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Porn really did a number on our concept of lesbian sex.

For decades, there hasn’t been anywhere near enough representation for the women-loving-women (WLW) out there, with buzzwords like scissoring, strap-ons, and tops being thrown around when anyone mentions lesbian sex.

So this might come as a complete surprise, but there’s a hell of a lot more to it than that.

Thanks to famous WLW like Chappell Roan, Kristen Stewart, and Renée Rapp talking more openly about lesbian sex, our idea of what it involves (and who does what to who) has evolved in recent years.

We’re proud to say we’re living in an age of lesbian renaissance, so much so that the number of people identifying as lesbian increased from 2.2% in 2018 to 3.8% in the UK. That might not sound like a lot but, trust us, it shows the tides are turning.

But whether you’re new to lesbian sex, or seasoned in the art of loving vulva owners, there are still plenty of misconceptions about positions and sex toys knocking around (literally).

So, ahead of Lesbian Visibility Day 2026, we asked experts what lesbian sex really looks like, and rounded up some of the best sex toys to enhance your adventure.

We’ve said it before and we’ll say it again: identifying a lesbian has nothing to do with men.

As much as free internet porn might have convinced you otherwise, wanting penetration during vulva on vulva sex doesn’t equate to wanting to have sex with men – or be one.

This is one of the most common misconceptions about lesbian sex toy use, according to sex educator for Lovehoney, Javay Frye-Nekrasova.

“When people, especially lesbians, choose to use dildos and other insertables, it has nothing to do with wanting to have a penis or trying to ‘be a man’ but is just an avenue for pleasurable exploration and sex that is penetrative,” she says.

When lesbians choose to integrate strap-ons, this also doesn’t mean that the wearer ‘should’ be the more masculine-presenting partner, Frye-Nekrasova explains.

“Toys and activities do not determine someone’s gender identity, and it does not mean that someone is trying to fit a particular role (as dictated by society) in their relationship,” she says.

“Don’t bring society’s expectations or rules into your bedroom or sex life. There is nothing wrong with enjoying particular activities or roles in the bedroom. As long as you and your partner are communicative and have a sex life that you both enjoy and find pleasurable and are open to adjusting as the moment and your relationship desires, that’s all that matters.”

Contrary to popular belief, not all lesbians use strap-ons, nor do they all love scissoring. Okay? Got it?!

In fact, there is a smorgasbord of sex toy options available for WLW folk.

“Pretty much every type of sex toy can be used during lesbian sex if you are creative enough or open to trying new things,” explains Frye-Nekrasova.

“Vibrators are great for all-over use, and insertable toys, like dildos, are great for penetrative play. App-controlled toys are a great choice if you want a little more fun or to engage in discreet public play, while kink and BDSM products can also add some spice to sexy time.”

Wouldn’t you like to know? As a seasoned WLW myself, I’m always on the look out for sex toys that can fit seamlessly into my sex life.

When looking for a lesbian sex toy, I consider how easy it would be to use it during sex with a partner, including the size, ergonomics, and number of settings it comes with.

I’ll also consider material, looking for stainless steel, crystal, borosilicate glass, medical-grade or body-safe silicone and ABS plastic, as these are non-porous and won’t transmit bacteria or STIs.

Depending on whether my partner is into playing in the shower, I’ll also think about whether a toy is waterproof, as well as whether it can be controlled long-distance by an app, or if it has a travel lock (because, duh, lesbians love both those things).

If you’re new to sex with vulvas, or simply want to refresh your knowledge, we asked Frye-Nekrasova for her tips on how to integrate sex toys into your intimate moments.

“Have a conversation ahead of time about what you both like individually in terms of toys, and then work from there to decide where you would like to start with toys together,” she says.

“It is a good idea to get new toys with new partners rather than using the same toys from previous relationships and partners.”

“Whatever position feels best for everyone involved should be where you start,” Frye-Nekrasova advises.

“I personally find doggy to be a great position, especially when using the strap, as it can be used to better align the bodies to make penetration easier. If you want to enhance the overall feelings and pleasure, add a sex pillow like the Lovehoney Elevate Sex Position Pillow or Lovehoney Move Sex Position Pillow.”

Scissoring (or tribbing) can be a helpful position if you’re using vibrators or double-ended dildos, she adds.

“A wand does really well for this because the vibrations are felt on the entire head of the toy, so both partners can experience the vibration sensations,” says Frye-Nekrasova. “Palm vibrators can also work well for this.”

Scenes depicting Kat Graham as Diana Ross were apparently cut from the new Michael Jackson biopic on legal grounds.

Back in 2024, it was announced that Kat would be playing the music legend – who was a friend of Michael Jackson’s, and starred alongside him in the screen musical The Wiz – in the new film.

However, on Thursday afternoon, the Vampire Diaries star confirmed that her scenes had been axed.

“I want to share that certain legal considerations affected a few scenes, including the ones I filmed with an incredible cast,” she told her Instagram followers.

“Unfortunately, those moments are no longer part of the final cut, though the team worked hard to preserve as much of the story as possible.”

Ahead of the movie’s release later this week, critics have been weighing in on the film, titled simply Michael, with several outlets giving it scathing one- and two-star reviews.

One major criticism of the movie is the fact that it ends in 1988, meaning many major controversies surrounding the Thriller singer – most notably the several allegations of child sex abuse made against him in her lifetime – were not addressed in the film.

Variety reported earlier this month that one scene was meant to be included, which would have seen police officers searching the Jackson estate, Neverland ranch, after he was accused of child molestation in the early 1990s.

However, the outlet claimed that this sequence was eventually cut due to a legal clause in a settlement between the Grammy winner and one of his accusers, forbidding his name and likeness from ever being used in a film.

Oscar nominee Colman Domingo – who plays Joe Jackson in the film – previously suggested that Michael Jackson’s later life could potentially be explored in a sequel.

Meanwhile, it’s been reported that around three and a half hours of footage was shot for Michael, which was eventually cut down to the two-hour finished product hitting cinemas on Friday.

Fans of thick, creamy yoghurt will probably be familiar with both its Greek and Icelandic (skyr) versions.

They’re both luxuriously velvety, sometimes almost mascarpone-like in texture.

But are there any actual differences between them, countries of origin aside?

Dairy company Arla said that while both are creamy, Skyr tends to be even more so. That’s partly because, Food Republic writes, Skyr is actually considered a strained cheese, not a yoghurt.

Greek yoghurt is a “regular” yoghurt (made from fermented milk with live cultures) that’s been strained.

Skyr tends to rely on skimmed milk, resulting in a lower fat content. It is heated with cultures, some of which are very old, and then strained to form a tangy, creamy mass.

Skyr uses about three to four times as much milk as Greek yoghurt, which is partly why it’s so dense and high-protein.

Both are thick, creamy, and slightly tangy. But Skyr is tangier and tends to be thicker, too.

Skyr has about 11g of protein per 100g, compared to Greek yoghurt’s 7g.

Skyr typically has 0g of fat per 100g, compared to full-fat Greek yoghurt’s 5g.

Their probiotic and calcium levels are about the same.

Most of the time, yes, especially if what you’re making calls for, or works with, low-fat Greek yoghurt.

If you’re baking something that’s meant to have full-fat Greek yoghurt in it, though, Skyr might not be the best choice as it’s typically lower-fat and may change how the bake forms.

If you need something a little looser than thick Skyr, meanwhile, Arla recommends mixing some milk into the yoghurt (or cheese, depending on who you ask).

The new British drama Unchosen has Netflix users across the country hooked right now.

Currently sitting at the top of the streaming service’s chart of most-watched shows in the UK right now (despite, it has to be noted, some not-exactly-glowing reviews), the six-part series has already repeatedly been compared to Harlan Coben’s previous collaborations with the platform.

Unchosen centres around a young couple who live in a religious sect, one half of whom begins a journey of independence when a chance encounter with a mysterious stranger turns her life upside down.

Asa Butterfield, Molly Windsor and Fra Fee play the leads in the series, which has already sparked speculation about whether a second season could be on the cards.

For the time being, Netflix is keeping schtum about whether we might see more Unchosen in the future.

However, cast member Fra has hinted that Unchosen creator Julie Gearey already has some ideas for potential future instalments – and the Lost Boys And Fairies actor is clearly more than up for playing Sam again in the future.

“I would love to continue [Sam’s] journey simply because I hadn’t come across such a brilliant character in so long, really,” Fra enthused during an interview with Collider. “And I would just love to explore him further.”

He added: “It’s a very satisfying end to the show, and if it were to end here, it’s quite a satisfying one.

“But you know, like anything, if you know these shows, if it’s a big success, you know they’ll want to carry it on, and I think Julie probably has some ideas up her sleeve already.”

Unchosen also stars Siobhan Finneran and Christopher Eccleston as the mysterious Mrs and Mr Phillips, who play a crucial role in the show’s central sect.

All six episodes of Unchosen are streaming now on Netflix.

Peter Mandelson has become a recurring nightmare for Keir Starmer.

Once described as a “brilliant” choice to take on the most senior diplomatic role the UK government has to offer, ambassador to the US, the ex-Labour peer’s political career has spectacularly exploded over the last seven months – and threatens to take the prime minister with him.

This week’s Commons People podcast from HuffPost UK looks at how we got here – and whether it is the final nail in Starmer’s coffin.

Mandelson was sacked in September when the depth of his relationship with convicted paedophile Jeffrey Epstein came to light in a series of emails released by Bloomberg.

He then quit Labour and stepped down from the House of Lords in February when the US Department of Justice’s Epstein files suggested Mandelson allegedly passed market-sensitive information to the late financier when he was a minister.

Then last week it emerged that Mandelson that UK Security Vetting – officials within the Cabinet Office – recommended he not be given clearance after they conducted a mandatory deep-dive into his personal life.

But the Foreign Office, in the guise of its then top civil servant Sir Olly Robbins, cleared him to take up the plum job anyway. To make matters worse, no one thought to tell Keir Starmer until last week.

The prime minister responded by sacking Robbins, triggering a fresh crisis at the heart of government and raised major questions about Starmer’s judgment and alarming lack of curiosity.

Mandelson’s chequered past was well-known when he was appointed.

Sacked twice from Tony Blair’s government, he earned the nickname the “Prince of Darkness” for his expertise in the political dark arts.

But the former MP for Hartlepool was also part of the team which worked behind the scenes to get Starmer elected as Labour leader.

Starmer, who insisted he is “furious” about being unaware of Mandelson’s true vetting status, faced MPs on Monday in a bid to set the record straight.

But opposition MPs literally laughed in his face – and his own support drained away as Labour MPs left the chamber.

On Tuesday, Robbins gave his own version of events to MPs on the Foreign Affairs Committee.

He claimed No.10 had a “dismissive” attitude to the security clearance process altogether and that he was under “pressure” to give Mandelson a clean bill of health no matter what.

Now Starmer’s former chief of staff, Morgan McSweeney – a close ally of Mandelson and the driving force behind his appointment as US ambassador – is set to give evidence in front of the Foreign Affairs Committee next week.

McSweeney was forced out over his links to Mandelson in February.

A camera-shy individual who has often taken the blame for Starmer’s mistakes, this could prove to be another box office appearance which upends the government.

Labour MPs are in despair and some have already called for Starmer to go.

Meanwhile some cabinet ministers, including Ed Miliband, have started to publicly distance themselves from their boss and his decisions over Mandelson.

Elections to English local authorities, the Welsh Senedd and Scottish Parliament on May 7 are expected to erode any remaining faith in the PM, as Labour is set for major losses across the UK.

To make matters even worse, the government will also release the next batch of its internal documents linked to Mandelson’s appointment after the King’s Speech on May 13, meaning more drama is around the corner.

Listen to this week’s Commons People podcast as we unpick this complex saga.

We hear from a cabinet minister on the prime minister’s future, and reveal how speculation is mounting in Westminster that Starmer could be gone in months, and how that could lead to a general election as early as next year.

Subscribe to Commons People, the podcast that makes politics easy. Every week, Kevin Schofield and Kate Nicholson unpack the week’s biggest stories to keep you informed. Join us for straightforward analysis of what’s going on at Westminster.