“You always think these tragedies happen to someone else until they happen to you.”
Next week marks one year since Co Down teenager Jaidyn Rice lost her life in a road traffic accident.
Jaidyn died after being hit by a car in Bangor on the night of July 8 2025. The 16-year-old passed away at the scene on the West Circular Road in the Co Down city at about 10:55pm.
Road traffic collisions do not end at the scene. They leave behind shattered families, broken hearts, trauma, unanswered questions and communities forever changed.
For Jaidyn’s loved ones, she was not just another statistic. She was a daughter, step-daughter, sister, granddaughter, great-granddaughter, niece, cousin and friend who was deeply loved.
Since then, her family have been passionately campaigning for safer roads in her memory. ‘Jaidyn’s Law’, which has received unanimous support at Stormont, aims to make drug testing compulsory following serious crashes.
Speaking to Belfast Live ahead of her daughter’s anniversary, her mum Elaine Clarke recalled the events of that fateful night last year when Jaidyn left her home to walk a friend part of the way to her home but never returned.
Elaine told us: “Jaidyn and her friend Poppy had been at the gym, and then they came back and were in my house for a couple of hours. She came down about 10:45 to say that she was walking Poppy halfway home. She left and I had started to get ready for bed. I texted her to say, ‘when you come back in, lock the door behind you’.
“About 15-20 minutes had passed and she hadn’t come back, I thought it was weird because she should be home. I checked her location and she was at Screwfix down the road but her location had stayed there. I assumed that she was standing there talking to her friend. I was ringing and ringing her and she didn’t answer. I texted her and she didn’t answer.
“I got up and was getting ready to go and find her when her friend’s mum called me to say that Poppy had left Jaidyn and headed on home. She had heard a bang and lots of sirens and wanted to let me know because she couldn’t get a hold of Jaidyn. I flew down to where her location was and there were police everywhere.”
Jaidyn’s grandmother, Judith Rice, recalled the moment she discovered what had happened: “I was in bed and I noticed a missed call from Elaine. Next thing she rang again and was hysterical down the phone and I couldn’t make her out.
“A policeman came on the phone and he just asked if I could make my way as quickly as possible, but safely to where they were. I just remember the whole way down the road, I kept praying ‘please make my family be OK, make my family be OK’.
“At first, I thought something really bad had happened to Elaine and that she was hurt. When I got down there, the police took me to where Elaine was, and that’s when I found out it was Jaidyn.”
Like thousands across Northern Ireland, Jaidyn had been awaiting her GCSE results at the time of her death but tragically it was left for her family to open them instead when they came out a month later. The Year 12 student at Priory College was planning to continue her studies with hopes of going into the army, having been a keen member of the cadets.
Sharing memories of her daughter, Elaine said: “She was very naturally funny and witty.” Judith added: “You used to think sometimes ‘is she being serious?’ because she could keep such a straight face.”
Elaine added: “She loved her eyelashes, her fake tan, make-up and just really girly stuff. Although she was into her cadets and that kind of thing, she was very girly too. She wanted to do her A levels and then go into The Royal Irish Guards as an officer. Once she served her time, she wanted to go into the community youth work.”
Judith says her Jaidyn died, her friends discovered how much faith had played a role in her life: “Some of her friends didn’t realise that she had her Bible from her great nanny Sheila. She always would have highlighted some of the specific paragraphs in her Bible. Of course, Jaidyn had to have a pink Bible!
“I think everybody who truly got the opportunity to be privileged to know Jaidyn saw who she was from the beginning. There was no covers, there was no falseness. You very much took her as you found her. She wouldn’t have put any airs and graces on for you.
“She was such a big prankster too and we always would have turned the pranks onto her. But when you listen to her, she was so well spoken, so polite and so respectful. That will always stand out, she was just so special.
“Something that Jaidyn was good at doing was helping and supporting people. She helped people she didn’t even know. She gave an 80-year-old gentleman CPR at the side of the road. She helped people who were bullied until she got bullied because she was helping and then she took the grief for that.”
Judith added: “At first, as a family we really struggled (after her death) but it also connected us to people we didn’t know, people we’d never met before in our life. All of a sudden, people were contacting us, they were sharing their stories and being their loved one’s voice in a way.
“All too often we’ve seen things on the news and thought you can really feel for that family but until you’re actually in it, you can’t understand the gravity of it. Never in our lives did we ever expect to be on this path.
“We were never prepared to face what we were facing and for some reason people were reaching out to us and we thought they’re coming to us for a reason. We all have one thing in common, and that was tragedy through a road traffic collision. It became apparent some people felt that their case wasn’t dealt with the same as others – like one rule for one and one rule for another.”
After meeting a number of families who have suffered similar losses and highlighting the need for change, Judith and Elaine have worked tirelessly to establish ‘Jaidyn’s Law’ and bring about a major change to the current legislation around road traffic collisions.
They have called on Stormont to consider making drug testing automatic in collisions involving death or life-changing injuries in memory of the much-loved teenager.
‘Jaidyn’s Law’ seeks to ensure that in the most serious road traffic incidents, no family is ever left questioning the effectiveness of the law. Her legacy is a call for clarity, consistency and protection for every family across Northern Ireland.
Judith explained: “Article 17 under the Road Traffic Act of Northern Ireland at the moment is seen as a grey area and it’s down to an individual police officer to decide at the time and their opinion as to whether to implement that law or not. Jaidyn Law will remove the grey area and it will take it out of one person’s personal decision.
“Behind every single road traffic collision whether it’s a victim who has survived or a family who are grieving their loved ones, their life has no value. Something has to change.”
A 30-year-old man has previously appeared in court charged with causing the death of Jaidyn by dangerous driving. Jamie McCartney also faces charges of driving without a licence or insurance.
Over the past year, Elaine and Judith have attended regular court sittings alongside other family members and Jaidyn’s close friends. But Elaine says their experience to date of the criminal justice system has offered little comfort in the midst of their grief.
“There should have been a lot of things done that weren’t done. Families are having to fight for their rights and you shouldn’t have to do that. But unless the victims or the families take the fight, you’re pushed aside and forgot about,” she added.
Next Wednesday evening, July 8, family and friends will gather one year on at the spot where Jaidyn died for a vigil, filling the roadside with pink flags carrying personal messages to ‘remember her sparkle, look to the stars, and ensure that she is never forgotten’.
One year later, despite the unimaginable heartbreak her family lives with every day, they say very little has changed.
Judith says: “Vehicles continue to speed along this road as though it is a race track. Four schools use this junction daily, and children, families and members of our community remain at risk every single day. The event is not only about remembering Jaidyn but also standing together and saying that enough is enough.
“As a family, we have tried to create a memorial that reflects who Jaidyn was and the things she loved most. This evening is about celebrating her life, honouring her memory, and ensuring that her legacy continues to make a difference.”
Bangor Protestant Boys Flute Band will leave the top of the Clandeboye Road at approximately 7:45pm and make their way to Jaidyn’s memorial site, where they will play a selection of songs in her honour. Throughout the evening there will be tributes from Jaidyn’s family, sharing memories of the beautiful person she was and the impact she continues to have on all who knew and loved her.
Every person attending will be given a small pink or white flag on which they can write a personal message, memory, prayer or tribute to Jaidyn before placing it into the ground.
Judith said: “We never imagined that we would find ourselves walking this path. You always think these tragedies happen to someone else until they happen to you. Whilst we cannot change what happened to Jaidyn, we’re determined that her death will not be in vain.”
Elaine added: “She continues to make us proud, even in death. She fought for honesty, justice and fairness. She believed in people being treated fairly and equally. She could teach a lot of adults a thing or two.”
More details of the ‘Memorial Vigil for Jaidyn Rice – One Year On’ this coming Wednesday, July 8 are available here.
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