Sean Stephen, 38 was found dead in a toilet cubicle on July 7 last year, with his body in an ‘advanced state of decomposition’.
A report into the death of a man who was disovered in a toilet cubicle at Edinburgh City Chambers will be heard by councillors in private, it has been revealed.
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Sean Stephen was found dead in the customer service hub on site on July 7 last year, with his body in an ‘advanced state of decomposition’. The 38-year-old had last been in touch with his wife on July 1, with his wife telling police that they had spoken on the phone when he was near the chambers.
In August, council leader and Labour councillor Jane Meagher announced that an independent investigation of the death would be carried out. On Thursday, the city’s governance, risk and best value committee will consider the independent investigation report.
But the general public will not be able to attend the discussion around the report, or read its contents on the meeting agenda online. Police Scotland said in early July last year that they had launched an investigation after Mr Stephen’s passing, but that his death was not believed to be suspicious.
At the time, a source told the Local Democracy Reporting Service his body had been discovered by cleaning staff, who had believed the toilet door was locked for days due to the facility being out of order. It is understood that security staff were to check the toilets were empty at the end of every day, as part of their rounds, but failed to do so.
Sean’s grieving wife previously demanded answers over her husband’s death. Heartbroken Julie Stephen said she was “baffled” as to why nobody realised Sean was still in the toilet cubicle at Edinburgh’s City Chambers after complaining of “feeling unwell”. Julie, 47, was chatting with Sean on the phone as he went into the local authority’s Royal Mile buildings in the capital.
After later being unable to reach her husband she reported him missing but he wasn’t discovered until almost a week later. Julie has since begged police and council chiefs to explain why his decomposing body was not found for six days in the toilet.
Julie said: “There’s CCTV footage of him on the phone to me walking up the Royal Mile and into the council building. He was healthy but said he was feeling dizzy and sick. He said he was going to get a taxi.
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“I came off the phone when he was going to do the toilet. That was the last time I spoke to him. How’s no one been in that toilet for six days, it baffles me.
“There are security guards, cleaners and someone who sits at reception. Could he have been saved? These are questions which will be in my head for rest of my life.”
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Modern breast cancer screening and treatment have transformed survival. Many women now live long and healthy lives after diagnosis, thanks to increasingly effective chemotherapy and targeted therapies: medicines designed to attack particular features of cancer cells.
But as cancer outcomes improve, another challenge has become more apparent: protecting the heart from the side-effects of treatment.
Some breast cancer treatments can affect heart health. These include anthracyclines, a group of chemotherapy drugs, and trastuzumab, a targeted therapy used to treat HER2-positive breast cancers: cancers that have high levels of HER2, a protein that helps cells grow and divide.
In some patients, these treatments can weaken the heart’s ability to pump blood around the body or contribute to heart failure. Other cancer treatments can increase the risk of abnormal heart rhythms.
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Early changes may not cause obvious symptoms. By the time a patient experiences breathlessness, fatigue or palpitations, the sensation that the heart is pounding or beating irregularly, damage may already have occurred.
A small study, which is yet to be peer reviewed, suggests that regular blood tests and heart traces could help doctors detect warning signs earlier.
Researchers followed 50 women with stage 1 to 3 breast cancer, cancer that had not spread to distant organs, through six cycles of chemotherapy. They measured cardiac troponin I, a protein released into the blood when heart muscle cells are injured. They also recorded electrocardiograms (ECGs), which measure the electrical activity controlling the heartbeat.
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They found that troponin levels rose during treatment. ECG abnormalities also became more common, including prolonged QT intervals, which is the time the heart’s lower chambers take to contract and prepare for the next beat. If this takes longer than usual, the risk of a dangerous irregular heartbeat can increase.
Larger studies are needed to confirm these findings, but the research adds to evidence that signs of heart stress can sometimes be detected before a patient develops symptoms.
Troponin and heart health
Troponin tests have been used for more than two decades to help diagnose a heart attack (myocardial infarction).
A raised troponin level does not always mean that someone has had a heart attack, because heart damage can have other causes. During chemotherapy, raised levels may reveal small amounts of heart muscle damage before conventional measures of heart function begin to worsen.
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A 2004 report identified troponins as promising biomarkers: measurable signs in the body that can indicate injury or disease.
A later clinical study found that persistently raised troponin levels during high-dose chemotherapy predicted a decline in the pumping ability of the left ventricle, the heart’s main pumping chamber. Troponin may therefore offer an early warning that a patient is at greater risk of future heart problems.
Adding pieces to the puzzle
Established forms of heart monitoring remain important. One commonly used measure is left ventricular ejection fraction, or LVEF. This is the percentage of blood pumped out of the left ventricle with each beat. It is usually assessed using an echocardiogram, an ultrasound scan of the heart.
Echocardiograms remain central to heart monitoring during cancer treatment. But LVEF can remain normal while subtler changes are developing.
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Doctors can also use a measure called global longitudinal strain, which looks more closely at how well the heart muscle squeezes and relaxes. It may reveal changes before they show up in the ejection fraction.
Blood tests and ECGs could provide additional pieces of the puzzle. An ECG is quick, painless and widely available. Some chemotherapy drugs can disrupt electrical activity in heart cells, increasing the risk of abnormal rhythms, or arrhythmias. Regular ECG monitoring may help to identify patients who need closer observation.
A more personalised approach
A raised troponin level does not necessarily mean that a patient will develop heart failure. An abnormal ECG does not guarantee a serious irregular heartbeat. These tests identify signs that the heart may be under strain and help doctors assess risk.
The emerging field of cardio-oncology focuses on protecting the heart health of people with cancer before, during and after treatment.
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Doctors are increasingly tailoring monitoring to each patient’s risk. Existing heart health, age, blood pressure, diabetes risk and previous exposure to treatments that may damage the heart can influence the level of monitoring required.
If doctors detect rising troponin levels or ECG changes, they may carry out tests more frequently, refer the patient to a heart specialist with expertise in cancer care or consider treatments intended to protect the heart.
This does not necessarily mean stopping cancer treatment. The aim is to manage risks while allowing patients to continue receiving effective care wherever possible.
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The latest research does not provide a standalone test for predicting who will develop heart problems after breast cancer treatment. Troponin levels and ECG changes must be interpreted alongside other information. Scientists still need better evidence about how early warning signs should influence treatment decisions.
But the principle is important. As more people survive breast cancer, protecting their long-term health becomes increasingly urgent. The goal is no longer simply surviving cancer. It is maintaining heart health after treatment has ended.
Goals win football matches, so no wonder people love to talk about the goalscorers on the biggest stage of all – the World Cup.
Anytime goalscorer tips generate plenty of interest, especially with the tournament’s expanded format introducing new strikers and goalgetters from around the world.
Of course, even casual fans will know that stars like Kylian Mbappe, Erling Haaland and Harry Kane will be favourites to score in any given game, with World Cup betting sites shortening the odds on the names everyone knows.
The real value sits with bettors who look at role and matchup rather than reputation. That’s why here at The Standard we have taken a look to give you the information you need.
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On this page, you can find tips for goal scorer betting for the 2026 World Cup, covering anytime, last, multiple, and first goalscorer wagers on betting sites.
Teams spend a lot of time working out how to score goals and how to stop the other team’s biggest threats. The art of picking a goalscorer can be tricky, but the anytime goalscorer market is all about maximising your chances whilst betting.
Tips for picking a goalscorer bet
Of course, the obvious choices are strikers, but there is more nuance. Keep in mind the following when examining a player’s potential to score:
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Consider whether a player is entrusted with taking penalties and free-kicks – opportunities for a shot at goal.
Do they take corners. If your selection is whipping in crosses into the box, he is unlikely to be scoring at corners!
A player’s expected role and minutes must also be considered. Cristiano Ronaldo might be Portugal’s biggest threat, but he’s unlikely to play the full 90 minutes.
Stats such as the opposition’s defensive record.
Recent form signals like xG, amount of shots, and conversion rate.
Fixture content. Is the player’s side already qualified or are they fighting to stay alive?
Backing the star striker when a team-mate takes the penalties.
Ignoring late team news on rotation, fitness or illness.
Picking by reputation rather than role.
Backing target men against sides that are good aerially.
Taking short-priced anytime bets when first goalscorer bets can offer better value.
Stacking goalscorer legs in an acca without checking the correlation – e.g backing two players on the same team to score in a tight match.
Using a free bet offer on a short-price options, such as Erling Haaland to score at 5/6. This is not a wise move as you won’t receive the free bet stake back if you win, unlike if you were to use a regular cash balance.
The different types of goalscorer bets
There are eight different types of World Cup goalscorer bet. They are all pretty self-explanatory, but there are a few subtle nuances to each which are worth keeping in mind.
Anytime goalscorer is the safest goalscorer bet, but will be the shortest price, as they have the whole game to score.
First goalscorer is another popular market as bettors wager on who will score first in the match. Beware of team news – if your player doesn’t start, the bet is void.
Last goalscorer is the opposite market – the winner of which can change deep into injury time. Consider a cash out if you’re late into the game and your selection is winning.
Next goalscorer is an in-play goalscorer market that asks who you think will score the next goal in the game.
To score two or more is effectively asking if your selection will score at least twice in the same game. These goals can come anytime, but the need to score two or more bumps up the risk level.
The hat-trick market is closely related, but instead of two goals, you are backing a player to score three.
To score a header lends itself to backing players that are good in the air. This means you could take the shorter odds on a striker that scores a lot from crosses, or take a chance on a defender that comes up for set pieces at far biggger odds.
To score from outside the box is another market based on how a goalscorer will get their goal. Of course, long-range strikes are rare, so the odds are higher.
It can be hard to know what to actually look at when studying candidates for anytime goalscorer tips, so be cautious.
Penalty and set-piece duties, expected goals (xG), shots in the box, shots on target rate, expected minutes, and a player’s role in the team are things to weigh-up when thinking about a potential goalscorer.
But it can be equally as important to consider the opposition’s record against forwards – goals conceded, big-chances conceded, and headers conceded for header markets. Style match-ups may also favour a certain kind of striker – for example, a slow defence or a backline that plays high may struggle against a fast attacker who likes to get in behind.
Whilst some bookmakers may have stats available, free-to-use websites such as Understat and FBref offer in-depth club-level data. The official FIFA 2026 tournament site will provide match-by-match World Cup numbers, whilst reporters on social media platforms will reveal late team news.
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It must be said that tournament samples are small and squad rotation can affect player minutes in ways that don’t show up in club-form data.
Different ways to back a goalscorer
There are four ways you can place goalscorer bets. The most straightforward is as a single before the match, but you could always place a bet in-play, especially if you feel that a player is doing well and looks likely to score.
You can combine goalscorer bets with other markets offered on a single match into a bet builder, boosting the potential returns but with a greater element of risk.
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Similarly, you can combine goalscorer bets across World Cup matches with an accumulator.
Goalscorer offers worth knowing about
Bookmakers will be running various World Cup betting offers during the tournament, some of which will be related to goalscorer markets.
Double Delight and Hat-trick Heaven (Betfred)
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A winning first goalscorer bet pays at double the original price if the player scores again with Betfred’s Double Delight. If that same player completes his hat-trick, punters are in Hat-Trick Heaven and receive trebles the original price . This offer applies to first goalscorer markets only – it does not apply to anytime, last or other types of goalscorer markets.
When you back a player with an anytime goalscorer bet, you hope he plays the full 90 to increase his chances of scoring. However, many different bookmakers offer a variation of Super Sub – which means that a goalscorer bet on a player who is substituted before scoring is automatically carried over to his replacement.
If the substitute scores, the bet is marked as a winner. If the player scores before being subbed off, the original first goalscorer bet still wins.
Super Sub is Paddy Power’s flagship version, but similar promotions are available at bet365, William Hill and Sky Bet.
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Although very similar, there is a difference between an accumulator and a bet builder. Accas are selections spread across multiple events, whilst a bet builder is a bet with different markets on the same match. Accumulator offers can boost the value of a goalscorer bet, if included as part of a multiple. Acca winnings boosts from bookmakers such as bet365, BetUK, and BetMGM can increase your acca payout by up to 200 per cent.
BOYLE Sports’ Acca Rewards – either winnings boosts or acca insurance – and Acca Loyalty, which provides a free £5 acca when placing 5 x £5 accumulators, means that the bookmaker is a strong option for goalscorer accumulators.
Some bookmakers also offer winnings boosts for bet builders, which can include goalscorer bets. NetBet run bet and get promotions for bet builder wagers where punters can claim a free bet when they wager a certain amount on a bet builder.
Everyone has strong opinions on VAR – especially if a review cancels a goal for your selection that would have won you a bet. However, LiveScore Bet and Virgin Bet run a unique offer – VAR payout.
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On selected goalscorer markets – First Goalscorer, Anytime Goalscorer, Player to Score 2/3/4 Goals, and To Score or Assist – the bet still pays as a winner if the player’s goal is disallowed by VAR at any stage of the match. Only pre-match bets are eligible, but singles, multis and Bet Builder all qualify.
There are 1,248 players heading to the World Cup to play 104 games for 48 different teams. As such, goalscorer markets are no sure bet.
Betting sites can help you enjoy the World Cup, but only via gambling responsibly. It can be easy to be swept up in the excitement of the World Cup, leading to losses and emotions being chased.
Gambling should never be treated as a source of income. Set a budget per match or per round, and make sure to never bet more than you can afford.
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Betting websites will provide gambling tools such as deposit, loss, and time limits.
Anytime goalscorer tips – FAQs
What is an anytime goalscorer bet?
Simply, your selected player needs to score at any point in the 90 minutes plus stoppage time. Note that own goals don’t count. If the player you backed doesn’t play in the game, some bookmakers will mark the bet as void and stakes are returned.
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What happens if my anytime goalscorer doesn’t start?
The standard with bookmakers means that bets stand on anytime goalscorer markets if the player makes the pitch at any point – even if they are subbed on for one minute. If they don’t come on at all, the bet is void and the stake is refunded. This is in contrast to first goalscorer, where non-starters are usually voided after kick-off regardless.
Do own goals count for an anytime goalscorer bet?
No, own goals don’t count, even if your player technically caused the deflection. The goal must be officially credited to your player by the competition’s recording body. Note that VAR reassignments after the match can affect settlement at some operators.
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Which gives the best value: anytime, first or last goalscorer?
Anytime goalscorer provides the safest entry point, as you will have the whole game for your selection to come through. First goalscorer markets will have higher odds, as will last goalscorer bets. In-play betting may impact the price of odds, as well as the type of player, or even the fixture each market is covering.
We aim to offer every online gambler and reader of The Standard a safe and fair platform through unbiased reviews and offers from the UK’s best online gambling companies.
Gambling can be addictive, always play responsibly and only bet what you can afford to lose. Gambling sites have a number of tools to assist you to stay in control, including deposit limits and time outs. If you think you have a problem, advice and support is available for you now from BeGambleAware or Gamcare.
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Buffy the Vampire Slayer star Sarah Michelle Gellar has paid a heartfelt tribute to her on-screen mentor, actor Anthony Head
Buffy the Vampire Slayer star Sarah Michelle Gellar has posted a moving tribute to actor Anthony Head on Instagram, leaving fans heartbroken.
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The British actor, celebrated for playing Buffy’s mentor Rupert Giles throughout all seven series of the beloved fantasy programme, passed away aged 72 following complications from pneumonia.
He died peacefully with his family by his side. His daughters, actresses Emily and Daisy Head, released a statement saying: “It has been, and forever will be, an honour and a privilege to be his daughters, and to have witnessed firsthand the impact both he and his work have had on so many.
“We know how dearly he will be missed by friends, colleagues, and fans of the shows he was in – he loved his job very much, and he always considered himself incredibly lucky, to have been able to work alongside such exceptionally talented people, in such wonderful productions, across a career that spanned several decades”, reports the Mirror.
Gellar has added her voice to those honouring the cherished actor with an Instagram post containing multiple behind-the-scenes photographs of Head alongside the Buffy ensemble.
Referencing the show, she posted: “‘Tell Giles I figured it out and I’m ok’ Well I don’t have it figured out and I’m not ok.
“But I know I’m the lucky one because I knew you. Thank you to Daisy and Emily who not only shared their dad with me, but with the world.”
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Her post today (Friday, 5th June) was instantly flooded with messages of sympathy from supporters.
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One admirer responded: “Im so sorry for your loss Sarah, the whole world is missing their Watcher right now that’s for sure.”
Another person wrote: “This has been a rough couple years for the buffyverse. My heart is just broken.”
A third said: “Absolutely heartbroken. Giles was the father figure that so many of us never had.”
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And one final supporter penned: “My heart is broken we lost a true angel.”
Head’s subsequent roles included his antagonistic turn in Apple TV’s popular sports comedy Ted Lasso, Bill in Motherland, and Lord Sheffield in an episode of Netflix’s Bridgerton.
Buffy the Vampire Slayer is available to stream on Disney+ and ITVX.
Morgan Rogers and Julian Alvarez have both linked with moves to the Emirates Stadium, while there has been significant updates regarding their pursuit of Jeremy Monga and Eli Junior Kroupi. Liverpool, meanwhile, have confirmed the appointment of Andoni Iraola as head coach and are hopeful of making Yan Diomande their first signing. Man United are set to sign Ederson after reaching an agreement with Atalanta for a £35million deal, but are said to have shelved contract talks with captain Bruno Fernandes.
The woman was stopped from boarding a flight after refusing to pay for excess baggage, but stormed her way onboard and reportedly sank her teeth into a police officer’s arm
A passenger allegedly bit a police officer after sparking chaos on a plane when she refused to pay for excess baggage.
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The woman ignored airline staff who stopped her from boarding a low-cost JetSmart flight after her hand luggage was found to be overweight.
Instead of resolving the issue at the gate, she reportedly slipped past checks and boarded flight JA 3104 anyway, just minutes before it was due to depart from Buenos Aires for Cordoba.
Airport police were called to remove her from the plane – but officers faced a struggle inside the cabin. During the confrontation, the passenger allegedly sank her teeth into the right arm of a female assistant officer as fellow travellers watched on.
Videos filmed by passengers captured the dramatic scenes as officers struggled to restrain the woman inside the cabin, with some people applauding as she was finally escorted off the aircraft.
The incident happened at Jorge Newbery Airpark in Buenos Aires, Argentina on Tuesday. The woman was treated for minor injuries at the airport’s medical centre following her arrest.
The flight was delayed briefly before eventually departing.
JetSmart had been carrying out strict hand-luggage checks at the gate, even asking passengers to remove jackets to prevent hidden items. The airline has not issued a public statement on the matter.
Argentina’s National Criminal and Correctional Federal Court No. 3 has ordered the woman’s detention and taken statements from the injured officer, a shift supervisor and JetSmart crew members who witnessed the incident.
No formal charges have yet been announced and the case remains under judicial review.
President Donald Trump issued a memo Friday that calls for the U.S. military and national security agencies to accelerate their use of artificial intelligence, while acknowledging the need to protect civil liberties and maintain oversight over autonomous weapon systems.
The memo comes at a time of growing anxiety over AI in American society, from replacing people’s jobs to helping to identify targets on the battlefield. The Trump administration has been pushing to unleash the power of AI for the U.S. military, while some military leaders and companies that contract with the Pentagon have been noting caution and calling for guardrails.
Trump’s memo addressed much of his Cabinet, including the secretaries of defense and homeland security as well as the attorney general and director of national intelligence.
Trump is requiring an updated directive on autonomous weapon systems to account for AI’s rapidly evolving capabilities. It directs the Department of Defense “to ensure the deliberate adoption of AI systems that respect the chain of command and operational authorities.”
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The current directive, issued in 2023 under the Biden administration, states that such weapons systems will be designed “to allow commanders and operators to exercise appropriate levels of human judgment over the use of force,” according to the Congressional Research Service.
Trump’s memo also restricts the use of AI to “censor free speech, embed ideological bias, or conduct unlawful surveillance against the American people.”
“The use of AI by the national security enterprise must always be consistent with United States civil liberties and protections afforded by the Constitution and laws and regulations safeguarding the privacy of American citizens,” the memo states.
The Defense Department has already been accelerating its use of AI in recent years. The technology can help reduce the time it takes to identify and strike a target, while aiding in the mundane tasks of organizing equipment maintenance, supply lines and other logistics.
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But concerns about protecting civil liberties and human oversight of autonomous weapon systems have drawn increasing attention. They’re at the center of a dispute that erupted this year as the Pentagon seeks to leverage the power of American tech companies to boost the military’s AI capabilities.
The company Anthropic said it wanted assurances in its contract that the military would not use its technology in fully autonomous weapons and the surveillance of Americans. Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth said the company must allow for any uses the Pentagon deemed lawful.
Anthropic sued after Trump tried to stop all federal agencies from using the company’s chatbot Claude and Hegseth sought to label the company a supply chain risk, a designation meant to protect against sabotage of national security systems by foreign adversaries.
Concerns about military use of AI arose during Israel’s war against militants in Gaza and Lebanon, with U.S. tech giants quietly empowering Israel to track targets. But the number of civilians killed also soared, fueling fears that these tools contributed to the deaths of innocent people.
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U.S. military leaders who attended an annual special forces conference in Tampa, Florida, spoke about the benefits of AI as well as the need for human safeguards.
Adm. Frank Bradley, head of U.S. Special Operations Command, told attendees that troops “have to be very careful about how we come to (AI’s) employment and its inspiration into the delivery of lethality.”
Bradley said he can see a future where AI determines what targets to hit but that “we, as humans, have to have the confidence that … it’s going to deliver violence only where we intend it to be delivered.”
The One Show presenters Alex Jones and Roman Kemp paid tribute to two stars during Friday’s BBC programme.
20:17, 05 Jun 2026Updated 20:19, 05 Jun 2026
The One Show hosts Alex Jones and Roman Kemp have paid their respects to two prominent figures.
The presenters fronted Friday’s BBC programme, welcoming Kelly Cates, Josh O’Connor and Eve Hewson to the studio, along with a live performance from Myles Smith.
Following Kelly’s discussion about the forthcoming World Cup, and Josh and Eve’s conversation about Steven Spielberg’s new sci-fi film Disclosure Day, the hosts paused to honour Kanya King and Anthony Head.
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Just before Myles took to the stage, Roman said: “On the subject of music, we’ve got to mention the sad news today that the founder of the Mobo Awards, an event Myles has performed at, Kanya King, has died at the age of 57.
“And we’re also thinking of the much loved actor Anthony Head who has died at the age of 72,” reports the Mirror.
“Our thoughts go out to their family and friends.”
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Alex concurred, “Absolutely,” before transitioning to a segment about an event taking place in Manchester this weekend celebrating the life of Ricky Hatton following his death last year.
Mobo Awards founder King has been remembered as a “visionary” who “changed the face of culture and music”, with her passing at 57 confirmed earlier today.
The Mobo Organisation released a statement confirming that King had passed away following “a courageous and characteristically determined battle with colon cancer”.
Buffy The Vampire Slayer and Ted Lasso actor Anthony Head has also passed away, aged 72.
“He passed away peacefully of complications due to pneumonia, surrounded by his family,” his daughters Emily and Daisy said.
Their statement continued: “It has been, and forever will be, an honour and a privilege to be his daughters, and to have witnessed firsthand the impact both he and his work have had on so many.”
Meanwhile on The One Show, Kelly provided an update on her father Sir Kenny Dalglish’s health, following his announcement earlier in the week that he was receiving treatment for cancer.
During the programme, Alex asked Kelly: “We have to, of course, your dad, Sir Kenny Dalglish. So sorry that he’s unwell at the minute, but he must be looking forward to watching Scotland? He knows how to score for Scotland!”
Kelly responded: “Yeah, he scored in 1978 when I was a very small child. I don’t remember this one, but again it was one of those middle of the night World Cups that everybody was staying up for.
“I know it’s not ideal for people but it is a real event, everybody goes into school the next day and they’re exhausted, there’s all the drama and waiting up.
“The pubs are going to be kept open late so everyone can watch it. I think, in his 70s Scotland’s 2am kick off might be a push for him but he’ll get there!”
The One Show airs weeknights from 7pm on BBC One and iPlayer.
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He was from Arizona, and went on to explain how people in the US don’t fall over themselves to apologise all the time like we do.
It’s true – we Brits are always keen to say sorry, often when it isn’t our fault. An hour previously I had said sorry to a woman who flung her backpack in my face while barging across a crowded rail platform – a ‘sorry’ hotspot. “Why did you apologise to her?” my husband asked.
He says sorry far less than I do, but then he is half Dutch, so maybe that explains it. I’m 100 per cent British and I apologise for almost everything. If someone steps on my foot I’ll say sorry. If someone lets a door slam in my face I’ll say sorry. In public settings I will often say: “Sorry, is this seat taken?,” when it clearly isn’t.
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It drives my husband mad. “Sorry, but I bought these raspberries yesterday and they are all black underneath” I said while returning them to a supermarket last week. He told me: “Why are you sorry – they sold you rotten produce, you are entitled to return them.”
He’s always telling me to stop over-apologising for things that are not my fault.
I even apologise when I call helplines. “I’m sorry to bother you,” I will ask, while speaking with customer services.
British people say sorry on average nine times a day, according to research carried out last year by Babbel, a German language learning app. I would put the true figure at double that, for me at least.
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In her book of English culture, Watching the English, social anthropologist Kate Fox identified a uniquely ‘English sorry reflex’. As part of her research she deliberately bumped into hundreds of people and intentionally jumped queues in towns and cities across England to record reactions. She encouraged colleagues to do the same while overseas, for comparison.
Fox found that around 80 per cent of English victims said sorry, even though the collisions were clearly her fault. Compared to when tourists from other countries were bumped, the difference was marked. Fox points out that only the Japanese have a similar culture, often leaving foreigners baffled by the constant apologies.
Saying sorry is definitely more a woman thing. In my experience females apologise far more often, and for far more trivial things. I believe it’s a sign of low self-confidence. We want to leave a good impression with others, so cover our backs by apologising. But in reality it works the other way, people don’t tend to respect those who constantly say sorry. They see us as weak, especially in the workplace.
But, of course, it’s a vital word in polite society. The well-known saying ‘Never explain, never apologise’ – attributed to the 19th-century British Prime Minister Benjamin Disraeli – would make for a very unlikeable person.
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Nowadays, politicians and others in high office are constantly being asked to say sorry.
Saying sorry is also a way of protecting ourselves, avoiding potential conflict. We live in hostile times, on a planet populated by many rude, aggressive people and the desire to avoid that at all cost is lodged within our consciousness.
Online, there’s no shortage of analysis over why we British apologise so often, and a host of theories as to why we do it. There’s no definitive answer, so if you expected to find one in this column, I’m sorry.
Mohammad Bashir, aged 31 and from Shaftsbury Road in Manchester, appeared at the Old Bailey on Friday (June 5) and pleaded guilty to preparing terrorist acts.
Jonathan Polnay KC, prosecuting, said: “In these circumstances, the court could pass a sentence on Bashir that reflects the seriousness of the offending behaviour.”
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