Every child is different, but the UK’s leading children’s charity has issued guidance for parents on what to do
The National Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children (NSPCC) has issued advice for parents who may be toing and froing with the decision of whether or not to let their child walk home from school alone.
As the days start to get shorter and the weather gets colder, the fear of letting your kid roam free in the outside world grows. Coming to a decision on whether or not it’s safe to let your loved one make their own way back from school is quite anxiety-inducing, especially over the dark mornings and evenings of autumn and winter.
There is so much objectivity and nuance surrounding what age it’s appropriate, but luckily for you, the NSPCC has guidance for parents grappling with this question.
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“There’s no legal age that your child can travel home from school alone – this is up to you and your best judgement, or your school’s rules and policies,” the NSPCC website states. “However, you should never leave a child alone who isn’t ready or is unable to care for themselves.
“Every child is different – but some schools advise children under eight shouldn’t walk home without an adult or older sibling.”
The guidance suggests that if both you and your child feel they’re ready to come home alone, it helps to go over some rules about staying safe.
The practices the NSPCC recommends running through with your child are:
- Make sure they know their address and your telephone number by heart, in case they get lost or have to navigate home from somewhere new.
- If they have a mobile phone, remind them to fully charge it before leaving the house, and make sure they have all your contact numbers saved.
- Talk to them about road safety. They should always look both ways before crossing the street, and never be on their phone whilst crossing a road.
- Remind them never to accept a lift from someone they don’t know, or let a stranger into the house. They should never give personal information away – in real life or online.
- Remind them that if they feel unsafe or uncomfortable at any time, they can call you or a trusted adult.
- If they ever feel like they’re in immediate danger, they should call the police straight away on 999.
Elsewhere, a thread on the popular parenting forum, Mumsnet, from 2022 poses the question: “What age do you let your children walk to school alone?”.
The post received 62 replies, with many mothers agreeing that the summer term of Year 5 (ages 9 to 10) is typically a suitable time to allow your kid to start experiencing this rite of passage, providing you feel they are ready.
A user by the name of SauvignonGrower wrote: “Summer term year 5 is common where we are. Certainly, all the year 6 like to walk with friends.”
A user with the handle ShowOfHands argued that Year 6 is a more appropriate juncture. “Year 6 here and it’s a 15 minute walk,” she wrote. “One village road but a blind bend.
“I don’t worry about the traffic, I worry that DS is hot headed and impulsive. I genuinely worry that he’d end up going to the park instead or when grumpy, just won’t go to school. He starts y6 in September and I don’t know whether I’ll let him.”
SartresSoul commented: “Year 5, I don’t think many schools would let them walk alone before this. It’s common from year 5 in my child’s school and virtually zero year 6’s travel home with parents.”
Opinion on the topic varies from parent to parent, with knowledge of their local areas playing a key factor when considering the safety of their child.



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