Becky Small, 33, says she was twice misdiagnosed by GPs before finally getting her terrifying diagnosis after visiting A&E
A mum of three who suffered bloating so severe it felt as though she was “nine months’ pregnant” claims she was misdiagnosed by two GPs before to being told she had stage four cancer.
Becky Small, 33, a logistics manager from Hampshire, noticed “severe bloating” in her abdomen in April, describing it as feeling “really hard” – uncomfortable enough to disrupt her sleep.
She also experienced pain on the right side of her back. She visited a GP who examined her, requested a urine sample and prescribed anti-inflammatory medication.
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When her condition showed no signs of improvement, Becky went to a different GP at another practice, who she claims didn’t carry out any tests and “didn’t even feel” her stomach before prescribing medication for suspected gastroenteritis – an infection of the intestines.
By early May, Becky described her abdomen as “rock solid”, leading her to attend A&E. There two doctors “examined (her) properly” and were “shocked” that neither blood tests or CT scans had previously been done.
That same evening, Becky was told that doctors had discovered two lesions on her ovaries and one on her kidney, and her immediate thought was that she was “going to die”.
After a biopsy, Becky finally received her diagnosis of stage four metastatic ovarian cancer on June 1, before starting chemotherapy four days later.
Becky’s husband Paul, 34, has been one of her biggest supporters, especially when they told their two eldest children, Logan, 10, and Harley, eight, about her cancer diagnosis.
As for their daughter, Iris, four, Becky said she knows her mother is unwell, but she is “too young to understand” what cancer really means.
Becky said: “My daughter starts school this year and that is the bit that scares me the most – that I’m not going to see her start school. I just want to be a mum to my kids and to be a wife to my husband.”
According to the NHS, the main symptoms of ovarian cancer can include bloating, pain in your tummy or the area between your hips, no appetite and increased urgency or frequency of peeing, along with back pain.
‘The bloating was getting bigger‘
Despite a diagnosis at 16 of polycystic ovaries which made later conceiving her children difficult, Becky said she has always been “quite a fit and healthy person”, and going to the GP was “very rare” for her.
So, when she started experiencing bloating on April 22, she initially thought it might just be linked to her polycystic ovaries.
She said: “My stomach was going really hard all the time. I couldn’t fit any trousers on and it was just really uncomfortable. I couldn’t sleep and I couldn’t even roll over in bed because it was so painful and so big.”
Becky said she visited a GP on April 27, who examined her abdomen and believed it might be inflammation, so he asked her to do a urine test which later came back as clear.
She said she was also prescribed medication to help reduce the suspected inflammation and was told it should “go down within a couple of days” – but Becky said she saw no improvement “whatsoever”.
“The bloating was getting bigger,” she said.
On April 30, Becky saw a different GP and she claims the doctor did not carry out any tests or examine her abdomen.
Instead, she said she was prescribed medication for gastroenteritis and was told she should be “back to normal” within a week.
By May 5, Becky said: “My stomach was rock solid, it was uncomfortable and it was painful. The only way to describe it was like I was nine months’ pregnant. I couldn’t breathe or walk properly too.”
‘Thinking that you’re going to die is a horrible feeling’
Becky took herself to A&E that morning, where she was examined by two doctors and had a cannula – a fine tube – inserted, before she had blood taken and a CT scan.
She said: “Two doctors actually examined me properly and were shocked that I hadn’t had tests done.”
By that same evening, Becky said she was taken into a side room and made aware that doctors had found two lesions on her ovaries and one on her kidney.
Becky said: “My three children are my world, so thinking that you’re going to die is a horrible feeling.”
A biopsy on May 20 confirmed nine days later that Becky had stage four metastatic cancer, with an oncologist specifying on June 1 that it had originated on her ovaries.
Becky said she was in and out of hospital during the wait between the conversation on May 5 and the initial cancer diagnosis on May 29.
“It was a hell of a long wait,” she said.
Becky said she has had two sessions of chemotherapy since June 5 and is thankful she is yet to experience “any major side effects”.
She will have four more rounds of chemotherapy, to be completed by September, as well as a full hysterectomy – where the womb and cervix is removed – in August.
For now, Becky said she does not want to know her prognosis because she wants to “enjoy what time” she has left without worrying that she “may not wake up in the morning”.
Paul and Becky decided against telling their youngest child about her mother’s cancer diagnosis because she is “too young”, but Becky said telling their two eldest children was “the hardest conversation” she has ever had in her life.
She said: “I was in hospital at the time. We were just honest with them and said if they have questions or they want to talk, then they can.”
A fundraiser has since been launched to help support Becky and her family financially while she goes through treatment.
Becky said the donations will allow her family to make memories like “going to the park and having an ice cream”.
She added: “It’s just things I want them to remember if I’m not here.”
Looking back on her cancer journey, Becky said: “I think I probably should have pushed to have extra tests done.
“If they had just run some more tests before, then I may be further along than where I am now.
“If I hadn’t taken myself to A&E, then I probably wouldn’t be here now.”
Becky believes ovarian cancer is “silent and deadly”, so she is urging young women in particular to watch out for the symptoms and get tests if they have any concerns.
She said: “I don’t want other women or even my own daughter to have to go through what I’m going through.”


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