A dozen teams turned out to honour the youngster in a knock-out tournament at Alex’s former school, Calderglen High.
The annual Alex Lindsay Cup pulled in an incredible £3500 at the weekend for a charity set up in memory of the much-loved 18-year-old.
Adored aims to raise vital awareness of mental ill-health in young men following the tragic death of the popular St Leonards teen in 2018.
Sunday’s event saw a dozen teams turning out to honour the youngster in a knock-out tournament at Alex’s former school, Calderglen High.
And Alex’s mum Jill said: “The weather in terms of the football players was probably perfect, because it wasn’t too hot and there was a bit of a wind.”
And she joked: “However for those of us with a stall and a gazebo up, the wind was not exactly ideal, there was a couple of moments where a couple of the gazebos went off to Oz, but it was all fine, it stayed dry. The important thing was to try and bring people out, and it went well.”
The Alex Lindsay Cup is held each year in memory of Alexander Iain Bonomy-Lindsay and raises funds for the family’s dedicated mental health charity Adored.
It has raised tens of thousands of pounds for mental health charities and remembers Motherwell FC fan Alex who tragically took his own life in July 2018.
As well as Adored being there on the day, grassroots mental health initiative Men with Issues was also present along with fitness, mindset and life coaching organisation No Limits Coaching, and Jill said it was potentially helpful for the crowds to link in with them, adding: “It was good for them to see that they were there, see that those agencies are out there.
“You just never know, one person noticing and thinking ‘Oh wait a wee minute, that might be useful for me’, that could be as simple as saving a life.”
The tournament was won for the second year in a row by The Other Team, who defeated Muirend in the final.
After the action on the pitch, everyone went along to a fund-raising after-party in the Village Inn.
Jill said: “We had less teams playing this year, we were down to 12 teams. I think the fact there was another football tournament going on at the same time and just other circumstances like the boys who have traditionally always played in the cup were generally people that Alex was friendly with and at school with, and these boys are now men of 28 years old, people’s lives move on, a lot of Alex’s friends have moved abroad and live away and all the rest of it.
“So I think what we need to do is try and bring fresh blood in, but it was very successful, the 12 teams played well, the runners-up were the team from Muirend, called ‘Muirend’ and the winners were the team called ‘The Other Team’, they won last year so that’s their second year winning.”
She added: “After the tournament we have our traditional after-party and it was down at the Village Inn, courtesy of Paul Jardine who gave us that venue for free, and Ross Martin, one of Alex’s friends who always does the live music, so he played his guitar and sang down at the Village Inn and that’s where we did the raffle draw.
“We had lots of good prizes, lots of local businesses like Ruby’s, Bond’s, Pergola, Once Upon a Table, Arigo all gave vouchers, lots of the barbers in the village gave vouchers.”
And looking forward to next year, Jill said: “I think one decision that we have made is that doing it up at the school is a good venue; we’ve tried different venues in East Kilbride but the school have never let us down, and it’s a good space for both the football and setting up any other vendors.
“And Mr Bell, one of the teachers from the school,he has been pivotal in all of the cups, that we’ve run. Every one, whether it’s been at Calderglen or not, he’s been there to help out and do whatever he can, he’s an absolute star.
“You get great teachers who go above and beyond, and he’s one of those people that go above and beyond, and I can’t thank him enough, his dedication to the tournament has been phenomenal.”
She continued: “I think what we’re going to try and do is get some younger teams involved, we’re going to start looking at the youth teams in East Kilbride to see if we could perhaps split the tournament and maybe have youth teams playing the morning and maybe eight teams have a mini-tournament, and then have another mini-tournament with the more mature players afterwards.
“But I think it’s really important that we keep the young people in East Kilbride involved in it, because really what the charity is doing is supporting young people in East Kilbride, so we want to try and link all of that together just so that more families, more young people in the community really begin to recognise Adored for the work they’re doing and recognise the link between the Alex Lindsay Cup and Adored, and the support for mental health within the community.”
And a special thank you went to event organiser Jack Smith, with Jill saying: “Jack was one of Alex’s closest friends and he was the person who set up the very first football tournament which was really a memorial tournament and what it’s turned out to be now is a supportive tournament for the charity which developed from it.
“Jack is the person who every year runs the tournament, he’s the one that seeks out all the football teams, he’s works tirelessly trying to make sure that it’s a really, really exciting event every year, making sure that the trophies are right, that the medals are right, organising all the prizes for the after-party as well, so it’s a massive thank you to Jack Smith because without his enthusiasm for the tournament it would probably have dwindled away and I know how dedicated he is in making sure it stays alive in Alex’s memory.”
And the Adored charity will be continuing its work in schools next term, with Jill saying: “We are excited to be working alongside South Lanarkshire Council in their new venture, their outreach venture, and I think what this is going to enable Adored to do is to help more people than if I was just accessing the schools myself.
“So I just feel that we’ll be able to broaden the horizon in terms of how many pupils we’ll be able to actually reach.”
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