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Teacher Warns Of ‘Trickle Down’ Effect Of Misogyny On Young Kids
Anyone who watched Louis Theroux’s Inside The Manosphere will be aware that misogynistic content is rife online. Yet these views haven’t just appeared out of nowhere, they’ve been around for years – and social media has amplified it thanks to rage-fuelled algorithms.
Nearly 70% of boys aged 11-14 years old have been exposed to misogynistic content online, according to Ofcom.
After Netflix’s much-lauded series Adolescence shone a spotlight on misogyny among school children last year (and introduced many parents to terms like red pill and manosphere), teachers told HuffPost UK misogynistic comments are commonplace, even from primary school-age boys.
Just this week, one Birmingham-based teacher, who wished to remain anonymous, told Birmingham Live a six-year-old pupil had “said he wasn’t going to get his fruit at snack time and one of the girls would have to go and get the fruit for him”.
The teacher noted misogynistic views are being “trickled down” to younger children through older siblings who are consuming this content online.
When the six-year-old was pulled up on his comments, he said his older brother had been “watching the videos”.
Research by the University of York found most primary and secondary school teachers are “extremely concerned” about the influence of the manosphere – a collection of websites and forums that typically promote masculinity, some of which amplify misogynistic views – on children and young people.
One-quarter of teachers referenced male pupils discussing misogynistic influencers or misogynistic movements from the internet, such as incels.
Educator Rebecca Leigh previously told us she’s noticed “a rise in misogyny” among students – some as young as 11 or 12.
Unison, the UK’s largest union, said a major issue currently affecting schools is the rise in sexist behaviour and language, and sexual harassment – noting it’s being fuelled by explicit content online, as well as on mobile phones.
Childhood is a critical stage of development, and children are “highly impressionable” and particularly vulnerable to extreme views, family psychotherapist Fiona Yassin told HuffPost UK.
“The internet is a hotbed for extremism and misinformation and early research around the impact of the ‘manosphere’ on children is incredibly alarming,”
But parents, carers and anyone working with children can play a role in shaping how youngsters view women.
Regardless of whether you believe your child is exhibiting these behaviours or consuming harmful content online, conversations about misogyny and the treatment of women are incredibly important.
And given all the data, it’s never been more pressing.
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Why we need radical bookshops more than ever
The loss of radical bookshops does not just stifle the spread of radical ideas. What replaces these spaces is isolation. Yet across the UK, radical booksellers are now fighting back.
The far right in the North East
Increasingly, political life is pushed online, where it can connect, but just as easily fragment. Without physical spaces, it becomes harder to build trust, confidence, and solidarity. And in that vacuum, disillusionment can be redirected. People who are rightly angry about declining living standards are bombarded with online propaganda that encourages them to blame migrants or trans people, rather than billionaires and corporate power.
Here in Newcastle upon Tyne, the far right has been protesting every Saturday for months. Organised neo-Nazis travel in from across the country, attempting to convince people already deprived of community, services, and quality of life that migrants are to blame.
Their short-term aim is to recruit, radicalise, and normalise anti-migrant sentiment. The long-term vision is grounded in fantasies of mass deportations and race war. At the same time, Reform UK looks set to gain ground in upcoming local elections. Like elsewhere in Britain, the far right is growing.
Many of us have tried to understand this moment by looking to history, particularly the rise of fascism in the early 20th century. For me, one lesson stands out sharply: fascist movements did not only fight their opponents in elections or on the streets. They systematically destroyed the physical infrastructure that made left-wing organising and ideas possible.
Fascist tactics
In Italy, from the outset, Benito Mussolini’s forces targeted trade union halls, socialist presses, and meeting spaces. They understood that these were the places where people gathered, built relationships, spread ideas, and developed collective power.
The same pattern unfolded in Germany. The Nazi Party dismantled the institutional and cultural life of the left, crushing unions and banning socialist literature. When they consolidated power, socialist organisers were quickly driven underground, imprisoned, or killed. By that point, it was too late. The only movement capable of halting fascism without mass death and destruction was already disempowered.
Today’s far right doesn’t even need to carry out that same level of coordinated destruction. Decades of neoliberalism have done much of the work already. Rising rents, weakened unions, the erosion of public life, and the dominance of multinationals, have hollowed out the spaces that once sustained collective organising. ‘Third spaces’ have steadily disappeared. The Alliance of Radical Booksellers lists no less than eight now-closed radical bookshops in Newcastle in its UK map of historical radical bookshops. Today there are none.
Bookshops fight on
Shops like Housmans in London, Bookhaus in Bristol, and Lighthouse Bookshop in Edinburgh remain strong as hubs for organising, education, and community-building: hosting meetings, distributing radical literature, and connecting movements. New community-owned radical bookshops are opening across the country, as communities gather to resist neoliberalism’s regime of isolation.
Newcastle once had its own versions of this. Days of Hope (affectionately known as “Haze of Dope”) was the city’s last radical bookshop. It closed in the 1986, before I was even born. Like others of its kind, it was more than a retail space. It was a base for socialist political education, for organising, and for building relationships that extended beyond individual campaigns. That absence has been felt ever since.
A new radical bookshop in Newcastle
That’s why a collective I’m part of is crowdfunding to launch Books From Below – a new radical bookshop and community space in Newcastle.
The aim isn’t nostalgia but necessity. In a city with such a strong history of struggle, but also limited access to spaces that can sustain it, the need is urgent. Instead of leaving space for far-right voices to dominate, we can fill our streets, our conversations, and our communities with radical ideas. Then we can build the collective power to turn them into reality.
All radical bookshops start this way, with ordinary people pooling what they’ve got to create something for everyone. If we can do this here in Newcastle, so can anyone in any other town or city that still doesn’t have a radical bookshop.
This isn’t just about books. It’s about collectively rebuilding infrastructure: places where people can meet face-to-face, share ideas, and organise collectively to win against the far right.
For this, we need places that are visible, accessible, and rooted in our communities. In an age of not just mass inequality but also an increasingly empowered far-right, we need radical bookshops and other left-wing community spaces more than ever.
Featured image via the Bookseller
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Union Berlin appoint Marie-Louise Eta as head coach
The moment Union Berlin announced Marie‑Louise Eta as interim head coach, German football crossed a threshold it had never approached, let alone stepped over. Eta, 34, became the first woman to lead a men’s team in the Bundesliga, a milestone that reverberated far beyond Köpenick. But this wasn’t a ceremonial appointment or a symbolic gesture. It was a decision forged in crisis, urgency and the cold reality of a season slipping away.
Union Berlin have a task on their hands
Union’s slide has been stark. A 3–1 defeat to Heidenheim pushed the club to the brink of a relegation fight they had spent months pretending they weren’t part of. The table still shows them in mid‑pack, but the performances and the mood tell a different story. The club’s hierarchy finally said it out loud.
In a statement to CBS Sports, sporting director Horst Heldt said:
We have had a hugely disappointing second half of the season so far and will not allow ourselves to be blinded by our league position. Our situation remains precarious and we urgently need points to secure our place in the league.
Heldt didn’t stop there. He pointed directly to the numbers that had become impossible to ignore:
Two wins from fourteen matches since the winter break do not give us the confidence that we can still turn things around with the current set‑up.
That set‑up included Steffen Baumgart, a coach known for energy and emotional charge, but whose tenure unravelled as Union’s form collapsed. His exit was swift. The decision to elevate Eta was even swifter.
Eta’s rise has been steady, methodical and built on substance rather than noise. She holds a UEFA Pro Licence, has been a key figure in Union’s youth development, and in 2023 became the first female assistant coach in the Bundesliga. She even stepped in during a touchline ban earlier this season, guiding the men’s team through a matchday in a small preview of what was to come.
Eta steps up
I am delighted that the club has entrusted me with this challenging task.
It was a typically understated response, delivered without fanfare. She also acknowledged the stakes with the same clarity the club had shown:
Given the points gap in the lower half of the table, our place in the Bundesliga is not yet secure.
The BBC described her appointment as “a historic moment for German football,” noting that no woman had ever led a men’s team in any of Europe’s top‑five leagues. Eta, who has long been respected internally for her tactical detail and calm authority, now finds herself at the centre of a story far bigger than Union’s league position.
A club at a crossroads
Union’s season has been defined by inconsistency, defensive fragility and a loss of identity. The team that once thrived on structure and collective discipline has looked increasingly disjointed. The BBC highlighted the pressure that had been building for weeks, with results deteriorating and confidence draining.
Eta inherits a squad that knows the stakes. The next match against Wolfsburg, is more than a fixture. It’s a test of nerve, clarity and belief. Five games remain. The margins are thin. The pressure is immense.
Eta has never framed herself as a pioneer, but the significance of her appointment is impossible to ignore. German football has long been conservative in its coaching pathways. The Bundesliga, for all its innovation on the pitch, had never entrusted a men’s team to a woman. Until now.
But Eta’s focus is narrower, sharper, more immediate. She has a team to stabilise, points to win, and a season to salvage. The symbolism will take care of itself.
The task ahead
Union Berlin have gambled not on novelty, but on competence. On a coach who has earned trust inside the club. On a leader who brings clarity at a moment when everything around her feels uncertain.
Five matches.
A fragile squad.
A historic appointment.
And a league watching closely.
Whether Union survive or not, the Bundesliga will never look the same again. Eta has stepped into the spotlight not because she sought it, but because she was ready for it.
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Former MP and MSP candidate in a flap over guga hunt
A dispute has emerged between a former MP and an MSP candidate over the future of the guga hunt. This has thrust the controversial practice into the centre of the election campaign.
Edinburgh Central candidate Robert Pownall is standing while campaigning dressed as a gannet to raise awareness of the issue. He has called for the hunt to be banned, arguing that the killing of young seabirds in a protected area can no longer be justified in modern Scotland.
Talking to the National newspaper, former MP for Na h-Eileanan an Iar, Angus MacNeil, accused Pownall of “cultural imperialism”. He said guga is a “prized delicacy” and part of a longstanding island tradition. MacNeil was in the SNP until 2023 and is now a member of Alba.
The guga hunt – tradition or shame?
The guga hunt is the last remaining seabird hunt in the UK. It involves a group of men from the Isle of Lewis travelling to the remote uninhabited island of Sula Sgeir each year to take juvenile gannets.
The chicks, who are unable to fly, are killed for consumption. Once rooted in subsistence during times of hardship, the practice is now largely maintained as a tradition and for a local delicacy.
Though killing wild birds is normally illegal, the guga hunt continues due to a specific legal carve out in the Wildlife and Countryside Act. It is this exemption Pownall is campaigning to end.
Taking aim at Pownall’s political campaign, MacNeil told the National newspaper:
He just doesn’t understand. Has the man been to Sula Sgeir? There’s big demand for them in Lewis, demand outstrips supply. It is very popular.
Pownall, who runs non-profit organisation Protect the Wild, responded by saying:
I have not visited Sula Sgeir, for good reason. It is a protected site and access is restricted, meaning it would be unlawful to visit without specific permission.
I have no intention of disturbing a protected seabird colony. What is striking, however, is that while it would be illegal for me to visit and monitor these birds without permission, it remains legal for others to kill thousands of their chicks each year for a ‘prized delicacy’.
Pownall also said the practice raises serious welfare concerns. He pointed to the way chicks are taken from their nests and “bludgeoned to death” in front of other birds.
MacNeil was MP for the Western Isles between 2005 and 2024. He said he had accompanied the guga hunters to Sula Sgeir around 15 years ago and that the killing is:
as quick and as humane as any slaughterhouse.
MacNeil added:
It’s historic in that it’s the last bird hunt I think anywhere in the British Isles. The Faroes and Iceland might have a little bit of it, but it’s certainly the last in Scotland of the bird hunts.
Pownall said that the fact this has been going on for so long is “not something to be proud of” and:
The fact that other forms of animal suffering exist does not justify this one.
He added:
It is also a strange line of argument to defend the practice by comparing it to a slaughterhouse. If the strongest defence is that it is as humane as industrial animal killing, that does not resolve the concern, it reinforces it.
Despite claims from supporters that the guga hunt does not harm the gannet population, documents which Protect the Wild obtained through a Freedom of Information request suggest otherwise. They show that Sula Sgeir is underperforming compared to every other comparable Gannet colony in Scotland. In fact, it’s the only Special Protection Area where the population has declined over the long term, while others have seen substantial growth.
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LBC’s Shelagh Fogarty seems to back Israel’s evacuation orders
LBC’s Shelagh Fogarty told a caller on her radio show that the Israeli Occupation Forces (IOF) could be “a whole lot worse” in Lebanon, implying the IOF was not at the point of “no restraint at all”.
She followed up with:
Frankly, Steve, I will tell you how it helps. Again, this isn’t justifying what Israel is doing, I am just telling you how advising a population to leave because you are going to drop bombs in a city — would you want to know that? I’d like to know that and I’d get the hell out, wouldn’t you?
‘Would you like to be warned before they bombed your city?’
‘No… Why would I?’Caller Steve butts heads with @ShelaghFogarty over Israel’s strikes in Lebanon. pic.twitter.com/c7GBam2VYm
— LBC (@LBC) April 10, 2026
LBC host’s attitude branded ‘shameful’
On March 19, RT‘s Lebanon bureau chief Steve Sweeney, and his cameraman Ali Rida, were wounded in an IOF airstrike in southern Lebanon while reporting on Israel’s invasion and resistance responses.
Sweeney reshared Fogarty’s clip, saying that Israel’s evacuation warnings are a sham — often posted on social media to areas with poor connectivity in the middle of the night.
Sharing on X, he wrote:
I calculated times between the warnings being issued and the bombings back in 2024. In the first three weeks, the shortest was 4 minutes, and the longest was 29 minutes.
Let me tell you something about these “warnings” that the benevolent I$raeli army issue.
They are posted on social media and usually target areas with poor connection and at times when people are sleeping
I calculated times between the warnings being issued and the bombings… https://t.co/xqzM0QGRwf
— Steve Sweeney (@SweeneySteve) April 12, 2026
Israel has already displaced over 1.1m people in Southern Lebanon and killed thousands. But humanitarian disasters are its speciality, and just like in Gaza, it has now created another one in Lebanon.
As usual, Israel’s standard excuse for bombing Brown people is ‘defeating terrorists’. In this case, in Lebanon, it’s ‘defeating Hezbollah’. Of course, everyone with even half a working brain can see that’s bullshit.
While Zionists like Fogarty sanitise genocide, it’s clear that mainstream media shows no restraint in acting as spokespeople for the IOF.
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Arsenal show Zionist double standards
Arsenal comes under scrutiny once again for the way the club chose to handle instances of political expression inside its ecosystem. Whilst their approach has never been consistent, the overwhelming contrast between the treatment of academy kit man Mark Bonnick and influencer Matthew “PapaPincus” Pincus and their corresponding political affirmations exposes a deeper structural imbalance in how modern football institutions outreach duties to police speech, manage risk, and protect commercial interests.
Bonnick, a 61‑year‑old associated with the club for more than two decades, was dismissed subsequent to posting pro‑Palestine comments during the early stages of the Gaza genocide.
Arsenal defended this decision by claiming that Bonnick’s posts “could be perceived as inflammatory or offensive” and as a result, he had “brought the club into disrepute,” citing the media attention that followed. After recourse to appeal was rejected, Bonnick is now pursuing legal action for unlawful dismissal.
Arsenal allow Zionism
Despite this, Pincus’ political stance comes unchallenged as he continues to appear pitch‑side, collaborate with club‑adjacent media, and present for TNT Sports. Witnessing a clear differential treatment prompts an obvious question from many supporters – many of whom are now wondering how opposing views of the same conflict can cause a man to lose his job while another remains part of the club’s media orbit?
Money over morals
Any explanation must account for one technical but important point: Bonnick was an Arsenal employee, meaning that his conduct was subject to the club’s internal disciplinary rules. As his posts drew attention and were reported in the national media, the club moved to protect its reputation.
By contrast, Pincus does not work for Arsenal. He is an independent creator who operates within the club’s broader influencer network. A club cannot formally discipline someone it does not employ. It can limit access, but that is a choice, not an obligation under contract. This difference creates an uneven playing field even before politics enters the discussion. However, there is much more to this situation.
Media bias
Bonnick’s posts were discussed in the national media through the lens of antisemitism debates in British football. Pincus’ posts, while clearly supportive of Israel’s military campaign lacked scrutiny as perhaps they align with a broadly accepted pro‑Israel narrative that many public figures embraced in relation the war.
In practice, the message for the fans and wider audience seems to be, express support for Israel and you will be spared any consequences; express support for Palestine and your life can be derailed.
That contrast makes institutional behaviour hard to ignore. Many have stayed silent, often pointing to reputational risk, which is not a defensible position. Football clubs tend to react to headlines, not principles. Bonnick’s posts became a story; Pincus’ did not.
The commercial value of influencers
One must also assess the hard commercial truth behind this: it is about money, no matter how tainted the money may be. Influencers like Pincus deliver reach, engagement, and access to younger audiences, assets, clubs and broadcasters increasingly rely on. Arsenal’s approach reflects a wider Premier League trend.
Pushing a creator out of that ecosystem is not as straightforward as disciplining an employee. It can mean lost revenue, strained partnerships, and damage to the club’s digital strategy. Bonnick, by contrast, had no commercial leverage. His job was operational, not public‑facing—so he was easier to remove.
The imbalance is grim, and it is unlikely to change soon.
The illusion of apolitical football
Clubs often present themselves as “apolitical,” yet the Bonnick–Pincus contrast makes clear that football is not apolitical. It is political in selective, self-serving ways.
That isn’t neutrality. It’s risk management, and it’s ultimately self-defeating: people will see through the pretence and lose trust in clubs that fail to take a morally defensible stand.
The result is a system where the same kind of political expression leads to very different consequences, depending on which side it supports.
That is the uncomfortable truth at the heart of this contrast, and it leaves football with an unanswered question: why is support for Palestine so often punished, while support for Israel is so quickly shielded?
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Labour try to copy Green Party branding
You can always tell that a political party is in trouble, because its MPs start using different branding: in the past, we’ve witnessed Tories using Labour red; now, we’re seeing Labour using green – a colour most commonly associated with the Green Party:
Now why would a Labour MP be using Green branding eh? https://t.co/9oLEIfjExK
— Gyll King Post Skip Diplomacy (@GyllKing) April 12, 2026
Labour is a lean, green, election losing machine
We’ve been through this before, and we know what the excuse is:
‘It’s not Green Party green – it’s House of Commons green‘.
The problem with this argument is that we’re not that gullible, and we know exactly what these politicians are doing.
When an MP puts out promotional materials, it should be clear what party they’re promoting. The reason parties have colours in the first place is to aid in this.
It goes without saying that Lucy Rigby is a House of Commons MP; what her constituents want to know is which party she represents and what values she seeks to uphold.
As Ed Sykes reported for the Canary on 8 December:
After a year and a half in charge of Britain, Keir Starmer’s Labour has clearly become a toxic brand. Starmer is the least popular prime minister ever, and a 3 December poll had the party at just 14%, four whole points behind a surging Green Party. So it’s no wonder many Labour MPs – even on Starmer’s top team – seem to have been distancing themselves from Labour branding.
The problem, of course, is that switching colours will only get you so far. People’s issue with Starmer’s Labour Party isn’t the brash, rose red of their branding; it’s the fact that the government is tinkering around the edges while the floor keeps falling out from under us.
Sykes added:
As Labour MPs and others attacked Green Party leader Zack Polanski in recent days, some people highlighted that one attack came from an MP consistently avoiding Labour branding and using neutral House of Commons-style branding instead:
If you saw this, what party would you think the MP was from? https://t.co/WxE6QD0218 pic.twitter.com/CC4AMcYJLF
— Saul Staniforth (@SaulStaniforth) December 7, 2025
Sykes also noted:
In 2010, Labour and the Tories both tried some rebranding to secure power, with the Tories going for a green tree to make them look a bit friendlier. And after 14 years proving they were anything but friendly, Conservative candidates started avoiding the Tory blue, using purple, green, and even red in campaign leaflets instead. They seemed positively desperate to distance themselves from what the party has done to the country since 2010.
It’s not a positive sign that UK politicians frequently feel a need to distance themselves from their own parties.
The future is Green
Until the past 12 months, the Greens were never serious contenders. Now, it’s clear Labour MPs are taking them deathly seriously.
And as they say, imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.
Featured image via Lucy Rigby
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his imprisonment is a thorny issue
Pakistan’s recent role as a mediator on the world stage – trusted by the US, Iran, and the Gulf Cooperation Council Countries (GCC), according to the BBC – is shadowed by Imran Khan’s imprisonment.
Ever ready to muscle in where he doesn’t belong, Keir Starmer shared that he spoke to the Prime Minister of Pakistan, Shehbaz Sharif, and thanked him for Pakistan’s critical role.
However, it was pointed out by Declassified that the UK has had a ” muted at best and complicit at worst” reaction to Pakistan’s incarceration of Khan. Khan has been imprisoned since 2023 on corruption charges he rejects. The UK says Pakistan’s courts are responsible for the legal process, but Khan should receive humane treatment.
Keir Starmer spoke to Pakistani PM Sharif, but there’s no record he raised the ongoing imprisonment of Imran Khan, who has been held largely in solitary confinement, in “inhumane” detention conditions (UN) and denied family visits.
👉 https://t.co/CIb1oWSv5o pic.twitter.com/TA0Onf4f9G
— Declassified UK (@declassifiedUK) April 13, 2026
Imran Khan question
Political commentator Ben Norton posted a claim on X that the US backed a coup against Imran Khan to put the current ‘puppet’ Prime Minister Sharif, in power. He implied that Sharif had allowed the White House to write his public statements for him, sharing a New York Times story on the previously agreed, now nulled ceasefire between Iran and the USA.
This is why the US backed a coup against Pakistan’s independent Prime Minister Imran Khan and helped put in power Shehbaz Sharif, a corrupt US puppet from an oligarchic dynasty.
Sharif is such a shameless puppet that the US writes his public statements.https://t.co/y1Ddyg4hqk pic.twitter.com/70ZSwyO1oB
— Ben Norton (@BenjaminNorton) April 10, 2026
Just before the failed talks between Iran and the US in Islamabad over the weekend, Haqooq-e-Khalq Party (HKP) of Pakistan, along with 40 popular movements from around the globe, issued a statement condemning Western supremacy. The group said they:
Condemn the escalating war of aggression waged by the United States, Zionism, and its allies against the Islamic Republic of Iran. This hot war was prepared over decades through “cold” yet deadly sanctions, covert sabotage, targeted assassinations, military encirclement, and cognitive warfare. Its aim is to collapse the Iranian state — an agenda of balkanization through ethnic strife and de-develoment through bombardment that has become a hallmark of contemporary imperialist war.
The HKP is part of the Tehreek-e-Tahafuz-e-Ayeen-e-Pakistan (Movement to Protect the Constitution of Pakistan or TTAP), which is a coalition of several political formations and is headed by Pakistan Tehreek-Insaaf (PTI), Pakistan’s main opposition party, and founded by Khan himself
In February, PTI called a general strike in Pakistan amid Imran Khan’s incarceration, the second anniversary of the “rigged elections”, and Pakistan’s participation in Trump’s Board of Peace for Gaza, according to People’s Dispatch. The outlet reported:
February 8 marks the anniversary of the 2024 Pakistani general elections, which were held two years after the removal of Imran Khan, of Pakistan Tehreek-e-Insaf (PTI), from the office of prime minister in a vote of no confidence. The 2024 elections were marred with irregularities, seemingly aimed at preventing the victory of the PTI and Imran Khan who was already in prison.
Implications
Khan’s imprisonment leaves an obvious question. Had he not been ousted in questionable circumstances, perhaps Pakistan would not have been on the colonial sham of Trump’s Board of Peace. Pakistan’s Ministers would also not be deleting X posts criticizing Israel.
We Pakistanis stand by every word of the tweet by @KhawajaMAsif. We wish and pray our country will play an important role, INSHALLAH, in annihilating and obliterating the illegitimate, illegal, terrorist and genocidal state of Israel. pic.twitter.com/d1O2ykWzkT
— Haider Ali Butt (@HaiderSalma_) April 10, 2026
A lawyer and Vice President of Pakistan’s HKP reshared the current Pakistani Defence Minister Khawaja Asif’s post, criticizing Israel. Asif deleted the post after Zionist pressure.
However, Butt said:
We Pakistanis stand by every word of the tweet by @KhawajaMAsif.
It is, again, unlikely Asif would have had to delete such a post under Khan. And, neither would Pakistan have found itself the lapdog of the US and Israel even as it stretches to host negotiations with Iran.
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My Husband Killed Himself Just Hours After I Asked For A Divorce. Here’s What I Wish I’d Known Then.
It was a night in October of 2004 when everything changed. I still remember the metallic click of my key in the door. It was late, clients had run long, traffic even longer — and all I wanted was to get out of my work clothes and lie down.
Instead, the house felt … wrong. Though my husband’s truck was in the driveway, everything was dark. The porch light wasn’t even on.
I called out his name as I stepped into the foyer — once, twice, then louder a third time. No answer. It was too quiet, like someone had pressed mute on a life that usually hummed with stereo music and my husband’s booming voice.
I heard the wind chimes tinkling in the breeze on the deck. There was not even a sign of our cat. “Hello?” I called, more hesitantly. My chest tightened as I walked through the dark house, then spotted a dim light shining under the closed dining room door. I sensed there was something wrong as I pushed the door open. That’s when I saw him.
He’d positioned a spotlight to shine on his body. He’d always had a flair for the theatrical.
In one breath, my world imploded. My husband of 17 years had hanged himself there, in our shared home, just hours after I’d told him, “I’m done. I want a divorce.”
I sobbed, I shook, I retched. I had trouble calling 911; it took me three tries to hit the right combination of numbers. By the time the police arrived, I was on my knees out front, screaming in the driveway. I couldn’t believe what was happening; it felt like a part of me hovered above the scene, watching.
And there was irony here. I am a psychotherapist. How could I not have predicted this?
The detectives and the coroner spent hours at my home, questioning me. I made tearful calls to friends who came immediately to sit with me but felt powerless to help.
The guilt crushed me. Look what I’d made him do. I’d told him I wanted a divorce. “I killed him,” I told everyone. I was emotionally and mentally shattered.
People always ask if I’d noticed warning signs — sadness, substance abuse, talk of wanting to die. But he wasn’t the clichéd portrait of depression. He was an angry man — quick to shout, quick to slam doors and break things and never reticent to physically threaten me. I had asked for a divorce because I was done living with his rage. Still, suicide? Nowhere on my radar.
The following weeks were nightmarish as I struggled to make sense of what had happened and my role in it.
Back then, I was specializing in trauma. I should have had language for what happened. But the term “revenge suicide” wasn’t in my textbooks. Eventually, after conference calls with domestic violence researchers and my own seasoned therapist, the puzzle pieces started to snap into place.
A revenge suicide happens when taking one’s life becomes the final weapon in an abusive relationship. It’s less “I can’t go on” and more “I’ll make sure you can’t go on.” The note — if there is one — rarely says, “Goodbye.” It says, “This is on you.”
That was the message waiting for me in my dining room — wordless but crystal clear: You will carry this forever.
If you think the scariest time in an abusive relationship is when fists fly, sit with this statistic: Up to 75 % of women killed by an intimate partner die while trying to leave or just after they’ve left. Sometimes it’s a murder-suicide. Sometimes they kill the kids. And sometimes, the man kills themselves in front of her, or stages a scene where she will find their body.
We see it in the headlines: A man murders his ex, sometimes their kids, sometimes the family dog, and then turns the weapon on himself. Reporters call it a “domestic dispute” or a “tragedy nobody could have predicted.” There is usually a history of inter-partner abuse, though others may not realize it.
The pattern is chillingly predictable when you understand one core truth: Abusive partners crave control. When control slips away, some will burn the whole house down — literally or metaphorically — before letting go.
Take “Dana,” a client whose angry husband threatened, “If you leave, I’ll shoot myself in the living room so you’ll see what you did.” She knew he wasn’t bluffing. We worked out a safety plan, stashed go-bags at a neighbor’s and coordinated with police. She got out safely, but she still jumps whenever her phone goes off at night.
Or “Marianne,” whose husband posted a suicide note on Facebook blaming her before he did it. In group therapy, she confided, “Half the town thinks I killed him.” That shame can be as lethal as any weapon.
I don’t want this to happen to any other woman. There are some red flags of escalating violence that we can recognize. So, here’s the short list I share with clients, friends, anyone who’ll listen:
“If you leave me, I’ll kill myself.” Threats tied to control are not idle.
Unexplained surveillance. Checking your mileage, tracking your phone, planting Air Tags in your purse.
Sudden access to weapons or talk of “no reason to live.”
Escalating possessiveness or rage — the tidy neighbor who starts kicking holes in drywall.
A history of choking (the strongest predictor of future homicide).
If these sound familiar, loop in a domestic violence hotline or counselor sooner, not later. Safety planning can be difficult — you’ll have to plan a place to go, allies who will help, save funds that you can access — but it may save your life.
I was lucky that he didn’t kill me or any other members of our family.
None of my friends or his family members blamed me for his death. In fact, they continually reinforced that I was not responsible. Many recognized his volatility and instability, and I had consistent emotional support. Still, it took me months to regain my footing. Not all women are fortunate enough to have the kind of support that I had.
Two decades later, I’m still talking about the issue. I believe it makes a difference. Now I’m remarried to a gentle man who never raises his voice. I’ve written four books, one on this topic. But every October, when Domestic Violence Awareness Month banners pop up, I’m yanked back to that eerily quiet house and the memories of my desperate struggle to call 911.
So, here’s my plea, sprinkled with the hard-earned wisdom of someone who’s walked barefoot through the glass:
Believe women who say they’re afraid. It doesn’t matter if she’s being abused physically; abuse takes many forms, including coercive control.
Stop asking “Why did she stay?” Start asking, “What barriers kept her from leaving safely?”
Teach teens that love is not possession. The earlier we unlearn toxic scripts, the better.
Remember that some suicides are homicides in disguise. Death certificates don’t capture intent; stories do.
And if you’re reading this as someone dangling on the edge — wondering if leaving will push him over it — realise you need support. You deserve a life where you’re not walking on eggshells, a prisoner of an erratic, dangerous partner. Be strategic. Reach out. Tell a wise friend, a therapist, or call a local hotline/charity. Secrets are the soil where violence grows; speaking is the sunlight that withers it. Your voice is your power.
When people learn my story, they sometimes tilt their heads in pity and say, “I can’t imagine.” But here’s the scary part: It is imaginable, because it happens every day in neighbourhoods that look like yours and mine. These things can happen to anyone.
I don’t share these memories to haunt anyone. I share them to offer a flashlight. If even one person spots the warning signs and steps off the path my husband forced me onto, the telling is worth it.
Leaving should be liberating, not lethal. And love — real love — never demands you pay for your freedom with your own or someone else’s life.
Shavaun Scott is a psychotherapist specialising in trauma recovery. Her memoir, “Nightbird,” explores personal and professional journeys through suicide, abuse and healing.
Help and support:
If you, or someone you know, is in immediate danger, call 999 and ask for the police. If you are not in immediate danger, you can contact:
- The Freephone 24 hour National Domestic Violence Helpline, run by Refuge: 0808 2000 247
- In Scotland, contact Scotland’s 24 hour Domestic Abuse and Forced Marriage Helpline: 0800 027 1234
- In Northern Ireland, contact the 24 hour Domestic & Sexual Violence Helpline: 0808 802 1414
- In Wales, contact the 24 hour Life Fear Free Helpline on 0808 80 10 800.
- National LGBT+ Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0800 999 5428
- Men’s Advice Line: 0808 801 0327
- Respect helpline (for anyone worried about their own behaviour): 0808 802 0321
Politics
Gen-Z are not swinging to the right at all
‘Young Bob’ is a Gen-Z British activist who was previously in the pocket of the American right. While he’s most famous for being repeatedly beaten up, he’s also known for talking complete and utter shite.
His most recent example of this was seen here:
“Why are young people flocking to Restore Britain?”
I spoke to Britain’s youngest elected councillor, who recently defected to Restore Britain, on why young people are moving towards this new right-wing political party. pic.twitter.com/y9j1zne2BL
— Young Bob (@YoungBobRB) April 12, 2026
The problem with the above is that young people aren’t flocking right; they’re demonstrably moving left, and in numbers too big to ignore.
Oh, and don’t punch Young Bob if you see him on the street.
If nothing else, it will only give him another month’s worth of content.
Gen-Z aren’t ‘flocking’ anywhere
For those who are unfamiliar, Restore Britain is a Reform UK breakaway party. It exists because the Reform guys with the least agreeable personalities decided that the party wasn’t anti-social enough.
While the new party claims to have over 100,000 members, this is disputed:
It’s been a few months now since Restore started, and there’s still no official membership portal.
They have 120,000 donations which could be anywhere around the world, but they don’t have members. https://t.co/kuPU11Zkrm pic.twitter.com/fQNcxIaKH7
— Curtis Daly (@CurtisDaly_) April 11, 2026
In the video at the top, Young Bob is interviewing Kieran Mishchuk. We covered Mishchuk when he was still with Reform, and we did so because he was a brazen bullshitter who got caught in a lie:
GBNews speaking to “random residents”.
Only he’s actually a Reform UK councillor (Kieran Mishchuk, representing 20 mins down the road) being platformed like they’re a random resident.
No one has a problem with the flag, give it a rest.
It doesn’t belong to Reform UK and… https://t.co/gihgI4tlQr pic.twitter.com/7HuFbTWxMl
— Reform Party UK Exposed 🇬🇧 (@reformexposed) October 14, 2025
He’s also – much like Young Bob – the sort of young person that you’d describe as a ‘briefcase wanker’.
Appealing or appalling?
In the video, Young Bob asks:
Why do you think Restore is appealing to so many young people?
Mishchuk answers:
I think it’s common sense really and pride as well, patriotism, hope, stuff that the left the left wing parties that they don’t really clamp on is the history. When you come from a working town like Sittingbourne… you’ve got hundreds of years of history, and you’ve got generations of family members that have done the same thing, and over the last hundred years that industry that was there is gone.
In Sittingbourne, it was paper, bricks, and barges that were built. On my granddad’s side of the family, it was barges. They used to build and design barges. That industry, that boat industry is gone. It’s just completely gone.
Okay, but in the time that all happened, we had a procession of right-wing neoliberal governments.
What do you think Thatcherism was?
Thatcher said her greatest legacy was Tony Blair.
And now we’ve got Keir Starmer and Rachel Reeves doing an even worse tribute act.@TheGreenParty say tax the super rich, nationalise our public services and strengthen workers rights.
— Zack Polanski (@ZackPolanski) March 19, 2024
If you don’t know, Thatcherism was the ideology of selling off everything that wasn’t nailed down and handing off sovereignty to the City of London.
It wasn’t a left-wing project.
What the fuck are you talking about, Kieran?
Leftwards shift
All that aside, young people aren’t interested in Restore anyway:
Young people (18-24s) are 22x more likely to support Zack Polanski’s Green Party than Rupert Lowe’s Restore Britain.
The British youth are the most progressive in the history of this country.
Do not let anyone convince you otherwise. https://t.co/JJyUiZ0LHS pic.twitter.com/UkghCql9Jt
— thelefttake (@thelefttake) April 12, 2026
Other than that, though, lads – good work.
We can see why young people are flocking towards your movement.
Featured image via Young Bob
Politics
Prince William is making millions from renting out a prison
Prince William makes £1.5m a year in taxpayers’ money renting Dartmoor prison to the HM Prison and Probation Service (HMPPS). Whilst this in itself is a bloody outrage, it gets worse. HMP Dartmoor is utterly unusable – a wildlife-infested pit filled with radon gas.
HMP Dartmoor was forced to close its doors due to dangerous levels of the radioactive gas back in July 2024. In both 2020 and 2023, parts of the prison showed radon levels ten-times the legal limit.
Radon is the UK’s second-highest cause of lung cancer, after smoking. Since being left empty the property has become infested with “rats, birds, bats and insects”, according to the Times.
However, the rental agreement is apparently locked-in until 2033. As such, the public looks set to pay up to £68m leasing the useless building over the course of the contract. Over the 2024/25 financial year, William made around £23m from the Duchy of Cornwall portfolio, of which HMP Dartmoor is just one part.
Prince William: The Duchy Files
Back on 2 November 2024, the Times and Channel 4’s Dispatches broke a story on the massive property empire making Charles and William millions a year. The extent of the portfolio was a closely guarded secret, even from Parliament. The Times reported that:
In a five-month investigation, we used the royal addresses to uncover their business contracts and discovered how the duchies are making millions of pounds each year by charging government departments, councils, businesses, mining companies and the general public via a series of commercial rents and feudal levies on land largely seized by medieval monarchs.
The Duchy Files show the royals charge for the right to cross rivers; offload cargo onto the shore; run cables under their beaches; operate schools and charities; and even dig graves. They earn revenue from toll bridges, ferries, sewage pipes, churches, village halls, pubs, distilleries, gas pipelines, boat moorings, opencast and underground mines, car parks, rental homes and wind turbines.
At the time, the Canary commented that a large portion of the land was originally seized by medieval monarchs. This shatters the notion that royal privilege is a thing of the past. In very real ways, the Royal Family is still living in the Medieval Ages, and we’re all paying the price.
Likewise, we also reacted with fury at the fact the monarchy was actively draining money from charities. This included charging massive amounts of rent to Macmillan and Marie Curie. Damningly, the royals are patrons and notable donors to both institutions.
‘Blind panic’
Since the Duchy Files exposé, William has stopped charging rent for village halls, school playing fields, the fire service, and lifeboat stations. However, he’s still raking in the cash from HMP Dartmoor. That’s in spite of the fact the property’s even more unfit for human habitation than the average prison.
Since its closure some 23 months ago, the public has paid prince William at least £2.5m for the defunct prison. The Duchy of Cornwall has refused to comment on whether it will review the rent contract. Instead, the Duchy stated that:
The lease of HMP Dartmoor reflects long-standing arrangements governing the site and was negotiated on a standard commercial basis with both parties taking independent advice. We remain in regular contact with the Ministry of Justice, as it determines the future of the prison.
Public accounts committee MPs stated back in January that senior civil servants renewed the HMP Dartmoor lease in 2023 “in a blind panic”. Reportedly, the responsible parties knew about the prison’s radon levels, but wanted to secure prison places.
Nevertheless, the prison has since had to relocate its 682 inmates. It’s also reportedly hemorrhaging a further £4m a year in an attempt to secure the empty building and improve its ventilation. Geoffrey Clifton-Brown, the Tory chair of the accounts committee, called the MoJ’s handling of the affair “an absolute disgrace”:
We heard claims that the leasing of this unusable building, known for years by HMPPS to be choked with radon gas with all the health risks that entailed, was sensible, driven by the need for prison places. […]
Our committee rejects this excuse outright. Dartmoor appears to the committee [to be] a perfect example of a department reaching for a solution, any solution, in a blind panic and under pressure.
‘Highest possible value for taxpayer money’
At the same time, over 100 staff and prisoners held at Dartmoor have since taken legal action against the Ministry of Justice over radon-induced illness. They join a total of 750 similar legal claimants from 42 prisons and probation facilities across the country with dangerous radon levels.
HMPPS said:
We continue to assess safety and feasibility at HMP Dartmoor, and will make a decision on the site in due course that prioritises the highest possible value for taxpayer money.
As there is an ongoing [Health and Safety Executive] investigation and live legal proceedings, it would be inappropriate to comment further, but we have strengthened radon management across the prison estate in line with regulatory requirements.
A fine demonstration of completely avoiding the issue there.
So, just to recap – prince William is making more than a million a year renting an unlivable prison to HMPPS. The civil servants who signed the contract knew it had illegal levels of radon. However, they were in a panic to find prison spaces. The contract won’t run out until 2033.
In the meantime, the MoJ has still had to relocate the inmates, after having endangered their lives by knowingly locking them in a building full of radioactive gas. Now, the public is also on the hook for the lawsuit, as well as the ongoing bill to try to make HMP Dartmoor useable again.
This utter farce has exposed two things more than any others. First, our absurd rush for prison places is putting lives at risk. Alongside this, it’s acting as a black hole for public money.
And second, for all that we pretend our monarchy is a defunct fossil, they’re clearly still reaping the benefits of a ancient feudal land system. It’s long past time we ended this ridiculous rulership by blood rights for good – starting with the crown’s ownership of 52,000 hectares of UK land.
Featured image via the Canary
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