Here, she gives her insight into Ant John’s, her kids and her relationship with Clive, while sharing some brilliant anecdotes from the series.
Were there any standout moments or challenges during filming this season?
Oh, there’s always a challenge. For a start, the weather is always the big challenge, but I mean, if you just literally think of the number of variables we’ve got going on there literally isn’t enough time in the day to get everything done. So, I also feel that as time is going on and the children are growing up and becoming more independent, there’s less likelihood of me actually knowing where everybody is! So, getting them rounded up to lend a hand is always a big deal!
Has the farm or Anty John’s changed a lot since the last series?
It has moved on, but it’s been a slow project because there have been so many jobs that have morphed into another job. The plaster has been a big bugbear because it took so long for that to dry out. So, it’s been a bit of a waiting game. Because of course, if you rush and go in all guns blazing and put the timber work in too early, then inevitably your hard work and money will all be wasted because it will all swell, and basically that would be a disaster. So yes, I’ve had to be patient!
In this series, we see the children growing up and maturing. What do you think they love most about farming, and what do they enjoy about filming?
Every day is different here, so every day brings its fair share of sort of wins and losses. There actually is no such thing as a typical day here! With regards to the children, some days they will be in their absolute element on the farm, out and about doing what needs doing. Today, I’ve seen one of them go past with a snowboard, which probably should be slightly worrying as there’s no snow, but there you go. There’s always plenty to do. And it gives me great joy to see them so busy with whatever project we have going on. So, you know, when it comes to filming, I think, yes, they do enjoy filming, but I’ll be honest with you, quite often, they don’t notice that they’re being filmed and that’s the joy of it because I’m afraid that the film crew have become part of the furniture. I guess we are all so entrenched in what we’re doing that they don’t take any notice of the film crew. And that’s why I think the show is successful because it isn’t acted out, it isn’t in any way false or scripted. We just go with whatever is happening and that’s exactly how the children operate.
How do you balance farm work, family life and filming commitments?
I just take every day as it comes! Filming, pretty much, is all about farming and family life. So, in a way, filming is the least of my problems, because the other two have to happen and will happen. So, the filming element doesn’t come into it really. All I have to do is put a brush through my hair and try and make myself look a bit more presentable than usual. Apart from that, the crew, like me, have to go along with whatever the day brings, which we never know. And you always get your best footage when things go slightly awry, but that’s what makes the programme relatable because that is everybody!
Can you share a memorable or funny behind-the-scenes story?
I do seem to remember one of the crew managed to crash his drone into a roof and we had to get the children with a fishing rod to get it off the roof. That was definitely a highlight for the children, probably a low point for the drone operator. It is memorable of course trying to sort out condensation on cameras, going from hot to cold on repeat. And of course, the other week when basically I had the director in the off-roader and I managed to somehow break down, not mentally or physically, I mean literally break-down in the off-roader further down on the farm and we had to walk back, and he was carrying all his kit. But there you go. Yeah, we had to do the walk of shame and come home. So yeah, it’s had its moments.
You have a lovely turn of phrase in episode 1, where you say, ‘All roads lead to Ravenseat’, it seems like you really enjoy the history of the farm and the connection people have with the farm and the land through history up to the current day. What do you hope viewers take from this?
Well, if anything I would like to think that what viewers take from this is that you need to have your eyes open to what there is around you, you know, you can come to a place like here and just see it as sort of (particularly at this time of year), as quite desolate and a quiet place for thought and reflection. Then you get here and you find out that actually it is a place that is full of life. It has so much going on and it always has. That’s the interesting element, that history repeats itself. It also rather miserably makes you realise that your time is limited, so you must get on and do your thing because as time goes on, you’ll soon be forgotten about and become just another person who was here. I take notice and on the bad days when the weather has turned and things are going really wrong – it gives me something to sort of fall back on and think to myself, you know, don’t feel too sorry for yourself because you know you will have your good days and they will come too. You know, after a hard winter, spring will always come as sure as eggs are eggs.
What message would you like to give to viewers who have followed you and your family from the beginning?
I’d like to say thank you to all the people who followed us because I’m very aware that, really speaking, we aren’t anything special, we’re just people who are getting on with our daily lives and doing what we have to do. In a way they have been absolutely intrinsic to keeping us going.
We’re in the depths of winter, which is your favourite season on the farm?
I don’t actually mind it now when it’s snowy and icy. It can feel quite nice if you’re prepared for it. You feel like you can hunker down, especially with the children still at home. It’s a nice feeling. You feel ever so slightly more isolated. And that can be either a good or a bad thing, but I kind of like it. I like being out amongst the animals and making them cosy and comfortable. Yeah, it’s like a bit of a nesting sort of a thing. Lambing time’s hard work and very, very tiring, so I’m not going to say that’s my favourite time. So, I’m going to be very specific and say the month of June. The month of June, because basically you’ve finished lambing, it’s too soon to hay time. So, there’s this little hiatus, this little sort of downing tools and you get a little bit of time to enjoy the farm and the land coming back to life. That’s the best. The flowers, the insects, the birds, everything is wonderful. All those winter woes are just put behind you.
Do the children always get on or do they bicker? They always seem to be having great fun on the show.
Well, bearing in mind, when it comes to asking about the children, I have just heard Annas string a lot of swear words into one sentence towards Sidney when he knocked a drink over after launching himself onto the sofa. I think the answer to that one is quite clear. No! Of course they don’t always get on. It doesn’t usually sort of end in fisticuffs or anything, but this morning I think they were hitting each other with icicles. So, but I just kind of let it play out. I think, the bottom line is, they’re all on each other’s sides, but the dynamics are always changing. The three little ones seem to hang out together, but, you know, it’s not always like the Waltons or anything like that. It can be pretty dysfunctional. It’s just like me and Clive, isn’t it? You know, one minute we’ll be agreeing on something, next minute, you’ll be saying something through gritted teeth, and I’ll be giving him the old evil eye. It’s, it is just how it is.
In regard to the children I think because they have got space around them and a zillion things to do it means that they can take off. You know, if you were all trapped under one roof and in confined quarters, then it would be very, very different. But as it is, because they are different characters, and that has developed too, they all have the different interests too. Annas is particularly good with the hounds, and Clemmie, of course, she spent all yesterday afternoon out with the horses. Nancy, she likes her dancing, and it’s good, because it means that, yes, they do all stick together, but they can also go off and be their own individual selves. They are very very unique characters each and every one of them and that in a way is what I enjoy about this time now with regards to the children. So far this is the best period I’ve enjoyed since them being little babies. You just get to see their independence and their characters and what they absorb and what they take in and that never fails to surprise me.
This stage is the best part because the children are becoming more independent and you’re getting really to see their characters shining through and I don’t know, you feel rejuvenated. It does make you feel more alive when you’ve got these youngsters bobbing about doing their thing and you think to yourself it’s all positive, it all good.
Your beloved Chalky passed away – what’s your favourite memory of her?
Sadly, we lost Chalky and that was awful. I mean, not unexpected, because obviously she was a good age. And I mean it happens. I mean if there’s one thing you preach when you live on a farm, it’s that you see the cycles of life. You know, you get to see it, but it still doesn’t make it any easier, because you know, particularly for the little ones, she’d been a constant, she’d always been there. But we were blessed in respect to the fact that she wasn’t particularly poorly, she wasn’t in any pain and she just faded away. But yes, it was hard and I think, to be honest with you, Sprout has found it incredibly difficult because Sprout is still looking for her.
Our Farm Next Door: Amanda, Clive and Kids concludes its third series on More4 on February 16.