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WATCH: Shy Mandelson Asked if He Is a Flight Risk
Watching hacks tried a few questions on Mandelson, now out on bail, as he left his home and entered a waiting black cab. No dice…
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Justin Bieber Coachella Reviews: Critics Say Week 2 Was A ‘Level Up’
After dividing opinion with his set at Coachella earlier this month, Justin Bieber’s second consecutive week headlining at the US festival has been much better received.
Just over a week ago, the Canadian star sparked a heated debate on social media after a stripped-back performance on the Coachella stage on Saturday 11 April, which included him seated at a laptop scrolling through his old hits on YouTube and singing along for one portion.
It is worth pointing out, though, that while there were plenty of headlines about the supposed controversy over Justin’s Coachella show, many critics were quick to praise the show immediately after it ended, with several claiming that his detractors had “missed” the “point” of what Justin had set out to do.

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Over the weekend, the Beauty And A Beat singer returned to Coachella for the second week of the festival, where the reaction to his set was much more unanimous.
USA Today claimed that Justin was much “more at ease” during his second performance, claiming that the Grammy winner “managed to outdo himself by settling onto the stage with confidence, having fun with fans and bringing out an onslaught of guests”.
Variety’s review agreed that Justin had “brought out the big guns” for week two, while Consequence Of Sound wrote that the singer “levelled up”.
Over on Reddit, a popular discussion also suggested the set may have “the biggest [week one to week two] improvement” in Coachella history.
Justin’s second set was packed with even more surprise guests than his first, perhaps most notably SZA, who joined her former collaborator to perform their song Snooze.
Meanwhile, Billie Eilish also made an unscheduled on-stage appearance as Justin sang his early hit One Less Lonely Girl, which he often used to dedicate to a different fan each night on tour.
Billie – who has made no secret of her Belieber status – wrote on Instagram that she could “not stop crying” after the viral moment.
A night earlier, Sabrina Carpenter also headlined Coachella for the second time, where she was joined on stage by Madonna, unveiling a new duet with the Queen of Pop as well as performing some of her signature hits.
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Ex-Labour candidate gives support to Green Party “where change does happen”
Ex-Labour candidate Faiza Shaheen has given her support to the Green Party in an interview with Laura Kuenssberg. Recognising that the majority of people wish to live in a society that cares for each other, Shaheen says people are choosing the Greens because it is where they can find real change.
The May 7 local elections are turning into a stark, polarised battle at the ballot between Reform UK and the Green Party. Polls regularly swing back and forth, signalling a sharp divide in the electorate.
As a result, voters face a stark choice between two fundamentally different visions for the country: one rooted in hope and solidarity, the other in division that pulls communities further apart.
.@faizashaheen: "I support the Greens.. everyone sees the rot in the political system, typified by Mandelson.. no politician is delivering for people.. lots of people are turning to the Greens.. we want to live in a country where we care for each other, where change does happen" pic.twitter.com/ECXSwZKkOC
— Saul Staniforth (@SaulStaniforth) April 19, 2026
Faiza Shaheen: “everyone sees the rot in the political system”
Faiza Shaheen quit the Labour Party in 2024 after being deselected as a candidate in the General Election for Chingford and Woodford Green. At the time, Shaheen described the decision as “cruel and devastating” stating that she was being punished for detailing her experiences of Islamophobia within Labour. Going further, she confronted the blatant hierarchy of racism at play, which also worked to prevent her speaking out against the genocide on Gaza.
Subsequently, Shaheen stood as an independent and came close behind the chosen Labour candidate. Nevertheless, Tory and austerity champion Iain Duncan Smith won the election following the clear split in the progressive vote.
Since then, Shaheen now appears to be in support of the Green Party. It is worth noting that the Greens have been much more forthcoming in their solidarity with Palestinians and their public condemnations of the genocide on Gaza. This is likely to add to Shaheen’s support for the party, however she goes further and argues the party will change the way that our politics is done.
Her interview response in full:
Laura Kuenssberg: These elections, Faiza, are going to be absolutely enormous. Why do you think people like you used to be in the Labour Party and other people are turning away, many of them to the Greens. And I know you’re interested perhaps in the Greens these days?
Faiza Shaheen: No, I, you know, I support the Greens. But I, yeah, absolutely. And it’s because everyone sees this political rot in the system, typified by Mandelson, but not just that. And also that… Yeah, no politician is delivering for people, people’s pockets and material well-being. They’ve forgotten that in all this political drama.
And so absolutely, lots of people are turning to the Greens and are also really fed up with the kind of divisive politics that we heard just there from Robert Jenrick. And we want to live in a country where people are cared for, where we care for each other, compassionate type of politics, where actually change does happen.
Green Party is closing the gap
Indeed, Shaheen is right – the choice really is between compassionate politics or politics of division which seeks to hurt the most vulnerable in our communities. Leaders might not see it in their Westminster bubbles, but people are overwhelmingly turning to hope. The Green Party is massively increasing its membership numbers as it closes the gap with Reform UK, with latest reports of 216,000 members.
One X user commented on Shaheen’s response, stating:
@faizashaheen
is correct & embodies everything the @UKLabour party SHOULD stand for (and did do under Corbyn). But Liar Starmer transformed Labour into a Red Tory party with extra racism.#VoteGreen for progressive policies for the 99%.
Join @TheGreenPartyHope is here now
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Others have highlighted that Shaheen’s public choice to lend support to the Greens just further underscores the absolute failure of Your Party:
Your Party is just absolutely dead in the water if even Fazia Shaheen has joined the Green Party https://t.co/rZGuJRt5Bx
— liv






(@liveraldemocrat) April 19, 2026
It is time to choose – hope or hate.
Shaheen’s public commitment to support the Green Party, who she once competed against, is indicative of the choice many are facing across the country. Many have had concerns about the Green’s broad church membership and the future potential for a repeat of Corbyn’s Labour in 2019. Those concerns appear to be waning.
On the other hand, a clearer priority now appears to override those doubts: keep the far right out of local government. Your Party’s failure to deliver on its promises only makes that choice easier. After nearly two decades of austerity and underinvestment, communities are already under strain – voters deserve more than words; they deserve actual results.
After all, a Reform UK–run council would serve no one but its wealthy backers, as its record in Kent has already shown. As Shaheen argues, only a vote for the Greens can deliver real change rooted in compassion.
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Ireland’s president calls for UN renewal to ‘save us from hell’
Ireland’s president Catherine Connolly has told a gathering of largely progressive leaders that they must cooperate to fight back against a growing tide of “might is right”.
Speaking at the Defence of Democracy conference in Barcelona, Connolly offered a defence of the UN as the best available means to achieve this, even if, “the United Nations was not created in order to bring us to heaven, but in order to save us from hell,” she said, quoting ex-UN secretary general, Dag Hammarskjöld.
Hell is precisely what so-called ‘Israel’ promised repeatedly to unleash on Gaza and has proceeded to do so through its genocidal campaign there. The US and the Zionist entity have inflicted similar unspeakable carnage on much of West Asia. They have committed these atrocities while constantly dismissing and denouncing the UN, and attacking its institutions.
These include Zionist land thieves’ attempts to destroy the United Nations Relief and Works Agency for Palestine Refugees in the Near East (UNRWA). Washington has sought to use sanctions to wreck another body for international cooperation and accountability — the International Criminal Court (ICC) — which tries those accused of war crimes.
The efforts these mass murderers have put into attacking the UN shows it does have the potential to be an obstacle to grotesque violations of human rights. Zionist butchers have frequently declared how crucial the destruction of the UNRWA is to their efforts to exterminate or drive out Palestinians from their land.
‘Ireland knows what imperial brutality looks like’
Connolly then said:
Ireland is uniquely placed to offer a valuable perspective as a neutral, post-famine, post-colonial republic, and I am conscious that many in this room share that post-colonial experience.
Not entirely post-colonial, of course, given the north of the island is still occupied by Britain, albeit less so than previously. That being said, Ireland was indeed a testing ground for many of the horrors being unleashed today. Britain spent several hundred years testing its imperial methods in Ireland, including mass murder, destruction of crops and property, and enforced famine.
The modern incarnations of these crimes have been allowed to happen by too many nations being ready to cow-tow to the global hegemon, the US. They have been happy to kiss the godfather’s hand and reap whatever transient benefits this sycophancy granted them. They have done this rather than acting collectively in their own interests, and those of global justice, by bolstering international institutions.
Connolly alluded to this when she said the UN has waned:
…through accommodation, through the quiet retirement of inconvenient principles, and through our collective willingness to treat violations by powerful states as exceptional cases rather than the precedents they have become. Each time a violation was absorbed without consequence, the threshold for the next one was raised.
The Irish president certainly managed to piss off the right people by attending the event. The Irish Times launched a protocol-bore themed hit piece on Connolly, claiming she had:
…triggered official and political unease over her first overseas trip…
Quoting ever reliable and highly accountable anonymous sources, they say “officials” would rather she had visited London on her first trip outside Ireland. The main pearl-clutching seems to centre on Connolly not maintaining presidential neutrality amid:
…a flurry of concern in Dublin that Connolly could sign declarations arising from the conference which could run contrary to Government policy.
Head of state has a right to warn on dangers of growing lawlessness
You’d have to wonder quite how long the Irish Times and these mysterious hand-wringing officials think a head of state should wait before speaking up.
If the current wave of barbarism were to be left untamed to the point it reached Ireland’s doorstep, would we expect the Irish president to remain tight-lipped? If not, then why should we expect silence when people thousands of miles away are enduring a holocaust? Do they not count too?
The journalistic standards of the legacy media outlet are about as robust as their morals. They claim the event should have been off limits due to it “not being attended by the UK and the US”.
Aside from the obvious question — why the fuck Ireland should wait for British or American permission before doing something? — this claim is false. British deputy prime minister and seasoned war criminal, David Lammy, managed to slither his way into the event. We know this by the deafening clanging sound that could be heard when he said, without a trace of self-awareness:
We’re meeting at a time of extraordinary challenge globally with rising prices as a result of conflict once again in the Middle East.
That being the “conflict” — aka US and Israeli-led war crimes — which Britain has massively contributed to.
When it comes to international institutions, Britain’s most notable recent contribution has been its attempts to destroy the ICC. This occurred when David Cameron threatened lead prosecutor, Karim Khan.
If the UN is to become a genuinely effective institution, it will be Connolly’s words that must be heeded rather than those of a man whose actions have served to further undermine it.
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LIVE: Farage and Yusuf Announce Review of Granted Asylum Claims
Nigel Farage and Yusuf are in Millbank Tower “to announce new plans to reverse illegal migration.” Reform says it will review all asylum claims granted in the last five years. It expects to make 400,000 liable for deportation with the plans…
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No one will admit it, but we’re all secretly fighting for the spot of the best hostess.
Especially when it comes to summer – there are way too many outdoor dining opportunities to pass up to not have your garden ready for any social event you can think of.
It’s all part of the experience of summer: sipping on a glass of wine or Aperol, picking at various carbs, veggies and dips, and giggling late into the evening.
Just like any other occasion, you want to look cute while you’re doing it, and that includes giving your table a makeover ahead of all the guests that will soon be flooding it.
So whether you’re more of a barbecue, brunch, or boozy gathering type host, we’ve found all of the tableware you need to accessorise your garden get togethers this summer.
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The House | Families In Greatest Need Of Social Housing Wait Years In Some Areas, Data Reveals

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A data investigation by The House has revealed that those with the greatest needs are being forced to wait years for social housing, leaving families in a miserable limbo. Chaminda Jayanetti reports
People with the greatest housing needs are waiting months or even years in the highest priority bands of councils’ social housing registers in many parts of England, according to data compiled by The House.
In some local authorities, people in the highest priority band are placed in social housing after waits of more than two years. Among those in this band who have not yet been rehoused the waits are even longer.
Recent years have seen many reports of overall waiting times for social housing lasting many years in parts of London, but these tend to cover everyone on the waiting list, including people in low priority bands.
Figures obtained by The House under the Freedom of Information (FOI) Act focus specifically on people in each council’s highest priority band – which are meant to cater to the most severe housing needs – and separately those in each council’s second-highest priority band.
The figures show that applicants who were placed in social housing by 147 councils in 2024-25 had on average spent 319 days – around 10 months – in their council’s highest housing priority band. In 40 council areas the average wait in the highest priority band was more than a year.
Among applicants who had not been rehoused at the point that councils responded to the FOI request, the average wait in the highest priority band was 551 days and counting – around a year and a half – across the 152 councils that supplied this data.
The average wait in councils’ second-highest priority bands was 501 days for applicants who were placed in social housing in 2024-25, and 669 days for applicants who were not rehoused.
Overall, there are around 300 councils in England responsible for maintaining housing registers, the waiting lists for social housing.
Deborah Garvie, policy manager at housing charity Shelter, says the long wait times are due to the “absolutely chronic shortage” of social rent homes.
“In some areas a lot of the households on the waiting list will be families that need family homes. So, if most of what comes up [as available] is one-bedroom flats, that’s not going to be suitable for them, particularly where people might need a larger family home.”
“People on the housing register often have extremely limited options for rehousing and can spend years in unsuitable or overcrowded accommodation with very little clarity on when, or if, their situation will improve,” adds Niki Lampaski, a housing activist in Hackney. “That creates a constant sense of living in limbo.”
“Being stuck on social housing waiting lists means putting our lives on hold for months and years,” says Laura Vicinanza of disabled people’s organisation Inclusion London. “The consequence is living in homes that do not meet our needs. Homes where we struggle to get in and out of the front door. Homes where we cannot access basic facilities like kitchens and bathrooms.”
“For families with disabled children, the situation can be particularly distressing,” Lampaski adds. “When medical or disability needs are involved, families often have to repeatedly evidence and re-explain the extent of their child’s condition through assessments, reviews and appeals. This leads to long periods of back and forth with the council, adding further barriers and delays with little prospect of resolution.”
Separate data published by the Ministry of Housing, Communities and Local Government (MHCLG) shows that the percentage of new mainstream social housing lettings that went to people who’d been on the waiting list for less than a year fell in 2024/25 to 50.7 per cent, its lowest level since the data was first published in 2018/19.
There’s the impact of conditions in temporary accommodation… often very cramped, with families living in one room, having to share beds
Garvie says long waits for social housing mean families who have been made homeless get stuck in often unsuitable temporary accommodation for extended periods – which brings its own knock-on costs.
“A lot of temporary accommodation doesn’t have access to Wi-Fi, there are no laundry facilities so you’re having to pay for laundry, there’s often no or inadequate cooking facilities so you can’t bulk buy food or batch cook, or in some cases you’re having to buy takeaways and ready meals which are obviously very expensive,” she says.
“And then there’s the impact of conditions in temporary accommodation as well – often very cramped, with families living in one room, having to share beds.”
Greenwich has among the longest waiting times of those councils that supplied figures. Excluding backdated cases, 33 applicants were rehoused into social housing in 2024/25 having spent on average 1,748 days – more than four and a half years – in the council’s highest priority band.
Meanwhile Greenwich’s 212 non-backdated applicants in the top band who are still yet to be rehoused have waited 2,703 days on average – nearly seven and a half years – in that highest priority tier.
The extreme length of wait times in Greenwich may be partly because the council’s highest priority tier – Band A in its housing allocation policy – is geared towards people who the council want to rehouse, rather than who necessarily want to be rehoused themselves. This includes social housing tenants who are under-occupying homes with spare bedrooms, and those living in homes with disability-related adaptations they don’t need.
Some councils said in their FOI responses that their average wait times were pushed up by under-occupying social housing tenants who the council placed in the highest priority band in order to free up family homes, but who rarely bid on properties and are reluctant to move despite potentially being hit by the ‘bedroom tax’.
“Lots of people who are affected by it don’t want to lose their home, and so they may not be bidding on homes even if they’re at the top of the list,” says Garvie. “If they are settled and happy in their home and it’s their family home, then they’re going to try and do their best to hang on to their home, like anyone would.”
Instead, it is Greenwich’s second highest priority tier – Band B1 – that covers homeless people, severely overcrowded housing, insanitary living conditions, domestic abuse and hate crime victims, and households with housing-related medical needs. But they too face ominously long waits – excluding backdated cases, average waits in Band B1 were 761 days for applicants who were placed in social housing in 2024/25, and 1,152 days for those yet to be rehoused – more than two years and three years respectively.
A Greenwich Council spokesperson says: “Our multi-million-pound Greenwich Build programme will deliver 1,750 sustainable new homes, with over 588 homes now complete or underway. This programme is the largest for any local authority in the country and we are on course to rehouse around 2,000 households this year.”
In Hastings, applicants who were placed in social housing in 2024/25 had spent 1,042 days on average in Band A, while those still waiting for housing have spent 709 days in the top tier. Hastings’ Band A covers under-occupiers, but also people whose housing conditions present an immediate threat of serious injury or death, or who urgently need to move to significantly improve their medical condition or disability.
Glenn Haffenden, leader of Hastings Borough Council and lead councillor for housing, says: “We have seen record rises in house prices and rents and with Local Housing Allowance failing to rise alongside rents, residents on lower incomes have found it impossible to meet their own need for housing without seeking help from the council.”
The longest wait times are generally in London, the South East and Essex – but average waits of more than a year can also be found in Coventry, Newark and Sherwood, Bradford, East Suffolk, Cornwall, Chesterfield, Birmingham, Nottingham and Trafford, among others.
Some councils ‘backdate’ certain types of social housing applicant, such as children’s care leavers, to boost their chances of being housed. This can make their average wait times seem longer than they really are. The House’s FOI request specifically asked councils to exclude such backdated applications from their figures.
Last year the government announced £39bn in funding for social and affordable housing over 10 years, with an aim of delivering 300,000 homes, with at least 60 per cent at social rents. The announcement was welcomed by Shelter as a “good start”.
A spokesperson for MHCLG says: “We know waiting lists are often far too long and we’re taking action to give people the stability and security they deserve. We’re building 1.5 million homes and investing a record £39bn in social and affordable housing to help councils get spades in the ground.
“This is alongside our changes to right to buy, which will make sure councils can keep hold of desperately needed homes.”
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Would-be-winners claim Reform stiffed them on prize
Reform attracted controversy recently after it conducted a prize giveaway. This upset people for a couple of reasons: the first was that Nigel Farage’s motley crew are supposed to be a political party, not a daytime TV show. The second was that the two winners had a historic connection to Nigel Farage.
The prize in question should have seen Reform paying the electric bill for everyone in the winners’ street for a year. Now, various residents have come forward to claim Farage is stiffing them:
This is just cruel. First you entice people to sign up for something they need to get their personal data and then you only reward those who are already your devoted fans. https://t.co/tWKq40NsaK pic.twitter.com/MsYOYHdIZo
— Stella Tsantekidou (@Stsantek) April 19, 2026
Stiffed by Reform
Obviously the purpose of all this was to grab headlines and make it look like Reform are the anti-nasty party. Odd, then, that they’d decide to leave out some households. This was always going to generate negative press, and now here we are.
This is what widow Angie Ecclestone told reporters:
I thought to myself I’ll believe it when I see it but I didn’t realise I had been excluded and that my neighbours had all received a letter and instructions.
Nigel Farage said the whole street [would be included] but we haven’t heard anything. I am in shock. I am the first house on St Malo Road. It’s the whole street or not the street. I am mortified.
Additionally:
My husband died in August last year and one of my kids has his GCSEs in three weeks.
I have the biggest house in the street. It’s five bedrooms. I pay £400 per month on energy. All the other houses are semi-detached but this one is fully detached. I am really up against it.
We’re unsure why the party decided to leave out Ecclestone, but it seems like they couldn’t have picked a worse person to screw over from a marketing perspective.
Obviously the human element should come before marketing, but let’s be real; Reform aren’t doing this because they’re caring human beings; they’re doing it because they want to look good in the papers.
It doesn’t end with Ecclestone either:
Nigel Farage promised to cover a "whole street’s" energy bills. Now, at least three households say they were excluded and haven’t received a penny. Including the first house of the street.
— Mukhtar (@I_amMukhtar) April 19, 2026
“Absolutely not a Reform fan”
Fraser Hayes is another of the un-rewarded neighbours. In his own words:
I have no qualms about depriving Reform of the money and giving to a local kids’ charity or maybe even the Labour candidate.
[The stunt] is appalling. It’s obviously a data grab. They’re trying to get loads of people to write in and they ask, ‘Who did you vote for last time. Who will you vote for this time?’
I am absolutely not a Reform fan and I am appalled that anyone is.
Did Farage leave Hayes out because he can’t stand them?
And if so, would it not have been smarter to just give him the juice and avoid the bad press?
The third resident is Matt Johnson, who said:
We thought we would hear something from Reform by email or post but at the moment we haven’t heard anything.
I mean if Reform said at the time it would be the whole street, then we feel like we should be included in that.
Our energy bills keep going up and down but they are around £3,500 a year. Having them paid for would make a huge difference.
What we’re seeing here is what the UK will be like under a Reform government.
Farage’s party will sweep in on a wave of big promises, but nothing will happen, and they’ll ignore anyone asking ‘what gives?‘
Thinking ahead
Looking at St Malo Road on Google Maps, there seems to be about 18 properties. You have to wonder what would have happened if the winner lived on a street with some hundred or so detached houses. Would Reform really have paid for every one of them?
We imagine it didn’t consider that, because they don’t seem to have considered anything.
For more on Farage’s party’s chaotic local election campaign, check out the following:
- Reform activist said ‘Hitler was right’.
- Reform candidate wants to ‘tear down’ the NHS.
- Reform UK accused of ‘nil vetting’ as another racist candidate exposed.
- Reform welcome candidate who thanked Putin.
- Day One Reform activist accuses party of ‘sewer’ politics in explosive resignation letter.
- Farage heckled at Reform’s Jimmy Saville-aping London launch.
- Video emerges of Reform’s ‘Nazi salute’ candidate drink driving.
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By Willem Moore
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Autistic Son’s Quirk In Airport Bathroom Riles Up Stranger
As my daughter and I stepped out of our respective stalls in the airport bathroom, I saw my son standing in the corner waiting for us, having come in after he had used the men’s room next door. He has a habit of eloping at airports, so I was relieved to see him.
“Love,” I told him. “Thank you for coming in and waiting for us.” The three of us moved to the sink to wash our hands. That’s when things got weird.
My son has high-functioning autism, what used to be called Asperger’s syndrome, now called autism spectrum disorder, level 1 support. When people look at him, they notice nothing different. When they hear him speak, they are often impressed at his verbal comprehension and articulation (indeed, his IQ is very high in this area). His challenges lay in perseverations (obsessions or ruminations), recognising social cues, and having spatial and environmental awareness.
He received his diagnosis at age 7, in March 2020, days before the COVID shutdowns. Suddenly every resource in our small town was unavailable. We started homeschooling and would continue it long after schools reopened. My son loved our home routine, probably because he got to see the family dog whenever he wanted. He’s always had a special connection to animals (music too).
He’s a seasoned and easy traveler, having taken his first flight at 2 months old, which I’m thankful for. Still, traveling is not without stress. He tends to wander away at airports. Over the years I’ve had several moments of pure fear when I didn’t immediately know where he was. One time, after landing and coming into the airport, he bolted for the bathroom without telling me. Another time he proceeded to try and leave the airport because he didn’t want to wait in the TSA line.
Over the years I’ve accepted that most of the time he lives in another world — his inner dimension. While it’s rich and creative and weird and wonderful, there have been moments where I’ve begged him to live in our world more often, not for my convenience but for his safety. Since, on this day, we were in Los Angeles International Airport, one of the busiest airports in the world, I was on high alert. Because of his relatively young age (11), I didn’t think it was strange that he was in the crowded women’s bathroom with us.
My son also has a fascination with sink and toilet holes. He studies the shape of them, talks about them, wants to see as many of them as he can, both in people’s homes and in public places. It’s always been his way. And, according to him, this particular sink hole in this bathroom at LAX had a unique shape — it was less round and more square than most sink holes.
After retrieving his phone from his pocket, he took a photo of it. That’s when an older woman – one I’d noticed had been watching us – snapped. She was washing her hands in the sink next to where my son was, and I saw her look over at him. She started yelling, “This boy took a picture in the women’s room!” She repeated this loudly for everyone to hear as she dried her hands, as she grabbed her luggage, as she followed us out the door.
I felt a combination of embarrassment and anger at the scene she was making, trying to call attention to my son’s odd but harmless behaviour. She was still repeating it as we all walked out the door: “He took a picture in the women’s room!” Her posture was menacing and meant to be intimidating.
We separated from her and moved to the side of the hallway to regroup. My son and daughter, not fully comprehending what was happening, stood close to me with their suitcases. Even though we were now a few yards away from her, I could still feel her eyes on us, particularly me. I could sense her judgment for allowing such behaviour from my child. I could tell she was waiting for me to berate my son for taking the photo.
What happened next was horrifying. I did exactly what she wanted me to.
Against my gut feeling, which told me my son was innocent, against my understanding of his diagnosis, against my hard-won advocacy of him at school and with medical providers, against my purported assertiveness with strangers and others who may not be conscious of why he behaves the way he does, I scolded him for his actions. I asked him, not in a friendly way, why he chose to take a photo of the sink, even though I knew exactly why. I told him it was inappropriate and that he knew better, even when I knew it wasn’t true, that he didn’t know. I made sure the woman was within earshot. As I went on, my son looked stunned, confused and hurt.
The worst part is that I love his innocence, his youthful quirkiness, his sweet naiveté that sometimes comes with autism. And here I was chipping away at that, all because a stranger assumed the worst of him. I was doing the opposite of what I’ve always done.
The woman’s gaze was gone. She had folded herself into the crowd and disappeared. My son, overwhelmed and teary with emotion, bolted toward our departing gate, which fortunately wasn’t far. I took a breath, took my daughter’s hand and followed my son to the gate. It was there, in our seats waiting for the boarding call, that I apologised. I cried. Never in all of motherhood had I felt so low. I told him I was aghast at my behaviour, that I should have stood up for him, that I knew what he had done was innocent. I asked for forgiveness. I told him to take his time. I am perpetually grateful that I got it.
An hour later in the air, I was still brooding, replaying the scene over and over in my head. I found myself looking for the woman, imagining, relishing in what I’d say to her in a raised voice: that she had no right to yell at us, to shame us, to treat my son as though he was a paedophile. That she had been bullying an autistic boy. See that boy over there? Do you know he has autism? You should be ashamed of yourself.
That last thought gave me pause. Would I really disclose his diagnosis? To what end? Is it her business? Would it have made a difference? Would I be hoping to better explain his behaviour or to make her feel bad? And as my children grow older (my daughter also has autism), I find myself regarding their privacy more, wanting to protect them. Because I constantly wonder if the world will be too much for their sensitive souls. Or perhaps they will be too much for the world.
The diagnosis of “autism” first appeared in 1980 in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual, the bible for all things psychological, under the category of Pervasive Developmental Disorders. Before then, it was considered to be part of schizophrenia. In 1987, the DSM was revised (as it is every five to seven years), and the criteria for the diagnosis was broadened to include more mild symptoms of autism. That, coupled with improved early screening tools and an increased awareness, have led to a perception of a significant rise in the disorder, though it’s actually that we’ve gotten better at recognising it.
In the latest DSM, it is listed as autism spectrum disorder, typically followed by the level of support needed (1 through 3). My children are both level 1, which include accommodations such as extra time to transition between activities, managing perseverations and inflexibility in routine, and navigating pervasive and narrow interests (such as sink holes).
In the end, I arrived at the conclusion that no, I would choose not to disclose his diagnosis to this angry stranger. She didn’t deserve to know. She didn’t deserve an explanation. In a different setting, where emotions weren’t so charged, I might have a different answer.
With my son’s blessing, I wrote this essay to give voice to the fine line that parents of children with autism walk, the line between advocating for our kids and guarding their privacy, the line between explaining and keeping quiet, the line between supporting a need and excusing behaviour. It’s within these nuances where we live day by day, sometimes hour by hour. Sometimes I don’t get the answer right, but all answers come from a place of care and love.
For people who may not have or even know children like mine, I wrote this to encourage more empathy in the world. These days it is too easy to rush to conclusions about a child’s behaviour, judge another’s parenting and shame what is not acceptable to us. I encourage everyone to lean into curiosity and compassion as much as possible, know that we are doing the best job we can, and that our children are amazing people.
As my daughter and I stepped out of our respective stalls in the airport bathroom, I saw my son standing in the corner waiting for us, and I was so proud of him. Going forward, I refuse to feel anything else about him — and I’ll make sure he and everyone else know it.
Lorna Rose is a Pacific Northwest writer and speaker. Her writing has been recognised by Pacific Northwest Writers Association and the Oregon Poetry Association, and has appeared in About Place Journal, Jellyfish Review, Painted Bride Quarterly, Writers Resist, and elsewhere. Previously she has written about raising children with autism for Scary Mommy and Motherwell. Currently an MFA candidate at Augsburg University, Lorna is at work on a memoir about going from L.A. party girl to trail worker in rural Alaska. When not wrangling her two children, she fantasises about being interviewed on NPR’s “Fresh Air.” You can find more about her at www.lornarose.com.
This piece was previously published on HuffPost and is being shared again as part of HuffPost Personal’s “Best Of” series.
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Politics
Lyrid Meteor Shower 2026: Where, How, And When To See It
This April is a good month for stargazers. There’s the “planet parade” of Saturn, Mars, Mercury, and Neptune, ending on the 23rd.
And the Lyrid meteor shower, which started on 16 April and will end on the 25th, is set to show us its most dazzling display this week too.
What is the Lyrid meteor shower?
First recorded in 678 BE, the phenomenon includes debris which once followed in the wake of comet C/1861 G1 Thatcher.
They look from the Earth’s perspective like they’re shooting from the constellation Lyra, right beside the star Vega; hence the name.
It’s not exactly that they’re “shooting” towards from across space, though. We’re passing through the patch of space rubble in our journey around the sun, and we draw in some of the material as we do so.
That means the path of the Earth’s orbit determines the direction the meteors seem to come from.
When they enter our atmosphere, the objects move so fast that they compress the air and heat it, raising their surfaces to 1600°C.
That leaves them with a bright surface as they burn, which looks like a streak to us.
It’s rare for objects in a meteor shower to make it to the Earth’s ground, as most are too small and burn out too quickly. If they do reach us, though, they become “meteorites”.
When can I see the 2026 Lyrid meteor shower in the UK?
It will end on April 25, but the most dazzling displays are expected on Wednesday, 22 April, when the shower peaks.
To get the most out of the meteor shower, look at the dark for 20-30 minutes to help your eyes adjust to the light levels (don’t look at your phone during this period!).
The best shows may come after midnight.
Where can I watch the 2026 Lyrid meteor shower in the UK?
While April’s planet parade will be a lot harder to see in the northern hemisphere than it is in the south, the opposite is true of the Lyrid meteor shower.
If you have access to unobstructed, clear, dark skies, your odds of seeing the event are higher. Beaches, the tops of hills, and fields are all good spots.
How should I watch the 2026 Lyrid meteor shower?
It should be visible to the naked eye.
The longer you look, Space.com noted, the likelier you are to spot something out of this world.
Politics
Nick Robinson Denounces Minister Over Mandelson Scandal
Nick Robinson monstered a cabinet minister over the Peter Mandelson scandal in an extraordinary live radio clash.
The veteran Today programme presenter told Scottish secretary Douglas Alexander it was “frankly preposterous” to claim Keir Starmer knew nothing about the shamed former peer’s business and personal links before making his the UK’s ambassador to Washington.
Mandelson was sacked after just six months in the role after the full extent of his friendship with convicted paedophile Jeffrey Epstein was revealed.
It emerged last week that he was also failed security vetting, allegedly over his lobbying company’s links to China, but was still cleared to take up the job.
The prime minister is facing calls to resign over the scandal and will face MPs in the House of Commons on Monday afternoon to explain himself.
On the Today programme, Alexander insisted the PM had done nothing wrong and had in fact been let down by civil servants.
But Robinson told him: “What more did you need to know? We know that Peter Mandelson had business links with China, we know that he had business links with Russia, we know that he had personal links with Jeffrey Epstein.
“And not only do we know it, the prime minister knew it, because we know as a matter of record that Jonathan Powell, the national security adviser, said ‘this appointment process is weirdly rushed’.
“So why did the prime minister appoint someone without waiting for the vetting?”
Alexander insisted “information was withheld from the prime minister and from other ministers” during the vetting process.
Robinson told him: “To come on the radio and claim that there was any surprise that Peter Mandelson had any links to Jeffrey Epstein, links to China, links to Russia … it is frankly preposterous.”
But the minister said: “The deep vetting process is undertaken specifically to look at information that was not in the public domain.
“If this process really matters, then I think your listeners will reasonably think why wasn’t the outcome of that deep vetting shared with ministers making their decisions?”
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