not have much time left.
While the book became a bestselling memoir for fans, Sam always saw it as something far more personal – a record of his life that his children and grandchildren could return to long after he was gone.
Sam’s memoir Did I Ever Tell You This? is a record of his life that his children and grandchildren can return to long after he was gone
The actor said writing allowed him to leave behind his memories, stories, jokes and reflections for the people who mattered most to him.
Sam died at St. Vincent’s Private Hospital in Sydney on Monday after battling with pneumonia.
Family described his death as ‘sudden and unexpected’ in a statement published on his Instagram page.
The actor was previously diagnosed with a type of blood cancer.
‘It is with immense sadness that the whānau (family) of Sam Neill share the news of his passing on Monday 13 July, in Sydney, Australia. Sam was surrounded by family and passed with the dignity that has characterised his whole life,’ they said.
‘The loss was sudden and unexpected but blessed by the fact that Sam remained cancer-free. They would like to express their deepest gratitude to the staff at St Vincent’s Private Hospital for their incredible care.
‘More details will be shared later, but for now, on behalf of the family, we ask that you respect their privacy as they navigate this immeasurable loss.’
Following his passing, an outpouring of grief followed with a host of A-Listers paying tribute to him, including Jurassic Park director Steven Spielberg and its stars Laura Dern and Joseph Mazzello.
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