Nathan Slater, from Wallasey, was just 18 when he died on Saturday, November 9, 2024. His mum Lisa Slater, 41, had no idea he was struggling with his mental health, and is now urging anyone who might be suffering to speak out
A mother mourning her teenage son’s death has shared what his loss has taught her about existence, and the ways she preserves his legacy. Nathan Slater, from Wallasey, was just 18 when he ended his own life on Saturday, November 9, 2024.
His mother Lisa Slater, 41, said she was completely unaware he was battling mental health difficulties and that Nathan’s passing arrived as a “total shock.”
Only months beforehand, Nathan had discussed his aspirations for the years ahead and expressed hopes of starting a family eventually. Lisa, who has seven children, is now encouraging anybody experiencing mental health challenges to reach out.
On his final day, Nathan rang a mate at 1am saying he was “sorry, you’re a good friend”. His concerned friend travelled to his house the following day to see if he was okay but received no answer when knocking at his door.
The family had to force his bedroom door open to discover that, tragically, Nathan had ended his own life, reports the Liverpool Echo.
Lisa previously spoke to the ECHO, where she paid tribute to her “funny, kind and caring” son. As she nears the anniversary of one of their most treasured moments together, she said: “He was an amazing, popular, funny boy. He was so talented, he taught himself to play the guitar. He asked for a guitar for Christmas one year and he just picked it up and taught himself to play it. He could play any song.
“I took him to his first Creamfields [in 2024], he was in awe of the DJs. When we got home he got himself a set of decks and had been making his own mixes, he was forever calling me at stupid hours to say ‘mum listen to my new mix.’”.
“We had the best time and we were really looking forward to going together again. I just can’t believe he’s gone, he’s going to leave a massive hole in everyone’s lives.
“He always had the biggest smile on his face all the time, he had just started boxing training and he was planning on doing a charity boxing match in memory of his dad, who passed away from cancer. He wanted to do that for his dad.”
She continued: “None of us saw this coming. We had no clue at all that he had been suffering with his mental health. It was a total shock for us all. It’s just unbelievable. He was making so many plans”.
Following her son’s passing, Lisa has attempted to maintain a sense of normality for her six other children. She reflects: “Tthe only plus is that Nathan’s death brought us all closer together.
“We’ve realised how short life is and make the most of holidays, concerts and doing things together. We try to make the most of our time. I’ve surprised myself at how strong I’ve been, but it’s been hard keeping it together. I have moments when everything goes quiet, after a long day at work, where it’ll catch up with me.
“For the first few months I didn’t know how I was going to get through the day, never mind a week, or a month, then the days turned into years.”
In tribute to her son, Lisa made the journey to Amsterdam last year to mark his birthday — a trip the pair had always planned to take together. She also attended Creamfields in his honour, a festival that holds some of her most cherished memories with Nathan.
With the 2026 festival now on the horizon, Lisa is sharing Nathan’s story to spark a wider conversation about men’s mental health, urging anyone who may be struggling to speak up without hesitation.
She said: “Men just don’t talk enough. I want to urge people to talk if they are feeling any certain way. I can’t stress enough if anyone is having these thoughts to please talk to somebody.”
Lisa is also calling on authorities to improve mental health provision in Wallasey for those in need. She added: “Grief is life-changing, I hope by sharing Nathan’s story we can help even just one family.”
When life is difficult, Samaritans are available day or night, 365 days a year. You can call them for free on 116 123 or visit samaritans.org.
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