Geeta Sharma, who used to run SGF in Ferryhill which later became a Go Local, tragically died on Saturday, April 11, at the age of 67.
Geeta, who was married to husband Satish, known as Simon, was diagnosed with Motor Neurone Disease (MND) shortly after retiring in September 2023.
Alongside being at the helm of the Ferryhill shop, Geeta was also a devoted mum to six children, Nickyta, Poonam, Sheena, Misha, Karishma and Shivam.
Her daughter Sheena, 39, has paid tribute to her mum.
Sheena said her mum was ‘loving’ and ‘selfless’ (Image: SHEENA SHARMA)
She said: “She was more like a friend than a mum. She was really approachable with any problems we had; you were never ashamed to go to her for any advice or guidance.
“She was really loving and selfless. She always put us first and sacrificed so much in her life for all of us. She was always pushing us to do our best; she always used to say if we were one step ahead of her, she knew she succeeded in life.
“My little brother, Shivam, was the last one to graduate and she was so proud she had managed to get all the children through education.
“Shop life isn’t easy; it’s hard work and a lot of hours. We didn’t come from a very fortunate background, so we did struggle. But although my mum and dad struggled, they always put us first.”
Sheena’s parents owned the shop for more than 30 years and when they retired they moved to the Midlands – but not before the Ferryhill community threw a street party.
Geeta with her husband and six children (Image: SHEENA SHARMA)
Sheena said: “My mum and dad hadn’t just seen families grow up, but even saw their children have children. They were very much integrated within the community.
“The shop was like a central hub for a lot of people; it wasn’t just a place where people bought things. If anyone had any problems or concerns, it was a bit of a drop-in place.”
Sheena, who lives in Darlington, described her mum is being selfless.
She said: “My mum didn’t see her own mum for 16 years and when they could finally afford to go back to India, my mum sent me and my two older sisters. She was completely selfless.”
Geeta, who was originally from India, moved to the UK with her husband Satish, who was born in Nairobi, Kenya, in 1979. And Geeta was known for hosting an incredible Christmas.
Geeta was diagnosed with Motor Neurone Disease in September 2023 (Image: SHEENA SHARMA)
Geeta and Satish got married in India in 1979 (Image: SHEENA SHARMA)
“We all used to love Christmas, my mum would make it really special,” she said.
“Although we are Indian and Hindu, my parents wanted to integrate with where we lived. Christmas was always a big thing around ours. Other people used to feel confused that we would still celebrate Christmas in the same way.
“Our parents didn’t want us to feel isolated, but she would always make it really special. She was a really good cook.”
Geeta’s food was so good that people would always know when she was cooking. She would also cook curries for her customers too.
Geeta and Satish moved to the Midlands in September 2023, but Sheena said the North East was always home for her mum.
Geeta and Satish owned a shop in Ferryhill for more than 30 years (Image: SHEENA SHARMA)
“She would always ask me to connect with some of the customers, she used to love TikTok and Facebook. She’d send the customers messages and always wanted to hear how they were doing,” she said.
“She always used to say the North East felt like home. I think a large part of her heart was left in the North East.
“She missed everyone. The people in Ferryhill are so nice, they have a big heart. We didn’t realise how fortunate we were until we moved away to be surrounded by people like that.”
Following her MND diagnosis, Sheena said the entire family were devastated.
She said: “We were not fully aware of what MND was until mum was diagnosed, it is a really cruel condition. It takes everything away from a patient apart from the cognitive functions in the eyes.
A family wedding (Image: SHEENA SHARMA)
“She never had the time to enjoy life after working. She was really sad when we moved to the Midlands that she was not ever able to go back to Ferryhill to see the locals and the customers because of her mobility.”
And Sheena said the family were “astonished” at how many people had commented on her mum’s passing.
“It has been really nice that so many people, who we have been away from for a couple of years, still have a lot of love and respect for my mum.
“It shows how much she meant to the community and how many customers valued going into the shop to see her.
“We call her the queen of our family, but she literally was a little queen. She melted everyone’s heart.”
Following the news of her death, Ferryhill residents paid tribute to the much-loved former shop owner.
One said: “Such a big part of Dean Bank. Sending love to you all at this sad time, absolutely lovely lady. RIP Geeta.”
Another added: “So sorry to hear this. Geeta was lovely always had a smile for you, condolences to Simon & family.”
One resident said she would be missed by “so many”, adding: “I am thinking of you all at this difficult time. It is an honour to have had you in my life and I know we will cross paths again upon our reincarnation Geeta.”
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