For prolific nightlife operator Steph Kay, the only way for her to enjoy the type of daytime event that she wanted to attend in the Gay Village was to host it and arrange it herself. So she did.
Almost exactly a year ago, the former manager of legendary 90s LGBTQ+ venue Manto and owner of Vanilla, held her first ever Afternoon Delights event at New York New York.
Billed as a ‘gay time disco’, Steph said at the time of its inception that she wanted the event to ‘capture the spirit’ of venues like Vanilla, which was the first lesbian venue in the area and had been ‘all about the music, the vibe, and the freedom’ on the dancefloor.
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Since its launch last July, Afternoon Delights has gone from strength to strength and now often sells out. The party will return to New York New York on Saturday (July 11) from 3pm to 8pm. Whilst online tickets have sold out, Steph said she is making a number of tickets available on the door.
“I’m a bit overwhelmed by the success of it all, to be honest,” Steph tells the Manchester Evening News. “I sold Vanilla eight years ago and ever since then, I’ve had people coming up to me telling me the Village is not the same. When I came up with this idea, I was like, well ‘put your money where your mouth is’ – and, I’m glad to say, they have.”
Steph said the concept of a daytime party came about after she and two friends went out in the Village and realised the concept of clubbing on Canal Street had become more expensive and revolved mostly around the evening.
“We’re older now and we prefer to get home by the time some people are just going out,” she laughs. “One of the best things about Afternoon Delights is that it finishes at 8pm and, for us, it feels like it’s midnight already by that point.”
Whilst it has become big with those looking for a club experience that comes with an appropriate bedtime, the event has also been popular with those who no longer live in Manchester and are looking to reminisce on their time clubbing out in the Village.
“A lot of the people who used to come to Vanilla now have grown up or moved out of Manchester,” Steph explains. “Not everybody can come here for a night out every weekend, but they still want the experience. That’s why we decided to do Afternoon Delights every three months – it becomes a special event and a moment for people, and they can get the train home afterwards.
“We have people who travel from Blackpool just for this event. We’ve even had people come up from Amsterdam as they’ve said there’s nothing like this there. There’s clearly a big interest in it!
“A member of my team recently got proposed to someone who she met at an Afternoon Delights event so we now have our very own wedding on the cards too.”
Steph said that once she had left Vanilla, she had considered herself a retiree of Manchester’s nightlife scene. But when she became frustrated with the lack of offerings in terms of what she was looking from the Village, she realised it was up to her to get an event running.
“I had to come out of retirement,” she says. “If I’m going to do something, I’m going to do it properly. I demand the best and that’s how we get the best. I’ve been doing this for 30 years now, so I like to think I know what I’m doing.”
Whilst the event is not directly aimed towards lesbians and queer women, it has attracted such an audience due to Steph’s links to Vanilla. But, she says that it has been great to see the event bring in audiences who are often not always represented within the village – and she hopes it will make other venues see the potential.
“It’s what the Village has been missing,” she says. “There’s not really been anything that has properly taken the space that Vanilla had, sadly. Quite frankly, I don’t think anybody has the balls to do it. Love me or hate me, Vanilla happened because I was confident enough and I had the funds to do it.”
Asked why the village doesn’t really have many lesbian bars or club nights right now, she adds: “I think there is generally a bit of a different approach to clubbing with women. I don’t think people think women want to go out clubbing every night, but somebody’s got to be the first do it, haven’t they?
“With Vanilla, we did loads of events which were hailed as the first one of its kind for the Village. We were the first bar that hosted Black Angel, which was an R&B and Urban night. We also did events tied into Asian music. People followed us at the time, but when we left, nobody really filled that gap.
“But I do also think the approach to the Village is different today. I feel like Manchester is, as a whole, so cool that being gay is not an issue anymore. Most people do not care. With the internet and social media, it’s changed how people go out now.
“That being said, you will always know when Afternoon Delights has taken place because you will see loads of women in one place in the village – something which is still quite a rarity!”
Afternoon Delights will be held at New York New York on Saturday (July 11), tickets will be £10 on the door, and from £7.75 online.




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