There is something special about watching families, friends and complete strangers come together, laughing, chatting and making memories.
Seeing children, parents and grandparents enjoying themselves reminded me exactly why I love what I do.
One of the biggest talking points over the weekend was our VW camper mini golf hole. People stopped to take photographs, children wanted to play with it first, and I lost count of the number of people who asked where we’d bought it.
The answer always made me smile.
“We didn’t. My dad built it.” Every time I said those words, I felt incredibly proud.
My dad has always been a modest man. He studied technical drawing when he was younger and later taught woodwork at Parrenthorn.
Looking at his work today, you can still see those foundations. Give him a few pieces of timber and an idea, and he somehow sees the finished project long before anyone else. Where I see bits of wood, he sees a solution.
Watching people admire the camper made me think about the conversations we’re having around education.
We hear so much about artificial intelligence, computing and preparing young people for the future, and those subjects are important. But I hope we never stop recognising practical minds too.
The child who loves making things. The teenager who enjoys fixing a bike.
The young person who would rather create than scroll.
Those minds are every bit as intelligent. They simply learn differently.
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that confidence grows when we stop comparing ourselves with everyone else and start recognising what comes naturally to us. Often those gifts only develop because somebody invested their time, patience and encouragement.
So this week, I’d love to set you a challenge.
If you’re a parent, grandparent, neighbour or simply someone who’s learned a skill over the years, spend just one hour with a young person.
Show them how to use a tape measure, plant some seeds, bake a favourite recipe, draw a simple plan or mend something that’s broken. You never know what that one hour could inspire.
Not only might you spark the interest of a future engineer, joiner, designer or inventor, you could also be helping your own mental wellbeing.
Research shows that having purpose, sharing knowledge and connecting with younger generations can improve our own sense of fulfilment and reduce feelings of loneliness.
Watching families laugh together around something my dad built reminded me that some of life’s greatest lessons aren’t taught in a classroom.
They’re passed from one generation to the next.
Not every brilliant mind looks the same.
Perhaps the greatest gift we can give our children, and ourselves, is simply taking the time to help those minds grow.
Kirsty Redford is a qualified Master NLP Practitioner, Life Coach, Mindfulness Practitioner and Certified Firewalking Instructor.
As founder of Firewalk Events, she helps people build confidence and resilience, inspiring them to find their inner power and reignite their spark.
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