A woman living alone in Northern Ireland has asked whether she should call the authorities – they’ve even put a ladder up
A resident has questioned whether she should contact police after a neighbour repeatedly climbs into her garden to retrieve his son’s football. Posting on Reddit, the woman explained she had only recently moved into her new home, and the young boy is an avid football enthusiast.
She noted that while she normally throws the ball back, the situation arises frequently due to a goal positioned against the fence. Upon moving in, she discovered a ladder propped against the fence.
The Northern Ireland woman, who lives alone, expressed her discomfort at people entering her garden uninvited. She explained: “I moved into a new house end of last year and am having an ongoing problem with my neighbours behind my house. They have a football-loving child and have a goal set up against our shared wall, so a fair few footballs go over the fence. Until I moved in, the house was empty for about a year, so they had a ladder against the fence and obviously used it to climb over and get the balls themselves, which I understand was necessary.”
She continued: “However, I’ve been living here for over six months now and I throw the balls back whenever I see them but sometimes I notice a ball when I’m in the middle of doing something and then when I get a chance to go out and throw it back it’s gone, so obviously they’re still doing it.”
“I’ve seen the child out playing football and he’s fairly young and too small to be able to climb in and out so it’s clearly an adult doing it. It makes me really uncomfortable having someone around my garden without me knowing especially as I’m a woman living alone, and having the ladder as easy access against the fence also makes me feel like my house isn’t secure.
“I’ve had a chat with him and said I’ll throw the balls back when I see them but it’s still happened since that so I don’t know what I can do. Is it enough of an issue to get police involved or am I overreacting and it’s something I just have to learn to live with?”.
Many suggested that installing a security camera was the most sensible solution. One person advised: “Put a camera up. I would also put clear signs up and tell your neighbours. You could play a bit innocent and say “I’ve put cameras up because I think someone keeps coming into my garden.
One said: “I would hate that OP. Tell your neighbours you understand they had a system in place when the house was empty, but now you are living there you will throw any balls you find back over the fence, or their kid can knock your door to ask permission to retrieve it. No more climbing the fence, and absolutely no more ladder on the fence for climbing over it!
“When my nephew’s balls go over the fence, he has to wait for the neighbours to throw them back. No way would he be allowed to just go into their garden for it!”
Another respondent offered an alternative suggestion: “Another option which I haven’t seen mentioned is a line of cheap and flimsy trellis along the top of the fence. This will hopefully discourage them from climbing over because it will break if they put any weight into it. I guess if they break it, that could be considered damaging your property.”
A user suggested: “What age is the child? Anything over 6/7 and I would say it’s likely they are doing it. I doubt the police would be terribly interested, if you have an issue maybe get a CCTV camera (or even just a dummy one) and make a big fuss about installing it when one of the parents is in the back garden.”
The resident responded: “He looks about 7, but because my garden is lower than theirs, it’s a high climb back over, so I would be surprised if it wasn’t an adult tbh, I guess a camera is probably the easiest thing, thanks”
Another user advised being straightforward about the concerns: “Cameras, planting and sprinklers seem unnecessary complications when there’s a really simple solution. Tell them you are a woman on your own and having someone scale a ladder to get in your garden doesn’t make you feel safe, and tell them not to do it any more.”
Regarding the matter, West Yorkshire Police stated: “Involving the police in this type of issue is not always the best course of action as a first response. It can escalate the issue and cause more problems for both parties.
“If possible, speak to your neighbour about the problem and try and resolve it between you. Please note, if you keep the toys and refuse to give them back, you may eventually end up facing prosecution yourself.”
Curwens solicitors stated: “You are not expected to tolerate repeated damage to your property, especially after raising concerns. English law supports your right to the peaceful enjoyment of your home and garden. However, you are also legally obligated to return every ball that ends up in your garden. Failure to do so could be considered ‘theft’ and lead to criminal prosecution! While it’s always best to resolve disputes amicably, if that fails, there are legal remedies available. Consulting a solicitor for tailored advice may be beneficial, especially if the damage continues or escalates.”
The legal firm further explained: “To prove negligence, you would need to demonstrate that your neighbour owed you a duty of care, breached that duty (by failing to control their children), and that this directly caused damage to your greenhouse. Repeated incidents, particularly after you’ve raised the issue, strengthen your claim that the parent has been negligent.”



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