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These mayors live along Lake America’s shores. But they won’t be calling it that.
Robert Corradino has never lived anywhere but Oswego, New York. As the only commercial port city on the southeastern shore of Lake Ontario, everything bears the lake’s name — the streets, the convention center, the historic fort.
And in his first term as mayor, Corradino — a Republican who said he previously voted for President Donald Trump — said he worries that a distant political feud is threatening to erase part of his city’s history.
In the days following Trump’s executive order renaming Lake Ontario to Lake America, Corradino and other mayors in upstate New York said Trump’s decision is “regrettable” and could upset voters in the region — and even further impact an economy so closely tied to the U.S.’s relationship with Canada.
“The water is part of our identity,” Corradino said. “Not only our identity, but the economy and the history of the lake is tied to the city.”
Oswego, a city of 17,000, is split between Democrats and Republicans, Corradino said. However, the larger Oswego County is one of the reddest in the state and 61 percent of its voters went for Trump in the 2024 election.
Yet on Monday, several Oswego County legislators from both parties approved a resolution rejecting the new name, out of concern for the cost of the rebrand on taxpayers and businesses. The resolution said it does not intend to diminish the authority of the federal government, rather it aims to “recognize the longstanding historical and regional significance of the name Lake Ontario.”
Last Thursday night, at Oswego’s weekly summer concert series, Corradino said everyone he interacted with said they didn’t support the name change and they weren’t sure why it was happening. The general sentiment, he said, was frustration.
Asked about the issues Oswego residents actually care about, Corradino said his constituents are concerned about less immigration enforcement and the war with Iran.
“In general the consensus I see is it just seems like the country is heading in a direction that we’re not all happy about,” Corradino said.
The pushback is not isolated to Oswego. Hours after Trump signed the executive order, New York Gov. Kathy Hochul, a Democrat who runs the only state that borders Lake Ontario, said in a post to social media, “New York won’t be calling it that.”
And there’s been mixed adaptation nationally — similar to when Trump dictated that the Gulf of Mexico now go by Gulf of America.
On Saturday, Google Maps, which uses the U.S. Geographic Names Information System that comes from official government sources, officially changed the name. Map users on the American side will see “Lake America” while users in Canada will see “Lake Ontario.” For users outside of both the U.S. and Canada, they will see both names. Apple Maps followed suit, using the same naming approach as Google.
But MapQuest — the once-dominant mapping service of the 1990s and early 2000s — rocketed up app stores after refusing to use Lake America.
Long before the lake was renamed, Alex Morgia — a Democrat and mayor of Sackets Harbor, N.Y. — said his community has been grappling with the deteriorating relations between the U.S. and Canada.
Sackets Harbor, located along the eastern shores of Lake Ontario, is home to a number of Canadian residents. A village of 1,400 people, it was a major military outpost and naval command center during the War of 1812, when the U.S. clashed with British and Canadian forces.
Since 1971, the village has hosted the Can-Am festival to commemorate the village’s Canadian-American heritage.
The festival “reminds everyone that it’s not very nice to be at odds with your neighbor,” Morgia said. “Having good relationships with your international neighbors is important, particularly for people that live along the border on either side.”
Last year’s festival was the first time residents began making floats of maple leaves and Canadian flags to protest the Trump administration’s calls to make Canada the “51st state” and to remind Sackets Harbor residents that there were Canadian citizens among them, Morgia said.
This year, as Trump has continued to roll out tariffs against Canadian products, and relations with Canadian Prime Minister Mark Carney continued to worsen, Morgia joked that the theme for this year’s parade should’ve been “we’re sorry.”
The overall atmosphere at this year’s parade in July was “somber,” Morgia said.
“I kind of hoped that the Canadian issue had gone by the wayside, but you know [Trump] seems to bring it up when he needs to,” Morgia said.
Sackets Harbor is split between Democrats and Republicans, Morgia said. Jefferson County, which encompasses Sackets Harbor, overwhelmingly supported Trump in the 2024 election with 61 percent of its vote.
“It’s a three-hour drive to Montreal, a two-hour drive to Toronto and a six-hour drive to New York City,” Morgia said. “The biggest metropolitan cities near us are Canadian, and a lot of North Country businesses and people rely on the southern part of Canada. … I’m hopeful that voters will think about that at the polls in November and in 2028.”
In the village of Sodus Point, N.Y. — which is located along the southern border of the Great Lake — Republican Mayor Pat Nolan said he’s disappointed by the name-change as “Ontario” is rooted in the Indigenous history of the region.
The name Ontario, is largely believed to come from Iroquoian roots, meaning “beautiful lake” or “sparkling water,” according to the Canadian government. The Canadian province of Ontario, is named after the lake.
A village of 1,000 people, Sodus Point is located in Wayne County, where Trump received 61 percent of the vote in 2024. Nolan was elected in a write-in campaign last year.
“My hope is that, rather than allowing this decision to become another wedge that further divides people,” Nolan wrote in an email, “it can encourage a broader discussion about the history of this great body of water, the Indigenous people who first gave it its name and the generations of communities that have grown along its shores.”
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Gordon Brown Warns Donald Trump Facing Midterm Wake Up Call
Gordon Brown has warned Donald Trump that he no longer has the support of the American people.
The former prime minister, who resigned after Labour lost the 2010 general election, said the US president will face a “wake-up call” in November’s midterm elections in the US.
A defeat for the Republicans would be a huge blow for the president and make it virtually impossible for him to pass legislation in his final two years in office.
Speaking to the Rest Is Money podcast, Brown said voters in America are turning against Trump over his failure to tackle the rising cost of living.
He said: “I would say to [Trump] American public opinion is not with you anymore.”
Brown said a poll of 100,000 voters around the world for a new book he has written showed that “American people want to co-operate” with other nations, unlike the increasingly-isolationist Trump.
The former PM added: “In America, the Trump factor is still incredibly important, even though on affordability issues, he’s now losing support. So it’s the two together, it’s economic decline and civic decline.”
Around one in six Trump voters told pollsters from the University of Massachusetts-Amherst they would not vote for again while his overall approval rating has also declined to around 32%.
Trump’s decision to initiate a war against Iran in February – a move which continues to weigh on the global economy – remains deeply unpopular.
The president has also spent a lot of time picking fights with allies, as seen in his ongoing trade war with Canada, rather than on domestic affairs.
He has not focused on bringing down cost of living even though he campaigned on a promise to put “America First”.
Trump’s attempts to disrupt the world order is putting off his supporters, according to the ex-prime minister.
“They [Americans] want America to be engaged in persuasion and not coercion,” Brown said.
“America, which used to act multilaterally in a unipolar world, has got to be persuaded to act multilaterally in a multi-polar world. And the public of America are with us on this.”
He continued: “And I think the midterm elections may be a wake-up call that the Trump view of the world that it’s America first and only is something that is not actually held by the American people.
“And I would probably try and tell him that.”
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Politics Home Article | How Reform Is Preparing For A Snap Election

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Reform UK is expanding its campaign infrastructure and expediting candidate vetting in anticipation of an early general election.
While Andy Burnham has publicly ruled out a snap poll, telling the BBC that going to the country early would postpone “essential” repairs to the state, this hasn’t dissuaded Nigel Farage’s party from preparing to face the country sooner than originally thought.
Speaking to The House magazine ahead of Reform conference, which gets underway in Birmingham on Thursday, party chairman Lee Anderson said he believes Burnham is “probably” willing to endure Labour MP losses in a snap election to secure a fresh mandate.
Meanwhile, earlier this summer, Reform’s policy director announced that his team had started putting together the party’s manifesto “to prepare for an early general election”.
Behind the scenes, more work is taking place to ensure the party is ready.
PoliticsHome understands there have been around 3,000 applications to stand as parliamentary candidates since earlier this year. Reform Insiders say the aim is to have as many hopefuls vetted and in place before Christmas as possible, so that a candidate list will be ready to go if Burnham announces in the New Year that he is going to the country.
Once candidates have passed initial vetting, they are invited to assessment days where officials decide they are strong enough to progress. Anderson told The House that the party has been training candidates to be MPs, “about the whipping system, about we’re there to do a job, we’re there to pass laws”.
With one wave of assessment days completed, a second is due to take place in the autumn.
When it comes to the campaign machine, PoliticsHome understands Reform is scrapping its regional director role and instead introducing more branch network coordinators and campaign managers. Under the new structure, each individual appointed to their role will oversee a smaller geographical area and therefore have more capacity.
Flagging the new roles on LinkedIn in the summer, general secretary Tom Waterhouse stated: “We are recruiting. If you want to clear out our failed political class and save Britain, join us.”
Reform officials have also been carrying out internal polling to get a clearer sense of where to concentrate their resources if there is an election in the near future.
Indeed, while the mood heading into last year’s Reform conference was jubilant, this year clouds are hanging over Farage and co as they gather in Birmingham following arguably the party’s most difficult period since the 2024 general election.
While Labour has enjoyed a modest bounce since Burnham replaced Keir Starmer in No 10 in July, Reform’s popularity has dipped in recent weeks, with questions over Farage’s financial arrangements showing signs of cutting through with the public.
Pollster More in Common this week put Reform in third place on 22 per cent behind both Labour and the Tories – the party’s lowest vote share in 18 months.
A Dover council by-election late last month provided the latest evidence of the threat to Reform’s electoral ambitions posed by Rupert Lowe’s hard-right Restore Britain. Green candidate Ingrid Dodd secured a surprise victory after the right-wing vote split three ways: Reform received 733 votes, the Tories 456, and Restore Britain 284.
This year’s conference, then, will be an opportunity for the party to regain momentum and show that it can still win the next general election, whenever Burnham calls it.
PoliticsHome understands that Farage is expected to use the occasion at Birmingham’s NEC to appoint more spokespeople as a way of demonstrating government readiness. The party has faced questions about why it lacks defence and foreign affairs spokespeople at a time when global affairs are so salient.
Anderson insisted in his interview with The House that his party would turn it around.
Asked about the so-called Burnham bounce, the Ashfield MP said: “It’s a get-rid-of-Starmer bounce, the most unpopular prime minister ever, ‘we’re fed up’. Of course, a few of them Labour voters who came to us over the past two years at local elections might say they could consider voting Labour now they’ve got a new leader.
“But come and ask me in six months about those same voters. Will they vote Labour? I’ll give you the answer now, and it’s no.”
Additional reporting by Adam Payne
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Doctor Shares Five Simple Daily Habits That Could Add Years To Your Life
It turns out that tiny changes – minutes more exercise, a few grams more veggies – can make a surprisingly large difference to your longevity and heart attack risk.
And Dr Dominic Greenyer, a private GP at The Health Suite, said that those lifestyle changes become medically obvious in time.
“If you followed two twins over time, you would often see clear differences in their skin, body composition, energy levels and overall health depending on how they live,” Dr Greenyer said.
“Ageing is not just about time passing. It’s about how well the body is maintained.”
Here, he shared the five factors he feels make all the difference:
1) Building and maintaining muscle
As we age, our muscles begin to wane – a process called sarcopenia. If we do nothing to maintain or build it, some research says we’re expected to lose half our muscle mass by 80.
“One of the biggest predictors of healthy ageing is muscle mass,” Dr Greenyer said.
2) Prioritising sleep and recovery
“Chronic poor sleep can accelerate ageing at a cellular level,” Dr Greenyer said.
“It affects hormones, recovery, inflammation and even visible signs like skin quality.”
Experts think that following a “7-1” sleeping rule (getting at least seven hours of sleep a night, with no more than an hour’s variance between bedtimes and wake-up times) could add years to your life.
3) Reducing inflammation through lifestyle choices
In and of itself, inflammation isn’t a problem – it can help our bodies to heal and may be an important part of muscle growth.
But “inflammaging” can occur when inflammation is chronic, and might contribute to conditions such as heart disease, type 2 diabetes, dementia, and frailty.
It “is influenced by diet, stress, alcohol intake and overall lifestyle,” Dr Greenyer said.
Those who eat whole foods, stay active, and manage stress well may have less unwanted inflammation, he added.
4) Maintaining “metabolic flexibility”
This is the ability to respond well to changing metabolic demands. It allows you to switch between burning carbohydrates and fat; a more flexible metabolism is linked to better ageing.
“When this is impaired, people are more prone to energy crashes, fat gain and insulin resistance,” Dr Greenyer said. Exercise, eating well, and avoiding constant snacking may help, he added.
5) Enjoying life, in moderation
There’s lots of research to support the idea that enjoying ourselves – be it through socialising or even eating some candy – might help us to live longer.
“There is good evidence that polyphenol-rich foods such as dark chocolate can support cardiovascular health when consumed in moderation,” Dr Greenyer added. “Just as important is maintaining strong social connections, which are consistently associated with longer lifespan and better mental wellbeing.”
He ended, “The difference comes from small choices repeated over years – but they should still allow you to enjoy life.”
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Nigel Farage Faces Conspiracy Theory Accusations In BBC Interview
Nigel Farage has been accused of sounding “conspiracy theory-like” by the BBC’s political editor in a tense exchange.
The Reform UK leader clashed with Chris Mason during his first sit-down interview since winning back his seat in the Clacton by-election last month.
Farage triggered the contest by resigning after a parliamentary standards probe was launched into his failure to declare a £5 million gift he received from a Thailand-based crypto billionaire.
Farage insisted he has not broken any rules, claiming “it was not a political donation” and pointing out that he was not even an MP when he received it in 2024.
Although the Reform boss increased his majority, his main challenger was Count Binface because Labour, the Tories, Lib Dems and Greens all refused to take part.
Now Farage back in the Commons, the parliamentary investigation into the donation has resumed.
If he is found to have broken the rules and is suspended by parliament’s standards committee for more than 10 days, yet another by-election could take place.
When Mason asked what “on earth was the point” of last month’s by-election, Farage insisted the committee – which is made up of Tory, Labour and Lib Dem MPs plus seven members of the public – would not give him a fair hearing.
Asked about the a separate Metropolitan Police investigation into four large donations to Reform UK, Farage insisted “we live in a complainant society”.
He said: “If you complain about me, automatically that triggers an investigation. So we’re under investigation every day for virtually everything we do, because the other political parties are constantly writing to all the authorities.
“There is a whole ecosystem with a century of development around this, and we come along from virtually nowhere and threaten the whole thing.
“So I think what you’re seeing is the establishment, in a very coordinated way, fighting back. But do you know something, it isn’t going to work.”
Mason replied: “Doesn’t that sound a bit conspiracy theory-like? This ‘the whole world’s out to get us’ stuff.”
Farage insisted there was a “degree of collusion” between Reform’s opponents, who he claimed have been working to “attack” his party since its success in May’s local elections.
He added: “It’ll keep coming. This won’t stop. Every single thing we do will be questioned in all sorts of ways. This will not stop. They will continually try and do this to us.”
Asked who “they” are, Farage said: “People who, people who hold positions of power, influence, and money don’t want new kids on the block succeeding.
“It’s the whole ecosystem.”
He then suggested he and Donald Trump had “sat and talked” about the people who allegedly work against them, before changing his mind and adding: “I haven’t actually discussed this with him.
“But I can see the similarities because again, he was an outsider, he wasn’t part of the system.”
When Mason put it to Farage that scrutiny was “inevitable” considering he is angling to one day be prime minister, the Reform leader replied: “There’s been a wilful attempt, and it’s gone on now for months, to say that everything to do with Reform, that every individual involved with Reform is somehow a crook.
“That’s been the attempt that’s been made.”
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Diane Abbott Dubbed Putins Useful Idiot Over Russia Claim
Diane Abbott has been dubbed “Putin’s useful idiot” after she downplayed the threat posed to the West by Russia.
The veteran Labour MP said it was “a Nato fiction” being used to justify a boost in defence spending, which she opposes.
Her comments come just a month after it emerged she had previously described the war in Ukraine as “a Nato campaign against Russia”.
Andy Burnham has insisted that the UK will hit Nato’s target of spending 3.5% of the country’s gross domestic product (GDP) on defence by 2035.
In a post on X, Abbott said: “The imminent threat from Russia is a Nato fiction to justify their complete capitulation to Trump’s demands for more military spending. The increase should not go ahead.”
Her comments sparked an angry backlash from politicians and pro-Ukraine campaigners.
A spokesman for Tory leader Kemi Badenoch said: “Those views are reprehensible. Ukraine is an innocent party in this. Everyone should be foursquare behind Ukraine and against Russian aggression.”
Posting on X, Tory MP Ben Obese-Jecty said Abbott was “playing the role of Putin’s useful idiot”.
“To rail against increased defence spending by claiming the threat Russia pose is ‘a Nato fiction’ shows she is dangerously out of touch,” he said.
“Over four years into the war in Ukraine, and with escalating sub-threshold activity, we are agreed that increasing defence spending is a matter of national security. It beggars belief that a senior Labour politician could be so naïve.”
The Ukraine Solidarity Campaign said: “There are legitimate debates to be had about defence spending.
“Denying the Russian regime is a threat to democracy all over the world is not legitimate, particularly when the speaker describes Russia’s war on Ukraine as ‘the Nato campaign against Russia’.”
Abbott, the longest serving female MP in the Commons, lost the Labour whip last year after she argued in a letter to The Observer in 2023 that Jewish, Irish and Traveller communities experience prejudice rather than racism.
She got the whip back after Burnham replaced Keir Starmer as prime minister in July.
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Our 2026 Conservative Party Conference Fringe Programme
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Ann Summers Sex Toy Advent Calendar Review: Which One Should You Buy?
When you think of Christmas, you probably think of twinkling lights, cosy mugs of hot chocolate by a fire, and a big glass of red wine. I think of sex toys. ’Tis the damn season, eh?
For the last few years, I’ve taken on the wholly selfless, jolly task of opening the best sex toy advent calendars (yup, those exist) and I’m not mad about it.
While beauty advent calendars have truly outgrown themselves over the last few years, I personally can’t think of a better way to sink into cosy season than a big box of adult treats to while away the time.
I mean, you’re going to be spending plenty of time indoors over the next few months, so you might as well make the most of it.
And while Ann Summers can offer you a plethora of seasonal lingerie to keep you feeling festive, my personal favourite of its Christmas offerings is its advent calendars.
This year, the brand has two 12-day (or night) calendars, filled with everything you could possibly ask for to stuff your stocking. Or something like that.
Christmas comes all year round in my household, so I’ve already opened them. Keep reading for my full review of each.
Ann Summers Advent calendars 2026 at a glance:
How I tested Ann Summers sex toy advent calendars
I’ve been writing and podcasting about sex and relationships for six years now, which means I’ve seen more than my fair share of advent calendars.
For the last few years, I’ve been reviewing the best ones for my podcast, in my previous role at Cosmopolitan and Women’s Health, and now in my role as shopping writer at HuffPost. Ann Summers is one of the most popular calendars out there.
To make sure I know the full experience of opening a sex toy advent calendar in December (despite opening them as early as July) I open each one in order.
Then comes the serious part (not): considering the worth of the calendar versus the number of products.
If I haven’t used the products in each calendar, I’ll test them out, and I also consider how all of the products can be used together, as well as how versatile and accessible they are for a broad range of couples and singles.
My review of Ann Summers sex toy advent calendars 2026
You know how it goes, advent calendars can be a little hit or miss. Either you have the most magical experience opening the beautifully decorated boxes to unearth different treasures every day, or you spend ages fiddling around with a flimsy piece of plastic, only to find a disappointing present inside, which leads you to realise you’ve wasted your money.
If you ask me, sex toys can only be so bad. Last year, I highly rated Ann Summers’ calendars – they offered tons of options for sensation play, for people who weren’t as into intense stimulation, for couples and singles alike.
Immediately, I could tell it had upped the ante with its calendars this year. The boxes not only look more premium, but the toys inside felt it, too.
Ann Summers 12 Nights of Pleasure Advent Calendar
Of the two Advent calendars, 12 Nights Of Pleasure is undoubtedly the showstopper.
It’s not just a fortnight of pleasure you’ll be in for, though, because this calendar has everything you could ever want to buzz, spank, or massage your way to O town.
Inside the metallic purple, blue, and gold boxes, which feel seriously luxury, there are not only seven bestselling Ann Summers sex toys, but a ton of tools to heighten your pleasure without vibrations.
Think: handcuffs, and a paddle (in case you feel like experimenting with some BDSM), lube, and massage oil.
Beginners to sex toys won’t have to struggle for ideas, because it comes with a set of six ‘exploration’ cards with tips about how to use your toys.
And there’s no shortage of fun to be had: whether you’re playing by yourself or with a partner, the selection spells endless combinations.
The pièce de resistance is Ann Summers’ thrusting rabbit vibrator, which costs £70 alone, and offers blended orgasms that will having you decking the halls with more than boughs of holly.
You’ve also got a bullet and a wand, which both make for excellent solo toys, or a spot of mutual masturbation.
Add those into partnered sex along with one of the two cock rings, and you have a combo you’ll never want to put down.
But, if you’ve had enough of Christmas planning, you can even hand the reins over to your partner with the remote-controlled C-shaped toy, which the cards prompt you to pop in while doing the cooking. We’d recommend steering clear of Christmas day itself, though.
Not to mention that the toys all come in premium materials, including silicone and stainless steel, which is a real step up from the soft jelly plastic toys in its calendars last year.
Ann Summers 12 Nights Of Naughtiness
Santa might not want you to be naughty, but this calendar does. Should you not be willing to splash out £300+ on sex toys, the Nights Of Naughtiness calendar poses a slightly more affordable option.
The box isn’t quite as glam, as it’s filled with plastic, rather than individual boxes, but it’s still exciting to open.
Instead of full-sized toys, you’ll get eight mini toys, some of which can be slotted together to keep the good vibes going.
That mini pink rabbit is adorable and ideal for those who aren’t into too much penetration – but don’t worry, you’ll also get a G-spot vibrator to dive deeper, a silicone rabbit-eared bullet, a regular bullet, and a mini wand.
There are also options for the penis possessors out there, too, including a stretchy silicone cock ring, penis sleeve, and anal beads for backdoor play.
This might shock people, but I actually prefer the fact this calendar comes with silk hand ties rather than handcuffs, because you can use them as either a blindfold or wrist restraints (or ankle – go crazy!).
But it’s not just me whose mind will be whirring after opening this calendar, because like the 12 Nights Of Pleasure calendar, you’ll also get six cards with ideas of how to use each of the toys.
There’s no right or wrong – at least, not until your partner decides there is, and asks to you bend over for your comeuppance with that paddle.
Final verdict
Over the last few years, Ann Summers has really refined its advent calendars. Last year it went through a bit of an experimental phase with pheromone perfumes in its calendars; needless to say I’m relieved those have been dropped this year.
The overall quality feels much more premium. Ideally, you want sex toys that are made from silicone and stainless steel, as they’re easier to clean and are more durable, so I’m glad Ann Summers has switched its jelly toys out to these materials this year.
Whenever a brand releases multiple advent calendars, there’s always a clear winner in my mind. This year, it’s the 12 Nights Of Pleasure calendar.
It might be more expensive, but it’s totally worth it, as it’s more of a treat to open. Not to mention you’ll get two full-sized toys, and multiple bestsellers (the thrusting rabbit, rechargeable cock ring with rabbit ears, and remote-control love egg are not only fan favourites but some of my personal Ann Summers faves).
If you’re not bothered about having minis instead, though, you might want to save a cool £165 by opting for the 12 Nights Of Naughtiness.
Both are just as suitable for couples and singles. The included cards have a smorgasbord of ideas for how to use sex toys in solo or partnered sex scenarios, which will keep you coming all year round. Now that’s a happy New Year.
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Growing Up, I Was Embarrassed That My Sister Was ‘Different.’ As Adults, She Changed My Life In A Way I Never Saw Coming.
My older sister, Maria, has an intellectual disability, though it wasn’t always immediately obvious. When we were kids, she talked to herself long after imaginary play was supposed to end. She got overwhelmed by things that seemed small to everyone else. School was hard for her.
I grew up loving my sister, before I learned that the rest of the world saw her as “different.” When you’re a kid, “different” doesn’t feel like a compliment. All I wanted was to fit in, but it was hard with an older sister who stood out.
And whenever I was invited somewhere, there was usually one condition: “Take your sister.”
As a child, I hated hearing those words. Once, as if middle school wasn’t awkward enough, my parents made me take Maria to the movies when me and my friends were meeting up with some boys. I pulled her aside before we walked in.
“Don’t talk,” I told her. “Just stand over there.”
The memory still stings. But here’s the incredible part: Maria loved me anyway. She was always at my sports games. She proudly took pictures with me before every homecoming dance and prom. Eventually, she stood beside me as my maid of honor on my wedding day. Today, she’s the godmother to my three boys.
She wasn’t just my older sister. She was my biggest fan, long before I learned how to be hers.
Somewhere along the way, my embarrassment turned into fierce protectiveness. It hurt when people called my sister names like “the r-word” or stupid or slow, but at the time, I didn’t know what to do with that hurt. Looking back, I think my heart was beginning to quietly turn that pain into purpose.
I also remember the people who loved Maria exactly as she was. My high school friends didn’t just accept Maria, they included her. At one of our themed parties while my parents were out of town, she was right there dancing on the counter with the rest of us, with a cowboy hat on her head. (She also ratted us out the second my parents walked through the door. So much for keeping that little party “between us.”)
My college friends welcomed Maria whenever she came to visit me at Villanova. One night, her winter coat somehow disappeared from behind the bar where everyone had left them. Unexpected situations are incredibly hard for Maria; she can’t always process it when things don’t go according to plan. Within seconds, she was in a full meltdown.
A few of the football players stayed with her, keeping her safe and gently talking her through it while the rest of us searched for her coat. Eventually, she calmed down. Years earlier, I probably would have been mortified. Instead, I felt overwhelmed with gratitude.
My parents never let Maria’s disability become the reason she couldn’t dream big. When she was 26, she met a charming man who also had special needs at the Publix where she works. They immediately became a pair, participating together in bowling and track and field in Special Olympics. Before long, they began talking about marriage.
My siblings and I couldn’t wrap our heads around it. Maria already struggled with independent living and making everyday decisions. How could she also navigate a marriage, especially to a partner who faced challenges of his own? But my parents were supportive.
At the time, I thought they were absolutely crazy. Now I get it. That marriage didn’t last, but Maria deserved the chance to fall in love, get married, make mistakes, learn lessons and experience life just like the rest of us.
I stood beside her as her maid of honour. In my speech, I joked that she had never taught me the typical older sister things — like advice on fashion, putting on makeup or how to French kiss. Instead, she taught me the things that mattered far more. Patience. Kindness. Empathy.
Years later, I moved back to my hometown of Vero Beach, and Maria and I started hanging out regularly again. This time, it wasn’t because my parents made me.
By then, the gym had become my happy place, so I started dragging Maria with me. I still laugh thinking about a spin class we took where everyone was grinding through a steep hill while Maria, not understanding that she was supposed to turn up the resistance, pedalled like she was racing the Tour de France downhill.
The class wasn’t designed to provide the individual instruction and encouragement she needed to connect with the workout or feel motivated by it. The class simply moved at everyone else’s pace, not hers.
Then an idea hit me. What if I stopped trying to fit Maria into a class that wasn’t built for her … and created one that was?
So I asked a local gym if I could use the space on Sundays, when they were closed. Three athletes showed up to that first class. Of course, one of them was Maria.
Volunteers provided individualised coaching and modifications as they each worked through squats, presses and other functional fitness movements at their own pace. Instead of following along in the background, they were engaged and challenged.
That became the beginning of what is now Sunday Strong, a nonprofit dedicated to increasing physical activity for adults with intellectual disabilities. We pair with fitness facilities to offer weekly group exercise classes in a welcoming environment, at no cost to the community.
Maria has worked at Publix for over 25 years, so she knows and talks to just about everybody in town. Years ago, someone asked how I was feeling because Maria told them while bagging their groceries that I’d been drinking too much and throwing up. I was pregnant. Thanks, Maria.
But now she has become my unofficial marketing director. If she meets someone with a disability, she tells them, “You have to come to our exercise class!”
Once, in an airport, one of my kids pointed to a man using a wheelchair and asked about it. I explained that his legs don’t work the same way ours do and that the wheelchair helps him get around. The man thanked me. He told me so many parents panic when their kids ask questions. They rush them away or tell them not to stare.
“Kids are curious,” he said. “Just explain it.”
Inclusion starts with understanding.

Photo Courtesy Of Laura Radocaj
Sunday Strong hasn’t just changed the lives of our athletes and their families. It’s changed the people who donate space at their fitness facilities, the coaches and instructors who donate their time and all our volunteers. People who have never spent time with someone with an intellectual disability before now leave our classes saying the same thing: “I got way more out of this than I gave.”
It’s changed my life most of all. The girl that once asked her sister to stand quietly at the movie theatre so no one would know they were together now finds purpose in providing a place in our community where people with intellectual disabilities can feel they belong.
I spent years wishing my sister wasn’t “different.” Now I can’t imagine my life without everything her differences have given me.
Laura Radocaj is the founder of Sunday Strong and the author of “We Move Together,” a children’s book that helps kids understand differences while celebrating kindness, inclusion and the idea that everyone belongs. A public relations professional for more than 20 years and a lifelong fitness enthusiast, Laura is also a happy wife, mom of four and a dog mom to an adorable pup.
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These Were The Most Popular Baby Names In 2001
In some ways, the early aughts don’t feel like that long ago, but in others, it seems like a different world. That’s certainly true in the realm of baby name trends as well.
Each year, the Social Security Administration releases its official list of the most popular baby names in the United States. Although certain names remain popular from one year to the next, you can see clear shifts over time with other choices.
With that in mind, we decided to look back at the most popular names from 25 years ago to see how parents’ choices in 2001 compare to today’s top picks.
We don’t see as many newborns named Jessica, Destiny and Brandon these days. Below, find the 25 most popular baby names for boys and girls born in 2001 (along with where they rank now).
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