The woman began talking to who she believed to be Reece Fletcher on Christmas day in December 2023 after matching on dating site Tinder.
A mum conned by a Tinder rapist into a fake relationship has told how she tracked down the real man behind the pictures.
The woman began talking to who she believed to be Reece Fletcher on Christmas day in December 2023 after matching on dating site Tinder.
However in reality, it was serial conman Ryan McVeigh posing as Fletcher who using photographs of Yorkshire based dad Gary Stephenson had also targeted 16 other women – including raping two.
Over six months, McVeigh conned the mum out of £800, asked her to send intimate photographs of herself and even pretended to be his own sister who told her he had tried to commit suicide.
After she shared photographs of “Reece” on a Facebook group she tracked down the real Gary Stephenson before contacting police.
The mum, who has asked not to be identified, said: “We matched on Tinder then started speaking for a while on Snapchat. We would talk on the phone until 4am.
“At first I’d wanted to be sure he was who he said he was and would ask him to send live snaps doing things like touching his nose.
“I don’t know how he did it but they were actually pictures of the real Gary Stevenson.
“We had planned to meet and he didn’t turn up. He had borrowed money and said he would come to my house or work to return it in cash.
“I finally told him I didn’t believe him and I was going to the police. I then got a call from a woman, claiming to be his sister, saying she was going to kill me because Reece had tried to harm himself.
“I started calling around hospitals to ask if anyone has been admitted with that name. I was in such a panic wondering what I’d got into. I posted his picture online and other women told me he was a catfish. They told me to Google reverse the images.
“I found the real Gary on Tikitok and reached out to him.”
The mum was one of 17 women targeted by McVeigh, who is now facing a prison sentence.
She said: “Gary came back to me and when we spoke I was so upset because I did not expect to hear a different voice. He even video called me to prove it was the real him with his voice and face. I felt like I’d fallen in love with this guy and had spent so much time talking to him but this real guy was someone else who had a fiancé.
“When I finally found out that the person I believed to be Reece was Gary, I felt sick.
“Now I know this other man knows my deepest secrets and it wasn’t even him.
“I contacted the police because I was so angry. I asked Gary to send me the names of the girls who had contacted him and I contacted them all. I was devastated.”
In court in November, McVeigh admitted defrauding 17 victims out of £81,872 and raping two of the women over 12 months.
She said: “When he pled guilty in court, I felt so relieved.
“I’m so glad that we stopped him from doing this to other women, which he would have.”

