A mum-to-be is worried she may have ‘doomed’ her daughter for life over the name she’s chosen, as although she loves it, she believes people will struggle to pronounce it
Choosing a baby name isn’t always easy. Even when you’ve settled on a name that you love, there are considerations you have to make to ensure you’re not making a huge mistake, such as accidentally giving your child a name that can be turned into an unfavourable nickname.
Some parents choose to get a second opinion from family members or friends on the baby name they’ve chosen. However, as one mum-to-be on social media has found out, that might not be the best decision if you’re on the fence about a name – as their opinions could leave you regretting your choice.
In a post on Reddit, the mum said she and her husband have come up with a unique name for their child, but while she loves the name, she is now worried that she may have “doomed” her child with a moniker that is hard to pronounce.
She said: “I’m having a girl, and nobody has said anything about the name being weird, yet I just want to make sure I’m not dooming my poor kid. Me and the dad chose Araya (uh-ray-uh) with the middle name Avery, is this bad??”
Commenters on the post mostly told the mum that while the name isn’t “bad”, they found it “clunky” with the middle name, and believed the parents would constantly need to explain how its pronounced.
One person said: “It’s not terrible, but you’ll definitely always be explaining how to pronounce it.” Another added: “I really, really dislike it. It’s so clunky with Avery, too. Any chance you can go with Avery and find another middle name?”
A third wrote: “The fact that you had to explain how to pronounce it tells us it’s not a good name.”
Many people in the comments who had issues with the pronunciation claimed that they would assume Araya is either a variation of Aria (pronounced Ah-ree-uh) or Ariah (pronounced Ar-eye-uh). However, as the parents said they wanted to go for the “ray” sound in the middle instead of “eye”, they felt the name would be too complicated.
The mum later returned to her post to edit it after reading comments about the pronunciation, stating that she actually wanted it to be pronounced “Ar-eye-uh” first, but changed her mind after family and friends said they would intuitively pronounce it “Ah-ray-uh”.
She wrote: “I’m seeing the general consensus is that it’ll be mispronounced, and the middle name sounds clunky with it. Would like to say it originally was going to be pronounced (are-eye-uh), but funnily enough, the first group of people we texted about it thought it was pronounced the way we settled on!
“I also thought because it’s three standalone (a)s, with no (i)s or (e)s, most people would read it as (ay) instead of (eye) because (a) by itself doesn’t make that sound phonetically.”
The woman also said she would go back to the drawing board to find a more suitable middle name, but noted there would be little wiggle room in the first name as the dad is “pretty set” on the Araya spelling.
She continued: “I think I’ll workshop the middle name again, but the dad is pretty set on the spelling for the first name, it’s a mix of both of our first names, and the only one of the mixes we tried that didn’t stand out to me as letter vomit. (Are-eye-uh) does sound good with the last name at least, thankfully.”
Fingers crossed the couple get to the bottom of their dilemma soon!





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