This week’s diarist is torn between her romantic interests (Picture: Myles Goode/ Getty)
Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.
This week, we hear from Phoebe*, a 29-year-old lawyer living in London, who up until recently has been in a nine-month ‘just sex’ situationship with her colleague, Jared*.
‘I’d just come out of a three-year relationship when things began heating up between Jared and I, but I never thought anything would actually happen between us,’ she says.
‘But now it’s been months of super hot but rough sex, which I love.
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‘I’ve asked him to do things to me that I’ve never done with anyone before. He’s even slapped me in bed, which I found such a turn on.’
The problem is, Jared doesn’t want a girlfriend who is as financially successful as Phoebe. He wants to feel like the provider, so he’s told her they can never be in a relationship.
Since then, she’s given him the cold shoulder, but despite having plenty of male attention, no one is scratching the itch that Phoebe has for wild sex.
‘I’m going on dates with really hot and lovely guys, but I spend all my time thinking about Jared,’ she adds.
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Without further ado, here’s how Phoebe got on this week…
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Monday
I’m up and in the office by 9am and when I walk in, Jared and I immediately lock eyes.
We’ve been sleeping together for the past nine months after he broke up with his ex. I was actually part of the reason they ended their five year relationship — we kissed on a work trip to LA after months of flirting, and he later left her.
But we haven’t become boyfriend and girlfriend. In fact, I can’t even look at him without feeling conflicted.
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I’ve fallen for him, but we’re absolutely not compatible. His views on women are a problem, but I do like how rough and dominant he is in bed. It doesn’t make any sense.
I’ve endeavoured to ignore him for now, after he dismissed my feelings when I said we were more than just a hookup.
I can feel him staring at me all day, but I keep my eyes fixed on my screen.
I get home late and head to the gym before going to bed.
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Tuesday
Again I head into work, but today I’m wearing a tight skirt for after-work drinks, and maybe to torture Jared. Again, I ignore him. All day.
He sends me a message about a meeting but I write a blunt, no fuss response and he gets the hint.
Once I clock off, I head to a bar to meet a friend, Ryan. We’ve always been friends, but it’s always had a flirty undertone to it.
He’ll make comments on how good I look and is sometimes quite handsy, it’s pretty obvious that if I wanted to, I could. And tonight, I want to.
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He’s very tall, well built and has an impossibly charming smile, and we laugh over two drinks at the bar, before I suggest getting a bottle and taking it back to mine.
He only lives two streets away from me, so there’s a good chance that if it’s good tonight, this will become a regular hookup.
Half a bottle in, I hold his gaze and look at his lips, giving him the signal. He’s practiced at this and immediately takes the hint, leaning in and kissing me on the sofa. He’s good, really good, and our breathing gets heavy as he lays me back.
I’m immediately wet, this has been a long time coming and I can tell in the way he’s devouring me.
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He goes down on me right there and it’s not long before I’m close to orgasm. Then he pulls away and takes his t-shirt and jeans off, settling over me and pushing into me. It feels incredible and we go at it for about 10 minutes before I climax.
He finishes shortly after, and in that moment I’m deeply satisfied. We curl up in bed and while I’m content, I hate that there’s a niggling thought in my mind that Jared would’ve done it better.
Wednesday
I kick Ryan out of my bed early, take a shower and head to work. I feel a little smug at the events of last night and Ryan texts me to say it was as good as he’d hoped it would be, and to message him whenever.
I’m in some meetings with Jared today and I can tell it’s bugging him that I’ve been radio silent. After all, we’ve spent nine months acting like boyfriend and girlfriend, he even helped me move house and built my furniture.
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The day drags a little but I get home and order food in, watching an episode of Heated Rivalry. I fall asleep but wake up to a buzz from my phone. It’s Jared.
‘Are you giving me the silent treatment?’
I ignore it, and drift off again.
Thursday
I’m working from home today and that’s ideal because I have a second date.
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He’s a guy I met on Hinge, and to be honest I don’t think he really has any flaws. He’s handsome, pays for everything, plans the dates and takes the initiative — who knew men like this still existed?
We laugh a lot and he likes how self-sufficient and career driven I am, which is the total opposite of Jared.
He comes back to mine and we begin making out. It’s not long before I slip my hand into his boxers and he gets hard. We both go down on each other which is great, but as soon as I get on top, he struggles to stay hard. I tell him it’s fine and we switch positions but again, no luck.
Eventually it’s a little awkward and we give in, instead he just stays the night and we cuddle. Hopefully he was just nervous and, if we have date number three, next time it will be better.
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Friday
After a long busy day at work, I get a text from Jared.
He wants to come over. My heart flutters.
Of course he does, he wants sex. But it’s not like we were exclusive or anything.
I leave it and go and see some friends at a cute pub for dinner. My friends ask me why I want a man like Jared, with all of his archaic views. I wish I had the answer.
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We laugh a lot and I try to forget my boy troubles, if just for a little while.
Saturday
I’m off to my yoga class this morning, before grabbing brunch with my sister. It’s great to catch up, as she has her own flat now and is all grown up. I’m so proud of her.
By the time evening rolls around, I’m really missing Jared. I miss the electric connection we have and the intense attraction, coupled with sex that practically makes me forget my own name.
I know I shouldn’t, but I call him. He doesn’t answer but then immediately calls me back.
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He’s out with friends and jokingly reprimands me for ignoring him. He does agree to come over in the next hour though.
He gets in and there’s little to no small talk, my heart beats fast. He grabs my face and we begin making out passionately, as we make our way to the bedroom.
He strips my clothes off and does the same for himself before bending me over and going down on me like I’m all he’s ever needed. I orgasm and barely have time to recover before he flips me over and gets on top of me.
He puts his hands on my throat, gently choking me and I enjoy the heady feeling. Then he spits in my mouth as he thrusts. There’s something about how dominant he is, and how I can give up complete control with him which really turns me on.
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It’s rough and hard and then he finishes, and we crumple into a heap, breathing hard.
After a few minutes he leads me into the shower, and we kiss each other as we clean off the incredible sex we’ve just had. Then he makes himself at home in my bed and I fall asleep content.
Sunday
He leaves early to go and meet friends, so I’m left with my own thoughts. I know I shouldn’t have caved last night but I feel on a high now.
I need to move on and find someone new, it’s not that I even want to find a husband. I just want to find someone who is respectful and where there’s an even power dynamic when it comes to dating.
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What I do know is I need to avoid Jared. I spend the day reminding myself that was the last time we will ever have sex, and text Ryan to arrange to see each other next week.
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Kylie Jenner has admitted she was ‘so young’ to have children as she talked motherhood and hinted at her future plans with actor boyfriend Timothée Chalamet
07:31, 28 Aug 2026Updated 07:31, 28 Aug 2026
Kylie Jenner has responded to rumours she’s planning a third baby with actor boyfriend Timothée Chalamet
During a Wednesday appearance on her best friend Anastasia “Stassie” Karanikolaou’s “Better Half” podcast, Kylie opened up about her plans to expand her family. The Kylie Cosmetics founder shares daughter Stormi, 8, and son Aire, 4, with her rapper ex Travis Scott.
“I think that I’m so used to people creating their own narrative that I actually have to just laugh about it, and I really don’t care,” Jenner, 29, said. “I just assume people will figure it out eventually, which is what they always do.”
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Admitting she had seen the speculation mounting, she added: “I’m going to be in a bikini somewhere or I’m going to be out and the rumours will be squashed.”
Elsewhere in the interview, Jenner admitted that she feels she lost some of her youth by becoming a mum ‘so young’ and made a promise to herself to have no more children until after she was 30.
“Even though I already have children – so young – I feel like i lived such an adult life when I was young, and I’m trying to make sure that I don’t have any regrets and to do brave things and give myself more opportunities or take advantage of the ones I have,” said Jenner.
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“I made a promise to myself at 25 that I was not going to have any more children – right now – and really just enjoy the last half of my 20s because the first was like, ‘You’re pregnant,’ and then it’s the year of recovery, and you know, my mental state, my postpartum depression, and all of those things.
“It felt like I lost some of those young years of my life,” she admitted.
Kylie and Timothée have been linked since 2023 and were recently seen together attending her friend Jordyn Woods’ wedding.
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They were also pictured together at a slew of awards ceremonies this year as the actor was nominated for his leading role in sports drama Marty Surpreme.
Sources reported at the time of the split that Kylie was focused on a quiet, family-oriented home life with their children, while Travis preferred focusing on touring and his music.
Karen Lyttle has spent her nursing and midwifery career supporting people through some of the most important moments of their lives.
Karen Lyttle has spent her nursing and midwifery career supporting people through some of the most important moments of their lives. But her latest achievement takes that commitment one step further.
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Karen has become the first nurse in Northern Ireland to be certified by the British Fertility Society to carry out embryo transfers and intrauterine inseminations.
Embryo transfer is one of the key stages of IVF and has traditionally been a doctor-led procedure. It’s a crucial step in the IVF and IUI process and, for many patients, the most emotionally significant moment of their entire fertility journey.
Karen’s certification means patients at the clinic can now be supported through that moment by the same nursing team who have been with them from the start of their treatment.
This certification marks a significant milestone, both personally for Karen and for TFP Belfast Fertility where she is Nurse Manager, as she becomes a certified Embryo Transfer Practitioner.
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TFP Belfast is Northern Ireland’s longest-standing private fertility clinic and one of the TFP Fertility Group’s flagship clinics, with access to world-leading fertility expertise and the latest advancements in treatment.
The clinic has now recorded more than 2,000 live births since opening in 2013 and remains the only clinic in Northern Ireland licensed to undertake preimplantation genetic testing (PGT), continuing to push forward in terms of both clinical achievement and patient care.
Karen’s milestone represents an important achievement in her professional development and further strengthens the specialist nursing expertise within the clinic.
She joined the clinic four years ago as a Senior Midwife, bringing with her many years of experience supporting families through labour and birth. Her wealth of clinical experience, combined with the fresh perspective she brought to TFP Fertility, inspired her to take the next step in her career and move into the Nurse Manager role just two years later.
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“I could see so many opportunities to improve and develop the clinic, particularly from a nursing perspective,” said Karen. “Taking on the Nurse Manager role gave me the opportunity to visit other TFP Fertility clinics and see the excellent work already happening across the group.
“It really opened my eyes to what was possible, and I was determined to bring that experience, learning and innovation back to Belfast.”
Karen’s journey towards performing embryo transfers began with developing a strong foundation in fertility ultrasound.
Recognising that advanced scanning skills were an essential step in progressing her clinical practice, Karen completed the British Fertility Society Scanning Certification and the Graduate Certificate in Fertility Ultrasound at University College Dublin.
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This achievement also saw her become the first Advanced Nurse Scanner at TFP Belfast Fertility, helping to further strengthen the clinic’s specialist nursing capabilities.
Following this, progressing into embryo transfer and IUI training felt like the natural next step. Karen recognised that this was an area where she could make a real difference to the patient experience at TFP Belfast Fertility.
“Nurses are with patients from the very beginning of their fertility journey, building relationships and trust at every stage. Being able to carry that continuity of care through to the embryo transfer itself means patients have a familiar and reassuring presence with them at one of the most important moments of their treatment,” she said.
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“It is a technical procedure, but it is also one of the most emotionally significant moments in a patient’s fertility journey. While embryo transfer has traditionally been a doctor-led procedure, my experience as a nurse and midwife, combined with my training, has put me in a unique position to provide this care alongside the medical team.
“Ultimately, what matters most is that the procedure is performed safely, effectively and to the highest standard, regardless of whether it is carried out by a doctor or a nurse.” The response at TFP Belfast Fertility has been overwhelmingly positive, and Karen has already had the privilege of seeing some of her patients return for their early pregnancy scans – one of the most rewarding aspects of her role.
“It feels like such a privilege to be part of a patient’s journey and to support them at such a significant moment in their lives,” she added. Dr Ishola Agbaje, Medical Director at TFP Belfast Fertility, parised Karen’s relentless drive to deliver the best possible patient experience, day in, day out: “This milestone is testament to her commitment to developing both herself and her team, and we’re incredibly proud of everything she has achieved.”
Joe Biden spent the late months of his presidency considering a presidential pardon for Donald Trump in a move The White House said proves Democrats politicized the Justice Department.
The President pardoned several of those closest to him before leaving office, including son Hunter, Dr Anthony Fauci and members of the January 6 committee.
However, Utah‘s Republican Governor Spencer Cox – a moderate member of the GOP who only endorsed Trump following his assassination attempt in Pennsylvania – was surprised to learn Biden had been thinking about giving the same to his predecessor.
‘You know, I’ve actually considered this for a while,’ Cox told The Atlantic Biden said when he called him in August of 2023, long before the governor endorsed Trump.
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‘In fact, just this week as we were lying in bed, Jill and I had a long conversation about it,’ Biden continued, according to Cox.
The Trump administration said this story proves that the Biden administration knew Trump was being treated unfairly and didn’t stop it.
‘This shows President Biden knew he and his fellow extreme Democrats had weaponized the justice system against his political opponent, but did nothing to stop it,’ White House spokeswoman Lauren Bis told The Daily Mail.
‘A real profile in courage,’ Bis joked.
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Joe Biden (pictured left) spent much of the late months of his presidency considering a presidential pardon for Donald Trump, including a bedroom conversation with First Lady Jill Biden (pictured right)
The Trump administration said this story proves that the Biden administration knew Trump was being treated unfairly and didn’t stop it
Cox believed that pardoning Trump from the criminal charges he faced in multiple states would help heal the nation and stop what he saw as a cycle of partisan revenge tactics.
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Biden told Cox that he was going to seriously consider the pardon – which Cox phrased to the President as something that ‘might sound crazy’ – despite his base ‘demanding justice’ for Trump.
However, the clemency never came after Trump defeated Vice President Kamala Harris following Biden’s decision to not seek reelection.
Cox said he ‘hoped [Biden] would choose mercy over escalation’ by offering forgiveness to Trump.
Similarly, he asked Trump to unite the country following the shooting in Butler in August of 2024 and ‘hoped he would choose unity over retaliation.’
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‘In both cases, things didn’t turn out quite the way I’d hoped,’ Cox said.
Biden sparked fury on his way out the door by issuing preemptive pardons for his son Hunter, Dr Anthony Fauci and all nine members of the January 6 Committee.
The first pardon Biden issued after losing the 2024 presidential election to Trump was for Hunter, 54, who was convicted on felony tax charges as well as federal crimes for lying in 2018 about his drug use on a form to purchase a firearm.
This came to the ire of Democrats who felt it would give Trump permission to issue sweeping pardons without fear of being accused of hypocrisy.
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Utah’s Republican Governor Spencer Cox (pictured) – a moderate member of the GOP who only endorsed Trump following his assassination attempt in Pennsylvania – lobbied Biden for the pardon in 2023
Biden sparked fury on his way out the door by issuing preemptive pardons for his son Hunter, Dr Anthony Fauci and all nine members of the January 6 Committee
Biden wrote in his pardon announcement that the action was warranted because they are public servants who have ‘been threatened with criminal prosecutions.’
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‘These public servants have served our nation with honor and distinction and do not deserve to be the targets of unjustified and politically motivated prosecutions,’ he noted.
The 82-year-old Democrat also used his final moments in the Oval Office to give blanket protection to former Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff Mark Milley, who Trump has said deserves to be executed.
In all, the Biden administration granted more than 1,500 individuals clemency during his final weeks in the White House.
Emails show Biden formally decided on issuing pre-emptive pardons for his family on January 19, 2024.
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Among the most controversial of all Biden’s pardons so far is the protection of Fauci from federal prosecution.
Biden wrote in a statement on the pardons: ‘Our nation relies on dedicated, selfless public servants every day. They are the lifeblood of our democracy. Yet alarmingly, public servants have been subjected to ongoing threats and intimidation for faithfully discharging their duties.’
Alvarez has been absent from training at Atletico Madrid as Arsenal push to snap up the Argentine, while Gabriel Martinelli is set to join Al Hilal. A trio of youngsters in James Scanlon, Habeeb Ogunneye and Igor Tyjon are joining. Liverpool have agreed a fee with Paris Saint-Germain for Barcola, and also want Ismaila Sarr, which could see Cody Gakpo join Spurs.
This week Bolton South and Walkden MP Yasmin Qureshi met Network Rail engineers at Walkden Station together with Greater Manchester Deputy Mayor Paul Dennett.
With other councillors they discussed the works being done at the station under the “Access for All” programme, which aims to improve accessibility for disabled people and others.
Mr Dennett said: “I’m pleased to say that the proposal to provide a new lift for the station has been agreed.
“Unfortunately, the presence of historic mineshafts in the area mean a number of structural surveys, ecological, drainage and ground investigations are required, and this has slowed down the project somewhat.
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A new lift has been agreed at Walkden Station (Image: Office of Paul Dennett)
“Local people who rely on step-free access deserve a reliable railway service, and accessibility should never be treated as an afterthought.”
Along with Ms Qureshi and Mr Dennett, the meeting was attended by Cllr Tony Davies, of Little Hulton and Cllr Hilaria Asumu, of Walkden South.
Mr Dennett said he and his colleagues would work with rail operators to ensure the work is completed within a reasonable timeframe, and that residents are kept abreast of developments.
Back in August last year Ms Qureshi had written to transport secretary Heidi Alexander MP calling for Walkden station to be made more accessible.
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In her letter, she said: “Walkden has been waiting far too long for step-free access.
“The station was awarded funding through the Government’s Access for All programme back in 2020, yet more than three years later, no visible progress has been made.
“Delays like this continue to exclude people with mobility issues, parents with pushchairs, older passengers, and anyone who needs easier access to our rail services.
“Accessibility is not a luxury, it is a right.”
She added: “I will continue to hold the government to account.
“We will not accept vague promises or endless delays.
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“Walkden Station deserves step-free access and the passengers who rely on it deserve to be treated fairly and equally.”
Alec Brown, leader of Redcar and Cleveland Borough Council, and MP Anna Turley said Cleveland Police’s resources are being bolstered as investigations into both tragedies continue.
Seven people, including two police officers, died in a crash on the A66 in South Bank on Saturday, and a house fire in Grangetown on Wednesday, which is being treated as murder, claimed the lives of a woman seven-year-old girl and her aunt, 34.
In a statement after a meeting with a Cleveland Police superintendent, Mr Brown said: “They are working 20-hour days to ensure the ongoing safety of innocent residents.
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“Over 200 extra police officers from forces around the country are here and are on route, from detectives to armed response.
“I will sending a letter today to our Prime Minister asking for even more resource.
“The police really are doing an amazing job.
“If it is any reassurance at all, jobs called in to the police are actually down this week, however the seriousness of the ones that have been called in need serious and swift action.
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“Everyone is heartbroken over the loss of the aunt and little girl in Grangetown yesterday.
“People need to feel safe in their homes.”
Anna Turley, MP for Redcar and Cleveland, added: “I cannot thank our police enough. Officers are working incredibly long hours in extremely difficult circumstances to keep people safe, investigate what has happened and respond swiftly to incidents across our area.
“Right now, the priority is keeping people safe and making sure our police and other services have everything they need.
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“I am working closely with Cleveland Police, Our Government, Redcar & Cleveland Council and our local partners to make sure there is a joined-up response across our communities.
“The additional officers coming into our area are an important and immediate response, but we will continue working together to make sure our police, public services and communities have exactly the support and resources they need, for as long as they are needed.
“I know how worried people are, and understandably people want to know what is being done. There is a significant response underway, with additional officers and resources being brought into our area and agencies working together around the clock.
“People have a right to feel safe in their homes and in their communities. That is our absolute priority.
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A spokesperson for Cleveland Police said: “We can confirm that we have received mutual aid support through established arrangements from the other six Northern forces.
“This includes Northumbria, Durham, North Yorks, South Yorks, West Yorks and Humber and the National Crime Agency.”
Cleveland Police, who have made several arrests in connection with the recent deaths, are also investigating a crash which saw a vehicle hit the wall of a house in South Bank in the early hours of Thursday morning.
The property had been empty at the time and the force said it had “not yet been confirmed whether this incident is linked to wider organised crime”.
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On Saturday, PC Matthew Blades and PC Tom Clough died when a Volkswagen Passat, which was going the wrong way on the A66 at South Bank, hit their vehicle.
The five young men in the Volkswagen also died.
Police said 17 people, aged between 18 and 61, had been arrested across Teesside as part of an investigation into the lead up to the crash.
They have been held on a range of offences including possession of a firearm and being part of an organised crime group.
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On Wednesday, Natalie McDonald, 34, died along with her seven-year-old niece Valentina Foster in the fire in Grangetown.
The fire also left a 48-year-old woman in a critical condition in hospital, while another three people suffered non-life threatening injuries.
Two men, aged 23 and 31, have been arrested on suspicion of murder and remained in custody.
Cleveland Police said it was “keeping an open mind” about the fire and said it could not “rule out any links to wider organised crime at this time”.
Mr Healey has reminded people across the country that the Great British Summer Savings scheme will come to an end on September 1.
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The scheme was announced back in July, launched in August, and aimed to support families in being able to enjoy summer activities; despite the rise in living costs caused by the Iran war and other global turmoil.
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Throughout the whole of August, the VAT is reduced from 20% to 5% on kids meals in restaurants, as well as tickets for attractions like theatres and soft play, and the scheme also provides free bus travel for children between five and 15.
Mr Healey said: “I want every family to get out and enjoy the bank holiday weekend by taking advantage of the final days of Great British Summer Savings.
“This Government is determined to give people a bit of breathing space. So families can afford the days out that make the summer holidays special. Whilst giving our world-class attractions and businesses a welcome boost in trade.”
The Government has listed more than 2,100 restaurants and attractions on its deal finder website as part of the scheme, where families can find discounts near to them.
It comes as the Chancellor on Thursday, August 27, visited a holiday park, the Haven Kiln Park site in Pembrokeshire, as the company announced its customers across the UK had collectively got back £4 million as a result of the scheme.
Some 251,000 families have benefited from the savings across Haven sites UK-wide, and 39,000 families across Wales.
Greene King, which is also participating in the scheme, said its customers had saved a cumulative £740,000 as a result of it.
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This was a result of 1.1 million children’s meals being sold, and more than 80,000 entries to soft play areas, the pub company said.
The six part docuseries follows the former footballer Michael Owen and his chaotic family life
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Football legend Michael Owen is opening the doors to let fans see inside his family life in a brand new documentary series. The former England striker will star in the six-part Prime Video show titled ‘Meet the Owens.’
Viewers will be given a front-row seat to the daily struggles as they navigate the pressures of running a horse racing business alongside the everyday chaos of family life. The newly released trailer reveals that keeping the family’s ambitious stables afloat is becoming increasingly difficult each year.
The series also promises an intimate look at Michael and his wife Louise as they prepare to become empty nesters. Their four children are all currently standing at major crossroads while pursuing their own high-pressure ambitions.
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Influencer daughter Gemma is trading her glamorous television career for the saddle as she trains at her father’s racing yard. The popular social media star has firmly set her sights on competing as a jockey at Glorious Goodwood.
Meanwhile, twenty-year-old James is determined to join the family business despite battling a degenerative eye condition. Eighteen-year-old Emily is striving to become the first Owen to attend university, while the youngest child, Jessica, dreams of Olympic show jumping glory.
Sign up for Amazon Prime to watch the six-part docuseries following former England striker Michael Owen and his family as they juggle a horse racing empire and a chaotic home life.
With autumn just around the corner, rival streaming companies are also gearing up to keep folks entertained as the evenings grow longer. Apple TV, for example, will be dropping Series 6 of Slow Horses on September 16.
The darkly funny espionage thriller follows a team of failed British intelligence agents led by the brilliant but often unlikeable Jackson Lamb (Gary Oldman). Over at Disney+ Star Wars: The Mandalorian (Pedro Pascal) and his apprentice Grogu are about to embark on a feature-length mission to protect the galaxy.
All six episodes of the docuseries will be available to stream exclusively on Prime Video from today, August 28. This means fans with an Amazon Prime subscription can watch at no extra cost, alongside benefits such as next-day delivery, Amazon Music Prime and Amazon Reading, as well as early access to promotional events and personalised offers throughout the year (fees may apply).
After the initial one-month trial, standard membership is usually £8.99 a month, or customers can opt for an annual subscription for £95. A caveat, and negative to point out, is that the subscription will automatically renew at the usual £8.99 when the trial ends, so customers wanting to avoid this must remember to cancel within 30 days or get hit a bill.
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New members can sign up today for an Amazon Prime 30-day trial to enjoy the full library completely free. This also grants access to other fan favourites, including other Amazon Original series such as Clarkson’s Farm, Last One Laughing UK and Bait.
An inquest heard that Conor Hillyard, who lived in Farnworth and had Pallister-Killian syndrome, died at Royal Bolton Hospital on May 12.
A statement from his mother, Lindsay Hillyard, read out at Bolton Coroners’ Court painted a picture of a young man whose warmth and enthusiasm for life touched those around him despite the significant health challenges he faced throughout his life.
Describing her son as having a “wonderful personality”, she said Conor loved music, lights and water, and found happiness in life’s simplest pleasures.
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Ms Hillyard said: “He had complex medical needs, but despite that Conor brought great joy to all those around him.”
The court heard that although Conor required extensive care and support, his health had remained stable for many years.
However, Coroner Michael Pemberton said his condition had deteriorated in the years leading up to his death despite the dedication of both his family and medical professionals.
Mr Pemberton told the hearing that Conor had received “excellent care” throughout his life and highlighted the commitment shown by those closest to him and the healthcare professionals that worked alongside his family.
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He recorded Mr Hillyard’s cause of death as sepsis and aspiration pneumonia, with contributing factors including Pallister-Killian syndrome and the misplacement of a percutaneous endoscopic gastrostomy (PEG) tube.
The inquest heard that PEG tube misplacement is a recognised but extremely rare complication and was not something that could reasonably have been foreseen.
Offering his condolences to Mr Hillyard’s loved ones, Mr Pemberton said the young man had left a lasting impression on everyone who met him.
He said: “I wish to express my deepest condolences to members of his family.
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“It is very clear to me that Conor, despite his physical ailments and challenges he faced throughout his life, was a beacon of brightness and joy to all who knew him.
“He had an extremely committed family that cared for him and loved him immensely.
“My thoughts will remain with them after today’s hearing.”
The inquest concluded that Conor’s death was the result of natural disease complicated by a rare medical event.
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Although his life was cut tragically short, the tributes heard in court made clear the lasting impact he had on those around him, and the love that surrounded him throughout his life.
SOKOTO, Nigeria (AP) — Multicolored strobe lights sweep across a dance floor soon to throng with sweaty revelers and shrilling voices singing along to Afrobeats in a nightclub that is thriving despite being in one of northern Nigeria’s most deeply conservative states.
As the DJ prepared his set and attendants arranged bottles of expensive liquor on tables, Vincent Tabat joined those streaming into the venue, which is one of a handful along a street in Sokoto state.
It was an ironic scene given that the conservative Sokoto is known as the “seat of the caliphate” for its storied place in the birth and propagation of Islam in West and Central Africa. Despite its reputation, there is a thriving nightlife alongside strict religious codes, a morality police, and security challenges fueled by attacks by jihadi groups.
“This is nearly 2 a.m., and as you can see, everyone is outside to have fun,” Tabat told The Associated Press. Tabat was fired up by the booming music all night, dancing with female companions as he portioned out drinks into emptying cups on the table.
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Partygoers shun regulated daily life
At the center of northern Nigeria’s strict religious code is the local Islamic police, known as the Hisbah force, whose personnel are tasked with upholding public morals across some of the region’s 19 states.
They often patrol cities and raid key spots to enforce Shariah and local laws, such as dress codes, haircuts and alcohol bans, with seized bottles often destroyed. Partygoers, however, say they are not deterred.
For frequent reveler Benjamin Danjuma, weekend outings are nearly sacrosanct. The few clubs and bars in Sokoto city are his haunts, and the scene for him is no different from those in the more liberal southern Nigeria.
“We are living our life more than anybody’s expectation in this state,” he said. “There is so much groove going on. We are not left behind.”
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Gone are the days when nightlife and partying were considered taboo in conservative Nigerian society, as people have been partying for a long time, said Oluwamayowa Idowu, founder of Culture Custodian, a leading culture publication based in Lagos.
Amid the security crisis and its fallout of economic hardship in the region, nightlife offers people an escape from the tough realities, said Idowu. “The north has been ravaged by insecurity, but people still live there, and people still participate in life there daily,” he said.
Social division runs along religious lines
Both Tabat and Danjuma said they are not bound by Hisbah’s rules as non-Muslims, but they acknowledged that there have been run-ins with the group.
This represents the dynamics of Nigeria’s religious composition in one of the few places in the world where the population is almost evenly split between Christians, who live predominantly in the south, and Muslims, mostly in the north.
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For decades, non-Muslims have been caught up in Hisbah’s enforcement, which the force says is to promote morality.
Following the return of Nigeria to democracy in 1999, several states in the northern region advocated for Shariah, revealing the fault lines of Nigeria’s federalism and status as a secular state. The matter was not resolved at the Supreme Court, leaving it as an open-ended legal question to date, and subsequent governments have not sought legal means to resolve it.
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Hisbah is often accused of extreme policies and abuses
In many northern states, the laws being applied in Islamic courts are enforced by Hisbah. The group was disbanded in Sokoto in 2017, in part due to public complaints about alleged high-handed practices, before being reestablished in 2024.
The morality police, which are often accused of extreme policies, recently announced a statewide ban in Sokoto on the use of DJs at events, as well as inappropriate haircuts, extravagant bridal gifts and playing music on public transport.
Hisbah members also face widespread allegations of rights abuses in their enforcement operations, including subjecting offenders to dehumanizing punishments such as public beatings or shaming.
Fu’ad Lawal, executive director at Archivi.ng, a Lagos-based digital historical database, said the force altered the meaning of Nigeria’s federalism and its secular nature.
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“When it (Shariah) became a law, it basically extended (beyond) criminal law and, perhaps more consequential, led to the regulation of public life,” said Lawal.
The morality police say they only seek to ensure “peace and stability through moral justice” and are not “enforcing Sharia law per se.”
“Every citizen needs to fulfill his or her moral obligation,” Usman Abdullahi Jatau, commander of the Sokoto State Hisbah, told the AP.
Delicate balance sought between religion and nightlife
The nightclub where Tabat was partying has posted a list of banned items, including veils, and it turns away women wearing them.
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Almost everywhere else in the city, women would need one — except at this venue, which tries to not upset the precarious balance of the religion-nightlife cohabitation.
The strict social codes can eventually wear on a society battling yearslong jihadi and rebel violence, analysts say.
Ibrahim Nuhu, a banker who was transferred from the more cosmopolitan Plateau state to Sokoto, has seen the city evolve in recent years from a drab scene to a lively experience on weekends. At first, he was worried about leaving his more cosmopolitan life behind, but admits he has grown enamored of the growing nightlife in Sokoto.
“People see Sokoto from outside; I see it from the inside,” he said.
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