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How Stay-at-Home Wives Get Trapped in Financial & Emotional Abuse with Lisa Carr | S3E7
“Everybody’s a feminist until someone chooses to be a tradwife.”
But is it really a free choice, or is it conditioning?
Lisa sits down with Lisa (@YVEdit) from The Audaci-Tea Podcast to unpack the reality behind traditional gender roles, unpaid labor, and financial vulnerability in marriage.
They break down:
– The difference between a stay-at-home mom and tradwife ideology
– Why unpaid labor equals loss of power
– The motherhood penalty
– Weaponized incompetence
– And how emotional neglect becomes normalized inside “traditional” dynamics
When your survival depends on someone else’s goodwill, that’s not security. That’s leverage.
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About Lisa Sonni
Abusive relationship educator and trauma bond recovery expert. Certified Trauma Recovery Coach, creator of the Break & Rebuild Method, and author of four abuse-recovery books. Host of Relationships Uncensored Podcast.
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⚠️ DISCLAIMER: This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is not therapy or medical advice. Always seek professional help for your specific situation.
00:00 – Stay at Home Moms, Feminism & Abuse
00:32 – Traditional Roles as a Gateway
01:03 – Stay at Home Mom vs. Tradwife
01:30 – Guest Introduction: The_YV_Edit
02:10 – “Everyone’s a Feminist Until…”
02:22 – The Unpaid Labor Problem
03:00 – Submission vs. Financial Power
04:15 – Room, Board & Power Imbalance
06:40 – When “He’ll Take Care of You” Isn’t Safety
09:50 – The Hidden Cost of Financial Dependence
12:39 – The Unrealistic Expectations of SAHMs
13:19 – “Girl Dinner” & Domestic Entitlement
14:22 – 24/7 Labor and Erasure
15:12 – Neglect as Emotional Abuse
17:45 – The Myth of the Easy Stay-at-Home Parent
19:17 – “It’s a Privilege” Debate Reaction
23:10 – Conditioning, Selfishness & Male Socialization
30:40 – Accountability Gaps in Marriage
36:15 – Leaving & The Blame Shift
43:19 – Radical Responsibility vs. External Blame
44:11 – “Watch Yourself” – The Groundwork of Abuse
45:42 – Financial Safeguards & Protecting Yourself
46:16 – The Black Widow Mindset
47:00 – Grief, Awakening & Rebuilding
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