The sight of our once heroic Olympian Adam Ramsay-Peaty blubbing poolside after humiliatingly collecting a bronze medal at the Commonwealth Games was a pitiful, unedifying sight.
He didn’t help his cause by then blaming his failure on the fallout with his own family over a protracted row last November over the arrangements for his wedding to Gordon Ramsay‘s daughter Holly, 26.
This display of self-indulgence looked all the more inappropriate given that two other British competitors had had to overcome far more serious obstacles to represent their country at the games.
Take the case of Sean McCann, 21. He is the little brother of Madeleine McCann, the girl who went missing at the age of three when she was on holiday with her parents and younger siblings in the Portuguese resort of Praia da Luz in 2007.
Kate and Gerry McCann, along with Sean’s twin sister Amelie, set aside the family tragedy to cheer on their son as he competed in the 400m freestyle event, Kate was wearing a white T-shirt emblazoned with the words, ‘Yes sir, I can boogie’, and Sean showed he could, too, finishing fourth in his heat, a performance good enough to ensure he made the final.
Meanwhile, Archie Goodburn, 25, the Scottish 50m breaststroke record holder, also made the final of his event despite having been diagnosed with a terminal brain tumour two years ago.
Goodburn, who recently graduated from Edinburgh University with a first in chemical engineering, fought hard to be given access to a new course of treatment that has slowed the growth of his tumours and ultimately finished joint seventh – or ‘joint last’, as he so modestly put it.
Given his health issues, it represented a performance of herculean proportions.
Adam Ramsay-Peaty cried poolside after he blamed his third-place finish at the Commonwealth Games on his ongoing row with his own family
The swimmer kissed his pregnant wife Holly after his bronze medal display in Glasgow on Saturday
For Adam Ramsay-Peaty to play the tearful victim in such a context is nothing short of pitiful – not to say a PR disaster for him.
The McCanns would have given anything to witness their son’s shining achievement with their whole family together – including Madeleine, who would now be 23 if she had not been abducted, never to be seen again.
In contrast to their poignant display of celebration, Ramsay-Peaty emerged from the pool sobbing and then proceeded to hug his pregnant wife before bending down to kiss her baby bump.
Was it a genuine act of affection or just a photo op to draw attention away from an abysmal race time that was three seconds – an eternity in the realms of top-level swimming – off his world record?
At a press conference later, Ramsay-Peaty – apparently full of self-pity – effectively blamed his poor form on his own family, saying: ‘It’s hard because I know how hard I’ve worked. I know the s*** I’ve been through, which is no fault of my own. It does take a toll.’
Shockingly, this was the first time his mum and dad had not watched him compete from poolside at a major competition, with insiders saying Adam had even gone so far as to tell them to stay away.
Instead, Caroline and Mark Peaty watched it on TV in their modest Uttoxeter council house, 260 miles away as the crow flies but light years away when compared with their son’s new world of Ramsay family mansions.
It was a shockingly cold-blooded rejection of his own flesh and blood: the parents who, recognising his swimming genius, devoted their lives to giving their son the chances in life they – as a working class family – had never had.
Sean McCann, the younger brother of Madeleine McCann, competed in the 400m freestyle event over the weekend
Kate and Gerry McCann, along with Sean’s twin sister Amelie, set aside the family tragedy to cheer on their son as he represented Scotland
His mum used to get up at 4am every morning to drive him 40-minutes to the swimming club for training. That she should be forced to watch him race on the telly beggars belief.
And that is not the worst of it. There are now even claims that Caroline and Mark – who found out that their son’s wife was pregnant by text – are now so cut adrift they have no expectations of getting to know – or even see – his newborn child, their grandchild.
His mother has even been stopped from seeing Adam’s first child, George, five, by a former relationship. Bear in mind that this is a child his mum used to babysit.
A Peaty relative who spoke to the Daily Mail on condition of anonymity said: ‘The hurt you feel over a medal does not compare to the hurt you have caused your mother. Just take accountability for your own actions for once, Adam, instead of blaming us.
‘The hurt you inflicted on her when you stopped her from seeing her grandson (George) out of spite, who she loves with every fibre of her being, and stopped from watching you marry.
‘You made comments to friends that we would try and disrupt your Games. We haven’t been there. To blame us for your failure is not right Adam. Don’t blame your family for your bronze. You need to look closer to home and in the mirror.’
Following his disappointing performance in his heat, Ramsay-Peaty insisted that he had ‘a battle plan’ ahead of yesterday’s 50m breaststroke final.
‘In sport it’s not really about when you get beat down, it’s about how long you actually take to put it into perspective and turn it around,’ he added on Sunday. ‘We’re on a great trajectory for tomorrow.’
This turned out to be a little over-optimistic. Not only did Adam miss out on gold but had to settle for bronze rather than silver.
His long-suffering mother Caroline broke her silence after he blamed his bitter family feud on failing to win gold at the Commonwealth Games.
In a rare social media post, Caroline wrote that she and Adam’s dad Mark will always ‘continue to support Adam from afar’. Adding, ‘He’s our son whom we love.’
But the question on virtually everyone else’s lips is: Has time finally caught up with a man who may have broken 14 world records but is now aged 31?
After all, the silver medal winner who beat him into third place was Filip Nowacki, an 18-year-old British schoolboy still waiting for his A-level results.
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