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Depleted Motherhood Syndrome: What Is It And What Are The Signs?
‘Depleted motherhood syndrome’ is a term some medical professionals are using to describe the deep, chronic burnout many mothers are quietly living with.
From nonstop exhaustion to guilt, isolation, anxiety, and even “mum rage”, more women say they feel completely depleted. One survey by Peanut app and Tommee Tippee of 2,000 UK mothers found 81% had experienced burnout.
Yet experts warn that when this kind of burnout goes unchecked, it can seriously impact both mental and physical health.
What are the signs of ‘depleted mother syndrome’?
Dr Allison Venzon, a family medicine physician at Duly Health and Care, told HuffPost UK: “Stress is often viewed as part of motherhood. Some stress is normal. But there’s a point where stress becomes unhealthy.”
When everyday stress crosses into depleted mother syndrome – sometimes called “mum burnout” – it can quietly affect nearly every part of life.
“Instead of stress coming and going, it becomes constant,” said Dr Venzon. “Mothers may feel worn down most of the time. Even when they rest, they don’t feel refreshed.”
The expert noted that the first signs typically show up physically. This might look like persistent low energy, deep fatigue that doesn’t improve with sleep, frequent headaches, getting sick more often, or changes in appetite.
And then there are the emotional elements. “Mental exhaustion, irritability, guilt, and shame are common,” said Dr Venzon. “Some mums feel lonely or question whether they’re a ‘bad’ mum, while others wonder why motherhood feels harder than they expected, or notice they don’t feel like the parent they used to be.”
As burnout takes hold, behavioural changes often follow. “This might look like snapping at a child or partner over something minor, intense emotional highs and lows (sometimes described as “mum rage”) or withdrawing socially because everything feels like too much,” said Dr Venzon.
“Mothers may notice they’re dropping the ball in other areas of life, like work and relationships.”
Dr Emma Svanberg, author of Parenting For Humans, previously told HuffPost UK some people experiencing parental burnout might notice their parenting changes and is different to how they’d usually parent, or they appear to emotionally distance themselves from their children (because they can’t physically withdraw from them).
What to do about ‘mum burnout’
The key here is recognising it – and then finding small, manageable and meaningful ways to get better.
“When depleted mother syndrome goes unrecognised, it can create a difficult cycle of exhaustion, guilt, and poor sleep that deepens over time,” said Dr Venzon.
“Chronic stress also increases the risk of anxiety and depression, which is why this isn’t something to push through quietly. These signs don’t mean you’re doing something wrong – they’re signals that care and support are needed.”
Small, consistent steps can make a difference. Practices like mindfulness – whether through deep breathing, gentle movement, or simply slowing down and being present – can help calm the nervous system and reduce the sense of constant urgency, said the doctor.
Self-care is also important, though she noted it’s often misunderstood. “It doesn’t have to be elaborate or time-consuming. Sometimes it’s as simple as taking 15 minutes alone, eating regular meals, getting outside, or prioritising sleep,” she said.
“Setting boundaries, asking for help, and sharing responsibilities can be just as important as rest.”
In a world where comparison culture thrives, particularly on social media, Dr Venzon noted that letting go of unrealistic parenting expectations can also help ease burnout.
“There’s no such thing as perfect parenting, and striving for it often adds unnecessary pressure. Doing what works for your family – even if it looks different from what you see online – can significantly lighten the mental load,” she noted.
And if feelings of exhausting, irritability, sadness, or emotional numbness persist, reaching out to a healthcare provider or mental health professional can also help.
“Support isn’t a last resort, it’s part of taking care of yourself,” said the doctor.
“Motherhood asks for a lot, and feeling depleted doesn’t mean you’re failing – it means you’re human.
“Burnout isn’t something to push through quietly or carry alone. With support, rest, and realistic expectations, it’s possible to feel more like yourself again. Mums deserve more than survival; they deserve care, too.”
Help and support:
- Mind, open Monday to Friday, 9am-6pm on 0300 123 3393.
- Samaritans offers a listening service which is open 24 hours a day, on 116 123 (UK and ROI – this number is FREE to call and will not appear on your phone bill).
- CALM (the Campaign Against Living Miserably) offer a helpline open 5pm-midnight, 365 days a year, on 0800 58 58 58, and a webchat service.
- The Mix is a free support service for people under 25. Call 0808 808 4994 or email help@themix.org.uk
- Rethink Mental Illness offers practical help through its advice line which can be reached on 0808 801 0525 (Monday to Friday 10am-4pm). More info can be found on rethink.org.
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Newslinks for Sunday 15th February 2026
Labour rebels line up Healey to challenge Starmer
“Labour rebels are lining up John Healey, the Defence Secretary, as a “unity candidate” to challenge Sir Keir Starmer for the leadership, The Telegraph understands. A rising number of backbenchers believe Mr Healey would draw support from both the Right and Left of the parliamentary party. Some on the moderate wing of the party believe that Wes Streeting, the Health Secretary, has become too “toxic”, particularly following his decision to publish his WhatsApp messages with Lord Mandelson. Meanwhile, allies of Angela Rayner admit it will be difficult for her to run in a leadership contest while HMRC continues its investigation into her tax affairs. It comes amid a push from within the party to steer Labour in a different direction to the one piloted by Morgan McSweeney, who quit as Sir Keir Starmer’s chief of staff this month over the Mandelson scandal.” – Sunday Telegraph
- Badenoch calls Starmer a ‘lame duck PM’ — and worse – Sunday Times
- Will Starmer shift to the left? – FT
- I will lead Labour into election PM says – Sun on Sunday
- The moment Starmer’s colleagues lost all confidence in him – Sunday Express
- Unions and Labour MPs call on Starmer to end ‘narrow factional agenda’ – Observer
- Miliband plots pact with Green Party leader – Mail on Sunday
- Burnham hatches new plan to become MP – Mail on Sunday
- Mandelson seen for first time since Epstein revelations – Sunday Telegraph
- Did Mandelson lean on BBC to drop probe into his links to Russia? – Mail on Sunday
- Labour activists paid for smear campaign against journalists – Sunday Times
- PM backing Cabinet Secretary frontrunner ‘because she’ll suppress the release of private Mandelson messages’ – Mail on Sunday
- Starmer urged to go slow on replacing ousted head of civil service – FT
- PM’s hiring mistakes create a culture of drift – FT
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Starmer surrenders to EU net zero rules
“Sir Keir Starmer has drawn up plans under which the UK will ramp up its net zero targets and cede control over its energy policy as part of closer alignment with Brussels. A memorandum, published by the Cabinet Office earlier this month, spells out the price that the UK is willing to pay to reset relations with Europe. This includes a “dynamic alignment” of British law with EU rules on “the promotion of renewable energy”, which would require the UK to decarbonise – not just electricity, but also heating and transport, rapidly. In practice this could see net zero targets doubled, potentially leading to draconian measures such as reducing meat consumption and restrictions on flying, wood fires and driving.” – Sunday Telegraph
- Weak Starmer has been forced into an unthinkable betrayal – Sunday Telegraph
- Reeves’ Brexit betrayal on customs union ‘will cost Britain £40bn a year’ – Sunday Telegraph
Cancelling elections is an abuse of power, High Court to hear
“Sir Keir Starmer’s decision to cancel local elections is an abuse of power that threatens the foundations of British democracy, the High Court will hear. In a legal challenge to the decision to cancel some of May’s elections, lawyers acting for Reform UK will argue that Labour acted out of political interest to deny 4.6 million people the right to vote. In court documents seen by The Telegraph, they claim it is “patently irrational” to postpone elections in peacetime and that it “stands in contradiction to the basis of the country, namely democratic rights and the basis of individual rights”. Nigel Farage, the leader of Reform UK, is expected to appear at the High Court for both days of the hearing next Thursday and Friday.” – Sunday Telegraph
- Labour warned by electoral watchdog boss that council elections must go ahead – Mail on Sunday
- Reform leader’s popularity dips as party surges in polls – FT
- Farage’s right-hand man publishing book on how to launder money – Sunday Telegraph
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Russia killed Navalny with frog toxin, UK and four European allies claim
“Alexei Navalny, the Russian opposition leader, was killed by dart frog poison administered by the Russian state two years ago, a multi-intelligence agency inquiry has found, according to a statement released by five countries, the UK, France, Germany, Sweden and the Netherlands. The US was not one of the intelligence agencies making the claim. Navalny died in a remote Arctic penal colony where he was serving a 19-year sentence. Samples from his body were secured before his burial and sent to the laboratories of two countries. The UK, describing the poisoning as barbaric, said it would be reporting Russia to the Organisation for the Prohibition of Chemical Weapons, as a flagrant violation by Russia of the chemical weapons convention (CWC).” – Observer
- Putin’s frog poison hit on Navalny reveals his secret chemical weapons – Sunday Telegraph
- Starmer calls for western alliance to be ‘remade’ – FT
- Ukraine wants 20-year US security guarantee to sign peace deal – Observer
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Politics Home Article | Can The Student Loan Genie Be Put Back In The Bottle?

Haris Malekos
6 min read
The issue of student loans has exploded into life in Westminster in recent weeks, with figures across the political spectrum demanding a serious conversation about the ‘Plan 2’ system. But will it come to anything?
Late last month, Chancellor Rachel Reeves defended her decision in the November Budget to freeze the threshold at which graduates start to pay back their loans as “fair and reasonable”.
She was responding to Martin Lewis, the TV personal finance expert, who earlier that week argued it was “not a moral thing” to do because it was essentially treating debt like tax. “It’s a contract that the government signed with young people who had not been given any education on these loans,” Lewis said, who urged Reeves to “please have a rethink”.
Since then, the Labour government has faced a backlash from a generation of ‘Plan Two’ graduates, seemingly leading ministers to strike a more emollient and open-minded tone on the question of whether student loan reform should be on the table.
Health Secretary Wes Streeting said last week it was a “debate clearly rumbling and worth having”, while Labour Deputy Leader Lucy Powell has this week acknowledged that there are “absolutely” issues around the Plan Two student loan interest.
Under the Plan Two agreement, graduates are charged interest on loan repayments equal to Retail Prices Index (RPI) plus up to three percentage points. However, monthly repayments often do not meet interest, leaving many graduates with debt larger than what they originally borrowed, years after leaving university. Some people have shared details of such cases on social media, fuelling the growing wave of outrage.
Former education secretary Alan Johnson, who is now chancellor of the University of Hull, last week told BBC’s Today programme that the current system is “horrendous”.
It is noteworthy that there are now significantly more MPs with Plan Two student loans than ever before, which is helping calls for reform gain traction in Westminster. Plan 2 loans were issued to English undergraduates who started courses between 2012 and 2022.
PoliticsHome understands that several Labour MPs in this cohort have had discussions with sympathetic ministers about what can be done to help address the sense of unfairness.
It is currently seen as unlikely that the Labour government will commit to a task as significant as overhauling the student loan system, especially given the many other major policy challenges that it is already grappling with, like thorny and complex SEND reforms.
Speaking on Thursday, Reeves said she would lower student loan repayments by cutting inflation. “But by getting inflation down, we can also reduce the interest on student loans and I think that will make a big difference in making that more affordable,” she said.
However, there are no signs of the debate disappearing.
Two Labour-aligned think tanks, The Institute for Public Policy Research and Labour Together, are preparing new pieces of work in this area, PoliticsHome understands, while Plan 2 MPs like Labour backbencher Chris Curtis are publicly calling for changes to the system. Clips of New Statesman journalist Oli Dugmore calling for reform on BBC Question Time have gone viral.
It is for this reason that other political parties are starting to look at it.
PoliticsHome understands that the Conservatives, under whom the current student loan system was created, are looking at student loans as part of work on their wider higher education policy. The Tories have been warned that they must rebuild support among young people to have a route back to power, with just 8 per cent of 18-24-year-olds and 25-39-year-olds voting for them at the 2024 general election, according to YouGov.
Former Conservative education secretary Justine Greening told PoliticsHome that Kemi Badenoch’s party should take the lead on student loans to help “reconnect with young voters”.
She told PoliticsHome: “The very system that was supposed to support aspiration and social mobility has now become a system that has the opposite effect. Many young people, especially with fewer family resources to fall back on, are understandably scared of the student debt that they are going to have to take out if they want to get to university.
“It means that tuition fees and student loans are a mainstream ‘retail’ policy, just like income tax rates. If it wants to build a connection to those generations, then the Tory party needs to lead on this and come up with real solutions.”
A former Conservative adviser who worked close to the issue in recent Tory administrations was sceptical about a “total rewriting” of the system, however.
“My sense is that officials know a lot of people have issues with the student loan system, but anything to make it more affordable is going to result in the taxpayer picking up more of it, which isn’t fair for half of the population who don’t go to university,” they said.
Reform UK, which, if a general election were held tomorrow, would be in a strong position to form a government, according to opinion polls, pledged in its 2024 manifesto to scrap interest on student loans and extend loan capital repayment periods to 45 years.
When asked about the party’s current position, a Reform source told PoliticsHome: “We are prepared to be radical to end the injustice of high student debt.”
“Young people should learn vocational skills that earn good wages, or degrees that are genuinely useful to them and the country,” they added.
PoliticsHome understands that Ed Davey’s Liberal Democrats are planning to release a university policy paper in the coming weeks.
There is some nervousness among Lib Dem figures about making universities a major policy focus, with the coalition-era U-turn on tuition fees and subsequent electoral backlash felt to be a ghost not yet fully exorcised, PoliticsHome understands.
However, the party is understood to be considering how students can be protected from changes to their contract, capping total payments in real terms, and whether the use of RPI can be replaced.
Meanwhile, a Green Party spokesperson told PoliticsHome: “The government has become a Student Loan Shark, with people on Plan 2 student loans — the vast majority — finding themselves saddled with debt for over 30 years. We strongly oppose plans to freeze the loan repayment threshold and want to see the exorbitant interest rate cut.
“Ultimately, the Green Party wants to see the restoration of grants and the end of tuition fees. Education is a right, not a privilege, and we need to see it as public investment, not private debt.”
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AOC Tears Trump Apart As ‘Authoritarian’ And Warns He Wants To ‘Carve Out The World’
Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez delivered a dire warning about President Donald Trump’s apparent ambition to destroy the international rules-based order and let authoritarians “carve out the world” — as long as he gets the Western Hemisphere.
The New York Democrat made her case on Friday during a panel discussion at the Munich Security Conference, beginning with a call for protecting the world’s democracies amid Trump’s controversial foreign and domestic policy actions that define this volatile “new era.”
“I think what we are seeking is a return to a rules-based order that eliminates the hypocrisies around when, too often in the West, we look the other way for inconvenient populations to act out these paradoxes,” Ocasio-Cortez said.
She continued with examples: “Whether it is kidnapping a foreign head of state, whether it is threatening our allies to colonise Greenland, whether it is looking the other way in a genocide, hypocrisies are vulnerabilities and they threaten democracies globally.”
Ocasio-Cortez delivered her most pointed remarks, however, when moderating New York Times journalist Katrin Bennhold asked which policies or institutions – such as NATO, the Paris Climate Accords or the Iran nuclear deal – a Democratic administration would save.
The progressive congresswoman began by arguing that the US must first revisit its commitments to foreign assistance through agencies such as USAID, and renew America’s political agreements with various allies that the Trump administration has abandoned.
“They are looking to withdraw the United States from the entire world so that we can turn into an age of authoritarianism, of authoritarians, that can carve out the world where Donald Trump can command the Western Hemisphere and Latin America,” she continued.
Ocasio-Cortez added that Trump sees the entire Western Hemisphere as “his personal sandbox.”

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She further argued Trump wouldn’t care if strong-arm leaders such as Russia’s Vladimir Putin started to “saber-rattle around Europe” and militarily “bully” America’s allies there, reiterating that his goal is for “authoritarians to have their own geographic domains.”
Trump has admitted there is only “one thing” limiting his quest for land and resources, telling the New York Times, “My own morality. My own mind. It’s the only thing that can stop me.”
“I don’t need international law,” he continued at the time. “I’m not looking to hurt people.”
Ocasio-Cortez on Friday finished making her case by returning to the moderator’s central question about which institutions or policies a Democratic administration might want to save, sparking renewed speculation of her potential presidential run in 2028.
She told Bennhold, “And it actually is the Trans-Pacific Partnership, it is our global alliances that can be a hard stop against authoritarian consolidation of power, particularly in the installation of regional puppet governments.”
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Obama Gives A Measured Response To Trump’s Racist Ape Video
Former President Barack Obama called out MAGA’s “deeply troubling’ behaviour in a measured response to the racist video shared by current President Donald Trump, which depicted the former president and wife Michelle Obama as apes.
Obama sat for an interview, published on Saturday, with liberal influencer Brian Tyler Cohen, in which he was asked to weigh in on conservatives’ saying things that would have been “disqualifying just a few years ago now,” but now not only feel “acceptable,” but are “actually rewarded.”
He brought up instances such as Vice President JD Vance saying “you don’t have to apologise for being white anymore,” as well as Trump’s now-deleted infamous ape post on Truth Social.
The video has been removed, but it received backlash from Democrats and Republicans. The president, however, refused to apologise for uploading the video in the first place.
He instead claims the video was uploaded by a staffer, who did not have action taken against them, and that he hadn’t seen the portion of the video featuring racist imagery.
“It’s important to recognise that the majority of the American people find this behaviour deeply troubling,” Obama said.
He added, “It’s true that it’s a distraction. But, you know, as I’m traveling around the country, as you’re traveling around the country, you meet people – they still believe in decency, courtesy, kindness, and there’s this sort of clown show that’s happening in social media and on television.
“And what is true is that there doesn’t seem to be any shame about this among people who used to feel like you had to have some sort of decorum and a sense of propriety and respect for the office, right? So that’s been lost.”
However, the former president said he still believes a majority of Americans don’t approve of the administration’s behaviour or values, pointing to protests in Minnesota in the wake of aggressive immigration crackdowns and the killings of Renee Nicole Good and Alex Pretti.
He commended the outpouring of organising and community building that has come out in response to Trump’s immigration agenda.
“In a, you know, systematic, organised way, citizens saying this is not the America we believe in, and we’re going to fight back,” Obama said. “And we’re going to push back with the truth and with cameras and with peaceful protests and shining a light on the sort of behaviour that in the past we’ve seen in authoritarian countries and we’ve seen in dictatorships, but we have not seen in America, and that kind of heroic sustained behaviour in sub-zero weather by ordinary people is what should give us hope.”
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How Anxiety About Ageing Impacts How You Age
According to research from the Centre for Ageing Better, many of us are deeply afraid of ageing.
Their research, conducted as part of their anti-ageism campaign Age Without Limits found that almost a third of people are worried that they won’t be in good physical health as they age, one in five are worried that they won’t have good mental function and almost a quarter of people are worried that they won’t be independent and will have to rely on others for help as they get older.
Dr Carole Easton OBE, Chief Executive at the Centre for Ageing Better said: “If you consider that the public on average considers 58-60 to be old, it is shocking to think that such large proportions of the public don’t think they will have good mental function by this age, or will be able to drive a car as well or be as competent in their jobs.
“Among the most common incorrect assumptions around ageing is that it is predominantly about frailty, decline and dependency. In reality, the large majority of us will not get dementia or live in care homes while just one in ten people aged 65 are defined as frail.”
Additionally, these harmful assumptions and fear could be making women in particular age faster.
How anxiety around ageing is harming women
A new study from the New York University’s School of Global Public Health has found that having anxiety about aging—particularly fears about declining health—may manifest on a cellular level and contribute to accelerated ageing,
Mariana Rodrigues, a PhD student and first author of the study said: “We know from previous research that anxiety, depression, and mental health in general are associated with a number of physical health outcomes, but until now researchers haven’t focused on whether there is a correlation between worrying about ageing and the process of ageing itself.
“Women in midlife may also be multiple in roles, including caring for their aging parents. As they see older family members grow older and become sick, they may worry about whether the same thing will happen to them.”
Ageism plays a role, too
While life pressures and even our own health concerns can definitely play a huge role in our fear of ageing, the societal view of growing older doesn’t help us age into the next eras of our lives without anxiety.
Dr Easton says: “Hearing constant negative messaging about older age can become a self-fulfilling prophecy, affecting our self-esteem and what we think we are capable or worthy of as we get older.
“Thinking negatively about ageing and older people has been accepted and ignored for too long.”
She’s not wrong. Why do we think life ends as our wrinkles grow and why do we look at older lives as frail?
How to address internal ageism
Of course, we can’t change the world overnight but we can challenge our own prejudices. For example, assuming that an older person is frail, doesn’t have a healthy sex life or can’t think independently is ageist.
Healthline recommends the following steps to address internal ageism:
- Include older people practively in your life – “If you know an older adult who shares your love of sci-fi, yoga, or gardening, consider inviting them along to your next class, meeting, or hangout. You may have more in common than you think, and other members may find a new perspective refreshing”
- Push back against assumptions from others
- Find ways to connect with older people in your community like joining local groups etc, where you can learn from one another
Getting older is a gift, we shouldn’t be scared of it.
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The Tories seem less scared of their shadow, but honest consistency has to be the way forward
At the very real risk of criticism from traditional working class Labour types, and their new right counter parts in Reform, I donned velvet smoking jacket and cravat last Thursday to attend at Conservative Party party.
Yes, yes “typical tory posh type, wets and bankers (they might not actually use a ‘b’) living it up, while ordinary folk struggle with the cost of living”. I mean I sort of get it, but it was the dull the first time I heard it and it hasn’t improved with age.
I don’t, despite a friendly jibe from journalist Camilla Tominey, habitually dress in such attire but the theme of the night was the 1920’s, and almost everyone had risen to the challenge. One or two of the men had opted for the easy ‘black-tie as their dressing up option, one former Cabinet minister had not, but we excused it as him thinking it was “whatever I was wearing in the office at 19:20”
I mention bankers because this was a fundraiser dinner with a room full of people who far from thinking the Conservative party is dying, are funding it’s renewal. Yes, Reform have their backers with big pockets, as did Labour and presumably still do, just, but that old myth “the money’s dried up” seemed put to bed early on Thursday.
The 1920’s was an interesting theme: UK politics was dominated by David Lloyd George’s Liberal-Conservative coalition government, grappling with post-war economic slump, industrial unrest, and Irish independence demands. The year saw the passage of the landmark Government of Ireland Act 1920, partitioning Ireland, while Labour rapidly emerged as the main opposition to the Conservatives.
The most notable point was the mood.
The Conservative party is feeling both bullish and more confident, whilst completely aware that the brand, if not the leader needs a huge amount of work, and that persuasion is now less about appeasing the angry but persuading the indifferent.
This is the ‘delusion’ opponents like to refer to, that the Tories don’t get what is still required of them. They do, they are acutely aware of it, but they’re no longer afraid of it.
Reform have, they will under this article and online, continue their now well-rehearsed critiques. But those Conservatives who’ve stayed to fight are growing impervious to it. As I’ve mentioned before, a relentless series of attacks from Reform has hardened attitudes, as one shadow cabinet figure put it:
“Apart from giving Labour a free ride whenever they do it, the attacks on us, especially when Kemi is getting the attention they want, works both ways. Their base love it, but others are put off. People talk about indifference – well ok, but our people are starting to ignore it. They won’t be bullied off the pitch, especially when parts of Labour seem to want to do that to the PM!”
It’s a sentiment I’ve heard a lot recently. The Conservatives understand the Reform threat, and their own difficult issues, they just aren’t intimidated by any of it, even if it’s a daunting challenge with no god given rights to success.
For the avoidance of doubt, Prosper UK, and the phantom secret army of Lib Dems people like to suggest are really in control were not in attendance. Perhaps they are they exercise this ‘control’ remotely but I couldn’t see much sign of that in the Leader’s speech.
Kemi Badenoch got a great reception given her own personal renewal, because she’s leading opposition to this Government – which is her job – and because she’s sticking to her strategy (certainly, doubts about that strategy, are expressed on ConservativeHome all the time) of not being distracted and being honest with people, both party and voters.
I’m going to suggest that, whatever those doubts, her sticking to a consistent course and not being buffeted off it by events, defections or the arrival of new campaign groups, is the right strategic plan.
A year ago I envisaged the Tories like once dominant athletes, still training to get back to winning ways, laughed at by new athletes and long standing rivals as they tried desperately to re-find their form. Evidence they were, or could, was pretty scant, but they were getting on with getting on, and my suggestion was that they ignored the taunts and just kept putting in the hard yards because the big race – where it counts – was still years off – and those taunts were transparently designed to put people still running in a blue rosette off their stride.
Speaking of which the shadow Chancellor, for all the attempts to undermine him as ‘chief wet’ or old face of an old regime seemed both buoyant and as much enthused by the direction Kemi was taking the party – by any criteria not ‘left’ – as those who backed her before the leadership contest. Even the doubters, seem both on board and relieved she is not the party leader who is in serious trouble now. That’s quite a turnaround in a year.
One of the reasons the tables have turned is Labour and Starmer’s undeniably and seemingly inescapable doom loop of scandal and incompetence that dogs this Government.
Part of the reason for that is the PM’s unbreakable habit of constantly changing tack. New initiatives – mainly launched when their myriad predecessors have failed ignominiously – flip-flops, U-turns have made him the ultimate weather-vane. Leadership in the model of a forcibly released and rapidly deflating balloon, heading in random directions, nudged in random directions by rapidly released wind, not strategic thought.
Farage, from whose iron throne direction comes in House Reform, is also prone to changing his mind. Junking his election ‘manifesto’ in a year, rapid clarification on announced policy to cover the gaps in detail, and the switchero on the two child benefit cap. If only he’d informed his two new recruits before the vote.
Farage and Reform, are not, for the umpteenth time, to be underestimated. Reform are not dismissible clowns or as extreme as Polanski, and Starmer are desperate to suggest. They aren’t however inevitable winners either. Not ones Tories should bow to and offer a free ride. They chose not to deserve that, but demanding a fight to the death with the Tories, which neither are going to win.
They themselves, on the evidence of Thursday, are the very epitome of their latest insult – NPC – ‘not proper Conservatives’ – because the proper Conservatism Badenoch and her team are pursuing is not as Reform and Labour like to portray it, and not controlled by a ‘secret cabal of wets’. It also isn’t going to be ‘stopped by her party’ if they were in power – the other canard bandied about these days – which of course concedes the idea that they could be in power again.
So consistency, Conservative values, and telling the truth. That’s what is being offered, and in a political world where all of that’s in short supply elsewhere, that’s not a bad tack to hold to.
Here’s the fly in the ointment.
All of that said, no party, whatever they claim, including those shadow Cabinet members, and LOTO staffers, ‘Lords, Ladies and gentlemen’ who rose to applaud their leader on Thursday even before she spoke, and those that spoke to me after afterwards, none are yet articulating the full policy platform that matches the scale of the issues Britain faces.
No politician is there yet. If Farage predicts an election next year, and performatively put his party on an ‘election war footing’ – something neither Reform, the Tories or Labour are ready for, it ignores the fact that for all the slogans, from every side, there is still a gap of real credible solutions. All have supplied some, nobody the full package.
Badenoch vows they will – long before any election – Reform still seems to be offering withering diagnosis, but still short on solutions. I’m not suggesting they’ll stay that way but if they think slogans are enough, they are either mistaken, or hoping to do what Starmer did, and offer very little until they are ‘in’. Well we’ve seen how that works out.
As MPs are on recess, and have a chance to take the temperature away from the suffocation of the ‘bubble’, offering people honest consistency and a bit more articulation of the actual vision, not one filtered by opponents, might get them the increased hearing they need and that those opponents insist they can’t get.
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5 Common Sex-Ed Questions Teens Want Answered
Talking about sex with your children can be hard. It can feel awkward, and therefore it can be easier to just skip it altogether.
But young people tell us that they wish their parents were able to talk to them more about these topics – and to answer the questions that they have.
Young people are curious, and sex ed at school is outdated, so often they have no option but to look elsewhere, which can lead to them stumbling across misinformation in the black hole that is the internet.
At Fumble, we share sex ed content that’s written by young people for young people. Here are some of our most-asked questions – and how to go about answering them if your teen plucks up the courage to ask.
How do I know if my partner actually wants sex?
Consent is more topical than ever, and it’s something that concerns young people a lot. We often get asked: if people find it hard to say ‘no’, how can you be sure the person you’re intimate with definitely wants to be?
A clear ‘yes’ is the absolute minimum, but even if they have that, having open, frequent discussions with their partner about how they want to communicate and give consent will help them be sure they’re both happy.
Comfortable, communicative intimacy is the best, most pleasurable, and safest type for everyone involved. Encourage them to give their partner opportunities to say ‘no’ indirectly, by suggesting alternatives to sex, too.
How often should you get checked for sexually transmitted infections (STIs)?
Many young people find it hard to talk about STIs, as parents and teachers only tend to talk about safe sex, and often STIs are unnecessarily stigmatised. But the fact is, STIs are very common, and having one doesn’t mean the person has done anything wrong.
Being tested regularly for STIs is a great habit to be in, regardless of whether you are having unprotected sex.
As a general rule, everyone should get tested before each new sexual partner (ideally with their partner tested, too) and once a year. They should get tested sooner if they’ve developed symptoms or had unprotected sex.
Want to help your young person do this in practice? Help them book in at their GP, or check out online and remote sexual health check providers. Most STIs can be treated with antibiotics or managed by the person, so it’s best to know as early as possible.
Why do I feel guilty or sad after having sex?
It is way more common to feel guilty or blue after sex than we usually acknowledge, especially if it’s a new experience.
Sex is a physical, psychological and emotional experience with heightened intimacy and intensity. When that stops, it’s perfectly natural to feel a little sad. There are sometimes other reasons why they might be feeling down, for example, they weren’t ready for it, it wasn’t with the right person, or it wasn’t what they were expecting.
Reassure them that that’s okay. Let them know that these feelings usually pass and encourage them to talk to their partner.
Often, young people can feel awkward about telling an adult, so just being there and not judging can help. This is where having built up trust and open dialogue with your child over the longer term is really important. For tips on how to do that as a parent, head to our free masterclass.
Why do boys only have one sign they’re turned on, while girls have many?
When it comes to sex, arousal and pleasure, there is a lot of focus on the penis and erections, so it can feel like this is the only way to tell if a boy is aroused. But there are actually lots of gender-neutral signs of arousal.
These can include rising blood pressure and heart rate, breathing becoming heavier, flushed cheeks, positive sounds of enjoyment, and smiling or voicing enjoyment.
Erogenous zones are areas that feel sensitive and can create a sexual response when touched. This includes genitals, but also for both men and women can include the neck, ears, nipples and back.
Remind them that even if someone is visibly aroused, that doesn’t mean they consent to sex or sexual intimacy.
What do I do if someone has shared nude pictures of me?
Sending nudes under the age of 18 is illegal, so lots of young people are reluctant to speak up about it at all if they’re struggling with this, as they’re worried they will get in trouble.
Let them know the law is there to protect them, and you will help them navigate this. Try not to panic (we know this can feel tricky as a parent!), and try to avoid the temptation to ask them why they shared pictures, or tell them they shouldn’t have.
Reassure them that they haven’t done anything wrong. Sharing someone’s nude photos without their consent is a form of image-based sexual abuse. It can be reported online via the CEOP, part of the UK’s national crime agency.
Organisations like Childline and The Internet Watch Foundation also provide extensive information and support on this topic.
Lucy Whitehouse is the CEO of sex-ed charity Fumble. If you’re looking for more information or an answer to a specific question, get access to all of Fumble’s resources and guides at fumble.org.uk.
Politics
7 Wuthering Heights Adaptations Streaming Right Now
Maybe you’ve already seen Emerald Fennell’s new Wuthering Heights movie in the cinema, and you’re now deep-diving into every adaption that’s ever existed.
It could be that you’re more of a “watch on the sofa” type of viewer, and want something to whet your appetite while you wait for Margot Robbie and Jacob Elordi’s effort to start streaming.
Or, perhaps you’re a purist who’s boycotting the whole thing because of all the controversy surrounding the casting in the new movie.
Whatever your reason for seeking out more Wuthering Heights in your life, Emily Brontë’s classic novel has been a constant inspiration for filmmakers for almost a century now, so there’s plenty of material to choose from.
From former Bonds playing Heathcliff to modern-day reimaginings, here are seven reworkings of Wuthering Heights available to stream right now…
Wuthering Heights: The black-and-white film version from the 1930s

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So iconic it’s preserved in the US Library of Congress for its cultural significance, one of the OG Wuthering Heights adaptations stars Merle Oberon and Laurence Olivier as Cathy and Heathcliff.
Like Emerald Fennell’s take, this 1939 film chose to chop out the second half of the book, which is basically a whole load of Heathcliff being cruel to children, opting to go heavy on the romance instead.
If you’re after a black-and-white classic to balm your dating app fatigue, this version is the one.
Stream it on: Amazon Prime Video
Wuthering Heights: The Timothy Dalton film from the early 1970s

Some 15 years before he became the fourth James Bond, Timothy Dalton was running round the Yorkshire moors as Heathcliff for this 1970 film adaptation of Wuthering Heights.
Playing very fast and loose with the original source material and focusing – yet again – solely on the first half of the book, this version was a box office hit.
However it was less loved by the critics, who called it “simply petulant” at the time of release. The original controversial remake, perhaps?
Wuthering Heights: The BBC TV series from the 1970s
One of the first adaptations to fully embrace Heathcliff’s revenge arc, the BBC’s five-part TV series is the kind of prestige drama teachers would wheel out on the big telly as a treat.
With five hours’ worth of material to play with, the series was able to faithfully dive into both parts of the book and explore some of the darker subject matter as well as the romance.
Stream it on: BBC iPlayer
Emily Brontë’s Wuthering Heights: The 1992 film with Sinéad O’Connor, Ralph Fiennes and Juliet Binoche

With a bizarre – but brilliant! – cast including Ralph Fiennes (in his debut film), Juliet Binoche and Sinéad O’Connor (acting as Emily Brontë herself), this 90s adaptation also made an effort to include both sides of the story.
Come for Juliet’s French-Yorkshire accent, stay for Ralph’s chilling depiction of Heathcliff long before he was the movie star he is now.
Wuthering Heights: The Clueless and 10 Things I Hate About You-esque 21st century remake on MTV

An early noughties MTV-produced teen romance musical television film version of Wuthering Heights, you say? Inject it straight into our veins.
This version was so damn hip it did away with Cathy and Heathcliff to make way for “Cate” and “Heath”, while replacing the Yorkshire Moors with California.
You’ll also spot Katherine Heigl playing Isabel Linton, a couple of years before her big break on Grey’s Anatomy, while Ozzy and Sharon Osbourne’s eldest daughter Aimee also makes a rare on-screen appearance.
Wuthering Heights: The ITV drama with Tom Hardy as Heathcliff

It would be unfair to talk about Tom Hardy’s turn at playing Heathcliff without preparing you for the jump scare that is his wig collection for the two-part series.
Now that unpleasantness is out of the way, the 2009 TV adaptation of Wuthering Heights shuffled around the order of events in the books, giving more prominence to the character of Nelly, played here by Sarah Lancashire.
In a true testament to the project’s romantic themes, Tom and his co-star Charlotte Riley (who played Cathy) ended up falling in love on set, and have been married since 2014.
Wuthering Heights: Andrea Arnold’s very well-received film starring Kaya Scodelario and James Howson

In stark contrast to Emerald Fennell’s take on Wuthering Heights, Andrea Arnold’s on-screen adaptation was one of the few to feature a Black actor in the role of Heathcliff, as well as a teenage Cathy, staying true to the source material, with James Howson and Skins’ Kaya Scodelario taking on the iconic literary roles.
While it didn’t do massive numbers at the box office, critics praised how it “stripped the story ruthlessly down to its bare essentials: pain, anger and love”.
Politics
How To Get To Heaven From Belfast Cast: Where You’ve Seen The Stars Before
The hit Netflix dark comedy thriller How To Get To Heaven From Belfast reunites the creator of Derry Girls, Lisa McGee, with some of the sitcom’s main stars – plus a host of familiar faces from the world of TV.
The critically-acclaimed series follows three women in their 30s, who reunite in the wake of the death of the estranged fourth member of their teenage friend group.
After a sinister discovery, the trio embarks on a quest to find out what really happened to their late friend, becoming tangled in a web of conspiracies in the process as they attempt to keep their own skeletons firmly in the closet.
How Tom Get To Heaven From Belfast is full of recognisable performers – and here is where you might have seen them before…
Roisin Gallagher

Roisin Gallagher plays screenwriter Saoirse in How To Get To Heaven From Belfast. Her first notable role was playing DC Emer Taylor in The Fall alongside Gillian Anderson and Jamie Dornan.
In 2022, she landed the leading role in ITV’s The Dry, where she portrayed a woman who returns home to Dublin amid her recovery from alcoholism.
The following year, Roisin appeared alongside Johnny Flynn in Sky’s romantic drama The Lovers, playing a supermarket worker with a secret past who fell in love with a well-known political journalist.
More recently, Roisin played the romantic love interest, Laura in Harlan Coben’s Netflix series Lazarus.
Sinéad Keenan

Sinéad Keenan, who plays Robyn in the Netflix show, is best known as DCI Jessica James in ITV’s Unforgotten.
Before that, she first found fame in Irish soap Fair City, where she played Farrah Phelan.
She later portrayed the werewolf Nina Pickering in the BBC supernatural drama Being Human alongside Russell Tovey, and has also had roles in Doctor Who, playing the captain of a Vinvocci salvage team in The End Of Time, Jimmy McGovern’s TV movie Care and the BBC’s 2021 legal drama Showtrial.
Caoilfhionn Dunne

You may recognise Caoilfhionn Dunne for her playing Lizzie in the Dublin-set crime drama Love/Hate, VP Jackie Walsh in Industry, or, more recently, Anne Glover in A Thousand Blows, alongside Stephen Graham and Erin Doherty.
Caoilfhionn also appeared in one episode of the BBC sitcom Ghosts, appearing as film director Petra O’Keefe, as well as Britannia and the Star Wars spin-off Andor.
Bronagh Gallagher

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Iconic Irish actor Bronagh Gallagher is the main antagonist of How To Get To Heaven From Belfast.
Bronagh has consistently been on our screens since the 1990s and was listed at number 33 on The Irish Times’ list of Ireland’s Greatest Actors Of All Time.
She is probably best recognised from playing Sandra in the sitcom Pramface, appearing in the Sky miniseries You, Me and the Apocalypse, and most recently as Carol in comedy/drama Brassic.
She rose to fame in 1991, playing a singer in the musical drama The Commitments, which began a long and illustrious career, ranging from playing a captain in the Judicial Forces in Star Wars to starring in The Personal History of David Copperfield as Mrs. Micawber.
Her TV credits are almost as long as her filmography, ranging from Scottish crime drama The Field Of Blood to sketch comedy The Peter Serafinowicz Show.
Josh Finan

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If Josh Finan, who plays Jason in the new Netflix drama, looks familiar to you, it’s quite probably from his Bafta-nominated role as the young, vulnerable Marco in The Responder.
He later played Dixon’s assistant Jethro in Netflix’s The Gentleman, a bartender who works with Donny in Baby Reindeer and Gerry Adams in Irish historical drama Say Nothing.
Most recently, Josh has played the lead in BBC drama Waiting For The Out, which sees an educator try to teach philosophy to prisoners.
Ardal O’Hanlon

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Ardal O’Hanlon is undoubtedly best known for playing Father Dougal in the iconic sitcom Father Ted, but he also played the lead, George, in the BBC comedy My Hero, which follows an alien superhero who tries to adapt to life after falling in love with a human.
More recently, Ardal appeared in Death In Paradise between 2017 and 2020.
A mainstay of British and Irish TV for the last three decades, Ardal also played a cat person in the Doctor Who episode Gridlock, a politics teacher in the third season of Skins and Mary and Sarah’s cousin Eamon in How To Get To Heaven From Belfast creator Lisa McGee’s other hit series Derry Girls.
Emmett J. Scanlan

The Irish actor continues his run of playing bad boys with his role in How To Get To Heaven From Belfast.
Emmett found fame playing Brendan Brady in Hollyoaks between 2011 and 2013, and has had a prolific TV career since leaving the soap, often playing villains.
He later had a recurring role in police drama The Fall, as D.C. Glenn Martin, before appearing in BBC supernatural drama In The Flesh, Harlan Coben’s Safe and five episodes of Peaky Blinders between 2017 and 2019.
Michelle Fairley

Michelle Fairley will already be known to Game Of Thrones fans for playing Catelyn Stark in the fantasy series, although she had a long career in both film and TV before joining Westeros.
Since appearing as the mother to the Stark children in the fantasy show, Michelle has appeared in Suits, 24: Live Another Day and The White Princess, in which she starred as Henry VII’s mother Margaret Beaufort.
More recently, she played a terrifying matriarch in Gangs Of London, Princess Augusta in Bridgerton prequel Queen Charlotte and Mrs Wilson in the 2024 Cillian Murphy film, Small Things Like These.
Natasha O’Keeffe

Natasha O’Keeffe is best known for her role as Lizzie Shelby in Peaky Blinders.
However, her first TV role came years earlier, in 2010, when she played Abby in the BBC drama Lip Service. Following this, she joined the cast of Misfits, playing Abby in seasons four and five.
Her other TV credits include The Abominable Snowman, Strike and the fantasy series The Wheel Of Time.
Saoirse-Monica Jackson

Saoirse-Monica Jackson has teamed back up with her former Derry Girls collaborator to appear in a small but memorable role in How To Get To Heaven From Belfast.
She played the always-opinionated Erin Quinn in all 19 episodes of Derry Girls, and has since gone on to join the cast of the BBC crime drama The City Is Ours, as well as appearing in the TV film The Trial, where she played a crime investigator.
On the big screen, she appeared in the American coming-of-age romantic comedy Finding You, before having a blink-and-you-miss-it role as Barry’s housemate in the critically-panned DCU project The Flash.
Darragh Hand

Darragh is best known for playing the geeky Michael Holden in the Netflix teen show Heartstopper, but fans of the Netflix teen drama will no doubt find him recognisable in How To Get To Heaven From Belfast as he sports a very different look.
His other TV credits include minor appearances in Grace and Silent Witness.
Emma Canning

Emma Canning – who plays the young Greta in flashback scenes in How To Get To Heaven From Belfast – is definitely a star on the rise, with an already-impressive resume.
Most recently, she starred alongside Paul Mescal in Josh O’Connor in The History Of Sound, but she also played a young Domina in Britannia, before going on to join Apple TV+’s star-studded Masters Of The Air.
She also appeared in Irish historical drama Say Nothing and recently appeared in Dune: Prophecy as a Young Tula.
Watch all episodes of How To Get To Heaven From Belfast on Netflix now
Politics
Zahawi terrified by tired London man
In recent years, many right wingers have centred their politics around pretending that London is some sort of post-apocalyptic hellscape. Politicians like Tory-defector, the tax-dodging Zahawi have echoed these narratives. This plays well with people outside of London; it plays less well with the people who’ve been there.
Although it’s obviously disgusting to see a liar pretending to be a coward, you do have to admire the effort these right wingers go to. Or the effort they usually go to, anyway. There was no such effort in this claim from Reform’s Nadhim Zahawi:
London ‘not safe’, claims Reform UK’s Nadhim Zahawi after he’s ‘forced to cross street from man who hadn’t slept’ https://t.co/pzEk8pjXi5
— LBC (@LBC) February 13, 2026
Tired rhetoric
First things first, London is relatively safe — especially in the historical sense:
London struggles with petty crime (shoplifting, snatch theft) but levels of serious crime (assault, murder) have just fallen to the lowest since records began.
The drop in murders of under-25s is particularly striking… pic.twitter.com/nRyFVHwOhV
— Fraser Nelson (@FraserNelson) January 12, 2026
Lowest London murder rate in a decade, after significant decline. taking into account population, since records like this began in 2003
At 1.1 in 100k one of the safest major cities in the globe, safer than all big American cities, & every single US State https://t.co/klGSh3Qf9b
— Faisal Islam (@faisalislam) January 12, 2026
Of course, this doesn’t mean it’s safe enough for the snowflakes who would rather everything was covered in safety foam.
“An individual walked past me. I literally walked off the pavement into the middle of the road, kept a very close eye at 8am, right, to see whether…”
Nick asked whether the man appeared to be drunk or aggressive.
Mr Zahawi replied: “He just looked at, you know, like, you know, he hadn’t slept for, you know, a week and just looked like somebody that might be violent.
“I don’t know. But I just walked away from the pavement, and I’m a big guy, and I don’t feel safe that my 13-year-old can walk in London. That can’t be right.”
Out of all the traits that a person might find dangerous, ‘tiredness’ isn’t usually one of them.
Realistically, an incredibly tired person is going to be less dangerous than the alternative. It’s the well-rested ones you need to watch out for; those people have energy to spare, and their braincells are firing like popping candy.
As a result of his sickening shitbaggery, people have been rightfully mocking Zahawi:
Can’t have been easy to do the media after a near death experience like this.
Thoughts and prayers etc.pic.twitter.com/2l6V2c60TB
— Stephen Flynn MP (@StephenFlynnSNP) February 13, 2026
“You boy! Did you walk past Nadhim Zahawi looking slightly scruffy and make him fear that western civilisation would collapse?” pic.twitter.com/LKGlA8NSU5
— Mark Hammond (@MarkHam80780803) February 14, 2026
Breaking:Nadhim Zahawi inoculated after passing man in street who might have been working class. pic.twitter.com/oIqeU4lsq7
— Mark Hammond (@MarkHam80780803) February 14, 2026
London’s murder rate in 2025 was reported to be at its lowest level in decades and the lowest per capita since comparable records began, BUT there was a man who looked like he hadn’t slept. https://t.co/DCVM6wfPmy
— richard bacon (@richardpbacon) February 14, 2026
Don’t fear the sleeper
If you thought being terrified of tired people was bad, it gets worse; Zahawi also fears the asleep:
Nadhim Zahawi has a form. Remember when he saw a homeless vulnerable person in distress, and his first thought was to take a picture and post it on Twitter. pic.twitter.com/8zasIFWpWB
— Mukhtar (@I_amMukhtar) February 13, 2026
Be safe out there, people; some of these cockney psychos are operating on less than 8 hours a night.
Featured image via the Canary
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