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Look Mum No Computer: Eurovision Song Contest Star Talks BBC ‘Stress Test’
Eurovision star Look Mum No Computer has shared that the BBC took measures to make sure he’d be able to cope with the “pressure” of the contest.
Look Mum No Computer – the stage name of musician and YouTuber Sam Battle – is representing the UK at the 2026 Eurovision Song Contest this weekend with his original song Eins, Zwei, Drei.
Given how the UK has fared at the competition in recent years, it’s fair to say that picking up that mantle is not for the faint of heart, and in a new interview with BBC News, the performer opened up about how bosses wanted to make sure he was up to the challenge.
“They gave me a stress test [to see] whether I could deal under pressure,” he explained, with the BBC describing him as flashing a nervous “should-I-be-saying-this” glance towards his press team as he made the revelation.
“It’s nothing, really,” he added. “Just making sure that you don’t get too nervous and things like that.”
HuffPost UK has contacted the BBC for additional comment.

Past UK Eurovision acts have made no secret of the intense toll that the scrutiny and attention associated with the contest can bring.
Back in 2025, Olly Alexander claimed that his number one advice to the UK’s next Eurovision entrant would be to “get yourself a really good therapist because you’ll have a lot to talk about – for years!”.
Meanwhile, Look Mum No Computer isn’t the only Eurovision performer whose delegation took measures to prepare them for the contest.
Earlier this week, Israeli representative Noam Bettan claimed that, like his recent predecessors, he rehearsed while being booed to prepare for any disruptions that might occur during his performance.
“I had a few people in my crew trying to make it hard for me, to practise for this moment,” Noam told the BBC earlier this week. “But you can’t really prepare for this.”
During Noam’s semi-final performance on Tuesday night, pro-Palestine chants could be heard coming from the audience, with Eurovision later confirming that audience members had been removed for causing disruption.
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Politics Home Article | Is Britain’s commitment to veterans slowly fading away?

Ecossais Revenant de Combat by the French painter Francois Flameng
“Old soldiers never die; they simply fade away,” warned General Douglas MacArthur in 1951. More than half a century later, it’s not the soldiers who are fading but the nation’s focus on them that seems to ebb and flow. Professor Hugh Milroy, CEO of Veterans Aid, asks whether Britain is now caught in that same difficult rhythm?
Veterans are pulled into the spotlight in great surges of public emotion, only to be swept back out again as the tide of attention recedes. Their needs don’t come and go, but the system built to support them often seems to. Despite high profile claims of success from various governments, our workload at Veterans Aid would indicate that this assertion is the worrying reality for some veterans.
I’ve always felt that the nation’s link to veterans was anchored in four words – service, sacrifice, honour, and respect. Moreover, that it was universally accepted that a grateful nation would care for them in old age or adversity.But today, that promise sometimes feels disturbingly fragile. Support doesn’t stand firm; it surges, collapses, and drifts. One moment veterans are hailed as heroes; the next, they’re left navigating a maze of inconsistent policies, short‑lived initiatives, and a system that in some cases, seems to forget them as quickly as it remembers. The reality on the ground tells a different story. Veterans don’t need waves. They need foundations.
From my perspective, as one delivering frontline services to a large group of veterans in crisis, the shift in perceived obligation is no longer abstract – and that adjustment has consequences. In both delivery and quality the system of care for some veterans is a piecemeal, patchy, postcode lottery that frequently delivers without reference to urgency or actual need. Long term plans to improve the situation are underway but I fear that this will be too little, too late.
Recently I was given a sharp reminder of what it is to be forgotten and invisible as a veteran. I spent time talking to ‘John’, a very unwell ex-soldier who was sleeping rough. Fortunately there are fewer like him now, but one is too many.
I’ve had over 30 years’ experience in the world of veterans’ wellbeing but came away from that meeting with ‘John’, feeling despondent. It seemed that all the talk by the great and the good over the past 15 years had generated little more than hot air for veterans in real trouble.
I recall someone in government once describing Britain as “the best country in the world to be a veteran”, but it’s a fantasy to suggest that what was once a serious commitment, is still being honoured. Like promises written in vanishing ink, the pledges made to people like ‘John’ are rapidly disappearing.
This homeless former soldier had been in prison. He was in poor health and had been hospitalised, but he couldn’t name one of the government’s much vaunted veterans’ welfare initiatives (e.g. VALOUR et al) and it was only by chance that he found Veterans Aid. As we chatted over a coffee, during a wide-ranging conversation, I brought up the Armed Forces Covenant. As he scoffed at the suggestion it had any relevance to him, I could see that he had not a single visible tooth. Is this really the standard of veteran care we are settling for?
In recent months we, at Veterans Aid, have seen a series of moments that, taken individually, might be dismissed as symbolic; debates over legacy legislation which completely ignores the costs to individual veterans and their families, and decisions such as the refusal to grant the Royal Regiment of Scotland the Freedom of the City of Glasgow.* But taken together, they point to something more significant; a growing vagueness in how we, as a nation, view those who have served.
For the veterans we work with, this uncertainty is not abstract. It fosters a quiet yet deepening sense of being forgotten – or, more troublingly, of being reassessed, reconsidered, even devalued. And it raises the uncomfortable question of what it means to be a veteran in a post-heroes era; a time of fading hope?
As sector charities become more process-driven and qualification for support more complex, the likelihood of excluding those in greatest need increases. Just a week ago we encountered two veterans who could barely read. In a digital age, with a growing reliance on IT literacy, street dwellers without an address, no access to smart phones, TVs or newspapers, know nothing about advertising or marketing campaigns. They are effectively unreachable.
This is wrong: Care must meet veterans where and how they are, not where systems demand they be.
We are used to talking about moral injury in the context of conflict; something that happens when individuals experience a betrayal of deeply held values. But there is another form of moral injury that receives far less attention. What happens when that sense of betrayal occurs at home? When veterans encounter a system that is slow, fragmented, and too often reactive; when they feel they must fight to be understood; when recognition becomes conditional? I believe that that, too, leaves a mark which may have a binary impact on attitudes towards recruiting. To put it bluntly, no cut is deeper than perceiving that you have been forgotten by the nation you once served.
Despite good intentions, much of what now exists to support veterans in the UK is a hodgepodge of services. Some are genuinely fit for purpose, but others are woefully inadequate. Charities like ours step in at the point of crisis; dealing with homelessness, acute mental health needs, and financial collapse.
We stabilise, we rebuild, we move people forward, but too often, despite our effectiveness, we are intervening late, navigating systems that were never designed with coherence in mind. This is not a criticism of any single department or policy; it is an observation about a system for veterans that has evolved for political reasons without a clear, shared foundation other than in policy documents.
The gulf between policy, intent and genuine delivery is huge. Throwing money at organisations in the hope that it will result in a coherent effective model is nothing short of laughable. Especially when some have no knowledge, or only scant understanding, of the uniqueness of military life. This a recipe for chaos, not a solution.
Ultimately, veteran care is not just about provision of services; it is about national intent. And if that intent becomes uncertain or unclear, and veterans increasingly see their support becoming politicised, diluted, or inconsistently applied, then the system it is built upon begins to weaken. Because when intent blurs, service, sacrifice, honour and respect slip from principle to pretence.
What I see from the coalface of crisis intervention is not a sudden failure, but a gradual unravelling – i.e. more complex cases developing; longer periods of instability; greater reliance on emergency intervention and, most concerningly, a growing sense among veterans themselves that they are no longer fully seen. Overlay that with money going to organisations who must agree to operational controls by funders, and the client starts to become a case rather than a human being. In the end, slow motion collapse is just as damaging as a catastrophe.
This should concern policymakers, not only because of what it means for those individuals, but because of what it signals about the future. You cannot sustain a system of support if the societal commitment that underpins it is not there. The United Kingdom has long taken pride in how it treats its armed forces community, but this is a moment that demands more than pride. It demands clarity, consistency, and listening leadership. And to those living with the current system such as ‘John’, the truth is obvious; scale means nothing if people can’t be ‘seen’.
Sustainability means moving beyond symbolic gestures and short-term funding cycles based on the needs of government rather than the needs of the substantial number of veterans who are falling through the cracks. It means building a coherent, properly coordinated system that intervenes early, before crises develop. It means removing ambiguity around recognition and ensuring that those who have served are neither politicised nor marginalised. And it means working in genuine partnership with all players in the charitable sector, not just those who ‘play the game’ to get funding.
When resources flow to those who toe the party line rather than those who actually meet veterans where they are, the community loses the very organisations that understand its realities. The result is a support landscape that looks vaguely impressive on paper yet fails the people it claims to serve. Scale, brand and symbolism are no substitute for substance.
What troubles me most is the way funding so often quietly shifts toward large, branded organisations – often those most skilled at navigating political expectations – while smaller, frontline charities are left in the wilderness. Analysis1 of UK charity accounts shows that charities with annual incomes above £10m constitute only around one per cent of organisations yet account for 67.5 per cent of total charity income, highlighting the concentration of resources within a small number of very large charities. This is the inevitable outcome of a system that rewards presentation over proximity to the problem. But the effect is unmistakable; veterans will inevitably be harmed.
We know our charity saves lives and, just as critically, eases the burden on the taxpayer by around £2m per year. In other words, it works. But not one single question has been asked, from anyone in government, as to how this is done – and that is worrying.
I say none of this in anger, but out of a genuine wish to see a system worthy of the people it exists to support. Progress has been made, and more will be made, but some veterans will continue to be failed if the only model that counts is the one defined by government.
Those who deliver real impact, often quietly, often without fanfare, must be brought into the conversation without having their independence diluted or their effectiveness constrained. If the current drift continues, it will do more than fail individuals; it will signal that national gratitude is conditional, that service can be praised in public yet overlooked in practice. That would diminish not only the Covenant, but the values we claim to hold as a nation.
What is needed now is clarity, genuine consistency, and a willingness to work with those who truly understand the landscape. Anything less is passive acceptance of a situation that will inevitably get worse.
References
- Research and Analysis. Research Report: Mapping and Understanding the UK Civil Society Sector. Published 28.05.2026
* The Flameng painting depicts Scottish soldiers, specifically members of Highland regiments wearing kilts and returning from the front lines during WW1
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Mollie King Was Rushed To Hospital After ‘Sudden Collapse’ At Home
Radio 1 presenter Mollie King has opened up about the sudden accident that led to her taking a two-week break from the airwaves.
On Monday morning, the former Saturdays performer shared that she would be returning to Radio 1 after an accident at her home led to her taking some time off from work.
“Many of you have kindly messaged me over the past two weeks asking why I haven’t been on air – thank you so much for checking in!” she wrote on Instagram.
“After coming home late from work, I suddenly collapsed unconscious on the bathroom floor at 4am, hitting my head and face as I fell. It was a huge shock and I ended up being rushed to A&E.
“I keep thinking how grateful I am that I wasn’t on my own and had Stuart [Broad, her fiancé] to bring me round after I fell.”
Mollie went on to thank the medical staff who helped her after her accident, before sharing that the incident has been a “real wake-up call that I need to make some time to get my strength back, not just for my own health, but so I can be the best version of myself for my family too”.
She continued: “Yesterday was my first day doing anything social. After what has felt like a very long two weeks, it was amazing to get out and spend time with my girls. We even had the surprise of spotting Daddy on a big screen, which made us all smile.
“Thank you so much to everyone who has checked in on me, and for all the lovely birthday messages too. Your kindness has meant so much. I can’t wait to be back on the radio with Matt [Edmondson, her Radio 1 co-star] today.”
After initially rising to fame as a member of the chart-topping British girl group The Saturdays, Mollie joined Radio 1 as a permanent presenter in 2018.
She and her partner Stuart Broad welcomed their first child, a daughter named Annabella, in November 2022.
In January 2025, Mollie gave birth to the couple’s second daughter, Liliana.
Mollie confirmed last summer that she’d had to take time off Radio 1 to undergo surgery to treat an undisclosed medical issue, noting at the time that “everything went well and I’m doing much better now”.
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Betty Gilpin Opens Up About Prosthetics In Office Romance Birth Scene
This article contains spoilers for the Netflix film Office Romance.
This is perhaps reflected in some of the more adult humour showcased in Office Romance – and one graphic scene in particular.
Emmy nominee Betty Gilpin plays Sydney Bloom, Jennifer Lopez’s character’s right-hand woman, in the new Netflix comedy.
When we first meet Sydney, she’s already around nine months pregnant, and as the story progresses, she eventually gives birth right there in the office – with viewers getting to see pretty much all of it.
Suffice to say, this was achieved with the use of prosthetics, which she opened up about during a new interview with Variety.
“Honestly, I was pretty freaked out when I first saw the prosthetic vagina,” she recalled.
“I had a nervous breakdown and then I was like, ‘Oh, but I’ll be holding the ultimate working mom’s hand, Jennifer Lopez, so what could go wrong?’.”
Betty explained that there were more prosthetics used for the sequence than you might have realised, claiming: “My real legs were below a table, [I had] fake prosthetic legs, and then a puppeteer was standing at my real legs pushing an animatronic baby out of my prosthetic vagina.”
“It was insane,” she remarked.
Betty went on to share that the scene was originally even more detailed than what made it into the finished film.
She added: “The saddest part was when the scene was over and everybody but the puppeteers stayed in the room because the only way to reset was to go under and pull the fake placenta — I think the placenta is not in the movie anymore – but reach up through the prosthetic vagina that I am still zipped into, pull the placenta back and take the umbilical cord and pull it back and then pull the baby back through, and then it was time to do it again.”
Office Romance stars Jennifer Lopez and Brett Goldstein as the CEO of an airline and the head of its legal department, who fall in love despite the company’s strict rules about workplace relationships.
While critically it hasn’t exactly gone down a storm (it currently holds a 51% score on Rotten Tomatoes while on Letterboxd, users have ranked it 2.6 stars), it has clearly gone down well with Netflix users, as it’s the platform’s number one film at the time of writing.
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When Will Rivals Season 2 Be Back? Disney+ Confirms November Return
Many Rivals fans were perturbed after last week’s episode when they realised the show was due to take a mid-season break.
Following the mammoth success of its inaugural outing in 2024, Rivals’ second season was boosted from just eight episodes to 12 – albeit with a break in the middle.
Over the weekend, it was revealed that fans have a bit of a wait on their hands for the next run of episodes, with the latter half of the season due to air weekly on Disney+ starting in November.
The news was accompanied by a new teaser for the next part of season two, which you can check out for yourself below:
An official Disney+ synopsis for the rest of season two teases: “As Tony Baddingham and Declan O’Hara’s contest for the Cotswolds crown hits a fever pitch, Rupert Campbell-Black is forced to confront his own personal demons. Across hedonistic parties, Bonfire Night chaos, the Hampshire Hunt Ball and a turbulent Christmas, affairs unravel, alliances fracture and rivalries intensify.
“Caught in the middle of the frenzied franchise battle, Taggie O’Hara must find the courage to follow her heart while everyone else faces the consequences of ambition, power and secrets that they can no longer hide.”
Rachael Stirling will also be joining the cast as Lady Monica Baddingham’s younger sister Araminta Pemberton, with Rupert Evans and Big Little Lies’ Santiago Cabrera also playing new characters in the new episodes.

Rivals writer Laura Wade previously claimed that the cliffhanger at the end of season six was partly responsible for the mid-season pause in an effort “for those bits of story to just have a moment to sink in with viewers” and “build up some anticipation”.
“Also, we’ve got the Fifa World Cup coming up, so we’re releasing the first half before the football,” she pointed out on a more practical level.
“Get that out of the way, and then release the second half.”
Before the release date confirmed, she teased to TechRadar that the story would pick up in the autumn, noting: “On screen, [season two] runs into Christmas, which allows us to sort of parcel it out for everybody to savour the story.”
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BBC Expert Says Donald Trump Will Be Furious About Iran Bombing
Sarah Smith, the corporation’s North America editor, has “once again been defied” by Israeli prime minister Benjamin Netanyahu.
Israel’s military said it carried out strikes on targets in central and western Iran early on Monday morning.
That came after Tehran launched missiles on northern Israel on Sunday.
On Radio 4′s Today programme, Smith pointed out that Israel had already angered the White House by bombing Lebanon in recent days, despite Trump’s claims that a peace deal to end the Iran war is close.
“And then, after Iran fires some missiles at Israel, he was very clear with the Israeli prime minister not to retaliate because he was worried that that could derail the peace negotiations that are going on,” she said.
“He made it clear that the Iranian missiles hadn’t done any damage, and therefore there was no need for any retaliation. And yet, very soon after that we saw that Israel did take action.
“We haven’t heard from Donald Trump since then, but he will be furious. He was very, very clear with Benjamin Netanyahu not to do this, and once again he has been defied.
“It was almost exactly a year ago that Donald Trump was answering reporters’ questions in front of TV cameras and dropped the f-bomb, surprisingly, because he was so angry with Netanyahu for firing missiles at Iran in breach of a ceasefire agreement.
“And now he says that we’re very close to a US-Iran agreement, and will be furious that he thinks that is being imperilled by Israel’s actions.”
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Hannah Waddingham Talks ‘Love-Hate Relationship’ With Jason Sudeikis
During a new interview with Variety, the British star was asked how smoothly season four had run, in reference to the fact that Jason – who writes the show as well as playing the title role – has a bit of a reputation for rewriting as he goes.
“There’s always going to be a bit of give-and-take within a scene, because of the nature of how Sudeikis works,” the Emmy winner responded. “He hears it in the room, and then we tweak.”
Hannah continued: “With that boy, you’ve got to roll with the punches. He and I have an ongoing love-hate relationship that he changes it last minute.”
For the new episodes of Ted Lasso, the title character will return to Richmond FC as the new manager of the club’s women’s team, with Sex Education star Tanya Reynolds joining the cast alongside returning faces including Brett Goldstein and Nick Mohammed.
In the time since the show last aired, Hannah made no secrets of her sadness at the prospect of never playing club owner Rebecca Welton again – or her hopes for it to return in some capacity.
The 10-episode season will begin airing on Wednesday 5 August, with new episodes following every week until the finale on 7 October.
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How I Responded When My Son Asked Me How 2 Men Have Sex
We’ve been talking about sex around my house a lot lately.
As my 10-year-old gets ready to enter middle school next year, he’s been getting increasingly curious about bodies, puberty, and of course, s-e-x.
He’s not interested in having sex, he’s quick to inform me – in fact, the first time I explained the physical machinations of intercourse, his initial response was, “I don’t know, I’d rather play video games.”
But he is interested in understanding sex, a circumstance that has led to a series of increasingly difficult-to-answer queries along the lines of “But what does semen look like?”.
We’ve looked at a diagram of the inside of a penis together. We found out that the hole on the tip of the penis is called the “urinary meatus”. I finally convinced him that a man doesn’t pee inside a woman to make a baby. It’s been a wild time.
I try to answer his questions as honestly as is age-appropriate while using the clinical and appropriate terms for body parts and sex acts. Sometimes, I get a little stumped or tongue-tied by questions I didn’t anticipate, like when he asked me how old you have to be to have sex. (I came up with: “There’s no set age, but you want to make sure you’re emotionally mature enough to handle it, that you’ve found someone you trust enough to take that step with, and that you have the necessary information to do it safely. Also, sex should never happen between children and adults.”)
While it’s not always easy or comfortable to have these conversations, I love that my preteen feels comfortable with himself and unashamed to approach me with any and all questions about sex and sexuality. (Although I did have to tell him recently that it’s not necessary to inform me every time he has an erection.)
I have also, throughout his life, been careful not to assume my son’s sexuality; if we talk about the idea of a future partner, I refer to a potential “boyfriend or girlfriend,” “husband or wife.” He has queer people in his life, and he knows other kids with gay parents. He knows about trans and nonbinary people, and he once told me a great joke that went: “What are a chocolate bar’s pronouns? Her/she.” The time he came home from school repeating what some boy had told him – “Boys can’t kiss each other” – I didn’t hesitate to tell him that, my dear, they can and they DO.
What if my son does turn out to be gay? Wouldn’t my ability to provide LGBTQ-inclusive sex education be of dire importance?
I am very much a parent who says gay, because my son’s sexual orientation (and potentially, gender identity) has yet to be revealed to me, and it’s imperative to me that he knows I will love and support him no matter who he turns out to be attracted to.
So, the other night, when he asked me if two men can have sex together, I had no problem telling him enthusiastically: “Of course they can!” It’s when he asked me HOW they do it that things got hairy.
Tripping over my words, I gracelessly gave him the main idea. (Clinically, and not in excessive detail, but he got the gist.)
Then I immediately started to second-guess my decision. I should have said something nebulous like, “People have different ways to kiss and touch each other,” I thought to myself, feeling the itchy discomfort I get when I overshare with another mum at soccer practice.
So later, when he thought to ask me how two women do it, I sort of pawned him off with a nonanswer and sent him to bed. (But not before he asked me if I had ever done it, to which I responded with a swift and only slightly panicked “NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS,” which I stand by.)
The next day, I was still thinking about our conversation and sitting with the vague feeling that I hadn’t handled it correctly.
In light of the “Parental Rights in Education” law passed in Florida, dubbed the “Don’t Say Gay” bill in the popular lexicon, there’s been a lot of talk about how supporters are assuming that discussion about the existence of sexual orientation or gender identity and related topics is somehow sexual in nature, and thereby inappropriate for children. That is wrong.
Knowing that some families have two mommies or two daddies is not sexual information. Small children don’t sexualise things in that way, and there’s nothing inherently deviant or inappropriate about knowing that LGBTQ+ people exist.
But what about when children are old enough to be taught about sex? (And experts do agree that these conversations are perfectly appropriate for children between 9 and 12, or even younger, especially considering they are on the cusp of puberty.)
If my son is old enough to have gotten a frank explanation of the mechanics of hetero sex, why did I feel so uncomfortable giving him the same information about queer sex? Especially considering that the sex acts engaged in by queer people are also performed by straight folks.
Somehow, when he asked me about two men together, the same information had just felt instinctually more, well, sexual.
I had to look at that discomfort. How had someone as well-intentioned and liberal and frankly not even entirely straight as me fallen into the idea that gay sex is somehow dirtier or less appropriate to talk about than straight sex?
If my son is old enough to have gotten a frank explanation of the mechanics of hetero sex, why did I feel so uncomfortable giving him the same information about queer sex?
And I don’t think I’m alone. When I started trying to research the topic, I found a lot of information on how to explain the concepts of sexual orientation and gender identity to children, but practically nothing about actually talking to them about queer sex, at any age.
And what if my son does turn out to be gay? Wouldn’t my ability to provide LGBTQ-inclusive sex education then be of dire importance? Don’t I want my son to be sexually prepared, informed, and provided with the information he needs to stay safe, no matter what his sexual orientation? Who would tell him about things like safety in anal play and dental dams?
Not necessarily the teachers at his school. According to the GLSEN 2019 National School Climate Survey, only 8.2% of students (including those who received no sexual education at school) “received LGBTQ-inclusive sex education, which included positive representations of both LGB and transgender and nonbinary identities and topics.”
As a high school junior who identifies as a lesbian told The Atlantic in a 2017 article on LGBTQ-inclusive sex education, “We were informed on the types of protection for heterosexual couples, but never the protection options for gay/lesbian couples.”
Despite my attempts to resist assuming my son’s heterosexuality, when I half-answered his questions about gay sex, wasn’t I assuming it was information he didn’t need? If I was truly considering the possibility that my son might not be straight, wouldn’t I have answered him differently? Pretty sneaky, heteronormativity.
The more I Googled and the more I thought about it, the more I felt like I’d gotten it wrong. Luckily, this is no uncommon experience for a parent. I make mistakes all the time, and when I do, I think there’s great value in modelling my ability to admit it, take responsibility, and apologise.
So last night, around bedtime, when all the most important conversations seem to happen, I went back in.
“Last night, you asked me some questions about how two men and two women have sex together,” I told him, “and I think I felt a little bit uncomfortable, or nervous, and I didn’t really answer what you asked. But I thought about it more and I realised that if you’re old enough to know how straight people have sex, there’s no reason you’re not old enough to know how gay people have sex.
“So we can talk about the different ways that gay people have sex together, which, by the way, are also ways that straight people have sex together, and I will answer any questions you have.”
There was nothing dirty or inappropriate about the conversation we proceeded to have, and at the end, he just wanted to know which acts could result in pregnancy, which, hey – is really important information to have!
He even made me proud when he pivoted from a reaction of “Wow, that’s so weird” to “Actually, it just wasn’t what I was expecting. I shouldn’t call it weird,” in less than three seconds with no prompting.
Maybe as importantly, I told him that I’d felt uncomfortable talking about all this because of a prejudice I had, and that everyone has prejudices, but we have to investigate them and try to move beyond them when they come up.
I hope that’s a lesson we all can take to heart because the core belief contributing to my discomfort around the topic of talking to my son about gay sex feels to me like it’s on the same continuum of the ideas fuelling Florida’s “Don’t Say Gay” and copycat bills.
To be clear, I do not think that we should be educating young children about how anybody has sex. But just as gay people are not inherently inappropriate, and education about LGBTQ topics is not inherently sexual, providing education about gay sex to children who are old enough for sex education is not any dirtier than providing them with information about straight sex.
And in the case of LGBTQ kids, it just may be vital.
Emily McCombs is the deputy editor of HuffPost Personal. She writes and edits first-person essays on all topic areas including identity (race, gender, sexuality, etc.), love and relationships, sex, parenting and family, addiction and mental health, and body politics.
This piece was previously published on HuffPost and is being shared again as part of HuffPost Personal’s “Best Of” series.
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Benjamin Netanyahu Launches Israeli Air Strikes On Iran
Israeli prime minister Benjamin Netanyahu has defied Donald Trump to launch retaliatory air strikes on Iran.
The US president had claimed “I call the shots” just hours before the Israeli action.
Israel’s military said it carried out strikes on military targets in central and western Iran early on Monday morning.
Netanyahu’s decision is a major blow to Trump’s hopes of striking a peace deal with Iran to end the war which began on February 28.
Tehran launched missiles on northern Israel on Sunday, which Trump told Fox News was “certainly not going to help negotiations”.
The president said: “What I would suggest to Iran: You’ve shot your missiles, that’s enough, get back to the table and make a deal.”
Trump also said he was “not happy” about strikes in recent days by Israel on Lebanon.
In an interview with the Financial Times, the president said Netanyahu “won’t have any choice” but to agree to any peace deal he strikes with Iran.
“I call all the shots – he doesn’t call the shots,” he said.
Nevertheless, it appears as though Netanyahu ignored Trump’s call for Israel not to strike Iran.
The Associated Press quoted a US official who said the president had “got [Netanyahu] to hold off for the time being”.
The US president told Israel’s Channel 12 news he did not want to see “an additional attack tonight”.
“The Iranian strikes didn’t hurt anybody,” Trump said. “Each of them had their fun. Israel had its strike and Iran had its strike. We don’t need another one.”
It is understood that Iran launched its own fresh strikes on Israel on Monday morning, threatening a further escalation in the latest Middle East conflict.
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Shengke Zhi: Winning in Trafford. How we turned a 21-vote majority into almost 1,200 in two years
Dr Shengke Zhi is a Conservative councillor for Bowdon Ward in Trafford Council and Shadow Executive Member for Climate Change. Professionally, he is a senior nuclear and energy leader with expertise spanning nuclear, hydrogen and carbon capture.
In 2024, Bowdon was hanging by a thread. We held the ward by 21 votes.
For many activists, that number will feel painfully familiar. Across the country, Conservatives have watched once-comfortable wards become battlegrounds. Areas once considered safe suddenly required defence. New challengers emerged. Political assumptions changed.
Bowdon was no exception.
The Greens had become increasingly active and ambitious. Reform was emerging. Local politics was changing.
After 2024, we had two choices. We could treat the result as a narrow escape and wait for the next election. Or we could treat it as a warning and rebuild. We chose the latter.
Fast forward to 2026. The result was:
- Conservative: 2,616 votes (54.3%)
- Green: 1,424
- Reform: 445
A majority of almost 1,200 votes.
Bowdon delivered the highest turnout in Trafford and, to my knowledge, the strongest Conservative result across Greater Manchester’s ten borough councils.
The obvious question is: how?
The answer, I believe, carries wider lessons for the Party.
Lesson one: Campaigning is not an event – it is a permanent activity
Too many campaigns begin six months before polling day. Winning campaigns begin the morning after the count. The period between 2024 and 2026 was not spent waiting for the next election. It was spent campaigning: Resident engagement, Casework, School visits, Community events, Social media, Door knocking, Listening and Trust building.
One of the defining campaigns was road safety around Oldfield Brow Primary School. Parents and teachers raised concerns. We worked with them and launched a petition, collecting 568 signatures. The issue reached Trafford Council in March 2024. Teachers, parents and pupils attended the meeting and spoke directly. Eventually improvements were delivered. The lesson was simple: Residents notice delivery. Politics often becomes absorbed by national narratives, but local politics still rewards action. People remember who stands with them.
We also worked closely with local schools through initiatives such as the Christmas Card Design Competition with Oldfield Brow Primary School. At first glance, this may not look like campaigning. I would argue it absolutely is. Schools sit at the heart of communities. Strong relationships create trust. Trust creates credibility. Politics starts long before elections.
Lesson two: Listen first, campaign second
In September 2025, Trafford Council launched consultation on the Local Plan. Residents in Oldfield Brow became deeply concerned when a proposed traveller and gypsy site emerged locally. People felt anxious. Many residents told us very clearly that they did not support the proposal and did not want it in their community. As local Conservatives, we listened.
The same happened repeatedly around school places, where families raised concerns regarding future capacity and local provision.
The lesson here goes beyond Bowdon. Politics increasingly rewards those who broadcast. Successful local campaigning rewards those who listen. Communities do not want to be told what they should think. They want representatives who understand what they do think. That distinction matters.
Lesson three: Winning requires strategy, not simply effort
Hard work alone is not enough and campaigns need strategy. Between 2024 and 2026, the political environment changed rapidly. The Greens expanded their activity, while Reform emerged. Voter behaviour shifted, so standing still would have meant decline.
A huge amount of credit goes to Zoe Peters, our Vice Chair Political in Bowdon Conservative Committee. Zoe helped drive campaign strategy throughout this period, ensuring we remained agile and adapted to changing conditions.
Good campaigns evolve, they reassess, they refine and they adapt. Conservatives will not recover nationally by repeating yesterday’s campaigns. We must be willing to evolve.
Lesson four: Strong organisations still matter
Candidates do not win elections. Teams do. One of the Conservative Party’s greatest assets remains its grassroots structure. I particularly want to recognise Christine Mitchell, Chair of the Bowdon Conservative Committee. Christine coordinated huge amounts of work behind the scenes: fundraising, mobilising resources, volunteer coordination, campaign organisation, stuffing envelopes and keeping operations moving. Most of this work never appears publicly. But without it campaigns fail.
I also want to recognise Alison Kitchman, Vice Chair Membership. Alison brought energy, persistence and volunteer leadership throughout the campaign. I still remember moments when daylight was fading, everyone was tired and people were considering stopping. Then Alison would ask: “Can we squeeze in one more street before it gets dark?”
Usually the answer was yes. That sentence probably won more votes than any national slogan, because elections are rarely won in grand moments but they are won street by street, conversation by conversation and volunteer by volunteer.
Lesson five: Modern campaigns require modern communication
Although campaigning has changed, leaflets still matter and door knocking still matters. However, they are no longer enough. Residents increasingly expect visibility between elections: updates, community stories and evidence of delivery etc. We therefore invested heavily in social media throughout the campaign period, including road safety updates, school engagement, community campaigns, local issues, achievements and delivery.
Social media amplified local engagement and helped demonstrate action between elections. Modern campaigning does not end when the leaflet goes through the door.
Final reflection: From survival to growth
The campaign was not easy. There were long evenings, rain arriving just before canvassing, fatigue and pressure, even moments of doubt. But there was also belief: belief in Bowdon, belief in our residents and belief that local Conservatism still works.
The journey from 21 votes in 2024 to almost 1,200 in 2026 convinced me of something important: Conservative recovery is possible.
But it will not come from waiting for Westminster. It will come from councillors, ward committees, associations, volunteers, community campaigns, listening, delivery, trust and people standing with residents. People asking “Can we do one more street?”
That was the recipe in Bowdon. It may also be part of the recipe for Conservative renewal.
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N.O.I.S.E. Check Can Help Boys’ Critical Thinking Of Manosphere Content
There’s been growing concern for some time now over the popularity of manosphere content, particularly among young boys who might not necessarily question what they’re viewing.
The manosphere is “a collection of websites, social media accounts and forums dedicated to men’s issues, from health and fitness to dating and men’s rights”, says Robert Lawson, an expert in sociolinguistics at Birmingham City University.
Yet it’s increasingly become associated with anti-women and anti-feminist sentiments.
The impact of this kind of content is worrying – and parents and teachers are seeing it trickle down to school-age children. In fact, most primary and secondary school teachers are now “extremely concerned” about the influence of online misogyny on children and young people.
Parents fear it, too. New research from EE found over three-quarters (77%) admit they’re concerned about the influence of online content on their son’s attitude or behaviour. Two fifths (42%) said they’ve heard their sons use language or phrases they didn’t recognise, but believed may have come from negative online sources.
Not only can this kind of content impact the mental health of boys and men, according to UN Women, but it amplifies harmful sexist stereotypes, teaches dangerous social and dating behaviour, and makes both digital and real-life spaces more hostile for women and girls.
For parents, it can be hard to know how to tackle the issue – especially as much of the content promoting these harmful views is online and it’s hard to monitor teens’ internet use. Experts have also suggested the longer kids are spending online, the more likely they’re coming across misogynistic content.
EE’s survey, conducted in partnership with Professor Ben Hine, found over half (54%) of parents haven’t sought guidance for talking about the online content their son’s consume because they feel out of their depth, yet 80% would welcome more practical support and advice on having these conversations.
Just this week, the London Assembly published a guide suggesting that a ‘N.O.I.S.E. check’ might be a good place to start to help boys think critically about what they’re viewing online.
What is the N.O.I.S.E. check?
It’s a conversation tool parents can use to help teenagers “recognise patterns, reflect on how content makes them feel and build resilience to manipulative messaging”.
Parents are urged to look over content with their teen and then work through the following prompts.
N (negative): Ask them whether the content they’ve just watched leaves them feeling worse (ie. triggering strong negative emotions)? This could be anger or shame, or not feeling “good enough”. You could ask something like: “Do you think this creator wants viewers to feel upset or angry?”
O (opposition): Ask whether the content frames women as the enemy. You could say, “Does this encourage conflict between men and women?” or “Is it blaming women for complicated problems?”.
I (insecure): Talk to them about whether the content profits from insecurity – whether that’s around appearance, money, dating, status, confidence or masculinity. You could ask, “Does this make you feel like you’re not enough?” or “Who benefits if young men feel insecure?”.
S (simplistic): Talk about whether the content is offering a simple answer to a complex issue. The advice sheet urges boys to “be cautious of creators who claim: there is only one way to be a man, one group is causing all men’s problems, they alone have the answers, [or] success or happiness can be achieved through one simple formula”.
E (earning): Discuss who’s making money from their outrage? You can then talk about what the creator gains by keeping people watching, engaged and angry.
The aim of the tool, per the London Assembly, is not to tell boys what to think, but to “help them notice when someone else is trying to do their thinking for them”.
Parents have previously opened up about their sons being ‘red-pilled’ (influenced by misogynistic content) and have said teaching critical thinking was crucial to shifting the needle on these views.
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